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support · 5 years
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Everything ok?
If you or someone you know is a victim of abuse, please contact:
The National Domestic Violence Hotline (Text “Start” to 88788 )  RAINN (online chat)
Trained advocates are available 24/7 to take your call.
For international resources, please try IASP.
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fromdarzaitoleeza · 3 months
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Father by band the front bottoms
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sa-dnesss · 2 years
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My home will be a home with no loud anger, no explosive rage, no slamming doors or breaking glass, no holes punched into the walls, no name calling, shaming or blackmail. My home will be gentle, it will be warm. No fear, no hurt and no worries. I may come from a broken and twisted place but I will build something whole and safe.
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mudwerks · 11 months
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video at link(via Steven Crowder’s Ex’s Family Shares Video of Him Berating Her for Not Fulfilling ‘Wifely' Duties)
this is the toxic bro that wants to eliminate “divorce without the husband’s consent”...  turns out he’s a total abusive asshole. WHO KNEW?
“The truth is that Hilary spent years hiding Steven’s mentally and emotionally abusive behavior from her friends and family while she attempted to save their marriage. She was the one who was asking to work on their relationship to keep the marriage intact for their unborn children,” Hilary’s family told journalist Yashar Ali in a statement, which included video footage that he shared on Twitter on Wednesday. The family further accused Crowder of being the one to instigate the divorce, claiming he wasn’t present for the birth of their children, moved out of their home, cut Hilary off financially, and hired a divorce lawyer.
The disturbing video footage shows an argument between Crowder and a very pregnant Hilary, in which Crowder refuses to let her take the car and leave the house, claiming she failed “to do wifely things.”
video at link
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the-defendery-189 · 2 months
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ASTROLOGY OBSERVATIONS #1
Venus & Neptune square and aspects in general, especially negative ones - lazy, creative, and inspirational, yet so delusional and preferring their fantasies to the relatity in their relationships and often not even realise they're doing that.
Capricorn and Virgo and Aquarius suns are imo the ones to hate astrology the most, like once they learn there are also bad things about their signs, wow!!!, they immediately hate it and GOOOD, astrology is so TERRIBLE and UNREAL and FAKE... 🙄🙄🙄
Scorpio suns are very hypocritical. Once they say some things but when it's suddenly against them, you're just making it up, it never happened! Also gaslight people and are just generally very proud and irrational when hurt a lot. Blame others a lot. Get all defensive and icky when people actually try to accuse them of something they have done.
Geminis can use fake tears to make you pity them and then act like it's all your fault, anyways.
Also sags use their feelings to try to gaslight people and make them feel sad for them and excuse themselves when they just don't care about them anymore, and just make them seem like it's all the other persons fault, when they'll still go like "its not you, it's me" in the end.
Cancer suns are very quirky in a kind of disgusting way, personally I get very annoyed by them and they still think I think they're oh so cute.
Also cancer men are very manipulative and might want to seem like the prince charming and saviour of all the women. Often matriarchal and want women to have all the power. Also submissive to them in sex and generally want women to be the dominant ones in a relationship. Often grew up in a home without a father, who left them as a child, their mother ruling the household. Might be the youngest sibling. Bullied in school and bullying others, hiding behind the "but I'm a soft boy uwu 😩😣💖💖💖🫀🫀🫀❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥💔💔💔👈👈👈" excuse and trauma that have happened to them. Either metalheads or soft boys uwu discord kittens. Often joke about furries and cringe weird communities and their obsessions. Very chronically online and may have grew up as a YouTube creepy pasta or smth else child.
Also Cancer men - Will pretend to listen to a girl because they know this is what they want --- because of that mother relationship they grew up with. But seriously just not give a fuck for real in their heads, they just know how to be smart and manipulate women. Don't feel comfortable around men BCS of their too-much-comfortable being they happen to switch on when are with women. Often put on a mask in front of men and pretend to be someone who they aren't. Men might think they're cool then, which j really don't understand. Like what???
