#bondaries are important

[miitarashi]

Hello~

So I've been thinking about some fluff with Tintin (he lives in my mind rent-free).

I would like to request Tintin with a fem reader who likes to be praised. Just like, she tries hard to work well during the day and does everything quietly. So at the end of the day she likes someone to pat her on the head and just tell her that she did a good job. She doesn't say she likes it, but Tintin notices.

Only do this if you can and want to, thank you! And forgive me if this seems a little confusing, English is not my first language.

Owww,this is so cute tho. Such a cute thing need to be writed! And don't worry,english is not my first language either and i understood pretty well,you're doing a good job so far at learning! I'm proud of you unknow person. 😌❤️

[Name] = reader (female)

Warnings: none,just cuteness

Prompt: You're a hardworking person who loves headpats.

When you met Tintin for the first time, you we're working on the local library taking this opportunity to study on your breaks because you wanted to apply for a position as an assistant to a local historian you greatly admired. Because of it, the subject you were studying was something that Tintin was needing more informations of,so he asked for your help, becoming friends ever since.

Consequently, he ended up watching your dedication for the position you was applying for. He saw your eyes focused on your notebooks and books, the post-it notes on your wall to help you remember important things when he come to a quick visit, even finding it cute when you turned up your nose when you saw something you didn't understand or pressed your lips together when you tried to put the pieces together to help him with his new article.

But the top 1 was definitely the happy smile and light blush that covered your cheeks when someone pats you on the head. Even if you didn't say it, it was pretty obvious when you did, you kept quiet because you didn't want to draw so much attention. However the journalist discovered it and waited for the right moment to do so, which was precisely when you applied to be an assistant to this historian who you greatly admired.

The day of the decision came and went, Tintin found it a little strange not having a reaction from you about the result so he decided to stop by your apartement when he was free and after a few minutes of conversation about that new article, he casually asked:

"Oh,[Name],did you already got the results of your application?"

"Hm? Oh yes,i got it yesterday and will be working with him by tomorrow" — his eyes widen a bit in surprise,mostly by the nonchalant tone you tried to say it,but still feeling that animated subtone.

"Well,by how much you worked hard for it,i would be surprised if you didn't get it" — he chuckle a bit,letting a small sigh and finally he could do it.

His hand reach the top of your head giving some pats in a caring way,smilling when that cute smirk appeared on your lips along with the tiny blush he adore so much to see,he would even hug and kiss your forehead if he could because you deserve it and even more,however he didn't want to cross any bondaries or end up making things awkaward by this sudden act.

"I'm really proud of you [Name],you worked really hard for it"

"Thank you Tintin" — you said looking back at him,smilling happily. His eyes soften,taking his time to just look at you cute face before looking away a bit.

"Your welcome and from now on,i guess i'll be having an even more capable help on my researchs."

"Yes,i'm really looking forward for it"

"..Me too" — he said in a light,careful dreamy tone almost, watching your little excited squirm making sure to keep this memory in his heart.

You both smiled,quite excited as you will start your dream job and Tintin will keep his little excuse to stay close and having your help on his cases. A win is a win.

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A/N: there it is,a cute request fresh out of the oven! (Yes i know,it's a bit short) And sorry for the delay,i literally forgot to post on the last sunday :( but! I already have some good ideas and some special things being prepared~ so just wait a little,i promise y'all will not disappointed! Hope you liked unknow person! Thanks for reading!

#the adventures of tintin #tintin #tintin movie #tintin x reader #tintin 2011 #the adventures of tintin 2011 #tintin movie 2011

[scarlet6rose]

🎤 hello people of the internet ✦

I’m Scarlet Rose,

I’m a writer (somewhat) and (mostly) digital artist that has been drawing since I held an apsara pencil 💀.

You can see me as any gender you like and use any pronouns, I really couldn’t care less, I’m just here to have a little fun 👁👄👁

I am in a lot of fandoms (some breakups were there 😃)

Just to give a lil idea:

✦ Good omens (literally binge watched like yesterday 💀) (novel and tv show)

✦ Omniscient reader’s viewpoint (joined late 2022 and early 2023 I think 🤔) (novel and Webtoon)

✦ Undertale (since the beginning tbh but it’s a bit off rn lol 🙃) (Game)

✦ The Stanley parable (joined around the middle of 2023) (Game)

✦ Five nights at Freddy’s ( 💀 I’m a very loyal viewer of the game theorist… I don’t need to say more. Other then the fact that I’m not that active anymore) (Game, books, and movie)

✦ Heavens official blessing (joined around the middle of 2022 I think 👁👄👁) (novel, webtoon, and donghua)

✦ Not so Shoujo love (start of 2021, lmao much gayness 🫦) (Webtoon)

✦ Heartstopper (middle of 2022, so much fucking gayness 🤌) (Novel and webtoon)

✦ Uzumaki (I’m still reading this lmaoo, I think I started to read junji ito’s works around late 2018-19(?)) (manga)

✦ Hellstar Remina (🙂 it was funny as fuck, totally recommend) (manga)

✦ trash of counts family (around the time i started orv) (webnovel and manhwa)

✦ hazbin hotel/helluva boss (again, around the beginning. I dont really have an opinion on them.) (indie animated series on Yt and Amazon Prime)

There are many more but I literally can’t remember ‘cause I’m not actively active in them ig 😶‍🌫️

Anyway as you can see, I’m fine with literally any kind genre as long as the story is (mostly) interesting for my shit attention span.

Some bondaries (will be updated as I go on):

✦ No NSFW / no sexual themes

‣ I’m fine with jokes and shit, like have fun and all, but no sexualisation of me or my ocs. I’m fine with horror/ angst art (as long as it isn’t taken too far).

