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someoneq · 2 months

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it's aro week!

happy aro-spec awareness week to all aro-specs including but not limited to:

aromantics

greyromantics

demiromantics

quoiromantics

frayromantics

cupioromantics

lithromantics/akoiromantics

recipromantics

apothiromantics

caedromantics

amicusromantics

vallisromantics

apexromantics

arospikes

arofluxes

alicoromantics/agnoromantics

platoniromantics

nebularomantics

aegoromantics

bellusromantics

idemromantics

requisromantics

non-sam aros and arospecs

non-partnering aros

aros in romantic relationship

aros in queerplatonic or alterous relationships

aplatonic aros

loveless aros

lovequeer aros

lovepunk aros

aroaces/acearos

aroallos/alloaros

aromids

romance repulsed aros

romance ambivalent aros

romance favourable aros

triple/quadruple a batteries (arospec acespec aplspec agenderspec)

anyone questioning if they are arospec or where they fit on it

anyone else whose arospec identity I missed

happy aro week to all <2

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rottinqbonezz · 4 days

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MORE SHOUTOUTS!!

shout out to aspec people (who are):

aroallo

alloace

aroace

afamilial

aplatonic

feel 0 sexual attraction

feel 0 romantic attraction

feel 0 romantic and sexual attraction

feel 0 platonic attraction

feel 0 familial attraction

feel 0 platonic, familial, romantic, and sexual attraction

feel a mix of these

identify as aspec but still feel a certain type of attraction

use many labels despite being aro/ace

use ‘contradicting’ labels

cupioromantic

caedsexual/romantic

idemromantic/sexual

quoisexual/romantic

heterosexual aro/aces

lesbian aro/aces

gay aro/aces

trans aro/aces

agender aro/aces

transmasc aro/aces

transfem aro/aces

transneutral aro/aces

demigender aro/aces

genderfuck aro/aces

aro/aces that are poc

fat aro/aces

disabled aro/aces

caedfamilial

caedplatonic

SHOUT OUT TO ALL YOU PEOPLE!!

🚨 TERFs, radfem, homophobes, transphobes, ableist, etc. DNI 🚨

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thefrogginbullfish · 1 year

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sh1ny-r0ckruff · 6 months

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reminder

shout out to all Aroflux, Aegoromantic, Apothiromantic, Aromantic, Arospike, autoromantic,Bellusromantic, Caedromantic, Cupioromantics, Demiromantic, Fictoromantic, Frayromantic, Grayromantics,Lithromantic/Akoiromantics, Myrromantic, Quoiromantic, Recipromantic, Requisromantic + more people !!

u guys are so amazing and super valid /g /pos

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our-arospec-experience · 1 month

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Welcome to our-arospec-experience!

this is a share your experience blog for arospec people. Well meaning allos are welcome to ask questions (actually anyone go to town asking questions because mod loves researching).

All arospec people are welcome!

A list of some arospec identities can be found here. Let me know if I should add any/I have made a mistake :)

No matter what you are, you are valid, and welcome here.

Tags to look out for:

our arospec experience, arospec experience, arospec ask

aphobia may be discussed, but will be tagged, as will romance, love, crushes, etc. please let me know if anything else needs to be tagged (or I forget).

for any questions relating to allos, I recommend @askanallo.

mod uses she/her/he/him

please keep asks relatively sfw, swearing always allowed.

I am not a professional.

Hate will not be tolerated.

:D share your experience!

@our-queer-experience, @our-aroace-experience, @our-queerplatonic-experience, @aromantic-diaries @aroace-confessions @aroaceconfessions @aromantic-official

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our-aroace-experience · 6 months

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being aroace is strange for me because I'm caedaromantic and aceflux but yk, its chill!

it’s very chill, i’m happy you’ve found labels that work!

#our aroace experience #asexual #aroace #aromantic #aroace joy!#ace pride #aro pride #acespec #arospec #aroace asks #caedromantic #aceflux

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multiplicity-positivity · 7 months

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Here’s some positivity for those on the caed- romantic, sexual, or gender spectrum!

The caed- prefix refers to one’s identity (romantic, sexual, gender, or something else) which has been damaged, stripped, or cut away due to past trauma. These folks may have identified with other genders, sexualities, or romantic orientations before going through a traumatic event, but due to trauma their identities have been compromised or changed in major ways. This post is for all those who are on the caed- spectrum, regardless of how that manifests for them!

🌲 Shoutout to those whose genders, sexualities, and romantic orientations feel lost, empty, lifeless, or numb!

🌤 Shoutout to systems whose caed- identities have caused them to feel or identify as queer or become part of the queer community!

🌈 Shoutout to traumagenic systems whose trauma histories influenced both their system formation and their caed- identities!

🌲 Shoutout to individual headmates who are caedsexual, caedromantic, or caedgender even if the rest of their system isn’t!

