#dpt memories

[fayeandknight]

Training a PSD is so weird - if you start crying your dog's expression will light up because that means he gets to do his thing.

#dogblr #forte #belgian tervuren #service dog in training #sdit #i missed agility last night and that was frustrating #but tonight i missed the memorial for my friend's husband #and i feel like a piece of shit for not being there for her #but i literally can’t #because my stupid car won't recognize it's own key #anyway the second i started crying Forte popped up from his bed #expression all eager excitement #he plowed into me and then slammed himself into my lap #tail thumping happily while he got to do for resl DPT #we're going to have to work on not going straight to defcon 5 #but he did help me calm down enough to think through what i can do for my friend once i have a working car again

[strawberrymochin]

Springtime Fushiguros♪

Context-: exploring the memories of childhood of fushiguros, marking the spring time of you and satoru gojo.

Vaccination-: fushiguros need dpt vaccine. Gojo teases Megumi, scaring him. Poor Megumi ends up crying.

'Injections hurt a lot, yk!' says gojo cuddling Megumi on the couch, trying to mess with him. 'Ahh! Leave me alone.' Megumi whines, wriggling his way out of gojo's lap, running to the kitchen.

'Does it really hurts?' asks Tsumiki, 'yes, it hurts like hell. You would feel like it's sucking out your soul.' Megumi stills midway, turning his head to eye at his gaurdian. Gojo's lips curve as Megumi gulps, he then continues, 'the huge needle will be piercing your skin. Then the area will get swollen. It will hurt for days.'

Megumi's face falls at gojo's words. Will it really hurt that much? Isn't it torture? This white haired tacky guy stopped his sale to the zeni'ns, brought him here only to torture. He should have never agreed to this on the first place.

A loud laugh disrupts Megumi's thoughts. 'I swear, you look like you've seen a ghost.' gojo said laughing, a white ribbon looking thing securely tied around, covered his eyes. Megumi couldn't help but wonder, how this man is able to see his expression when he's blindfolded?

'Can you stop scaring the kids?' you emerge from the kitchen, wiping your hands on your apron, guiding Megumi back to the couch. 'It won't hurt. Gojo Sensei is just messing with you two.'

'everyone lies when it comes to injection.' he drawls lazily, stretching himself on the couch, pulling Megumi into his lap again.

'why are you scaring the kids?'

'I'm not. I'm just stating facts.' He says suppressing megumi's attempt to wriggle out again. You roll your eyes at him, knowing very well that arguing with him more is useless.

'Roll those pretty eyes when I will be fu—' 'Shut up Satoru! Not infront of the kids. Tsumiki, come here lemme do your hair before you guys leave for vaccination.' you rush into the kids room, not wanting him to see how he's the only one to make you blush like that.

Tsumiki follows you into the room cluelessly. By now, Megumi gave up on his protests and accepted his defeat. He glanced up at gojo who had a cocky smile plastered to his face.

'Megumi'

'...'

'oi, megumi'

'.......'

'megumiiiiiii'

'what?'

'The vaccine will be given on your butt. It will swell after. Ever wondered how will you sit?'

Megumi - (°◇°) Gojo- <⁠(⁠￣⁠︶⁠￣⁠)⁠>

You pause your tidying up the place at the sound of the door opening, followed by small sniffles of—you rush to the main door—megumi.

Gojo was carrying Megumi in his arms, while the little guy ties to suppress his sobs. You run to them, 'Aww Megumi, don't cry. Pain will fly away!.' you forward your arms to hug him, but before you could do that, a loud cry takes you by surprise.

'y/n!!!!!!!!!!!!!' shoko cries, throwing herself into your arms, leaving Tsumiki and Megumi astonished. Both share each other a look as gojo chuckles, taking Tsumiki's hands.

Extras-:

Shoko- wait so you guys are dating?

Gojo- well isn't it obvious?

Shoko- like dating 'dating'?