✦ Minors and majors/adults

‣ Please no pedophila. I do not want to be in any romantic relationships online (learn from my past one mistake of being fucking delusional)

‣ I do wish to be ageless online for now, so yeah…

✦ No weird dms

‣ I’ll fucking ban you and probably make fun of you publicly.

‣ Weird dms include (but aren’t limited to): asking sexual stuff, death threats, obsessive behaviour etc.

✦ Personal issues

‣ Don’t come at me with your severely personal issues, such as family issues, life issues or whatever. Just cause I’m fine with taking ‘bout mental health and its severities doesn’t mean I’m responsible of your mental health in any way. Don’t talk to me or anyone online, talk to someone you trust irl and take therapy.

✦ Stalking/ doxxing

‣ Doesn’t matter if it’s me or not, you need grass for doing some chronically online bullshit. Go outside man or ma’am or neuter.

✦ Parasocial

‣ No, just no.

‣ I’m fine with the buddy buddy shit but please refrain from thinking that I’m important in your life. I’m just here to have fun and cook bullshit. Nothing more.

✦ Shipping

‣ Don’t ship me with other creators or yourself (please).

‣ Don’t ship my ocs with yours.

‣ I’m fine with people shipping my ocs with eachother.

‣ I don’t mind fan fiction (I write most of my characters fan fiction anyways 💀) (you’re free to do whatever but please have some kind of common sense).

‣ Don’t fucking art police or ship police (?) people if non of my characters are being shipped in a borderline pedophilic or incest ships.

✦ Hating

‣ I don’t mind if you dislike or even hate me, you’re allowed to do whatever, but keep in mind that this is the internet and you hate me on the internet. Don’t take internet matters irl or attack anyone I know in real life.

‣ No racism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, sexism, extremely offensive jokes (that actually harm people) etc. will be tolerated.

Ik that I am not that big at all, but better safe than sorry lol

#blog intro #blog introduction #meet the artist #multifandom artist #boundaries #artists on tumblr #help 💀

[goldenpinof]

what you said about youtube being a unique stressor made me realize that dan doesn't really have the personality for internet fame. he is (and i don't mean this unkindly i just couldn't think of a nicer phrase) an attention seeker. he can be extremely self-absorbed and bordering on vain, and has also been highly reactive/sensitive to criticism in the past (this is less true or at least less public now). which is fine and even expected from many entertainers EXCEPT online. because unlike a musician, an actor, or even most comedians (depending on the style of their comedy), his fame is not dependant on a particular talent but on the persona he projects as a whole. success on youtube, at least the niche he's found on youtube, is dependant on parasocial attachment. people need to connect and relate to him (or at least his public persona, which when he was younger he had a lot of trouble separating from "him"). and the attention-seeking, vaulted attitude doesn't naturally lend itself to relatability. i think he's quite self-aware of this, and it certainly didn't hold him back at the peak of the dnp brand, but i think it's part of why youtube feels less comfortable for him than other forms if entertainment that have traditionally more of a boundary between creator and creation. his comedy is very confessional, so obviously it is about him, but it's also about the general quality of it as a piece of comedy writing, and the quality of the other aspects put into it by others. the book is about him, but it's also about the information within it and the quality of the writing. as you said, something he's made vs something he is

don't forget that i don't know for sure. i'm just basing my thoughts on what he says/does if i even remember it correctly.

you can be right. i like what you said about "a bondary between creator and creation", that makes a lot of sense. (my take below, i guess)

throughout the years he was the main target for attention and criticism because his content was his personality (more or less). and he doesn't like to be criticised, he doesn't really know what to do with it. but if you criticise his work (shows, book, board game), you criticise an object rather than him. and yes, Dan can be hurt by it as well (boo, how could you not like what i created?), but it's less personal. also, he can always think/say that someone just doesn't get it, it's not for everyone. if his projects still make money, who cares about "them haters". it's harder if your face or personality are viewed as unlikeable. like, "how could you not get my videos aka me and the experiences i had?" especially when you grow up and mature on the internet (18 to 25 are probably the hardest years when you are finally free to do anything but don't know shit and don't have money, also you just lost all your school/childhood friends and have to either decide on education or job. basically, alone. your whole worldview is shifting, and of course it's incredibly hard if all your fuck ups are on the internet). i bet he was stressing so much trying to appear likable to as many people as he could and to simultaneously please the algorithm (when it became important). alas! it will never happen on the internet.

i hope he really gives 0 fucks about how the content they are making now is perceived on social media. and about comments some people make when he posts certain pictures. he likes personal attention as well, so i do think a part of him enjoys internet fame (the positive side of it). he can't get everything irl, it's easier to receive it online. and he receives it online more than irl.

we will see how it goes, because tours are one thing. a book was a completely separate business. Dan is not okay, if it's a series on a big platform that is not youtube, would be a whole new experience for Dan, and for us because of the outsiders. there could be criticism (it's in people's nature) and i'd love to see how Dan works with it. he didn't pay any attention to the negative reviews his book received. maybe because he wasn't present online, idk. but some sort of series is a bigger deal.

#answered #dan #dan is not okay #to find it in case

[madwomansapologist]

human reader having sex for the first time with Morpheus

Having your first time with Morpheus would include

Masterlist | Rules | Taglist | Library | More Morpheus | AO3

synopsis: now you are ready to explore a new part of your life, and you are ready to do it with Morpheus.

ps: thanks for your request, I love writing for Morpheus! I was really sick the last week, sorry for making you wait. I put a lot of effort on this one, hope you like it!

