#dead parents club

[thinfatfit]

No parents club

#dead parents #grief #grieving #death #no parents #No parents club #dead parents club #death tw #grief tw #tw

[ladybugbrackenbridge-mybeloved]

Does the tonal change part in White Woman's Instagram make you cry, too? Or are both your parents still alive?

#bo burnham #inside #bo burnam inside #white womans intagram #dead parents #dead parents club #it made me cry when i first heard it cuz my dad was dead #now that my mom is also gone it's worse

[pixiesa]

being part of the dead parents club fucking sucks. it sucks to see people your age with their families and knowing you can’t have that. it fucking sucks. everything sucks.

#dead parents club #dead dads club

[perfectlysunny02]

ur funny

Thank you. It’s because i’m an orphan

#it’s the trauma #dead parents #dead parents club #dead dad club #since 2021 #fuck you covid but whatever #sunny’s asks #sunny’s inbox

[moisturizedflayedskin]

On grief

art by Glen Martin Taylor / First Love / Late Spring by Mitski

The other day when talking to friends I jokingly said - there is a lot of anger in me - they laughed at me - you? don’t say that - but at night as a lay in bed engulfed by rage, trembling and grinding my teeth, your inherence clear in my chest. There is a particular kind of pain with hating someone you love so much, I could feel your anger seeping in the walls and floor a special kind of miasma in the air, but it still wouldn’t, couldn’t stop me from cutting your food and catching the knife on the floor.

I felt so small, like a tall child looking at you from across the room. An adult but still so small, and I expected you to still cover me from the world with your back. But now you were the small one with your back curved, and I stood straighter than ever.

I once dreamt of you sitting in the kitchen as flames licked the walls, us crying outside looking in. My heart is a house on fire with you and old furniture turning to distant memories, and I feel like a tall child that can’t go home because where once were walls only ashes remain. When I woke up I felt smoke trapped in my lungs but now that your time is past I can breathe slowly feeling the crisp winter air.

#it speaks #grief blogging #dead parents club #vent art #i know that the mitski song is about first love but those lines just spoke so much to me that i had to include them

[bitterclan]

Dartpeak :(

#Marshbriar joining the parents of dead kits club. sigh #bitterclan #clangen #art

[pyr0cue]

sometimes i sit down and think. it 2017 really gave ben mike's personality and narrative function and people think its canon. mike my poor boy i love you so so much im sorry the movies stripped you of personality and charm

#and its because he's black. #i think about it every day. #it fans read the book challenge. i dont know how stephen king did a better job in 1986 than the movies did in 2017 but genuinely the losers #they are so much more interesting and fun in the book. and richie and bev are literally canonically best friends #and mike is a person.......with lines.......and actions....that he takes #and his parents are dead drug addicts. i still dont know why they did that in movie its so stupid #the losers club #it stephen king #it 2017

[spikedru]

last time i watched the body i had.to stop watching multiple times bc my dad died in a very similar circumstance as joyce and erm. it hurts. like the anniversary of his passing recently happened andni forgot bc that whole week is still like a black hole of memory even yrs later

#dead parent club !!!

[cult-of-the-eye]

I love doing things to disappoint my mother cause she's dead so she can't do anything about it apart from seethe

#life hack #stay toxic #dead parents #dead mum club #shitpost

[richter-kale]

more football au!

#ziggys jason #jason todd #dick grayson #bruce wayne #richter-kale #red hood #they’re doing it for his own good tbh #also jason doesn’t die in this au BUT definitely not thinking about how the guy next to him (oc) would quit the club after hearing that #jason was dead lol bc they were friends #not thinking about it at all! whatttt!!! #bruce is a good parent #batfam #batfamily #football au

[tecchous-thicc-buttocks]

GUYS IM GOING CRAZY HOW DID I NOT NOTICE THIS ON THE BSD WIKI BEFORE????