Also cancer men and women - mommy issues, if it wasn't obvious. Can be very backstabbing and distrustful and think of themselves as mega hot and the best. Often boring texters and talkers. Rant a lot and talk about their hyperfixations and how the world is cruel and shit towards them, but really sometimes you can't help but wonder if they don't deserve it.
Saturn in 7th - Abusive relationships, getting married later in life, husband/wife popular and maybe rich, so if they abuse you, nobody might believe you and everybody will be on their side because they might be just more charismstic than you.
My parents both have this placement and it is HELL.
Lilith in 10th, 1th - Women envy you, hate you and sabotage you, men think you're too dark and edgy for them. People thinking you think you're better then them, this hating you. Being too charismatic for your own good.
Leo Venus - again, as it is with the Saturn in 7th. Could be more popular and overall likeable so if they do terrible things to you, nobody will believe you. Might just be nobody believing me cuz of crazy people around me tho.
Neptune in 1st - people might find you very attractive and ethereal, but also project on you A LOT. Meaning connections and relationships with you are just really difficult to even happen BCS people are always so judging and mean towards you.
Chiron in 1st - Body image issues, partners might abuse you and body shame you, people thinking less of you and in childhood parents often telling you you look ugly. I'm sorry people, I have this placement too tho so its not like I'm shaming you too, just I can feel your pain.
Scorpio ascendant - Too assertive and proud of your uniqueness and too opinionated for your own good. You guys are so clear with your speaking and always speak your mind and aren't fearful to express yourself how you feel and how your think and are always so like colorful with the things you say if you know what I mean. People will despise you for that and try to shut you up. And as somebody who did this to my scorp rising friend before subconsciously,,, yep. It happens even from your trusted friends.
If your moon is in the same sign as your friends/anyone's ascendant... You might feel instantly understood by them. Like I have this with my friend and it's an absolutely great and fantastic relationship, I love her. She absolutely understands me and gets me on a spiritual level - maybe caused by the fact that we have this with Scorpio - like no one else. It's a great relationship, savour this.
If you have a moon sign same as somebody's sun sign, you might enjoy their cooking.
If you have a sun sign same as somebody else's rising, you might try to be more like them and adore them for no reason.
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neuroticboyfriend · 7 months
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shoutout to recovering abusers, especially those who are abuse/trauma survivors themselves. you and i both know that, unfortunately, once we do something, we can't take it back. i know it hurts to know that, but recognizing it for what it is... that's what allows you to do the only thing left to do - be better. it's not easy, nor pleasant, and likely, a very isolating experience.
so i want you to know, there's at least one person out there who's rooting for you, who's proud of the person you're becoming. you are not doomed to do horrible things forever. you are not beyond leading a happier, healthier life. growth is an option. healthy relationships are an option. they have to be, for all our sakes.
if you want to stop hurting others, and stop hurting yourself, your choice is right here. i believe in you. you can do it. you have to. break the chain.
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only1lorrie · 3 months
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ETA: As many direct messages are pointing out, this sarcastic reply is just that sarcasm...
The man's question is actually a sign of jealousy and "possessiveness". This is a huge indicator that a manis more likely to use physical violence like murder of their partner (Not necessarily their rival, although that isn't unlikely.)
However, I posted it because I want to validate the experiences of those who know what being on the receiving end of obsession is like.
This reply is sarcasm, yes.
My posting it was to let those who have experienced this type of abuse realize you are NOT alone.
It is delusional AF to want someone to not have someone else,
And while it is not a diagnosed illness of the mind, it is a greedy (and seemingly insane/sheer delulu 🤪) way to go through life.
And for those of who have experienced this unwelcome attention, it's scary.
Victims of this behavior (and quite a few of us women can and do unfortunately know what its like to go through someones weird entitled obsession) are often gaslit, stalked, smear campaigned, manipulated - even when we, the victim, have long moved on, or even worse, never shown even the slightest deeper interest.