Gojo- hmm

Shoko- how come I'm the only one who's always uninformed? No one tells me anything. At this rate you guys would die one day and not tell me. :⁠,⁠-⁠)

#jjk #jjk fluff #jjk x reader #jjk smut #gojo x you #satoru gojo x reader #jjk x you #jujutsu kaisen x reader #jujutsu kaisen smut #jjk x y/n #jujutsu kaisen x megumi fushiguro #jujutsu kaisen x satoru gojo #satoru x reader #satoru x you #gojo x reader #gojo fluff #satoru fluff #gojou satoru x reader #megumi x reader #megumi fushiguro #jjk megumi #megumi fluff #jujustsu kaisen x reader #gojo satoru #shoko ieri #fushiguro tsumiki #springtime fushiguros

[fan-dweeb]

(large spoiler) Ever think that quirkless Keigo is just gonna keep going with his model career?? Like he's not a pro hero anymore, so he just keeps the modeling gig?? I wanna know your thoughts on this lmao

Hii!! Small disclaimer, I’m actually not caught up with the anime, let alone the manga, at all, so most of what I say is based on snippets I get from fanfics and meta lmao

Hmmm this is really interesting. Short answer: I think with the way that Keigo has finally been set free (symbolically with losing his quirk, and literally from the HPSC (I think)), he’ll probably stop everything else related to Hawk’s job as well.

Slightly longer answer:

From Horikoshi’s perspective, Keigo has already served his original purpose as a character so it wouldn’t really make a difference either way canonically. If he does intend to have those ‘5 years from now’ snapshot, I feel like Keigo will be overseas travelling or something rather than modelling though, if just to be consistent with his theme of being set free. If not as a personal choice, ‘do it for the plot’ lmao. I do mean this quite literally though, because now he’s got so much potential for the ‘self-discovery slice-of-life’.

,,,, but I personally think this is a bit of a cop out choice for Keigo’s future.

I’m not gonna be the analyst who says ‘he never had a chance to make his own choices’ because technically he did. This doesn’t mean he made a good one, but if you step away from popularised fanon, he did agree to going with the HPSC because he wants to be a Hero and not because of his mum. This isn’t so much that I haven’t ‘read between the lines’, but that he never once looked at his mum or made reference to what would happen to his mum if he followed the HPSC. Unless ‘reading between the lines’ include fabricating entire dialogues under an assumption that Hawks was suppressing his memories, I think it’s safer to assume he just couldn’t care less loll. But that’s the thing; his whole life revolved around Heroes, whether as Keigo or as Hawks. Now that it’s been brutally and suddenly ripped out of his hands and NOT in the form of death like he was probably expecting? He has to find something else to do, whether it be modelling or travelling or being a librarian or whatever,,,,, that is, if we make an assumption that he can’t keep being a Hero.

Look, we know he wants to help people. Some might even say he’s kind (that might’ve been drilled out of it by HPSC’s cold blooded training, but hey, maybe it’s just buried really, really deep inside). If we look at this not from a story writing perspective but purely from the character Keigo’s perspective (a bit counter intuitive, I know but bear with me), I honestly think at some point in the far future he might try to pursue a career in Heroism/ the police dpt / the fire dpt (hAH irony)/ some kind of physically-inclined job that traditionally seeks to help people. I think most people tend to stick to things that feel familiar with them even if it’s an unconscious decision.

So how does this link to whether he continues modelling? (because I’ve totally been building up to a point and not just going off on a tangent lmfao)

I think a lot of the fandom sees modelling as Evil, whether this be because of the horror stories of modelling in real life, because of an understanding of mutant quirk discrimination, wing kinks, and thinking Hawks definitely didn’t like being seen in that light, or because of some mixture of other reasons. And I think that’s true in the sense that it probably wasn’t what Keigo had in mind when he first signed up to being a Hero.

With that said, I’ve seen a particularly well written fanfic (I forgot which tbh) where Hawks is explaining the importance of modelling in promoting a sense of safety in civilians, especially for Heroes with anthromorphic quirks, outside of just gaining popularity. Which I think is a really fresh and extremely valid argument. As such, modelling could be a very nice supplement to him regaining popularity or at least, regain familiarity with both the general public but also his roots of inspiring confidence and safety if he decides to pursue any of the jobs I’ve mentioned above.

There is a counter argument, especially for Keigo being a Hero, that the quirkist ideas are so ingrained him (subconsciously or otherwise by the HPSC) that being a Hero again, or just doing any job at all without a quirk probably never crossed his mind. And if he wanted to keep up with helping people, there are a multitude of other jobs he could do. (Which modelling still doesn’t quite fit but ehh maybe as encouragement to/ empowerment of quirkless people?). But, I think this is a rather naive and simplistic analysis of Hawk’s and Keigo’s character of a person too deep into fanon.

