De nuevo estás prefiriéndo a otras personas que a tu hija.
Not descendants related but a question. So I’ll use an example of when I went into the car and me my brother and my dad were going somewhere that wasn’t far. So I decided to not put on my seatbelt because well short drive and it scrapes the side of my neck so yeah. Then my brother tells me to put it on. I don’t.. and I try to explain after a little bit then he starts repeatedly telling me to put it on like non stop not taking a second to stop telling me. And I just like stop functioning right and my mind is all like shdkavixnaozhisjxkkHdhsik.?? And I wanna like leave and crawl into a hole and cry.. what’s that about?
Morning ritual ~ dad
Looking at smiling faces in front of me
Sharing calmness of contentment
The air smells of wet soil and sour raindrops
And birds chirping in the background
My heart is full.
Happy birthday Dad!!! Today has been so difficult for me. I can’t stop crying. I feel so guilty for not taking every opportunity I had to spend time with you. From what I saw they had such a nice party for you at the joint. I had to work so I couldn’t go. But there was bacon in abundance! Most of the posts to your Facebook by people mourning don’t acknowledge me, it doesn’t bother me too much. I’m ten years older than buddy and all you’re friends were mostly church friends which I didn’t know. But at the same time it kind of hurts, for my own selfish reasons of course. Everyone posts about Bethanne and buddy, but I’m grieving too. You’ve been my dad longer, been in my life longer. Again, I’m just being selfish. But it kind of hurts. Not nearly as much as missing you does, but it’s there. I’ve always been a daddy’s girl. And the older I get the more I realize that my entire personality is from you and grandpa. I look exactly like grandma, but I act and think like you and grandpa. Although mom has always said that a lot of my features are yours too. I got her weaver cheeks, but she’s always said I get my coloring, hands, nose, and scowl from you. Your furrowed eyebrow mark has slowly become a permanent make in my forehead as well. I miss you. I love you.
Mein Vater hat immer gesagt, im Vergleich dazu wie lange diese Welt schon existiert ist unser eigenes Leben nur ein Wimpernschlag.
Ok so everybody keeps going on about Tony as Peter’s father figure
But Peter already has his Aunt May, and Tony is married to Pepper, and killing off Aunt May so Tony can adopt Peter is just sad and mean. So what if they have sort of a joint parenting approach? It’s a stretch, but it works:
My brother has this friend who is over literally all the time. They’ll spend 24 hours at our place, and 24 hours over at his, resulting in 48 hours spent together consecutively. The friend, now referred to as my “other brother,” comes to family events, trips, and any social outing. So his parents and mine have assumed co-parenthood of the boys. No marriages, no formal adoptions, just… co-parenting.
Although my situation arose with multiple children, it could, in theory, work with one. Or, we could have Tony’s daughter linking up with Peter in the same way my brothers did.
No death. No drama. No divorce. Just 3 people, parenting Peter together, in the least awkward way possible.
Ain’t it sweet?
I won’t be long on this Earth, Lonny
be kind to others
do these things, slow to anger, quick to forgive, demonstrate gratitude thru your actions
you will live longer than I
My dad is suffering from Cancer - I love you dad.