So while we don't want to ever try to excuse abuse as solely a "mental illness"...it does seem like sheer crazy terror if one ever experiences this selfish behavior and has not before.
Yes, it is NOT caused by addictions and mental illness. These only complicate abuse, but they don't cause abuse.
Bottomline - it's a meme. And from a victims perspective, it seems crazy to NOT want someone but ALSO not want anyone else to have them. It may not be a documented crazy but there is a grain of truth in that it feels like the crazymaking behavior that's born of narcissistic abuse, even of its obssesive possession/jealousy.
It's a meme with humor to show how victims feel when subjected to this disturbing type of behavior of possessiveness and jealousy from a man who isn't their partner.
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stoicmike · 5 months
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People who like to abuse people aspire to positions where they can do that. -- Michael Lipsey
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imagineblogsstuff · 11 months
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IMAGINE: he accused you of cheating
Rafe Cameron X any reader!
Warning: Swearing, abuse, TOXIC Rafe.
Idea: From someone on here!!! This is it my original idea!!!!!
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Tonight was your special date night with your boyfriend, Rafe. It was the night that your mom was working and your step father was out of town on a business trip, so you invited Rafe over and prepare his favorite food.
You were fixing your hair in the mirror when your doorbell rang. You adjusted your clothes and grinned as you opened to welcome in your boyfriend.
“Are your parents home?” He asked as he step in.
“No, it’s date night bade, and my mom is at work and my dad is-“ you went to say but he interrupted you.
“We need to talk.”
“What’s wrong, Rafe?” You frowned, lip quivering. Rafe started at you, looking more pissed then he has ever been before, and an angry Rafe was never a good thing.
“It’s bad enough that you’re still hanging out with those Pogues, but now you’re cheating on me with this one?!” He accused, showing you a picture that he has on his phone.
You squirt and pinch the picture with your fingers to zoom in. There’s you, with an arm around JJ’s neck, both of you facing each other and both of you smiling.
“Where’d you get this?”
“It doesn’t matter. What matters is the fact that you’re fucking around with him!” Rafe yelled, cowering you. He got angry before with you, but it’s never been this worse, his face was red like a tomato. You thought that he was gonna explode any minute.
Suddenly you were petrified, Rafe backed you up into the wall, as your whole body was shaking with fear, tears threatening to spill from your eyes. You were terrified of him.
“I’m not cheating on you with JJ, I promise. I would never do that. I was just helping him out cuz Kiara rejected him. And he needed an friend advice.” You exclaimed.
“Do you really think I’m that fucking stupid?!” He shouted, grabbing you by your shoulders and violently pushing you into the wall. Three, four, five, six, seven, eight times.
You slid into the ground and groaned in pain, clutching the back of your head. Blood covering your fingers. You realize that blood was coming from your head. You look up at Rafe terrified as hell.
“You have to believe me Rafe! I would never cheat on you! I love you.” You cried, blood still dropping from the back of you head. It was now on your white T-shirt.
Rafe crouched on his knees next to you, grabbing you by the neck and pulling you face hella close to his, your lips almost touching, blood was on his fingers now too.
“You’re mine. Do you hear me? I fucking own you. And if this ever happens again, I’m going to hunt down JJ and bring him here, and shoot his brains out, while you watch. You got that?” Rafe seethed, grabbing your hair hardly in his hand, so your eyes were looking into his.
Tears run down your face as you stared into each other’s eyes. The anger in Rafes eyes sent a shock into your whole body as you grasped for any air left in your lungs.
“Okay, okay.” You rasped, Rafe finally letting go of you.
“I hope you learned your lesson.” He growled, standing up and shutting your front door behind him just as quickly as he entered.