If there’s one thing Hawks fans can agree on, please let it be that he’s really freaking complex.

He’s seen the worst and the best of society. He’d just about experienced every facet of society possible as a person in the bnha universe besides being an Average Joe. And now, he’s about to head into the small undiscovered area of quirklessness. (We as readers get a bit of this from Izuku’s POV, but for Keigo this is about as novel as it gets). Speaking as a writer, whether modelling is part of that experience remains entirely on what you want to explore with Keigo as a character.

Lmk what you guys think as well!! (in comments/ tags/ dm/ asks, all are ok :D )

(note: apologies for the barely organised word vomit and non-answer at the end, this was typed impulsively from my phone lmao)

#lowkey completely forgot to touch on anything dabihawks #but I’m running out of steam so I’ll just leave it as it is for now #might come back to it as a reblog later if I ever find motivation lmao #anime #bnha #mha #bnha hawks #text post #bnha meta #character analysis #takami keigo #bnha keigo #hpsc #bnha quirks #bnha fanfiction #bnha manga spoilers #bnha fic #bnha prompt #quirkless hawks #ask

[cyberagentchaos]

GAMBAR SEKADAR HIASAN

Sekadar meluah perasaan.

Kawan aku contact ptg smlm terus ajak jumpa. Dia sanggup jemput tapi nak borak berdua je. Kwn lama Dari zaman uni. Macam serius je. Takpenah mcmni.

Aku pun on tak fikir sgt.. belikan makanan utk anak bini..lepas tu tunggu kwn aku jemput. Sampai je masuk kereta muka ketat je..aku tanya pasal apa ni penting sgt ko hutang along ke..kalau ye pun Salam la. Lepas Salam lemah je tangan dia genggam.

Katanya panjang cerita so aku pendekkan. Masa dia buat spring cleaning smlm. Dia kemas rumah utk buang barang2 lama. Jumpa laptop wife dia .dia cucuk plug tekan on terus nyala elok lagi la laptop zaman blaja tu.

Masa tgh selongkar tu jumpa satu files besar jgk titled Diana&Alfian4ever💦❤️. Dalam tu beribu video & gambar wife dia main dgn sorang laki.

Bila dia teliti satu-satu n tgk bila transfer date mmg dh lebih 4 tahun lepas sblm dorg kenal & khwin. Masa tu dia kata mmg bini dia mngaku penah tido dgn laki lain sblm khwin. Dia terima. Tapi bini dia tkde ckp apa-apa pasal dorg suka rakam 'aktiviti harian' dorang lepas tu letak dlm laptop. Klu tgk date pun dia kata mmg hampir setiap hari mesti ada at least 1 video & 5-6 gambar. Dari blowjob dlm kereta, tangga mall, doggy kat bwh jambatan, dalam hutan mana tah smpai la ke rmh sewa. Dr kualiti zaman handphone symbian sampai la iphone 6. Boleh kata laki tu kasar jgk layan bini dia. Kadang smpai memaksa. Paksa hisap la, sruh buat peace masa dia pancut kat muka. Dia geram jgk nak je dia carik & hentak muka laki ni.

Tapi mmg laki yg sama dia kata penah in serious relationship dulu. Last video transfer dated 21 April 2017. Dia kenal wife dia dalam 2018 Mei camtu.Then Oktober 2019 dorang kahwin.

So dia pn confront wife dia. Dia kata tak tau pun pasal video ni. Wife dia pun terus terang lepas tu nangis la kejap bila ingat balik. Dia kata mmg betul dulu hari-hari kena paksa layan nafsu dia sampaikan dia muak & nak putus je senang. Benda yg wife dia buat sampai segan nak bagitau. Dia mmg nak padam tapi laki tu paksa utk simpan.

Wife dia kata dia dgn laki tu mmg dh bagi semua..tapi laki tu gila seks yg trlampau. Kaki pukul & ugut. Kalau tknk buat dia leakkan video. Dia punya nafsu teruk sgt sampai wife kwn aku ni dah tkjumpa jalan keluar. Tak larat nak layan nafsu gila dia

Kadang tu dia minta hisap kat panggung wayang time org ramai. Ada sekali tu dalam kereta wife dia kata laki ni minta hisap lepas tu pancut muka then dia paksa wife kwn aku ni keluar dr kreta lepas tu jalan keliling block dgn muka & tudung dia penuh air mani. Sambil dia ikut slow Dr blakang. Lepas tu ketawa bila tgk org lain pandang2 wife dia. Nk tgk reaction org lalu lalang. Byk terpengaruh dgn video seks western.