• Morpheus react with kindness to all of your bondaries since the day you both meet. He never made you think that he wouldn't respect you, but that didn't stopped you from overthinking about your romantic and sex live

• The first time you both kissed in a way that was way more then romantic you we're on his realm. It starts with you looking throught all those books and talking to him about them, but you realize at the beginning of the relationship that being alone with Morpheus means that your mouth will find a way to be against his. Pressed against the books, Morpheus hands touch you in places that before only you had touched it. Morpheus mouth find a way into your sensible skin. His voice... oh god, his voice. What wouldn't you do to be able to listen to his voice for evermore? And then, when you realized how good you we're feeling, you stopped him

While you we're embarrassed by rejecting him and overthinking about what would be his reaction, all Morpheus did was smile against you skin.

"You are trying to make me weak for you?" He whispered, making your entire body, even your bones, react to his voice. "My sweet temptation, it is working."

• Sometimes you think about this day before going to sleep. You think about Morpheus. You remember how his eyes make your skin seems softer. How his long fingers always know how to touched you. How his lips felt so right against yours. How his voice can put you to sleep with the same force it can wake you up

• You want your first time to be important. It has to be with someone you trust, love and respect. But the though of finally doing it makes you affraid. Affraid of doing something wrong, of embarrasing yourself, of feeling pain. You want it and as the time goes on you just seems more sure that it needs to be with Morpheus, but all the "what if's?" are so loud

• But Morpheus is louder than your fears. And, honestly, your desire is also. So you decide to take little steps, and the first one is telling the truth

Some movie about heroes was playing on the TV screen. Morpheus was on the couch, your head on his lap, wondering if the blond guy would survive.

"Same", you agree with something he said about the character. "And I am virgin."

Morpheus choked with the popcorn.

• Morpheus was, well, choked. You really choose a moment he couldn't expect to hear something like that. He talked to you, making sure that you we're comfortable, and decide to let you guide him. He wouldn't try anything if you don't make it clear with your words that you want it

• And you we're fine with that. You just need to be ready

• You dreamed with him

• It wasn't really Morpheus, it was just your imagination, but the Morpheus in your dreams knew exactly what to do with your body. You woke up in the middle of the night, needing a man who wasn't there, and then you knew that you have waited enough

• You enter his room to find him working and asked if you could spend the night on his bedroom. Morpheus make a lot of questions, but you knew what you wanted. You want him. You want Morpheus

• Morpheus would lay on down on his bed and, and if he can control that you won't move from there for the rest of the night. He would be gentle. Morpheus would kiss your feets, your thights, your hands, your collarbone, and then come back to your lips

• Then Morpheus undress himself for you. Your blush cheeks make him smile, he was already weak for you

"Look at me", Morpheus said when you closed your eyes. "I want you to see me."

• Morpheus would go down on you first. You we're embarrassed, but the pleasure makes you forget that. He... Morpheus knew exactly what he was doing to you. How his lips, his tongue, his fingers should move against you. Your hand was pulling his hair, the only thing anyone near could hear was you moaning his name

• Ready for him, you want Morpheus so much that the pain wasn't a fear anymore. Being with him, being his, was so good. I did hurt you at the beginning, but Morpheus was gentle and waited until the moment he could make you only feel pleasure

• Morpheus was sure that this was about you, not him. He wanted to see you, to hear you, to feel you. Your pleasure was his own. His name goes out of your mouth like a song. Your hands touch him like is the only being you care

• Your orgasm was loud, just like he wanted

• Morpheus prepared a bath and use all his time to take care of you. You had another dream with Morpheus, and this time, the Endless was there.

if you enjoyed, please reblog! i promise it makes a difference ♡

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#madwomansapologist #sandman x y/n #sandman x reader #sandman x you #sandman #the sandman #sandman netflix #sandman neil gaiman #neil gaiman #virgin reader #ask box

[sonofshin]

I don't know I can trust you again. You left without a care for anyone else who put time, effort, and love into their characters relationships with Yun. You also are not apologizing and it seems you are only suggestion you will apologize because you are bored and want to come back instead of actually being sorry for the trouble caused and giving those you hurt the worst a heartfelt apology and accepting if they don't accept it.

I know I said I wouldn't post the anons, but I feel this one touches on some very important things that deserve to be answered.

Anon, it is absolutely heartwarming to know that people care so much about Yun. People come and go in this community so often, why would I be any different? This is genuinely something that is boosting everything I lack. And, of course, it also makes what I did that much more unforgivable. I care a whole bunch about the characters Yun has made relationships with. Those bring me joy. They get others excited, which is what I genuinely live for. I went to bed excited for those interactions, like between Igris and Yone, and woke up thrilled to answer them. My heart skipped a beat when someone called Yun out on being dumb and arrogant because yes, that's what he was! Repercussions! I LOVED THAT!

I know it seems like I left for shits and giggles, but you have to realize that I was (and still am) hurting very much (I know, wild). What was said to me completely sucked any and all fun I was having on Yun out of me. I won't go into detail, but I've never lost joy for a character I put over 5 years of blood sweat and tears into this fast since my ex. I know this is no excuse, but I do need you to realize this. I'm hurting just as much as you.

And no, I am not apologizing currently. I would be if I weren't still shivering from stress and running on mere hours of sleep for the past *looks on watch* 6 days. I haven't had a full nights sleep since then, and we all know that writing something long and serious while in a high emotional state is Not A Good Idea. It needs to come from the heart, not from the ramblings of an anxious, sleep deprived mess. I promise you, I will get to that. I need to take care of some things first.