When you finally got up from the floor, you looked into the mirror and saw that your make up was all ruined, and you T-shirt was covered in blood, your blood. Then you look at your neck and saw purple and blue marks in shape of hands. Had Rafe really just done that to you? You felt terrified of him. Jealousy could really fuck up with someone’s head.
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simonezra · 1 month
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Today's problematic ship is Agatha Trunchbull and Jennifer Honey from Matilda (1996)
Age gap
Step aunt/niece "incest"
Abusive
Requested by anonymous
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vitalventing · 1 year
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Missing your abusive ex is so confusing. Obviously I don’t miss the way I was treated but I miss who he was on the good days, I miss parts of his personality and the way he thought and moved himself. I still care for him, even though he has been so awful to me. What do I do with these feelings??
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animatejournal · 19 hours
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My Life as a Zucchini (Ma vie de Courgette) Director: Claude Barras | France, 2016
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How would the bad sans’ react to an S/O who is being yelled at by emotionally abusive parents in front of them and the parent raises their hand like they are gonna smack their love? Sorry if it is a bit dark. Thank you for your time.
This one was a lot of fun to write! I also did it pretty fast which was nice :)
Nightmare: He could have felt the negative feelings coming off you even without being in the house. He never did like people who were abusive, it was just annoying to have to deal with... when he noticed what the parent was about to do, his tentacle shot out grabbing their wrist and tugs it back. He could hear the crack, but he didn't honestly care. "I wouldn't suggest doing that" he would say, then lead you out of the house. You're staying with him for the time being.
Killer: Normally he doesn't care if people got hurt, but you were his datemate, so he ran over and stopped your parents hand from hitting you, "Hey hey! Come on, maybe we don't do that sorta thing right now" he pulled out his blade as he said that, holding it in his other hand. He doesn't care that they're your parent, he will kill them if they try to hurt you.
Dusty: The second he saw the movement his body moved by itself. He summoned a bone and smacked your parents hand away with it, "Don't you dare fucking touch them" He spat with as much hate in his voice as he could. Pappy even went and moved his arms around you, even if you couldn't feel it. "Y/n, go outside, you're not staying with them" if your parent tried to talk back the glare Dusty gave them would make anyone's blood run cold. He's just so damn angry right now.
Axe: The yelling already made him on edge, and when he saw the movement, he reaches out grabbing your parents wrist, growling lowly. His eyeshine glowed bright with his anger and annoyance, his fingertips digging into their skin drawing blood. "Try it" he hisses. He lets their hand go, taking yours into his much gentler, and walked out with you. He couldn't believe that someone would try to hurt their own family.
Error: Honestly the second the yelling and shouting started they opened a portal, pushing you through it, then raised their middle finger at your parent, and left with you. They don't deal with shouting.
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ameyjf · 11 days
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Am I broken? You just might be. You've shattered, Like pieces of broken china, Sharp and ridged. You try to cut my flesh, Maim me, So we could live as mirror images.
My flesh spills ribbons, Satin and fragile, Pieces of my lost soul, That once believed, In honey-sweet naivety, That you could be my haven.
I tried to wipe you clean, But you stained my hands, Wiped streaks of self-doubt, The grease of your manipulation, Onto the white linen Of my once pristine dress. Then told me the stains Were but a figment, And that it was my fault, For being so careless.
If I am broken, I am what you made me. Just because, I dared to love you.
— Amey J. F.
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c-ptsdrecovery · 7 months
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When a passive-aggressive person is around – it can be an incredibly uncomfortable experience for those around them.
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Passive aggression may include (but is not limited to):
Showing indirect signs of hostility (such as giving back-handed compliments)
Deliberately avoiding eye contact with co-workers, friends and loved ones.
Demonstrating sullen behaviours (e.g. sulking or appearing moody)
Using the silent treatment as a way to make others feel uncomfortable
Poor communication (or not communicating at all)
Failure to complete the required tasks
Purposely showing up late to meetings or family events.
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