Masa ni wife kwn aku doa je. Apa Jalan terbaik nak keluar Dr semua ni. Lepas tu doa org teraniaya kan. Makbul. Laki tu kena tangkap kat tempat hotel dia kerja lepas kantoi dgn manager dia nampak dia tgh cabut memori kad utk spycam kat dlm bilik hotel dia kerja tu. (Laki ni keje housekeeping hotel). Mmg Kaki porn sgt la ni. Manager tu call polis. Bila buat siasatan dlm 100 bilik hotel tu dalam Lebih kurg 37 bilik ada spycam. Polis dpt rampas lg hard disk berapa terabyte tah penuh dgn video rakaman curi. Masuk ke penjara terus. Sejak Dari tu wife kwn aku lega. Tak sure la dlm byk2 video & hard disk tu ada ke takde video dorg. Dia tak sempat nk tanya dah kena cekup skrg Masih kat dalam.

Okay nanti sambung lagi.

Panjang cerita aku dh kurgkan. Adios. Bye.

[lamyaasfaraini]

Kalo nge recall memories itu, apalagi setahun ini. Patokannya ya galeri di hp. Okey, lemme check!

Jan: kondangan temen suami, temenku (pdhl diumur kami yg skrg udah jrg dpt undangan haha), My 34th bday!

Feb: staycation w/ besties SMA, 30 days writing challenge (sejak saat ini ketagihan journaling)

Mar: kondangan temen suami, meet up besties SD

Apr: puasa, bukber2, lebaran, mudik ke tasik

May: nemu cafe+playground anak, meet up sepupuan, ngedate!

Jun: seblak rafael, meet up besties SMA (ngga lengkap), daftar sekolah Nemo, coba eskopi dis eskopi dat, idul adha, msh ngedate!

Jul: wisata kereta-bis-ke BBW, menang GA WTF Jkt, 1st days of school, piknik di tahura w/ sepupuan, Cirebon.

Aug: meet up besties SMA (lagi2 ngga lengkap), mulai suka cabor lari, jalan pagi ber3, hiking ke gn. Putri, Nemo's 5th bday bagi2 bingkisan kicil di sekolah

Sep: masih ttg lari dan lari (paling sering bulan ini), join ST duraking di gorpaj w/ suami, nemo jadi petugas upacara, nemo berani tampil fashion show!, cedera kaki after 9k run huhu, baso gandapura! Meet up besties SMA akhirnya lengkap!

Oct: 1st time nemo menang piala (lomba baca doa), meeting korlas, beli buku stlh seringnya beliin buku anak, nemo masuk ugd, ke cibubur, beberes buku2 di gudang, masakan2 suami, manasik haji, meet up besties SD

Nov: 30 days song challenge, denndeng batokok cabe ijo dago, gadis kretek, come back lari dgn mencapai target2, lomba mewarnai, bapak ultah ke 61 thn dgn tema bertani wkwk, wisata dirgantara, hari guru ngasih bentuk apresiasi, peringatan 13 thn ibu meninggal, outing taman lalu lintas, akhirnya nyobain burger BBQ mountain boys!

Des: Ngayogyakarta! Pertama kali naik kereta jauh haha, lari semakin rajin lebih rajin dari bulan lalu, 30 days gratitude challenge, arisan kelas A, 6th wed anniv, husband's 34th bday, bday cupcapkes, bday treats, perdagingan bulan des, gift hunter w/ nemo, bagi raport, akhirnya ngegigs Pure Saturday ber3, libur telat tiba, hooraaay..

Tiap bulan semakin kesini semakin banyak memorinya yaa yaampun alhamdulillah memori yg di inget yg happy2 dong ahh. Walapun yg sedih2, marah, emosionalnya jg ada dong.. Akupun msh struggle dan bergelut dgn memori buruk yg kualami thn 2022 hiks..

Bulan desember belom habis btw, kita masih bisa mengukir memori InsyaAllah sampe tgl 31 hihi. Bismillah juga yaa utk tahun 2024.. Semoga segalanya semakin baik ya Allah

[pergi-lagi]

Ketika Ada Di Sini (2023)

Directed by Umay Shahab

Yang main tokoh utamanya prilly. if you need a good cry. This is definitely the one sih. APALAGI LO BELOM BISA BERDAMAI SAMA MASA LALU, THIS IS THE FUCKING ONEEEEEEE.