And lastly, yes, I am bored. But do I want to come back? Honestly? No. Not really. And that's without taking into consideration that no one would interact with me. This is a character I have put well over 5 years of love into. I've built him with others and he is a facet of everyone who cares about him. And... I've lost that joy. My bondaries were thoroughly crossed and as a result, I can only look at Yun with disdain.

I love you all. I miss you all. But I can't find it in myself to come back. Probably not even if everyone DOES accept my apology and forgives me.

#out of snow #this is very long and I am sorry for that #but too many assumptions were made for me just to leave it here #listen man I came here to see if people were hurt and to apologize #they are and I will #be patient

[makotomichi]

Eren: You're too worried. You know it's ok, right?

Levi: *frowns*

Eren: I know that emotionally you're in no condition for a relationship. I don't mind waiting.

Levi: You should. Moving on wouldn't be a bad idea.

Eren: Is that what you want? Are you telling me you don't feel anything for me?

Levi: I'm not. I'm saying it's unfair.

Eren: Unfair would be me giving up without trying. I'm not giving up on you.

Levi: Eren-

Eren: *hugs Levi* I told you it's ok. Please take your time without being so hard on yourself. I hate seeing you like that.

Levi: *pulls Eren closer* Damn you, brat. Thank you.

#ereri #riren #levi ackerman #eren yeager #bondaries are important #emotions can be complicated #relationships take a lot of a person #snk

[al-hekima-madara-blog]

Sarada Uchiha : Speculation time !

I was reading again Naruto Gaiden, and so much mysteries around Sarada but this :

Are you telling me Sakura was chasing (again) Sasuke with Karin this time (My God give this man a break 😭) while she was 9 months pregnant???

I mean Sakura is a doctor and the best of her generation. Shouldn't she knows better it's not a good idea to run after your husband (were they together already? I can't remember the timeline), but give priority to your future child well being in Konoha?

Oh my... imagine giving birth in Oroshimaru's hideout 🥶while you could have been doing so in the safety of Konoha's hospital. I just don't get her...

Anyway, my main speculation is that I am not convince at all about this happy ending's maternal research. Sarada's circumstances of her birth seems to be a central plot who will be solve later surely after the timeskip. Here some questions :

- Why Shizune is uneased by Sarada question? She knows but she can't talk?

- Same with Sasuke he never answered directly to her (and he knows how to be blunt if necessaries, so why being shy now)?

- Why does Sarada seem to have a weak health? Why does she wear glasses for an Uchiha? We know they tends to be blind with Mangekyou sharingan, but for now she got a basic sharingan.

- Why did she awaken her Sharingan so early?

- And of course why isn't she born in the safest place on earth at the time, like KONOHA???

I feel Gaiden was a foretaste to present her. But nothing is solved at all.

Ok here is now how i imagine the story may goes based on what we got for now 27/02/22: Considering the fact that Boruto explores human genetics' manipulation like clones, artificial human, androids, robot ect... Wouldn't be that crazy to explore as well Surrogacy and Egg donation? So here is my scenario :

1) For X reasons, Sakura couldn't get pregnant, but she desperately wanted to be a mother. By a fortunate chains of circonstances, Karin and Sakura befriended. And she accepts to give her an egg who is fertilise in lab and implant back in Sakura's womb. Sakura and Sasuke are Sarada's parents, they raise her (more Sakura actually) as a family. Karin accepts to just be the donor, while still in love with him she respects Sasuke's choice for marring Sakura than her, but in the same time knowing that she gave him a child is a consolation.

That will explain all the Gaiden theme on : emotional bondaries -Naruto's Opinion- are more important than just cold genetic -Oroshimaru's opinion-. Which I agree, an adopted children can be love as much as biological children. And Sarada's position would be in the middle. She grew up in Sakura's womb, she was raised and love by her, she even curse like her lol, so Sakura is definitely her mother no doubt about it! but Sarada's DNA is still from a foreign woman. Love transcends blood lineage. A very Kishimoto theme, isn't it?

2) Ah the DNA part is the most exciting ! Sarada would be half Uchiha half Uzumaki. And we all knows what does it mean...👀*Rinnegan entering the chat* That might explain why her sharingan evolve relatively quickly and weaken her view. And why not ? We will have the opportunity to explore deeper Uzumaki clan's specialty in fuinjutsu . Karin probably knows more about it than Naruto. By the way him as well...being half uzumaki can maybe explain why she admires Naruto so much. A bit like Naruto felt close to Tsunade, because they are actually distant relatives.

Your thoughts?👀

#Al Hekima post #sarada uchiha #boruto's analysis #naruto gaiden #sakura haruno #karin uzumaki #sasuke uchiha

[ericamzdm]

S5E6 Pick-Apart - Pt 2

Continuing on from Pt 1 - We’re still on ‘Adora Never Really Owns Her Shit (and is more than a little terrifying)’

You’re holding her prisoner, Adora.

YOU’RE HOLDING HER PRISONER, ADORA

...that’s Shadow Weaver language, Adora.

(~6:40)

Adora: “Catra is driving me crazy. I thought we actually stood a chance at fixing things this time. But after everything we’ve been through, she’s still a stubborn brat.”

After a brief interlude on Etheria, we’re back to Adora being angry about Catra’s lack of compliance. (At least this time she’s just complaining to Glimmer and not, you know, assaulting Catra).

This is just reinforcing my existing impressions - Adora is upset that Catra isn’t falling in line. Adora’s version of ‘fixing things’ is ‘Adora tells Catra what to do’. Adora views Catra as a ‘stubborn brat’.

That is some Bad Shit.

Adora continues to treat Catra, her peer and supposed love interest, as a child - except that I would also be upset to see her treating a child like this.

