Hey, anyone knows if connor is comfort with us pairing him with someone?
I mean, i never watched him and never was interested in pairing him, but after sdmp streams idk if i should draw Schlatt/Connor(if i decide that i like it, i still not sure) or not
Ofc i still will draw their brotp anyway, love them
Kai: Oh, right, the other day you asked Kouta to help you make a gift for Ego? Are you bribing the warden?
Chise: …
Kai: Isn't it no good to bring others into your personal matters? They shouldn't hold responsibility for your feelings and wishes.
Chise: What do you have to do with it?
Kai: I'm a bit bothered that Kouta has to do things for you.
Chise: Isn't it no good to bring others into your personal matters?
Kai: Oh, you learn quickly.
Chise: —Agh!
Kai: Sorry, I'm clumsy. I'm sure you can ask Ego for a new uniform.
Chise: …You did it on purpose, didn't you.
Kai: Why so upset? You have another opportunity to talk to the warden! Even make her do things for you.
I've noticed this thing with autistic people where people never know where our attention is. If I'm looking directly at you, I probably didn't mean to!
I'm not staring at you, I just thought the spot on the wall next to you looked interesting or my neck happened to turn that way.
If I am looking to your side but my ear is facing you then I AM LISTENING AND PAYING ATTENTION! I'm angling my ear to process what you're saying better.
Many allistics seem to think eye contact is the sole or most important determining factor of attention in conversations. Not everyone can pay attention in the same ways, though!
This is why I'm so against the demand for eye contact by society and other people. You're asking me to sacrifice my ability to actually pay attention to you so you can have the outward aesthetic of feeling like someone is paying attention to you.
I mean this leads to a broader discussion on how neurotypical social norms are built around aesthetics of function over true function, but that's a topic for another day lol.