#actuallyquoigenic

[endo-memes]

#thanks for the submission! #submission #mod hive #system memes #plural memes #endo safe #actuallyendogenic #actuallymultiple #actuallyquoigenic #enexto #enexaswe

[blackboxtheatrecrew]

This happens to us in therapy every time frrrr.

🎭Blurry🎭

#stolen from a sysmed #system memes #just blackbox things #actuallyquoigenic #🎭

[yellowrose-kaleidoscope]

Time to introduce ourselves!

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Hello, hello! We're a quoigenic system consisting of around thirteen headmates.

We use She/He/They collectively and our body age is around a young adult's.

DM us in case you wanna follow our main blog too.

DNI if you are an anti-endo/sysmed, exclusionist, against self-diagnosis, against neopronouns and general MOGAI stuff, proshipper, transmed/TERF, radqueer, and other, basic DNI criteria

We also post stuff about syscourse but will tag it as syscourse tw for the sake of our followers' safety. However, we will tag anything if needs be.

Members:

Galaxy (She/He/They) 🌌🍨

Milo (He/They) 🧋📀

Lily (She/Fae) 🍬🌸

Damien (He/Him) 🪀📻

Chocolate BonBon Cookie (She/Her) 🍪🪡

Sebastian (Any+Ghost) ♠️🖋️

Cynthia (She/Her) 🎸⚡

Opal (She/They/Vy) 📼🔮

Jake (They/It) 🛹🧇

Charlie (He/Him) 🐶🎵

Sisasystem:

Applesauce Collective (sidesystem)

#plural community #plural gang #actually plural #actuallyquoigenic

[severechaosconnoisseur]

This should be said more often

For some time now I have been browsing Tumblr’s plural tags and every time I feel more and more disgusted with how certain systems mistreat other systems purely because the experiences those systems have do not align with their own. For all those that have been mistreated by sysmeds, i’d like to say the following If you are an traumagenic system, You are valid If you are an endogenic system, You are valid. If you are an quoigenic system, You are valid. If you are a parogenic system, You are valid. If you are a median system, You are valid. If your system is of mixed origins, You are valid. Every single system is valid, no matter the origin or experiences. (TW: Syscourse for the next part) As for those sysmeds that come across this blog and decide that they should get all upset about my words and lash out, by all means, bring it on. There is nothing you can say that will affect me in the slightest. The only thing you will accomplish is me looking at your ramblings while I laugh at your closed mindedness before continuing with my life. Seriously, get over yourself. No matter how much you cry and rage about it all, Non-traumagenic systems will always continue to exist nor will they ever go away.

#plural #endogenic #syscourse #actually plural #plurality #alterhuman #actuallyendogenic #actually traumagenic #actuallyquoigenic #tulpamancy #soulbond #parogenic #median system #endogenic positivity #endo positivity #fictive

[sarksdimension]

You do not owe anyone any explanations. You do not owe anyone a trauma story. You do not owe anyone diagnosis papers. You do not owe anyone any information about yourself.

You’re real, regardless of what people online say, and you don’t need to prove yourself to anyone. Stay strong, you’re going to get through this.

#sark speaks #actuallyplural #actuallymultiple #endogenic #quoigenic #actuallyendogenic #actuallyquoigenic #traumagenic #actuallytraumagenic

[alterhuman-positivity]

Even if you believe your memories to have never happened, they’re still real to you. They matter and they’re important, and they’re no “less” important than past-life memories. If you have exomemories you believe happened, those are also important and real. ALL types of memories are completely valid.

#alterhuman positivity #positivity #alterhuman #system #systems #plural #plurality #actuallyendogenic #actuallytraumagenic #actuallyquoigenic #otherkin #therian #fictionkin

[sparkssystem]

Plurality on Discord

We were recently having dinner with our extended family. At one point, the conversation moved to mental disorders, and our cousin said “I think that, and no offense to you”, looking straight at us, “people shouldn’t make their disorder their entire personality”.

