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PD-TS with BPD traits culture is being both relieved and nervous that your "narc abuse" friend has probably seen your post about hating Cluster B stereotypes. Because, on one hand, she now probably knows I didn't delete my Tumblr and just have her blocked, but on the other hand, she knows that I'm never backing down from Cluster B solidarity (pw NPD/HPD/ASPD ily /p).
Still keeping her blocked tho so she doesn't see my tags stating that I have PD-TS within Cluster B. Now I'm feeling tempted to block her again or unblock her and start following her like my finicky self again xD
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lavandulaphoenix · 1 month
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Random update from my life: now being seriously considered with recurrent depressive disorder OR having borderline traits
Personally I’m like, in the silence of the night… Whispering softly… “what if I have both?”
P.s.: in case I do have traits of borderline, would the border community welcome me in..? In anyway? 🥺I know I’m not border, but I resemble borders in many ways and I’ve met so many wonderful people with the disorder. I would be like, the weird cousin that shows up at the meetings and that’s helping as they can.
Ps.2: I’m gonna start a treatment for the anxiety and see if it still makes sense the border traits, but personally they are there. I know they are. I’ve been identifying myself for some time now. 🫠
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myselflovesyou · 8 months
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BPD: if I get the bad news I’m hoping not to hear:
Put on pop music and dance
CALL my best friends
Get out that yoga mat or do barre
Put on makeup and make blog videos
Pray
Buy a bunch of sleeping pills
How is it when you have BPD your brain always goes off track
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actuallyverynormalbtw · 5 months
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im always either worried about overwhelming other people or upset about other people underwhelming me
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bpdbean · 1 year
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thought i was symptom-free for months but jk i’ve been splitting on everyone
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tinahighbilroa · 2 years
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melancholydollie · 2 years
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i need to stop obsessing over this person. they’re nothing to me and they don’t serve me any purpose. it’s literally been years.
but why do i still miss them when they were so shitty to me?
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ontaraioblogs · 10 months
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Cluster B culture is deleting fucking everything a hundred times because you see a new person in your common tags
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vixensofdeath · 6 months
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I need a hug but I’m too disgusting to touch
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nemosopenletters-blog · 11 months
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I swear I can physically hear my brain telling me to unalive myself.
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(suspected) bpd culture is policing your thoughts and writing and notes and everything you say because it feels like ur fp will Know and you cant shake the feeling that they Know ur turning on them
-🐍 (ty for letting me know !)
Youre welcome :]
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ashersskye · 3 months
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Here is my controversial mental health take of the day: your negative emotions are not the problem, its the way you handle them that becomes the problem. You being jealous that your friend hung out with someone else and didn't tell you, is actually not the problem. It's when you choose to get angry with them, yell & lash out, or passive aggressively do something they hate to get revenge, or when you ignore them and isolate and self harm, those are all harmful ways to cope with your feelings. Rather than react, take the time to validate yourself, because it's normal to feel jealous or left out and chances are that there are deeper abandonment wounds that are triggered here, probably from your childhood. Take a moment to pause before you react. Then try a direct and open communication to your friend instead. Because I guarantee you they'll respond so much better to you opening up a conversation with, "hey, I felt left out when you hung out with so-and-so without me, can we talk about that? And maybe hang out soon?" Rather than the now laborious and torturous emotional work of having to feel guilty for your rage when you lash out or get revenge. Splitting is normal, because who doesn't get pissed off at someone you're close with? Your switching emotions from highly affectionate to devaluation are not the problem. Everyone gets disgusted & hurt by someone they love at some point in our lives, especially small offenses, I guarantee you chances are that person isn't doing it on purpose and would gladly like to know how you feel, these emotions and conversations are normal and necessary for humans to have. But the inability to clearly and directly communicate your feelings and needs to that person when you are hurt is what makes it toxic. You can absolutely learn how to handle your reactions in a safer manner, how to identify when you're feeling hurt, and how to communicate and ask for clarity and resolution rather than react and escalate. Communication is the backbone of every relationship you will ever have. This is what the emotional work of most personality disorders looks like.
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myselflovesyou · 8 months
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I used to think I was afraid of killing myself. Now I realize it’s the thoughts about killing myself I’m afraid of. They come suddenly and painfully, like walking a tight rope while being stabbed with daggers.
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abusedpixie · 25 days
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𝐈 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩
𝐏𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐢𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩
𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭.
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bpdbean · 1 year
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does anyone else have a hard time figuring out if you’re splitting or just have shitty friends
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