Alurnya ringan ga mbulet kek entut, terus jalan ceritanya oyt of the box tp yang paling utama MORAL OF THE STORY. Gue cuman mau bilang, ikhlasin cok.....

IKHLASIN YANG UDH GA ADA DI HIDUP LO 😭

Seberapa lama pun kmu menunda akan lebih sakit lama kelamaan, apa lagi kmu masih denial kl semua itu masih baik baik aja.

JANGAN SALAHIN DIRI LU SENDIRI

Apapun itu jangan nyalahin diri sendiri. Yang pasti gue tau bisa jalan, bisaaaa... semua bukan perkara ini itu, tp balik lagi disaat lo bisa ikhlas jalan terbaik adalah berdamai, dengan itu lo ga bakal nyalahin diri lu lagi di denial phase lu.

PS; selain itu sih ya, gegara film ini. Gue percaya seberapa berartinya org yg hidup dimasa lalu lu, seberapa banyak memori yang dilakukan bersama, sesulit apapun yang lo hadapi, BAKAL ADA SATU ORG YG STAY SAMA LU DAN MENERIMA APAPUN KEADAAN LU SUMPAH 😭😭😭😭✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️ YAKIN YAKIN YAKIN. LO BAKAL DICINTAI SAMA ORG YANG TEPAT WALAUPUN LO LAGI ANCUR.......

Next.... ayo move on dulu.... bisa, pasti bisa.! Lo bakal dpt yg lebih baik!

#Spotify

[queen-of-boops]

Tag Game Wednesday

Name: Mo

She: 25

Pronouns: she/her

Birthday: June 25th

Where do you call home: The American Midwest (same state of Heathers)

What do you do for work: Currently, I'm waitressing as I wait to take my Physical Therapy boards

Do you have any pets: Yup! I've got an energetic mixed breed dog named Nova who is the love of my life

Current favorite musical artist: The Band CAMINO

If you could have lunch with anyone, dead or alive, who would it be: Jim Butcher. I am obsessed with the Dresden Files and am too impatient to wait for the next one to come out

What are you wearing right now: my pjs

You're going back to school, what's your major: Well, I literally just graduated with my doctorate, so I can't see myself going back anytime soon. But if I could change what I did do, I'd study Neuroscience in undergrad instead.

Last fanfic or book you read: Er, I've been bad about keeping up with ff recently outside of prompt competitions, but I think it was Ego and Enmity: Hannah's Song by becangle.

And, finally, share a happy memory with me: Not to sound like a broken record but after 8 long years of college, I finally got my DPT last week. To say I'm excited to be done and start practicing is an understatement 🤣

Truth time, I saw @0shewrites0 tagged me in this post and typed it all out before I realized that she was tagging me for my ff (thanks love, your support means everything to me), but I'm cheated and posting this anyways.

Tagging: anyone who wants to join! But especially @aislinnstanaka and @longbobmckenzie (sorry if I'm double tagging!)

#tag games #about mo

[xamaxenta]

Nother left field memory that sucker punched me out of no where under cut bc idk i want to get it out somewhere but ill hide it bc im still ashamed of it even tho i have nothing to be ashamed of

I dont know how to describe it but i was a very nervous child with alot of academic stress with the bonus of nuclear parents breathing down my neck to ensure i was the normal kid that made them look good, i am pretty sure the year i got bad grades, like my report card came back , i was terrified of what my parents were going to say to me i experienced some sort stress anxiety hallucination where I was convinced i had watched a man jump from a building to his death

sincerely convinced it was real, the sound, the screaming

So convinced i ended up calling my mom to pick me up from the next block over sobbing and everything, like she genuinely thought something had happened to me, kind of fucked up that this was the nicest she probably ever was to me

But not for long, turns out after a few days, my dad had gone to the local police dpt and inquired if anything like this had happened

WHY he did this i wont understand, like?? What was he gonna do if it was real? Go tell the family off for scaring his kid??? Baffles me lol

But he was angry with me like youre a liar? Why did you lie about something like this ? You can go to jail for being a liar like super intimidating voice raised interrogation kind of shit

Was twelve btw. Idk how to express myself or begin explain that it felt real but deep down i knew after i calmed down it wasnt because someone mustve seen it not just me etc, logically deep down i knew it hadnt been real but at the time of whatever that was it did feel and look and sound real