Because ‘brat’ is an awful word, especially when used against actual children. It is, by design, an attack leveled on the powerless by the powerful, defining them entirely by how convenient they are for their caretakers. It pretends that any inconvenient reactions or desires are the product of intentional, unearned spite and ‘stubbornness’, not the result of the target being a full person with real, independent feelings, needs, and goals (and in this specific case, boatloads of trauma).

Again - all of this is Shadow Weaver language. Adora is still letting Shadow Weaver live rent-free in her head, defining her perception of Catra, her agency, and her actions (and it’s an ugly, abusive perception). Their relationship is never going to be healthy until Adora recognizes that, and works to correct it.

(~6:48) 

Glimmer: “Did you think she was instantly going to become a different person?”

Adora: “I thought she’d at least try. We all risked our lives to save her and she can’t even say thank you? Can you believe it?”

...yikes. Where to start.

(a) Adora’s complaining about Catra not performing gratitude sufficiently continues to be a real bad look. You do the right thing because it is the right thing, not because you expect people to lave your ego afterwards. You definitely don’t pitch a fit when the fail to adhere to this bargain you struck with them inside your own head.

The impression is very much that Adora rescued Catra, not because she wanted Catra to be safe, but because she wanted Catra back (under her control).

(b) It’s pretty creepy that, in this conversation, Adora is outright admitting that she wants to make Catra into a ‘different person’. Because if that’s what she wants...who is Catra-as-she-is to her? A child, in need of her guidance? A lump of clay, waiting for her molding influence? What is she in love with, if not the person in front of her?

It’s one thing to want to help someone you love to grow, and become the best possible version of themselves. But that’s working with them, to find that version and bring it forward, not imposing some external sense of ‘better’ on them.

(c) Adora continues to act out violently throughout this scene - kicking over boxes, lobbing Space Jello around. Catra’s not the only one with emotional dysregulation issues.

(d) Not thrilled with Glimmer/the use of Glimmer in this scene. If she’s supposed to have grown emotionally over the season so far, I’m not seeing it.

(~10:30)

Adora: “That signal’s coming from her chip, isn’t it? Once again, Catra is ruining our lives.”

Good job victim-blaming, Adora. Man, you really are just breaking out all your old tricks in this episode, aren’t you. 

(To clarify: Adora is explicitly blaming Catra for something she had no control over, a side effect of her trauma, and something she is not even aware of. It is deeply fucked up.)

(~12:30) 

Adora: “Grow up and let us remove [the chip], or we’re all dead.”

I will address the Entrapta-related content in part 3 - that said, Adora is once again marking up Catra’s not actually unreasonable fears and trauma reactions to “childishness”, and doing a hell of a lot of threatening looming and grabbing.

Yes, they need to remove the chip for everyone’s safety, but that’s clearly not the primary driver to Adora’s anger here; that continues to stem from the fact Catra isn’t just Doing What She Wants, even when Catra has no way of knowing what the situation is.

(~12:47)

Adora: “If you think hiding from the people you hurt will make you feel better, we’ll drop you off and you’ll never have to see us again. You’ll never have to see me again.”

Which makes it hard for me to really buy this in the way (I have to assume) it was intended. 

Structurally, this is Adora finally, fully releasing the idea that she should control Catra. She is accepting that Catra’s decisions are based on Catra’s wants and needs - they’re not fundamentally ‘bad’ or ‘wrong’, simply because they conflict with Adora’s own desires. She’s admitting that, however much she wants a relationship with Catra, Catra can chose a life without her in it.

All very vital and necessary stuff.

And it feels desperately unearned. There’s no build up, no moment of realization. It just kind of appears in the dialogue, which itself is delivered in tones of anger, frustration, and defeat. It comes across as Adora being bitter that she can’t force Catra into choosing her, not as her reconciling herself to the idea this is Catra’s choice to make, as her own full, independant person.

(~13:00)

Catra: “Adora, wait. Please. Stay.”

But it’s close enough to giving Catra a bit of space, and the narrative treats it as such.

Because this is what Catra needed to continue her growth - the freedom to chose. The chance to look at her options, and decide what she really wants, without anyone threatening her, or making demands, or trying to force her hand.

And what she wants is for Adora to stay.

NB: This is not some kind of trick being played on Adora; this is Catra finally - now that she has the space and the choice - opting in to to relationship that Adora has been trying to force for the entire episode (and series).

(~16:50)

Catra: “I want to go home.”

Adora: “I’m getting us out of here.”

This is another instance of Catra making a choice - Going home is now a thing Catra has chosen for herself, rather than a statement being imposed on her by Adora (however well meaning).

This is also a shift in how Adora speaks about Catra - it’s now “Us”, not “You” - important and welcome! It signals a shift in how she’s treating Catra, where she’s now an equal partner in the relationship, not a junior to be controlled and overridden. (Again, I would just be happier if it did not feel quite so out-of-left-field.)

(~21:30)

And at the end of the episode, Catra is finally given the space to come out and start dealing with the rest of the BFS at her own pace, with her own bondaries in place.

She’s still got a long way to go, but now that she has the freedom to chose, what she’s chosen is to take the first steps towards building healthy, non-abusive relationships.

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Part 3

#spop #spop season 5 #pick-apart #catra #adora #catradora #abuse #because again #adoras behaviour here is Not Great

[atiny-exol]

He doesn't care pt. 4

Pt1+Pt2.+Pt2 (alternative ending) +Pt.3

Pair: Demon! San x now Angel Reader

Warnings: yandere behavior, strong language, it mentions y/n suicide

Don't like it? Then please don't read it.

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It was past midnight, not that you would care at all, time doesn't run out in heaven anyways.

3 months, 3 months are past since the last time you saw your ex-lover and predator. 3 months since you decided to end your life for a better one in heaven.