This greatly confused us, what the heck did she mean? We’re not just our social anxiety or ADHD, we talk to her like a normal person. We talk to her on Discord about general life stuff that usually has nothing to do with our disorders, besides the occasional comment that we can’t pick up a phone and call someone.

Then it hit us, we talk to her on Discord, where we tag all of our messages with who’s talking. She knows we’re plural, and in the beginning she said she was ok with everyone in the system talking to her. But we realized that by tagging our posts, we were in a sense shoving our plurality in her face pretty much every time we’ve spoken to her for the past 5 years, even though we almost never actually talked about our plurality.

Our brain then went back to a post we once saw about our general alterhuman Discord server: “it’s plurality-focused”. We were confused by that too, it’s a general server for everything alterhuman, it’s not focused on anything but that. But some systems being very active means PluralKit is shoved into people’s faces every other post, even if they’re talking about otherkin things or about a movie they’re watching. People see a system use a proxy bot and they think of system things because of it.

Tagging posts or using PluralKit (or any other proxy bot) isn’t intended to make people think we’re making everything about plurality. It’s just a way for other people to tell who they’re talking to, but above all else, it’s for the system to feel comfortable posting with their own name and icon. You can suggest changing the account name and icon depending on who’s in the front, but that doesn’t work for systems like us who co-front often and have people randomly show up for a few minutes to type and then leave. It also doesn’t help that we have memory issues that require us to backread things often, and we won’t be able to remember who said what 2 days ago. We need to tag in our DMs and use PluralKit in servers to be able to function properly.

That might seem silly to singlets, and I know that. I literally just watched an argument start up in a non-plural server because PluralKit was added for the server owner, us, and a few other systems that happened to be there. A singlet was very vocal about how the bot wasn’t needed and made things hard to understand and said the comment we’ve had thrown towards ourselves a few times about how using the bot to moderate makes no one take you seriously.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that we’re not meaning to make you think about plurality every time we post, and tagging/using a proxy bot is absolutely needed for our own comfort. We’re also not meaning to come across as our plurality being our entire personality, but to be fair, how we come across greatly differs depending on who you’re talking to, the friendly young kid is not going to act the same as the grumpy old persecutor. Just treat different proxies/headmates like they’re different people that are forced to share a single body and please respect our need to tag our posts and use proxy bots. I know that’s confusing for some people, but there’s really no other way to make a system feel respected and accommodated.

#actuallyplural #actuallyquoigenic #actuallyendogenic #plurality #plural #plural system #infinite posts #op

[astroglitching]

Shout out to all you endogenic/non-traumagenic/mixed origin/other origin/supporting systems out there! Ya’ll honestly bring warmth to my cold and icy heart. Keep being you and don’t apologize for existing! Exist loudly and proudly!

#actuallyendogenic #actuallyquoigenic #pluralgang

[theconstellarium]

A little rant about being out as plural...

Each system member is an individual.

(Disclaimer: This is only meant to apply to us in the Galaxy Collective (Star system & Sol system -aka @inkedacrylic ). Other systems may have different preferences - best policy is to simply ask.)

Just as much as anyone else you meet, system members who all happen to share one body are full-fledged individuals with their own preferences, relationships, personalities - and most importantly, names & pronouns!

These names & pronouns aren't "preferred" - they're required.

We recently saw an excellent metaphor about a group chat - in a group chat, you have no problem referring to each person by their own name & pronouns. It's a no brainer.

It should be no different for plural system members. We should be treated just as you'd treat any other people around you - as individuals and not all as the same person, despite sharing a body.

We understand that at least with our systems, referring to each system collectively can be hard and confusing, since even we haven't figured out a good way to do that yet (beyond system names, which can be awkward & clunky in normal conversation).

But please refrain from treating us all as one person or referring to us as the body's name (if you know it), except in mixed company.

~☆~☆~☆~

We're gonna be fully vulnerable and open for a minute here.

Coming out as plural is legitimately terrifying. When we get treated as though everyone who happens to share each body is just one person, & called the body's name, we feel frustrated & dismissed - invisible. Like us coming out was pointless, and like we're sort of being shoved back into the closet.