I didnt want to be punished for lying so i stubbornly stuck to “what i saw”

My parents didnt pause to consider that i may have needed to see a psych or smthing lol they just kept bringing this “episode” up at random times for the rest of the year and getting frustrated and angrywhen i kept telling them the same answer i know what i saw im not a liar

I know the events werent true thankfully but something about my parents totally ignoring the fact that i had been experiencing something really intense (regarding. My fear of failure and their aggressive reaction to that failure) made me want to continue “lying” to them because i wasnt able to safely tell them maybe i needed help because they wouldnt have believed me

They still got angry at me for my bad grades though

#xam scream #but not the bonkers lind #kind* #like word vomit my feelings oversharing tmi kind

[mountmortar]

(I hope this is at least somewhat comprehensible- time travel is convoluted and I'm unfortunately not smart enough to fully wrap my head around it)

I remember a while ago you made a post about the idea of Lucas not getting sent back to modern day Sinnoh and instead living out the rest of his life in Hisui, and that got me Thinking- what if that causes some butterfly effect where Lucas is never born and isn't around during the events of DPPt?

Like. the events of the games go on as normal, but Lucas just isn't There. Maybe Rowan makes an offhand comment about how things in the lab would be easier if he had an assistant to help him, or his little sister tells Dawn how nice it is to be an only child and not have to worry about any siblings, but other than that, there are basically no traces of this boy

So, considering Dawn is a protagonist, I feel like she has this feeling that something's... off? She feels like someone who should be here is just missing, and it feels weird to her. She tries to voice this to the others who are like "??? What are you talking about? Everyone's here lmao", so she ends up just shrugging it off and going about her day.

However, some time after the events of DPt, Dawn's going through one of those Late Night Research Rabbit Holes ™ and stumbles across a picture of the Galaxy Team. She can't explain it, but something about the boy named 'Lucas' (or 'Rei'?) feels familiar to her. She shows the picture to a few people to get their input, but their answers about him being the one to save Hisui and all that doesn't satisfy her, so she's just kind of left with this weird feeling of KNOWING who that boy is, but not being able to put her finger on exactly who he is...

Hi I just woke up and my mind's a bit foggy but I couldn't get this out of my head. Anyways how are you?

i've been wondering for however long ago this was sent why my inbox said it has an ask in it but there was no ask appearing when i opened the inbox. nice to finally be able to read it! BUT OMG THIS IS SUCH A FUN IDEA!!!!!! and you have to wonder, right—what happens to the timeline if dawn manages to bring him back? because this would be a timeline where he never existed, so i think everything would either have to rewrite itself so that he DID exist or. lucas would just be coming back to a world that doesn't know him. which is made even more alienating by the fact that HE remembers his life as he once lived it, HE remembers things like being professor rowan's assistant, but everyone else (except maybe dawn, after getting to the bottom of everything/fixing her memories somehow) just. doesn't. SUCH a fun idea

#asks

[fayeandknight]

Forte is officially no longer in training as I am promoting him to full Service Dog!

I'm too tired to go in depth but he absolutely rocked it today at the memorial car and truck show. (Held in honor of my cousin.)

He ignored people who just the night before he was thrilled to love on. He chilled in the sea of people, cars, and general commotion. He alerted to a hr spike and got me down to do DPT only a few feet away from a live band. And despite being at a car and truck show filled with vehicles and three and a half hours of walking around, lead me straight to my car when I asked him to.

I felt more at ease being at a big event than I have in a long time. I trusted him to behave and task appropriately and he proved himself to be a professional.

It's been a long journey with ups and downs but I kept my belief that we'd make it this day. And through hard work and his unflagging spirit here we are. I am so proud of him and us and grateful for every single person who cheered us on.

