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adhd will have you fighting for your life to do beloved hobbies that bring you nothing but joy

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Antonio Banderas and Carla Gugino in Spy Kids (2001) dir. Robert Rodriguez

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Ideal work schedule:

I show up and am given a list of cognitively engaging but achievable tasks

I complete the list

I leave immedietly

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yo if youre a cis woman who considers yourself an ally to trans women please take a second to read this

stop engaging with terfs, its not helping. it has never helped. stop reblogging terf posts to poke fun at them, stop directly engaging in arguments with terfs for the sake of getting off some petty insult or telling them off, youre not proving anything and youre not going to change their minds. doing something to “piss off terfs” does not help trans women, it just frustrates terfs, who will then take their frustrations out on trans women. terfs might tell u off or insult u but ultimately they see u as a poor victim who has been Brainwashed By The Trans Rights Activists™, youre not a target, youre not the one who has to deal with their anger, we are.

if u want to help trans women do things to uplift and support trans women, if u see a trans women is being harassed on this site by terfs throw some positivity her way. dont rile up ppl who are attacking someone else just to earn radical discourse brownie points.

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I posted about Palestine on social media for years with zero interaction. No one wanted to talk about it and it has always seemed too far removed for americans to give a shit about.

So again I just want to remind people, it's never been like this before (in the us). This movement has always been here, but they can no longer bury it.

The fact that protests and boycotts have been sustained for going-on 6months, that's not nothing. This should be evidence to you that we can sustain the momentum, we must, and use this momentum for radical changes within ourselves, our habits, and our education.

We have the rest of the world to catch up with.

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the humble "like" is oft mocked despite what it does for us. "like, three people" is a vastly different statement from "three people". "and i was like 'what the fuck'" is vastly different from "and i said 'what the fuck'". i love you "like" and anyone who says you make people sound stupid will be killed on sight

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You need to draw and make art or else all the images will stay in your head and you'll get sick

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having really deep conversational introspection out loud to myself and suddenly spying the neighbour on his balcony, close enough to hear me raving like a lunatic, is such a wonderful experience and by wonderful I mean mortifying but what the fuck ever. I don't even know the guy. I hope he's entertained. back to me ponderings

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Good Omens | 2.05 The Ball

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This might suck to hear, but if you're a people pleaser that is motivated by praise and avoids disagreements, you are easy to manipulate.

When I was in therapy after surviving years of domestic violence, my therapist had to tell me that my personality was primed for abuse and we needed to work on that so I would be better equipped to see the red flags and respond appropriately in the future.

I'm still working on this, and it's been 8 years. If you tell someone how you want to be treated, what behaviors you don't tolerate in your life, what you're looking for in that relationship, and they react negatively, don't compromise yourself. Just move on.

This one's for all the praise-kink girlies: differentiate, self-actualize, stay sexy

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i hate that "that that" is grammatically correct. why is english the joke language

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When both your shoulder Demon and Angel agree and support you …

PLEASE DO NOT REPOST/ USE MY WORK! ^^;;

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Chewed her down into bits

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inspired by a comment on another post from @fromchaostocosmos, who wrote: "I understand how the Streisand Effect came to be, but I find it very uncomfortable to use something that is used to mock a Jewish woman as a method to attack an antisemite there is just something about that makes my skin crawl."

I appreciate this being said, because there's always been a specifically nasty undercurrent to the term. it's the internet, so I know this will never change, but she discussed the inaccuracy and her discomfort with this in her memoir, and I wish there was more consideration about it.

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I hate when people get on your back about a ship because it's 'toxic' like bro i said they are in love not that they should be.