Heaven. Heaven feels like a place you could, and will, stay forever in. Everything is bright, you feel warm and loved from any other angel in this world.

It is different, way more different than the hell you lived in. But of course you would never dare to lay one step in this dangerous and dark place every again. Not after you met him.

Him. Eyes lovely and caring looking at you every time you pass near him. His warm hugs always comforting you when you thought about the horrible nights of rape and degradation again. He is perfect.

No he is more than perfect.

His name? Hongjoong. He is quiet small, soft blond locks and the prettiest brown eyes you ever saw. Nothing and you mean nothing would tear you two apart anymore.

Since the first day you arrived here, he was by your side, looking out for you and guiding you through the new world. Your new living.

After more and more time passed with you, you didn't even thought about San once more.

A deep sight left your mouth and you lightly opened your closed eyes again,looking at the bright white clouds laying around you.

,,I wish I could see how he feels right now." You mumbled, but instantly shook your head at your stupid thought.

Why would you care about him?

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3 months. 3 damn months his little angel is gone.

Gone, with nothing left behind, just a few blood stains on his floor and an empty body without a soul.

The last weeks were horrible for the demon. No one could change or brighten up his mood anymore. Even his best friend and right hand couldn't help him to get out of the deep hole of depression and darkness.

Never, he felt like that for someone. Never he felt this rough and hard pain in his chest after one of his victims disappeared.

He knows that he did something wrong. He knows that he fucked up too hard this time and that nothing would make him happy anymore.

,,San?", a loud deep voice echoed through the room and the said man looked up from the spot he fixed the whole time.

,,What do you want Seonghwa. Is it important? When not, leave me alone." the demon said coldy and looked away again, not wanting to face his friend int he current state he is in.

,,I think our visitor has a big surprise for you."

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,,What do you mean he is gone Mina? He would have told me when he has a mission down on earth!"

,,Listen Y/N. I know that it shocks you and that you miss him. That you are tired and sad that he didn't even say goodbye, but sometimes it goes like that.", Mina, another brightly smiling and friendly angel, with the ability to read the emotions of people, tried to cheer you up.

The only thing you can do is to nod at her statement and turn around to leave the room and go to your favorite spot again.

Waiting for Hongjoong to come back.

As soon as you arrived the place, you sit down on the white clouds, who felt like the softes pillow you can imagine.

You knew this spot, because of Hongjoong. Of course you knew it from him. He showed you everything, he made your life better again.

He once said that, if he has to leave you alone, if he isn't there and you feel lonely or scared you should visit this place. It will help you to calm down. And yes, he was right about that.

Gently you layed down and your head on another fluffy white cloud, before you slowly closed your eyes.

Not realizing that a dark shadow hovers over your sweet shiny halo.

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,,You are sure that we can trust him?", San asked but in reality, not even a no from Seonghwa could change his mind anymore.

,,I'm sure San. Don't worry I know him for.. Quite a long time." Seonghwa said with a devilish smile and layed his hand on sans shoulder. ,,And don't forget that..-"

He slowly bents down to the younger male, while he continued. ,,He is under my control. I can do everything I want. Just with a snap of my fingers."

,,You are worse than the devil himself. Seonghwa."

,,No don't say that." he older said with a small chuckle and went to the guest who arrived earlier, slowly laying both of his hands on his shoulder, leaning down to his ear and chuckling darkly again.

,,I'm just mischievously. Or not Hongjoong?"

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After a while of dosing around and softly sleeping, you opened your eyes again, this time clearly seeing the dark shadow staying over you.

Your eyes widen, and you immediately stand up with your heart beating harshly in your chest.

A dark shadow, means that a demon is near this area and the fear that it might be San made you feel uneasy.

The white wings on your back stiften as you heard a small chuckle, but then you turned around you just saw a tall, handsome man. Eyes shining red and teeth as sharp as a knife.

The look was horrifying for you and you rapidly backed away from the creature.

,,Hey hey little angel don't worry, don't worry. I won't hurt you just just have to come with me~" he said darkly, his raspy voice luring your into a trap.

,,G.. Go go away! It's forbidden for you to enter heaven!"

,,You know how much I care about rules?"

Just in the moment he wants to attack you, a smaller male pushed him away and stands infront of you.

Hongjoong.

,,My angel said stay away. If you won't respect the bondaries and rules you will die here. Don't forget that demon this is not your place." he shouted over to the hell creature and as soon as Hongjoong eyes went in a deep blue color the demon disappeared.

Tears over tears streamed down your face, but you instantly claimed down as you felt how the angel wrapped his arms and wings tightly around you. Your felt yourself more and more tired with each second, but you trusted him.

,,Thank you Hongjoong." you mumbled. ,,I love you"

You trusted him with your heart as you let yourself fall asleep in his arms. In the arms of the person you loved the most.

Not knowing that his once so white wings turned black as he disappeared with you to a place, you never want to see again.

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,,Angel. Come on Angel wake up."

You heard a deep soothing voice near your ear and just as you opened you eyes, you identified the voice.

A scream out of horror is heard through the room as he you saw the demon stand infront of the bed you laying in, his hands slipped in his pockets and a smirk laying on his face.

,,Why are you screaming like that angel hm?" he said and walked closer to you. This move let you crawl away from him and shake in fear. Just thinking about him amde you sick and now you are trapped by him again?

,,G.. Go away! I- t.. This this is just a nightmare. Just a nightmare don't worry Y/N." you said quietly just for yourself, but San heard it anyway.

,,A nightmare? Oh come on my sweet little angel do you really want to hurt me like that?"

