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justwrighthomeca · 3 months
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Whether it’s your grandparent or parent, assisting a loved one with disabilities is a vital job. It can be stressful and overwhelming sometimes, but you want to provide them with the best care possible. How? Check out these tips below.
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warmmilku · 4 months
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🍂Tips for regressors without a CG!🍂
🧸 Create a safe and comfortable space for yourself
🐾 Establish a routine to provide a sense of security
🧸 Engage in activities that bring joy and comfort
🐾 Connect with supportive online communities like here on Tumblr!
🧸 Practice self-care and prioritize mental health!
🐾 Set boundaries to ensure a healthy balance
🧸 Explore coping mechanisms for stress and anxiety
🐾 Embrace creativity through art, writing, or playing!
🧸 Seek professional help if needed!
🐾 Remember it's okay to ask for support from friends or loved ones!!!
🧸 Try coloring books or doodling for a relaxing artistic outlet!
🐾 Explore imaginative worlds through reading fantasy books
🧸 Build a blanket fort for a cozy and playful hideaway
🐾 Create a playlist of favorite childhood songs and dance freely!
🧸 Engage in DIY crafts or projects to express creativity
🐾 Watch animated movies or TV shows that you love!
🧸 Play video games with colorful and entertaining themes
🐾 Bake or cook simple treats to enjoy and share!
🧸 Take nature walks or explore a local park for fresh air
🐾 Experiment with different hobbies like puzzles or board games!
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puppys-tiny-space · 6 months
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🩷How to tell someone about your regression🩷
🧃This is just some tips on how to do it, aka how I usually do it. If another way works for you that's great! This is just some idea on how to do it and be comfortable with it!🧃
🩷videos and online resources, if you are shy about explaining it yourself there are some great Textposts and videos online that explain regression and what it is, I have some myself on my tik tok and Instagram (I'll link the TikTok below) and there is a short film on YouTube called "too little" that's awesome🩷
🧃explain, I like to start by explaining what agereggression is, or even ask if they know something about it already, sometimes they do and that can be a great point to work from🧃
🩷be open, be open about why you regress at least as much as you are comfortable, people are kess likely to react poorly if they know why and can understand it🩷
🧃text message, preparing a text message or letter in advance, maybe even with a friend or cg, can be super helpful, especially if you experience going nonverbal🧃
🩷be sure, do not open up to someone because you feel forced or scared, be sure you feel safe with the person and exposing such a vulnerable side to them, nobody is entitled to your safe space🩷
🧃test the water, I like to hint at regression and test the waters first, wearing jewelry with kiddo nicknames or similar on it or having merch from more well known brands, if someone recognizes them and asks about it you know there is base knowledge🧃
🩷open up, I like to let people know about my trauma and other trauma-responses first, once they are aware of certain things it helps with the talk later on as it won't be as much if a shock that you might have to cope in unconventional ways🩷
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Fun fact of the day: it would take 19 minutes to fall to the center of the earth
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kitkio · 10 months
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Caregiver Tips : BedTime ᶻ 𝗓 𐰁
Create a Schedule!!
Schedules can be very helpful for little ones to get into and say in the groove of bedtime. It can also be helpful if you find yourself not know what to do most night.
Creating an actual Bed-time for bedtime is something I consider important. It doesn’t have to be strict nor does it have to be required though setting a structured though flexible time for your little to head to bed is a good idea !
I don’t suggest any times past 11:00pm though that’s up for you and your little to decide.
A few ideas for Bedtime,
Bath Before Bed ! Not only do baths help to stay clean but it can also be a fun, calming time for little ones
Bed Time Snack. In my personal experience bedtime snacks can be very helpful. Nothing too big because you don’t want the little one to have an upset stomach ! ( You can also treat the snack like a little reward before bed )
StoryTime. You can pick up a nice child friendly book to read your little one to sleep. It’s a safe, calming, and enjoyable activity before bed.
Situational Advice !
Nightmares
Your little woke up from a nightmare ? That can be quite scary for them.
Don’t get upset with your little for being awake. This should be obvious but getting upset with a little for something like this isn’t okay and will only make the situation harder for both of you.
If they’re feeling up to it take a moment to talk about the nightmare with them, get some water, overall show them that they’re safe with you.
Pouty Little having a tantrum at bedtime
Check in to see if there’s any specific reason for it. Wether it’s about being hungry, hurt, or just not wanting to go to bed the reason can be very helpful.
Ease the little to bed. Maybe put on some calming music or a show you think your little could relax while watching.
Explain to them why sleep is important, that you care about them and why you want them to go to sleep in a way they’ll understand.
Different things work for different people and that works the same with littles. If this stuff doesn’t work or you feel they’re better ways to do it for your situation than go ahead !
DNI: NSFW, NonSfw Agere, DDLG, Ageplay, Anti-Agere, Anti-Petre.
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pumpkzsafeplace · 5 months
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🌙 ☁️🌙☁️
winter is approaching,
the days are getting shorter & the skies are getting darker.
i know it can be hard right now to be motivated, to get up and accomplish tasks or even do the bare minimum.
