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fatallyfallingforyou · 3 years

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How do you tell someone you have fallen out of love with them? I feel so much guilt because he is such a good person. I have kept my feelings inside to protect his for months now. I don’t have anyone to help me with this so any advice would be appreciated

Hello anon! I’m extremely sorry for not responding sooner. I’m sure this advice would’ve been more helpful a lot sooner but hopefully this can help any other people in the same situation as you.

First, remember that it’s totally okay that you’re feeling this way, and your feelings are valid. You can’t control the way you feel about someone, so please don’t feel guilty for the way you feel.

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I know it’s easier said than done, but I think you should just tell him. It’s cliche, but honesty is the best policy, and I’m sure he’d appreciate hearing the truth about your feelings sooner rather than later. It’s best to tell him now, take some time to process everything, and move on. It may sting now, but it’ll save both of you the trouble of future heartbreak before he gets more invested in the relationship than you.

I understand wanting to protect his feelings, especially because you say that he’s such a good guy, but I believe that the best decision is to ultimately end things now. You have to focus on your feelings and what will be more beneficial for the both of you.

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I see it this way: do you think he’d prefer to know that you’ve fallen out of love with him now, experience the emotions of a breakup, and then move on with his life?

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do you think he’d prefer to be blissfully unaware that you don’t love him the way he loves you, have him spend days, weeks, months, or even years thinking that you’re enjoying the relationship just as much as he is, only for him to find out further down the line that you were pretending for some time that you still loved him and enjoyed staying in the relationship?

I’m sure that most people would prefer the first choice. Like I said previously, it’ll hurt now, and I totally understand that. I also understand that you don’t want to hurt him, but you have to rip off the band-aid and save yourselves the time and effort of staying together. You shouldn’t feel guilty for this since it’ll most likely be better for you both in the long run.

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I hope you were able to find clarity on your situation, anon, and I’m really sorry for not being able to give you some advice sooner. To anyone else in a similar situation, I hope that this gives you some clarity as well and helps you figure out what steps you need to take next. I wish you all the best, you can make it through this:)

#3/25/21 #not a quote #asks #falling out of love #love #relationship #breakup #advice

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fatallyfallingforyou · 3 years

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Hi everyone! Thank you all so so much for 12.5k!! That’s so crazy wow😅

I’m sorry for not posting for about 6 months, I haven’t been feeling any inspiration for things related to crushes/love/relationships/etc that I can write quotes about. Hopefully I can get some inspiration soon and make more quotes for you all to read!

Thank you for sticking around even though I’ve been MIA for a bit, I hope you’re all having a lovely day:)

#3/24/21 #not a quote #update

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fatallyfallingforyou · 3 years

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Your blog is the epitome of all of the feelings I have experienced and continue to experience. Thank you.

Hello! Sorry for the extremely late response, but thank you so much for reading my quotes. I appreciate it:)

#3/24/21 #asks #not a quote

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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I’ve moved on but I still find myself holding onto the things that remind me of you...

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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I wonder how it feels to have someone fall head over heels for you

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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Thank you so so much for 10k followers AHH!!!!

Thank you all for following my blog. I really appreciate that you like my writings enough to follow me, it means so much. I hope you all stay safe and have an amazing day:))

#9/6/20 #not a quote

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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I’m starting to think about you the way I used to...why can’t I let go?

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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If you send an ask without pressing ‘anonymous’, PLEASE be aware that when I answer it, it gets posted onto my blog and it will show your account! If you wanna ask me for advice personally instead of by tumblr ask so that it isn’t a post, then feel free to message me!

I don’t want anyone to feel upset that what they sent is public, and if I do post an ask that you meant to have me respond to personally, then please message me. I will try my best to take it down as soon as I see your message. I’m not on here often so it might take longer then preferred, so please be aware of this before you send an ask

Thanks for understanding, have a great day :)

#important #asks #not a quote

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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I don’t know why, but every once in a while you find your way into my dreams. You’re just there, doing whatever it is that people do in dreams. It’s not even a romantic thing, you just won’t leave my subconscious.

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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I want someone to look at me like I’m the sun, moon, and stars all in one

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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“When you need some love I know I'm the last one you try to call but

I always give in

to give you it all”

-midnight love by girl in red

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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Thank you so much for 8000 followers!! That’s crazy ahhhh, I really appreciate it. I hope you’re all staying safe, have a great day:)

#6/9/20 #not a quote

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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“Everybody's blind when the view's amazin'”

-Stay by Post Malone

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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How do you let go of someone who clearly doesn’t care as much as you do and never puts the effort in (lots of talk no action) even when every part of you wants to cling onto them and never let go?? (this is my best friend who i fell in love with. he doesn’t have feelings but i just want to keep him in my life as a friend even though lately he brings me more sadness than happiness)

Hello! Sorry if this is a late response

It’s gonna be tough, I’m sure you know this. Feelings are really difficult and can take some time to get over.

I understand that you want to keep him in your life but that probably isn’t the best for you. It won’t help trying to get over him if you’re both constantly talking. It’s like “Out of sight, out of mind.” If you’re not interacting with him, he should stop showing up in your mind after some time. Yes it might be tough at first but you should move on faster if you’re not talking with him.

If he’s bringing you sadness, then you shouldn’t make yourself go through that. Even if he wasn’t someone you loved, you don’t wanna surround yourself with people that make you feel down. It’s not good for your mental health and isn’t helpful in trying to let go. If you want to stay friends then it should be when you’re over him because it’ll just hurt you if you keep acting like everything’s all fine

Make sure you let out your emotions, write them down, talk to people that you trust, cry it out, take care of yourself, whatever will help. Let yourself feel the feelings because bottling it all up will backfire in the long run. I’m sure it hurts that he doesn’t feel the same but it’ll get better. It might not seem like it right now but trust me, you’ll get there :)

Sorry my advice isn’t the best but I hope it helps at least a bit. You can get through this, I believe in you <3

#5/28/20 #asks #not a quote #unrequited feelings #unrequited crush #unrequited love #advice

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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Thank you for 7,500 followers!! Thank you so so much, I hope you’re all doing well:)

#5/28/20 #not a quote

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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All of the feelings I had for you have completely drained me. If only I had saved that love for someone who felt the same way. It’s a simple request, I just want to love and be loved...

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fatallyfallingforyou · 4 years

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Thank you all so much for 7,000 followers! I really appreciate it, thank you so much. I hope you’re all doing well :)

#5/8/20 #not a quote

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