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so my friend had the most insane take today

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Most normal Tim and Damian interaction

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So I just saw a post by a random personal blog that said “don’t follow me if we never even had a conversation before” and?????? Not to be rude but literally what the fuck??????????

I’ve had people (non-pornbots) try to strike conversation out of nowhere in my DMs recently, and now I’m wondering if they were doing that because they wanted to follow me and thought they needed to interact first. I feel compelled to say, just in case, that it’s totally okay to follow this blog (or my side blog, for that matter) even if we’ve never talked before.

Also, I’m legit confused. Is this how follow culture works right now? It was worded like it’s common sense but is that really a thing?

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Randomly remembered telling this to a friend once before - but stretch marks aren't anything to be insecure about. Roughly 90% of people have them, from things like stages of rapid growth in childhood and adolescence etc.

I don't know why they suddenly started being associated with fat, or chubbiness - as from my understanding, (and my own body having 'em too) it's not *necessarily fat that causes them.

(*If you suddenly gained a lot out of nowhere, they could - but from my general understanding it's the rapid growth/pulling on the skin, which could be caused many different ways.)

Anyways normalize stretch marks so hopefully people can feel less uncomfy about them. Because they exist on pretty much everyone by the time they reach adulthood.

They aren't a sign of unhealthiness.

Please RB the poll, for reach. 💖

No third option we die like men

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This is the funniest video ever 😂

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garfield could probably understand the mechanics of driving a car but his legs are too short and stubby to reach the petals. this is also known as "Yoda's Quandry"

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A wake.

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PUT YOUR HANDS UP IN THE AIR

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not to be insensitive but some of the salem witch trials were so funny bitches like “i saw her at the devils sacrament!!!” girl… what were YOU doing at the devils sacrament 👀

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some of y'all need to learn how to accept hospitality. stop assuming people are only offering to look after you out of twisted obligation that they don't actually want to do. when you assume that, you are often denying someone the opportunity to genuinely show a friend or stranger love. even if you don't really care about what they're offering, it's respectful of their desire to be kind to accept it anyways.

i had a bunch of girls i've never met over for a women's group. every single one of them denied my offer to make them tea (despite already making myself a mug anyways), get them water, a scone, etc.

i can tell when people refuse to let me be a good host because they "don't want to be a bother". like no!! please be a bother!!! i want to serve you and make you comfortable in my home!

not to be like "we live in a society" but really do live in a modern culture than emphasizes individualism to the point where people will reflexively deny any help or kindness from others for fear of treading on their independence. newsflash: dependence on each other is what makes a community. next time someone offers you kindness, accept it instead of making excuses for why you don't need it. otherwise you've robbed both yourself of being loved and someone else from showing love.