It's still pretty hard to be fully ourselves & talk about our plurality even with our most supportive friends, who always make it super clear they have no problem using our correct names & pronouns & do so regularly! But with people who don't address us properly, who have never talked to us about it beyond the initial acknowledgement that they now know & are (seemingly) totally cool with it, & who have never let us know they want to know anything about it or use our correct names etc, & who continue to talk to us as though we're all the same person & call us by the body's name...well, it's even harder to be genuine.

I think this is a common thing many plurals can probably relate to??

#not directed at anyone on tumblr whatsoever #it's That Singlet Friend again #and we kinda don't know the best way to proceed bc we kimda sorta made our Instagram partly so our friends can learn! #and maybe to help answer any questions without them having to ask directly if they're uncomfy OR even #questions they wouldn't know or think to ask bc you don't know what you don't know #like yes it seems like we should just talk to her #but easier said than done 😅 #it's p hard to talk to someone whose actions lead you to feel not comfy to talk to them #ok this is a HUGE tag rant #plurality #actuallyplural #actuallyquoigenic #talking to singlets #system stuff #mine #endo safe #plural rants #ok to reblog #pluralgang

[interstellarsystem]

An incomplete list of valid system experiences. Feel free to add on to this post.

Systems with 2 members.

Systems with 100+ members.

Systems with 1000+ members.

Endogenic systems.

Traumagenic systems.

Quoigenic systems.

Gateway systems.

Subsystems and sidesystems.

People who were born systems.

People who made their systems.

Median systems.

Multiple systems.

Systems that don’t use median or multiple labels.

Systems with no fictives.

Fictive heavy systems.

Systems with no factives.

Factive heavy systems.

Young systems.

Old systems.

People new to being a system.

Systems with lots of knowledge about plurality.

People who hide their systems.

People who are out and loud about their systems.

People who can’t tell anyone about their systems.

People who don’t want to tell anyone about their systems.

Systems that don’t have any people with roles.

Systems that have everyone with roles.

Systems that don’t switch.

Systems that switch a lot.

Systems without amnesia.

Systems with amnesia.

Systems with headspaces, no matter how complex.

Systems without headspaces.

#op #actuallyplural #actuallyendogenic #actuallyquoigenic #actuallymultiple #pluralgang #royal (he/him) #everything althu #everything plural

[disordered-system-culture-is]

Welcome!

Welcome to disordered-system-culture-is! We’re a blog for DID/OSDD/other disordered systems (including non-traumagenic disordered systems) to submit asks starting with something similar to “DID culture is”, “OSDD culture is” or something more specific, such as “endogenic DID culture is” or “fictional introject culture is”. We post those into the queue, which should post roughly once a day, provided we have submissions to fill it.

A few rules:

1. No hateful asks. Asks about how much you hate x group or anything similar will be deleted--this isn’t the blog for that. You can post about community issues to a degree, but starting discourse isn’t allowed and will be deleted from the ask box at our discretion.

2. Any disordered systems can send in asks, regardless of origin. This blog explicitly includes endogenic, quoigenic and mixed origin systems, if they are also disordered. This blog was created with systems who are disordered but aren’t usually accepted in traumagenic-only spaces in mind.

3. LGBT-phobia, ableism, racism and anything else similar will not be posted here. You will be blocked and your ask will be deleted.

4. Asks spreading misinformation will be deleted at our discretion. This is referring to anything about plural identities as well as other communities outside of that.

We’d be happy to trigger warn posts if any need it, so definitely tell us if you’d like something to be warned for! General negative and/or vent-adjacent posts will be warned for with the tag #negative.

If you have any questions, please redirect them to our system help blog, @pluralhelp!

Tags (+ trigger warning tags), resources and other links below!

Resources and Information:

More Than One

Pluralpedia (Editable wiki, should cover basics but might have rarely used terms.)

Our Resource List (Includes resources for the wider alterhuman community.)

Links:

Blog owned by @interstellarsystem​

Trigger Warning Tags

Dividers link.