& that’s okay.
instead of punishing yourself for being bad,
celebrate yourself and how far you’ve come!
and how you never thought you’d make it to another christmas 💛
we’re so so proud of you.
and we’re so proud that you stayed to greet winter once again 💛
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dadzawa004 · 2 months
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Something important to know (to all littles) ♡
⚠️ kink mention (ddlg) (brief-)
Hey kiddos. I didn't know if I ever had to make a post like this, but please don't go actively looking for a caregiver randomly online. I know it sounds mean or an out of nowhere topic, but I've seen it happen and it makes me very uncomfortable. Sometimes I go on pinterest and see agere related posts and then there's someone trying to look for a caregiver
Please DONT do this.
Not only is it dangerous, but it can attract weirdos and creeps to your very comment. Since kink isn't allowed on pinterest, kink can hide under innocent agere photos and then it'll be "ddlg" related. And because of this, people who participate in such can dm you anytime they want. Not only just that, but you can be under a strictly sfw post and someone you wouldn't want to dm you WILL dm you.
If it isn't weirdos dming you, it'll be someone that's gonna find a way to upset you because you age regress. Please. I beg you, do not go out and find strangers to find a caregiver. The internet is NOT a safe place, not always. If you want to find a caregiver, make sure you KNOW that person before doing anything more.
For your safety and others. Please and thank you
- sincerely, Aizawa 🖤
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wildflower-playground · 5 months
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hi there! if you see this pick one thing your body needs right now and do your best to do it 🫂
i’m rooting for you! you’ve got this and i promise that eventually things will get easier <3
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arismissing · 9 months
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Good morning little ones!
Here are some coloring pages!🖍️
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precious-child · 2 months
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I got a question for all my age regressors have you ever had someone read your journal / diary?
I don't know if I remember correctly so bare with me though this story.
I've had mine read I remember when I was a kid when I was like around older elementary school age and my mother read my journal/diary. I think I ended up catching her when she was reading it. She then mentioned the contents of my journal/dairy and I remember feeling upset about it and feeling like she invaded my privacy and like I couldn't trust her not to read it again. I really didn't want anyone to read it because It was for eyes only. It was meant to be private like most if not all journals and diaries are.
So this is for agere caregivers or anyone for that matter DO NOT go reading someone else's journal/diary. It's an invasion of privacy. If a regressor shows you a page or few of their journal/diary that DOES NOT mean you can look through their journal/diary whenever you want because it can possibly trigger them and break all the trust they had in you especially if they had someone do it when they were physically a child. It doesn't matter the content of the journal/diary for example it could be nothing but drawing and coloring in their agere journal/diary still DO NOT GO THROUGH IT!!! Because it's still their journal/diary and invading their privacy by looking through their stuff especially if they don't want you to.
Also this goes without saying DO NOT go through their journal/diary whether it's their agere journal diary or the one where they are in their regular headspace.
Yes it's best to have 2 separate journals one for your regular headspace and one for your age regression headspace!!!
So have you ever had someone read your journal / diary? If so please feel free to share it with me in the comments or reblogs.
And if you need advise or have questions about anything related to the post or not feel free to ask me in the comments.
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babygirlceosblog · 2 months
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warmmilku · 4 months
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🧃Caregiver tips!🧃
New to being a cg or just need some pointers? Here are some tips that may help:
🧶 Provide a comforting and secure environment
🎨 Be patient and understanding, adapting to their needs
🧶 Establish a routine for a sense of stability
🎨 Encourage open communication and active listening
🧶 Engage in imaginative play and creative activities
🎨 Support self-expression through art or writing
🧶 Respect boundaries and ask for consent in caregiving
🎨 Help manage stress by offering calming techniques
🧶 Be a source of encouragement and positive reinforcement
🎨 Foster a sense of playfulness and joy in daily life
🧶 Stay informed about age regression as a coping mechanism
🎨 Educate yourself on their specific preferences and triggers
🧶 Celebrate achievements, no matter how small
🎨 Prioritize self-care to ensure you're emotionally available
🧶 Seek guidance or resources when faced with challenges
🎨 Remember that caregiving is a mutual, evolving process
🧶 Communication is key, so don’t forget to express your specific needs, thoughts, and feelings gently to ensure you are on the same page
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puppys-tiny-space · 3 months
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👑Tips for littles on a budget👑
This is some tips for tinies (or carers looking for gifts for kiddos) on a budget! Of course you don't need any gear to be a good regressor but a lot of us like toys etc. and it's okay to want them!