🌤 Shoutout to systems who used to have rich, fulfilling, and intricate relationships with their gender, sexuality, or romantic orientation, but don’t anymore due to trauma!

🌈 Shoutout to systems who are caedgenic, or consider their origins a xeno origin aligned with the caed- prefix!

🌲 Shoutout to systems whose genders, sexualities, and romantic orientations are tangled up with trauma responses, negative flashbacks, and potentially harmful coping mechanisms!

🌤 Shoutout to systems who remember and miss their lives before trauma interfered and caused them to identify with a caed- label!

🌈 Shoutout to systems who are embracing their lifestyles and their labels of choice, even if their identities stem from trauma!

🌲 Shoutout to systems whose plurality was already developed when they were traumatized and ultimately adopted a caed- label!

🌤 Shoutout to systems who are questioning a caed- label for themselves or their system!

Remember that the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and romantic orientation are vast, and each individual label serves an important purpose for those who identify with them! For those who find themselves identifying with a caed- label, we truly hope that you can find peace, healing, comfort, and recovery in your future!

Know that we really are wishing you the very best. If you are taking steps to recover from your trauma, we wish you a smooth process that is as painless as it can be. If you’re trying to live with your trauma and make peace with it, we genuinely hope that you will be able to achieve this one day. Please do your best to take care of yourself and your system! And if possible, try to have a lovely day!

(Image ID:) A pale orange userbox with a cluster of multicolored flowers for the userbox image. The border and text are both dark orange, and the text reads “all plurals can interact with this post!” (End ID.)

#multiplicity #pluralgang #plurality #actuallyplural #system positivity #plural positivity #plural pride #system pride #caedsexual #caedromantic #caedgender

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artsyaech · 5 months

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sorry, i accidentally made the first poll only last 24 hours 😭😭😭

#aro #aromantic #arospike #apothiromantic #bellusromantic #caedromantic #fictoromantic #myrromantic #autoromantic #quoiromantic #requisromantic

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areyouthisidentity-polls · 4 months

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Are you...

Caedromantic is a romantic orientation on the aromantic spectrum, defined as someone who feels that they were alloromantic at one point, but that has been taken or “cut away” from them due to past trauma.

#poll #tumblr poll #polls #tumblr polls #orientation #mogai #lgbt #queer #caedromantic #arospec

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neopronouns · 7 months

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flag id: three flags with 6 stripes. the left flag's stripes are dark yellow-green, yellow-green, light yellow-green, white, grey, and black. the middle flag's stripes are dark blue, blue, light blue, white, grey, and black. the right flag's stripes are dark indigo, indigo, light indigo, white, grey, and black. end id.

banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.

caedoromantic | caedorose | caedosexual

icon-friendly versions of some caedo- flags for anon! colors are from the originals.

dni link

#caedoromantic #caedromantic #caedorose #caedoaroace #caedrose #caedaroace #caedosexual #caedsexual #caedo #caed #my flags #my edits #flag edit #new flag #mogai flag #mogai

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aven-main · 22 days

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GE Saeran is demi aroace.

SE Saeran is caedromantic and ace.

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themogaidragon · 10 months

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Are there any labels that mean someone on the aro spec that can't be in a relationship because of trauma/can't trust or just because they believe they're incapable of love but want to?

Caedromantic: a romantic orientation on the aromantic spectrum, defined as someone who feels that they were alloromantic at one point, but that has been taken or “cut away” from them due to past trauma.

Erasromantic: a romantic identity on the aromantic spectrum in which one's alloromanticism randomly vanished partially or wholly, whether it be due to trauma, another reason, or no reason.

Colidaro: an arospec orientation where one is aro because they have a hard time making connections with people. This can be due to the lack of time, not liking people, or trauma.

Perdiromantic: identifying as arospec but feeling like your trauma, unhealthy/toxic upbringing or mental illnesses do affect it as well, causing you to feel lost and unsure about whether its just the trauma or if you’re really arospec.

Acoromantic: an identity on aromantic spectrum that refers to someone who experiencing romantic attraction that one wants to act on, but at the same time has a strong aversion to engaging in it due to bad experiences, apprehension, or other misgivings about being involved in romantic relationships or activities involved in a romantic relationship, etc.

Aegoromantic: a microlabel on the aromantic spectrum that describes those who enjoy the concept of romance but have a disconnection between themself and the subject of romantic fantasies. Aegoromantic individuals may have romantic fantasies, enjoy romantic media, or engage in shipping in fandoms, but they tend to feel little to no romantic attraction in real life and typically do not desire a romantic relationship. Oftentimes, their romantic fantasies are viewed from a dissociative third-person perspective, and not from the first person. They usually involve other individuals, such as fictional characters or celebrities with the aegoromantic individual only being a disembodied observer.