,,S...stay away! Hongjoong please! " you desperately screamed for him, for the one who would always save you. The one who loved you just as much as you love him.

,,Hongjoong? Oh Angel." the loud laughing of the demon sent chills down your back and you couldn't understand what is funny about that, not before the door opened and Hongjoong entered the room.

His white wings no longer having the bright white color, but a dark black. His eyes doesn't shine anymore, they are dull and black, no longer showing his friendly aura.

,,Here he is angel. Your sweet little lover!"

,,W.. What did.. What did you do to him?" another loud laughing echoed through the room, before you heard the former angel giggling at your question.

To your surprise it wasn't San who answered your question.

,,What he did to me? Nothing Y/N. I was always like that. I hated heaven you know? I hated the rules, the friendly angels I hated all of that and then I met someone who promised to pull me out of this world." he sighed deeply and looked in your eyes, now smiling as he realized how broken and teary your eyes look like.

,,The plan was to lull you into trusting me and then bring you back to where you really belong. To his side. Y/N. I just did you a favor."

,,A.. A favor! Are you kidding me? All the words.. The whole time, the affection all of this was.. A.. A.. Lie-" your voice breaks on the end, tears escaping your eyes and run down your cheeks, blocking your view so you couldn't see the cruel smile on the lips of both males.

,,I thought you love me!". ,,Oh really? I never did."

If your heart didn't break a few seconds ago, you would swear that you heard how it breaks right now. Sobs after sobs came out of you and you didn't even know what to say anymore.

He lied to you, he used you. He lurred you into a trap, a life you wanted to run away from, a man you wanted to run away from.

,,See angel I told you the world is dangerous. Everyone is lying to you."

You felt how the mattress slowly dipped down as San sits down next you. Immediately you tried to back away but the demon already had his arms tightly around your shaking figure.

,,Everyone is lying even an angel. You can't trust anyone. Not even yourself angel." he leaned down to your ear and whispered.

,,But don't worry. When you disappeared I realized how much I need you and I would never betray you angel. I would never."

His voice was so soothing and deep, you struggled but couldn't escape, as he whispered more and more sweet nothings in your ear, using his powers to manipulate you.

,,I care about you. I love you."

Your heart is broken, your felt betrayed and angry. If it wouldn't be for San you would throw a tantrum right now and destroy things, but you felt how all your powers slipped out of you with every new word he says to you.

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2 weeks are passed since San can hold his queen back in his arms.

And 2 weeks passed since the love of your life betrayed you and handed you out to a man you hate the most.

Since this day you never were the same anymore, your eyes are dull, your halo didn't shine that bright anymore and your wings slowly turned grey.

Sans love for you is twisted, sick and you couldn't escape it anymore. No, you can never escape him.

San would always win over you. He is a demon after all.

A demon with the ability to control your mind and to make you a living doll, he can praise and treat like a queen the whole time.

That's what you are, a liveless doll.

,,Angel. Even if I love your wings they don't suit you."

With a emotionless expression you looked up from the spot you fixed before and tilted your head to the side, your voice nothing more than a whisper as you answered him.

,,What do you mean? "

,,Like I said they don't suit you and your new lifestyle. We should cut them off."San said with a devilish smile.

,,I think that would be a good punishment for running away hm? You didn't think you don't get one right? "

You softly shake your head, not even caring about the thing he said.

You just behaved like he wants you to behave.

You just live to make him happy.

And the only way he is happy, is with you as his lovely, submissive queen on his side.

,,No master. Of course I deserve a punishment."

#ateez #ateez san #demon ateez #ateez demon au #ateez fic #ateez fantasy au #ateez fanfic #ateez scenarios #choi san #yandere san #demon san

[spoonietimelordy]

The kink at pride discourse is a nonsense because no one is talking about the same thing, so let's rebrand it in what it should have been from the begining: Consent at Pride, how to respect people bondaries

And this include people doing sexual things in public (not only kinksters), people touching strangers (sexualy or not! For exemple: touching people's mobility aids), puching people to do thing they're not confortable doing (like drinking or undressing) etc... this is a more important discussion to have!

#charlie is rambling #lgbtq+

[mehestmoi]

So i came out as aro/ace spec about a year and a half or and the most i got from my classmates was that they couldnt understand it no matter how much i tried to explain it or they gave an uncomfortable 'okay' and changed topics. Id either get told off for not giving people chances or be talked about as though i'd be alone forever (it wasnt as mean as it sounds i just suck at writing it. The point im trying to make is misunderstandings.)

But recently, like in the past week alone, there have been MULTIPLE instances where my classmates, ones who im not even necessarily close to, have stepped up and acknowledged my orientation. (Someone was talking about homosexuality. I went "hell yeah gays!" "wait but are you actually gay" "no, she's asexual"). People have brought it up and been much more open to talk about it, and there's only one thing in common with all of the people that did this.

They all watched sex education.

People have said this a billion and one times but honestly, representation is so important for this very reason. As much as i hope that me coming out would be enough, the media we consume sets our standards for most things in life - our goals, our passions and yes, our love - and before most of us have the chance to experience it ourselves. So by limiting the kind of love we see on screen, we draw bondaries for the kind of love we expect for ourselves and from the people around us. But this show, this wonderful show (which i havent actually watched myself), in its second season, included an asexual character. And not as a loveless, alone forever cracko. But as a person who loves. Because ace/aro people can and do love people too. Its sad that there wasnt a way to make them understand then. But thank you for making it happen now. Thank you so much.