🧸thrift stores, a lot of thrift stores have toys and plushies, sometimes they are a bit broken or dirty but there are lots of tutorials on YouTube for cleaning and restoring plushies and toys🧸
🐾e-books, you can find kids books online as e-books which are often pretty cheap or you can watch tiktoks of people reading those books🐾
🩷diy onesies, a lot of regressors like onesies but the prices are pretty steep, if you can't afford them don't fret! Its super easy and affordable to make one yourself all you need is an old t-shirt and snap buttons plus a way to attach them, just get a big t-shirt, sweatshirt or even hoodie and add 2-4 snap buttons in the crotch, boom you have a super cute and discreet onesie!🩷
🧸diy toys, there are lots of toys you can make yourself either by sewing or crafting and there's lot soft videos on YouTube for it, or get creative🧸
🐾mobile games, I love to play video games when im regressed but game consoles are expensive so free mobile games are a great alternative🐾
🩷dollar store etc, while you shouldn't rely on stores or websites that use cheap labor for everything it's okay to make exceptions every now and then, especially for toys, pacis, sippy cups and similar🩷
🧸pull ups, instead of cute printed diapers get big kid pull-ups in the baby-section or medical diapers from a drugstore, they are less then half the price of a pack of adult diapers from brands like tears etc.🧸
🐾learn to diy, making things yourself is often the most affordable thing to do, not with everything obviously but with a lot of things, learn as much stuff as you can so you can make lots of gear yourself🐾
🩷look for affordable stores, lots of paci stores on Instagram are very affordable and the ones that aren't often have sales so keep an eye out for that, lots of shops also have promoter codes they are happy for you to use, for example with my code 'bunnybab' you get a small discount at pacisbybunnie and cozypacicorner🩷
🧸buy second hand, thrift stores are a great place but if you want little specific stuff looking on vinted, swoop or even insta is a great idea! Lots of people sell gear they no longer connect with🧸
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Fun fact of the day: Bluey's pilot was only a minute long and never actually aired
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peapodsplace · 25 days
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Hey Baba, it seems like you've been seeing a lot of yucky stuff online right now. A lot of people who aren't remembering their manners and are forgetting that there's people behind a screen. I know you like your screen time but please remember that the world isn't all like that okay? Some people are different online and forget their values and let's remember that these days, algorithms perpously show you things that'll make you upset. Yes, yes it's not very fair, is it sweetheart. Please remember to take some breaks and that the world isn't really like that. It's so important to protect yourself. Yes, silly even if you think you don't deserve it; because you do.
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silly-baba · 8 days
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Helo, am sad :< so parents make clean room but have hard time clean room cuz autism, overstimulaing and dont like moving things, did clean my floor sleepy area but ended up have meltdown while do it :( so now involentary tiny and have hewdache, can have huggy please?
Of course, kid!!
I'm very proud of you for still cleaning, good job bubs! <3
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I also struggle with being overwhelmed when cleaning, I found the app "goblin tools" helped me a lot. It's completely free and makes a step by step checklist out of every task!
Another strategy that helps me is cleaning in a specific pattern, for example: first clean up everything green, then everything red, then everything blue, etc.. it doesn't have to be colors though! I also used tactile sensations (soft, rubbery, etc), and emotions (everything that makes me feel silly, happy, annoyed, etc.)..
This way of cleaning makes me feel less overwhelmed, bc I do it one step at a time.
I hope this helps!!
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pumpkzsafeplace · 6 months
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anon asks 💌 : coming out of little space safely.
little space is a sensitive thing, and one small detail could turn a fluffy headspace into a overwhelming nightmare. so here are some pumpkin tips to help keep control over your regression & keep it light and fluffy <3
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plan it out. 🌸
plan out your regression!
it’s one of my favourite tips to give out, especially if you’re going through the regression journey alone and you’re still new to it all. give yourself a timed amount and plan it out to the minute to minimise the room for discomfort.
planning out the come up makes the process a little less jarring too, as sometimes it can feel like you’re on a rollercoaster. find out what helps, for me it’s cartoons.
i’ll put them on in the background as a comfort blanket before i begin to switch my phone back to ‘normal’ mode and allow the usual content i absorb bring me back to a bigger headspace.
but take all the time you need! coming back up shouldn’t be rushed, because that’s how anxieties are formed. make sure to plan enough time to come back up! <3
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cover your senses.🎀
senses are a big thing for me when regressing and coming back up. if my senses are covered, then i can focus on my breathing and doing my best mentally to bring me back into a bigger headspace.
thankfully, the switch between the two is easy for me but on particularly hard day- i’ll use headphones and switch in between playlists. i just found that it helps ground me a little better <3
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breathing techniques 🌸
sometimes we can’t control everything and sometimes things just happen, which is why knowing breathing techniques is so crucial to get your little self back under control.
try to remember easy breathing techniques to help calm your little self down and give you enough time to take control. at least this way it’s done in a controlled environment, which limits the anxiety waves that usually happen after being forced big.
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keep record. 🎀
keeping record will let you know what way is easier for you to drop into little space and pull yourself back up. some ways that work for one can be triggering to others, so take your time with trying different techniques and don’t get disheartened if things don’t happen right away <3
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it takes practice 🌸
don’t get disheartened little ones, finding out ways to drop into little space and bring yourself back out can be difficult- especially if you’re doing it alone!
so treat yourself kindly! and take baby steps, remember we’re all here supporting you too! <3
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piinktearxs · 10 months
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i feel like we should make a special date be cglre caregiver day, because i think most littles have either a bad relationship with mother’s/father’s day or just don’t feel like it’s necessarily a holiday for agere caregivers, I feel like they deserve their own day where we get an excuse to spoil them and give them extra love
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