#actuallyplural #plural system #plural #plurality #actuallyendogenic #actuallyquoigenic #actuallytraumagenic #did #osdd #did osdd #alterhuman #not system culture

[blackboxtheatrecrew]

Shout out to all my girlies (gender neutral) out there who have DID, UDD or OSDD with origins other than traumagenic. I know people like to erase us and a lot of people see it as DID/OSDD = 100% traumagenic, but that isn't true and we're still out here whether people like it or not ❤❤❤

❤Alice❤

#actuallydid #actuallyquoigenic #actuallydissociative #actuallyendogenic #safe for endos #neurogenic #praesigenic #mixed origin system #willogenic #❤

[pluralmemes]

When a persecutor tries to fix the damage they caused

#big /lh pls remember to give ur persecutors a hug today they deserve love too #pluralpride #positivelyplural #actuallyplural #actuallymultiple #actuallytraumagenic #actuallyendogenic #actuallyquoigenic #pluralgang #system meme

[periperil]

So, you’re new here?

You ended up in a new body on Earth one way or another. You might be confused, you might be angry, you might be sad, you might be not sure what’s going on. That’s okay. I was and still am, even after being here for just about a week.

This post is meant to be a guide for people who ended up here, in a system, alone in a new body, etc. A document of things I’ve learned and things you should know. Things to help you cope, information about this world, etc. Carry on if you need a little bit of help.

This Planet: Earth.

This planet, the one you’re on right now, is called Earth. Earth is inhabited by humans as the dominant species--you’re in the body of one right now. If you’d like, you can check yourself out in a mirror, or look up some information about humans on the internet, if you don’t know much about them already.

If you don’t know already, the internet is probably what you’re reading this on right now. There should be a search bar right at the top of your screen. You can type anything into there to look it up and find information about it.

If you don’t know something, the internet has a LOT of information. You can look up info about what to eat, what to do for fun, what certain things are, any information about this universe you’ll need. There’s no shame in looking things up if you need some help.

Your Body.

This body is your new home and you need to look after it. Feed it when it’s hungry, drink plenty of water, rest and/or sleep when you’re tired... The list goes on. It might be hard to do these things at first if you’re not used to doing them, but they’re necessary for your body to function properly.

Your body will have a name, at the very least. That’s the name you’ll most likely have to outwardly go by. The body’s pronouns may be different and the body’s gender may be different than yours too. You need to know these things so you can present as the body to the people who are in this universe.

You might also notice yourself changing over time, that’s normal and all a part of adjusting to this world. I’ve only been here for a little while and I’ve already noticed some of the words I use changing. You’re not going to lose who you are, you’re just adjusting.

While you’re here, take the time to write down your memories and information about your past universe somewhere, just in case these memories fade over time and you don’t want to lose them. It can be in public or in private--we personally use a private Discord server to write down our memories in!

Journalling can be very helpful when you’re new here. Write down things you’ve learned, things you want to do, things you’ve achieved. Looking back on all the progress you’ve made feels good.

Systems.

Chances are, you ended up in a body with other people. If not, disregard this part--skip to the next!

A system is a group of people living in one body. You’re a part of one now. The people you now share a body with are here to help--chances are that’s why they showed you this guide if you didn’t find it yourself--and they should help you get used to the body and the world you now live in.

There’s so much to learn about systems and you’ll slowly learn all of the terms you need to know. There’s a lot, so don’t overwhelm yourself with all of the little details right away. Take breaks, take your time to learn, ask for help from the others in your body if you need it. 

A few helpful terms for systems include:

Fronting: Being in control of the body.

Switching: Switching control of the body with someone else.

Headmate: Someone sharing the body with you.

Headspace: A mental area where you go when you’re not fronting.

Fictive: A headmate considered fictional by this world’s standards.

Factive: A headmate who is someone who existed in this world at some point.

Soulbond: A headmate deliberately or accidentally contacted from another world.

Walk-In: An entity arriving in a body after birth at some point, usually with memories of living another life.