Chronosaromantic: someone who takes an extremely long time to like and/or love someone. (usually well over a few months) They also can sometimes “tell” who they will be able to love in the future, and sometimes take steps to keep that person in their lives. Others who identify with this label may choose to not get involved in any romantic relationships. Occasionally, someone who identifies with this label may feel that they are chronosaromantic because of trauma they experienced, or because of any other emotion-inhibiting experience, but the label is not exclusive to those who feel this way.

Cupioromantic: a microlabel on the aromantic spectrum. Cupioromantic is defined as someone who does not experience romantic attraction but still desires a romantic relationship. Cupioromantic individuals are typically romance favorable but they do not have to be. Cupioromantic may also be used by those who sometimes feel romantic attraction but still desire a romantic relationship even without attraction, for example, a demiromantic individual who dates someone before they feel attraction to them, possibly on the assumption that they will develop romantic attraction later on. Another example could be someone who is frayromantic who dates someone after they lose their romantic attraction.

Disakoiromantic: a romantic orientation on the aromantic spectrum. Someone who is disakoiromantic may experience the desire to feel romantic attraction from someone else onto themselves, but are unable to reciprocate it due to only being able to experience a different form of attraction, being romance-repulsed, or being aromantic in general. This does not mean that they cannot be in a relationship with said person(s).

Lingerromantic: an aromantic label where one experiences little to no romantic attraction but desires it to be in a romantic relationship, but due to trauma, religion, stories, or simply a "gut-feeling", has an unconditional fear of going into a romantic relationship. Yet they seek a romantic relationship with someone who they know they could trust, and could take a long period of time for someone who uses lingerromantic to feel comfortable enough to engage in other romantic attraction labels due to past trauma or stress. It can be considered a subtype of caedoromantic.

#ligerromantic #caedromantic #erasromantic #colidaro #aegoromantic #chronosaromantic #cupioromantic #disakoiromantic #aromantic #aromantic spectrum #aro spec #trauma #tw long post #cw long post

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our-arospec-experience · 27 days

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cw:// trauma, romance, mention of arophobia/intolerance, past relationships

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hellooo 🌻 anon here :] i came out to my best friend a few days ago as aro and they accepted me wholeheartedly. it felt so validating. but sometimes that imposter syndrome comes in because i used to be allo but i haven’t felt any need/desire in nearly three years and after getting proper help and being in a better space. like something in me just left, like an empty fox hole. is there a microlabel for that??

people online don’t like the idea of trauma affecting identities. seeing some forum posts kinda fed into the imposter syndrome of like ‘do i actually belong here? but i don’t fit in with the allo crowd bc i don’t feel anything but i have heavy trauma and i don’t wanna invalidate aro folk’

here’s some context- i’m sorry it’s so long: before, when i was in that relationship, i was allo af. it was my first time feeling that rose tinted disney magic they describe to you. coming from a loveless home, it was everything to me. but sadly our breakup was handled horribly, and personal things happening as well wasn’t helping either. that was three years ago now. the year after was senior year of high school, i was really really depressed. i was numb, it’s all a blur. then freshman and sophomore year of uni, i tried again but felt no desire. i was with the sweetest, kindest person once but i pushed myself when i shouldn’t have and it made me feel worse. just felt like i was checking off boxes. and now i’m a junior and still nothing but im content with that.

is that valid?? idk identifies are weird

of course that’s valid! Perhaps you could look into caedromantic as a possible microlabel?

Caedromantic: having been able to experience romantic attraction in the past, and not experiencing romantic attraction any more, with the feeling that the romantic attraction was taken away/destroyed or left because of a traumatic experience.

I’m glad your friend made you feel validated and I hope you have a nice day :)

#our arospec experience #arospec #aromantic #aro #lgbtqia+#queer #Caedromantic #Tw trauma

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genderstarbucks · 6 days

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Cupioromantic | Cupiosexual | Cupioaroace

Aegoromantic | Aegosexual | Aegoaroace

Caedromantic | Caedsexual | Caedaroace

Villainpunk, also known as evilpunk, is a punk subculture dedicated to the reclamation of demonization, a rejection of the social norm of goodness, taking pride in identities that carry a stigma. It can be shortened to vilpunk.

#cupioromantic #cupiosexual #cupioaroace #cupiorose #aegoromantic #aegosexual #aegoaroace #aegorose #caedromantic #caedsexual #caedaroace #caedrose #needs id

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ijustwannamakeemojis · 2 months

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[ID: Six pixel hearts of various flags in order being Caedromantic, Qouiromantic, Delloromantic, Aromantic Villain, Aromantic Hero and Somewharo. End ID]

#Caedromantic #Qouiromantic #delloromantic #aromantic villain #aromantic hero #somewharo #asaw #rentry #heart #pixel #discord emoji #liom #mogai #queer

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