#“you want me to twinkify him?” “no i want him to be specifically fyodor-level twink” #I HOWLED A LITTLE BIT FYODOR IS THE STANDARD FOR PHYSICALLY UNFIT #GOOD GUY FYODOR SOUNDS SO CURSED TOO??? throwback to anime protag eyes fedya *shudders* #SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP #imagine tachi going thru the universal lost parent experience of seeing a twink from the back and calling out his brother's name #and it's just some anemic russian terrorist #they're so unrelated which makes this 1000x better #i would rock tachi's brother's shit if he wasn't. yk. 🕴️ #only people with great taste fawn over dead men with no build #they should start a club for the lanky depressed men of bsd #fyodor tachi's brother lovecraft bram even kunikida ango oda and mushi could join #born to babygirl forced to emo twink #it's the “good guy fyodor” that pushed me over the edge im never gonna stfu about this #bsd #bungou stray dogs #bsd the soldier #bsd fyodor

[beyondthescully-a]

tiny winter time hiatus

hello friends - i hope the honda days were good to you. tomorrow is my last day visiting my mom before i travel back to my home. the 27th is my travel day/my dad's birthday, which is hitting me a lot harder than it does most years.

on top of that, i start a 7 show run over 6 days at my work that same day (hahahaha).

i'll be a bit sporadic here && there, just wanted to give a heads up with the on coming chaos.

xoxo

kg

#beyond the sea | ooc #tw dead parent #tw dead dads club

[arcanewonder]

some more highlights from the dd ii cc creator demo.

#dragon's dogma ii #i can't believe it lets you customize the teeth!! #gif warning #all my arisen belong to the dead parental figure club #the guy up above is the main pawn to the first girl i posted

[easays]

I wrote about my Mom, AIDS, Vampire: The Madquerade (with a brief shout out to New York by Night), and Buffy for Polygon. I hope you read and share, and most of all, that you, too, find yourself in a vampire story.

#actual play #vampire the masquerade #vampires #new york by night #buffy the vampire slayer #spike btvs #angel btvs #hiv/aids #aids history #aids #queer history #queerness #dealing with grief #loss #dead moms club #dead dads club #dead parents

[starrcross]

day 12 without my dad, I’ve decided i’m going to write a list of some of the new things i really hate:

I hate riding in the car

I hate those split second moments when i go to show him something or call him or look for him before i remember that he’s gone

I hate seeing my mom so broken

I hate talking about him in the past tense

I hate nighttime

I hate the question “how are you doing?”

I hate Teslas

I hate the passage of time

I hate funeral arrangements

I hate not knowing where he is

I hate how long it takes to get a death certificate

I hate Intensive care units

I hate the guilt i feel when i have happy moments

I hate that lump in your throat tightness in your chest feeling

I hate that he’ll never get to turn 50

I hate that to him i’ll always be 18

I hate that i wasn’t awake when he left that morning

I hate the “5 stages of grief”

I hate the thought of birthdays and holidays without him

I hate how he’s everywhere in every corner of my life but also nowhere

I hate the half drank can of fizzy water on his desk that he’ll never finish

I hate that this happened to him of all people

#grief #grief/mourning #grieving #grief poetry #tw grief #parent loss #dead dad club #things i hate #grief journal #i miss you

[welkynars]

snippet

“Everything would be fine if you hadn’t died.”

Morgiah paced, restless, around the clay pit holding the ash that was once Symmachus. Ash that had once formed the arms that held her as a little girl. Ash that consisted of the blood, sweat, and tears of her father, her protector. 

“You should have fought harder. You could have. I know it. I don’t care if you had to cut through a thousand mer to survive. You should have come back to me, protected me, protected us.”

A lifeline, a soldier, a husband, a father, a king; all reduced to nothing but the fine, grey power nearly indistinguishable from the dust that sat on the surfaces of the tomb. For all the Empire had done in memoriam of her father after his death, there was nothing to show of it. No one had entered this part of the tomb in years. Not even Barenziah nor Helseth had visited when they returned. Morgiah wished she hadn’t. She remembered little of ancestral tombs from her childhood, and to her now they seemed like a cruel rest. Ash that was once a life, a good man, for all she’d known at eight years old. Maybe all she’d been told were lies, maybe her own memories were lies. If he were still alive, perhaps he’d be an unforgiving ruler and a harsh father. Perhaps he’d withdraw in his old age, abandoning his wife and children in all but formalities. There was nothing to show for who he’d be. Nothing but ash.

“I know I wouldn’t be here,” She continued aloud, her voice monotone but betraying a slight tremor. She glanced at the ground and noticed the dust was dirtying the hem of her skirts. “At least I wouldn’t be here, at your grave, wondering who you’d be to me. Longing for the life I’d have in Mournhold, the life I deserve. Do you have any idea what it was like? The things I’ve seen, the things I’ve done, the things done to me, across the continent and throughout decades, all because you couldn’t-“ 

This time her voice cracked, betraying what she fought hardest to hide, even in the absence of everyone she felt the need to hide it from.

#morgiah's part of the dead parents club #morgiah #symmachus #idk where i was going with this one