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#I don't know if you actually meant to type 'especifically' but I love it
sizzlingpatrolfox · 2 years
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I think Jimin is in love with Jk but Jk doesn't love him. This is why Jk is more comfortable to do skinship with Tae (only a friend) in public and not with Jimin, because Jk knows about Jimin feelings. I think this break is a good thing for Jimin, he is healing, he is finding his happiness, and I'm sure he will find a person that can love him with all their heart.
I'm absolutely sure that JK loves Jimin. Whether he's in love with Jimin or not, that's debatable but he does love him.
As for the unrequited love part, honestly... tha'ts kind of very teen drama. It happens, and it happens an awful lot when you're young, but when you're Jimin's age, who's almost 30 years old, it's not a common thing. Like, I'm sorry but if any 27 year old is pinning after someone who doesn't want them, therapy is needed. They need psychological help, period. Both Jimin and JK are too old to be in an unrequited type of romance and it's too messy to have feelings like that when you have to see them everyday and work with them and pretend like it doesn't hurt you. So, it's a definite no. Jimin is too old and too mature and too well adjusted and too emotionally intelligent for that.
JK is comfortable with Jimin, otherwise would he let him climb up his body or suck on his neck? I agree that sometimes it looks like he is wayyy more comfortable being affectionate with other members, especially Hoseok, Jin and Taehyung (in that especific order). It's extremely easy for JK to be affectionate with those members and it doesn't look that easy for him to be affectionate with Jimin, I know. But it doesn't mean that they don't have skinship at all, it's just a different type. I don't know why that is. My personal guess is that he grew up used to being affectionate and cuddly with those three, as we can all see in old content, and with Jimin it's actually something that happened overtime and probably behind the scenes so it doesn't come as easily on camera. That's what I personally think.
Maybe he's just not that affectionate and touchy with Jimin off camera, either. Who knows, really. I mean, JK literally doesn't get tired of saying how much he loves and admires Namjoon but he is not constantly affectionate with Namjoon at all, and his love and respect doesn't get questioned because of how little they cuddle. And then he meets a girl, befriends her and in like two weeks he's affectionate with her and hugs her the same way he backhugs Taehyung and other BTS members, who he's known all his life and who people think he's romantically involved with because of the same type of hugs. So who really knows with him. He also seems to hang out and talk with Jimin more than with anyone else in the group but he still would be more cuddly with anyone else except Jimin, so yeah, who knows with him.
I know it's not a common opinion in the fandom, but I wouldn't put too much stock into JK's skinship, tbh. It's just all over the place for me, and most touches/hugs/cuddles it looks like it probably all means the same to him, apart from some very few particular things that look like too much, like the hickey. But in general, the rest it all looks like the same. And I say that because I personally used to think it meant something but I stopped seeing it the same after their 2019 break and all the months after, 2020 included.
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