#sex education #asexuality #aromantic #spoilers #spoiler #ace/aro #lgbtq+ #representation #netflix #i had this saved up in my drafts from a while ago but damn this has to go out why was i waiting

[omnipotentoffspring-blog]

MY RULES FOR CLIENTS/FOLLOWERS

Okay so since this has become an issue I need to lay out some ground rules about  commissions, collabs,requests, gifts and trades/talking about those with clients/followers/etc

NEVER EVER LET ANYONE PUT YOU IN A SITUATION/COVERSATION YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE IN NEVER EVER ALLOW YOURSELF/ANYONE GET INTO AN UNDERAGE, OR SEXUALLY DANGEROUS CONVERSATION REPORT IT IMMEDIATLY.

Don't be afraid to announce your bondaries and don't feel bad for removing harmful people from your life.

DISCLAIMER:PLEASE DO NOT GO ON A LENGTHY CONVERSATION ABOUT KINK/NSFW(EVERY KINK IS NSFW)WITHOUT ASKING ME IF I WANT TO. HALF THE TIME I DON'T WANT TO HAVE A LENGTHY CONVERSATION ABOUT OUR OCS HAVING INTERCOURSE, THAT'S GOD MODDING.Please do not assume my kink will match your kink, please do not assume I want to pair my oc with yours. Please ask me first!Please do not drag me into a kink conversation, please do not continiously ask me about kink to get me to talk about it once I've made it clear I'm not in the mood. Please do not nag me about how my nsfw is so good and that I should do it more. I am story driven, character driven and concept driven.

THIS GOES BOTH WAYS: IF I SAY/DO ANYTHING OFFENSIVE OR CRUEL TELL ME RIGHT AWAY.

Kink is dabbled into my stories, not the saturation of it. Please respect that or I will no longer tolerate our conversations.

Commissions: You MUST have a at least 70%-80% complete idea of what you want. Commissions are NOT collaberations unless specified. DO NOT complain about my prices or ask me to lower those prices. I am very cheap, lower than the actual amount most professionals are paid, which will most likely change in the future to that professional pay rate. YOU MUST GIVE ME A DEADLINE. DO NOT ASK FOR A COMMISSION, SAY TO GET IT DONE "Whenever" then bombarde me with "Is it done yet?"/"Have you started on it yet?".

Collabs: PLEASE PLEASE indicate what it is you want to do a collab about in detail, and be willing to change things. I am trying to be on a professional level and I need relable people to work with in future projects I plan to try to make published. YOU MUST be okay with team work, you MUST NOT assume anything about my ocs until you have fully understood their design and personality. BE WILLING TO SCRAP IDEAS/CHARACTERS, do not whine and complain about character designs of mine or yours being scrapped in a collaberation professional companies scrap ideas all the time, like your idea/character?Make it yourself, you're perfectly capable.

Requests: Please do not drag me into asking you for requests or vise versa, requests will be given out when I announce thier available.

Trades: Please do not drag me into trades, ask me if I want to do trades if you are 100% sure you are good for them. PLEASE ANOUNCE YOU WANT NSFW TRADES before tossing out ideas on what you want. I DO NOT want to hold your hand on pornographic ideas, or be sexually frustrated during our conversations when I'm trying to be a professional artist. I do enjoy nsfw but I am an adult and do not need to ask you to be respectful of my personal space, so please please tell me that you're about to talk about kink in detail for a solid good reason. DO NOT MAKE ME FEEL BAD FOR DECLINING. DO NOT KINK SHAME ME. DO NOT sexually aprouch me without consent.DO NOT GOD MOD my characters into rape, forced feeding, or anything explicit.

Free art: I NO LONGER GIVE OUT FREE ART AND NIETHER SHOULD ANY ARTIST.

Gifts: DO WHATEVER YOU WANT IF YOU ARE GIVING FREE ART TO ME OR ANYONE ELSE AS LONG AS YOU ASK PERMISSION FIRST NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO TELL YOU WHAT TO DRAW FOR FREE. GIFTS ARE NO REQUESTED, THIER NOT PAID FOR SO PLEASE KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO DO 100%, ASK PERMISSION, DO IT,SHARE IT, LOVE IT, LIKE IT, THEN MOVE ON.

What should you do if you want nsfw from me?Have a solid 80% idea of what you want and what you're wiling to pay for. If you want to trade kink/porn you must already know what you want the trade to be. If you want to collaberate about ideas on porn, please be patient and don't continously ask me about sexual situations when you should already have decided what the trade should be about.

What if you want a character from me? Please do not ask me to copy someone elses style, please point out if you want: REALISTIC, SEMI-REALISTIC, CARTOONY, SEMI-CARTOONY, ABSTRACT, NO LINE ART, PAINTERLY, MINIMILIST, ANTHRO/FURRY USE ART TERMS, DO NOT DANCE AROUND ART TERMS, THEY ARE IMPORTANT, LEARN THEM, USE THEM, RESPECT THEM

PLEASE POINT OUT ANY PART OF THE BODY, COLOR, DETAIL, OBJECT ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU UNCOMFORTABLE RIGHT AWAY.

I respect all of my clients, followers, and fellow artists. I do not play favorites, I do no worship or idolize anyone over anyone else.

#art #rules #art commisions #important

[metal-sparrow-archives]

Does knowing the other mun make writing threads easier or harder?

Anxious munday meme

// Much easier! I mean, you get to know the mun by writing to some little extent, but knowing muns better ooc, makes rp much more fun. Easier throwing random ideas, screaming about it to each other and most importantly - I feel much more comfy, when I know I can talk to the mun freely, like ask when I don't understand something, discuss bondaries etc. So yeah, ooc relations are very important to me, for writing too! ^^;

#ooc #;ウタツグミ: mun #I hope it makes sense #because I'm getting sleepy xD #and only mobile inbox works :I