It might be possible to soulbond people from your home world, though it can be hard and takes effort. There’s so many ways to soulbond someone that it’d be hard to explain it all here. Personally, we basically astral project to contact someone and then bring them here as a headmate. Sometimes they’re here permanently (a permanent resident) and other times they’re here temporarily (day-tripper). Soulbondinghelp on Tumblr has a lot of information about soulbonding and such if you’d like to check them out!

I’m Fictional?

In this universe, your home universe may be considered fictional. If not, skip to the next part.

My universe is considered fictional here, and most of the people in my body have the same experience. You might have stories, art, music, movies, tv shows, etc of you out there. It might be weird to look at, it might be frightening, it might even feel invasive. These are all normal things to go through when realising that your universe is fiction in this one. Just know that there are others out there going through the same thing, and that it’s okay to feel the emotions you’re feeling.

Keep in mind that no one knows that you’re x person from y media unless you tell them. You don’t need to deal with creepy fans, you don’t need to deal with people out to get you, you don’t need to deal with any of that. It’ll all be okay. Most people won’t believe you if you tell them who you really are, but there are some spaces where you can still be yourself--more on that later.

The fictional media your universe is closest to would be called your “source”. There might be other people from your source that you can meet and talk to to feel more at home, even if they’re not from your exact universe. You might even end up running into someone from your home universe at some point--that’s called a canonmate. Keep in mind that multiple universes also means multiple versions of you though, so you might run into one at some point as well.

Homesickness and Dysphoria.

You might be feeling homesick, lonely or even dysphoric about the world and body you’re living in. That’s normal and is something you’re definitely not alone in. Some of you might be able to “walk-out” and go home, or elsewhere--but not everyone can. Those that are able to walk-out should be allowed to, however, if this life isn’t working for them.

To those of you that can’t leave--you’re not alone. There are so many others here just like you that have to cope with this new world. It’s probably confusing and hard to adjust to, but it’ll get so much easier in time. This is a new life, a new chance, a new experience. This life is a chance to remember your past, learn from it, and get to live anew.

To cope with missing home and your old body, try making this universe reminiscent of your old one. Don’t obsess over it too much, but if it’d make this world more comfortable, you could try:

Using incense/other things that smell like home.

Eating safe food similar to what you used to eat (if you ate).

Decorating your room to feel more like home.

Wearing clothes that remind you of what you used to look like.

Listening to music or soundscapes that remind you of home. (Mynoise and tabletopaudio are great sites!)

Hang around others from similar universes, if possible.

Maybe even watching/reading/etc your source material, if you have one and it’s not too uncomfortable.

Safe Communities.

There’s some places where you can go to talk about your experiences, without being seen as weird. Some generally safe communities on the internet include the plural (or system) community, the otherkin/fictionkin/therian community (usually), or the alterhuman community--which is the big umbrella term for all sorts of not-quite-human or not “normally” human things--which is probably your best bet.

Try looking on Disboard for Discord servers you can join to talk about your experiences, using tags such as “plural”, “alterhuman”, etc. You can look around on this site for people with the same experiences as you, you can look on places like Amino, Instagram, any site, really. There are people out there that are willing to help--me included. If you can’t find anywhere that’ll help you out, my DMs and asks are open.

#peri posts #fictive #factive #alterhuman #plural #plurality #actuallyendogenic #actuallyquoigenic #actually endogenic #actually quoigenic #actually plural #pluralgang #actuallyplural #system #systems #plural system #plural systems

[quoigenic-culture-is]

quoigenic culture is realising none of you can handle figuring out you origin(s) right now and going “fuck it, this works.”

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#quoigenic culture is #quoigenic culture #actually quoigenic #actuallyquoigenic #actuallyplural #actually plural #quoigenic #plural #plural system #plurality #quoigenic system

[alterhuman-positivity]

No matter how big or small your system is, your system is amazing. Don’t let system size determine how valid you are.

#alterhuman positivity #alterhuman #positivity #actuallyendogenic #actuallytraumagenic #actuallyquoigenic #system #plural