#dogblr #forte #belgian tervuren #psychiatric service dog #service dog #he's a good egg #he alerted only a few minutes after that video #and while he was doing dpt one of my cousin's and her three daughters arrived #he never once lost focus on his tasking even while the kids were running around and my cousin was crouched down talking to me #we are both going to take a well deserved nap

[dirty-pretty-jackal-s]

misseviewray

Flashback Friday.. circa 15/16 years ago on Primrose Hill filming the Wondering music video with

@carlbarat78

#goodtimes 🎸

#dirtyprettythings #carlbarat #music #memories #primrosehill #London

#londonlife #flashbackfriday #Friday #band #dpt #Wondering #nme

#musicvideo #filming #thosewerethedays #timeflies

#carl barat #carlos barat #♠ Dirty Pretty Things ♠

[lilyrosey]

kdg² kluarga sndri pun x pham mcmna prasaan sakitnya hati bila kena pkul dgn adik bradik sdr. Sbgi seorang yg pernh mnjd anak bungsu , sy lah y slalu kena pkul msa kecil .walaupun salah sikit kena pkul sdah , lagi² klu ksi tggi suara trs pang!!! paling sy x boleh terima slalu pkulan d kpla lah sy dpt . bla sy teriak kesakitan sy jg y kena marah balik . Tuhan sja y tau betapa byk sumpah seranah sy bagi sama org y sy gelar "ABANG" . Sy keji ,maki, sy terbyg dia eksiden ,dia mati. sbgitu bencinya sy sama dia dlu. Bila kena sentuh sj mmg sy teriak² sdah , kluarga pun ckp ,"kenapalah kalau pgg" . tapi diorg x tau btapa benci, sakitnya diri sy x mau kena pgg sma dia. Sampailah bila lahir 2 org adik dibwh sy , mmg jrg sdah la sy jdi sasaran sbb ada target baru sda kan. Sy rasa sbgi adik yg slalu kena pkul dlu , sy sja yg paham mcmna perasaan 2 org adik sy tidakmau dekat ataupun kena pgg pun dgn dia. Sekian lama sy x kena naik tangan , harini sy kena pkul cuma disebabkn sy kasi turun kucing yg dia letak di atas siling. Pehhh rasa panas pipi. Terus smua memori pahit sy masa dlu trs sy igt . HAHAHAHAJAHAHAHHA sy pikir sy okey , tp tidak. sbb nyatanya skrg sy menaip smbil menangis. Sakit hati sy masih terasa , sampai skrg. dan dendam sy , sy rasa masih belum hilang.

[ummuruman]

_#RuangBerbagi_

*SEDIH KARENA EMOSI TIDAK TERKENDALI MENGHADAPI ANAK*

By. M. Nadhif Khalyani

*Pertanyaan :*

_Assalamu'alaikum._ Ustadz, izin bertanya ust. Bagaimana cara agar bisa bersabar seutuhnya dlm menghadapi anak2 ust? Setiap hari bertekad utk menjadi lebih lembut dalam tutur dan sikap tp sering pula gagal dlm kenyataannya.

Tetap saja saya masih jengkel ketika anak berulah. Masih susah utk sabar ketika dihadapkan dg tingkah anak2 yg padahal hrsnya bisa dihadapi dg penuh rasa bahagia.

Kenapa ya ust? _Kenapa masih mendidik anak sya spt saya dididik oleh ortu dulu._ Padahal tdk ada lg hal apapun yg mengganjal dihati terhdp ortu selain rasa syg dan rasa syukur menjadi bagian dr mereka.

Apa yg mesti saya lalukan ust biar kelembutan itu menjadi karakter yg kuat dlm diri sy bukan mood2an? Yg sabar itu menjadi tak berbatas biar dpt pahala tnp batas? Biar menjadi ibu yg tidak menorehkan luka dalam masa pengasuhan dan pendidikan anak2? 🥹🙏🏻🙏🏻

*Jawaban :*

_Wa'alaykumussalam_

Ngapunten bu. Ini salah konsep.

_Bagaimana cara sy bersabar, bagaimana cara mengendalikan diri?_

Kalimat ini justru akan menjebak kita. Krn asal muasal dari kalimat tsb adalah _hal negatif yang menjadi *pusat perhatian*_

Paham maksudnya?

Semakin kita fokus ke hal tsb, semakin sulit lepas, karena kita berhadapan dg 2 fakta diri kita : _pertama_ memori negatif yg blm selesai, _kedua_ fakta tentang anak-anak berulah setiap hari.

Rata-rata, para ibu dan ayah akan berpikir gimana caranya bisa sabar.

Hal ini justru membuat lelah. Karena kita akan menyalahkan diri sendiri saat tdk sabar.

Juga, menyalahkan diri sendiri saat anak semakin nakal, atau semakin tidak terkendali.

Yang benar adalah _BAGAIMANA CARANYA AGAR TETAP BERSYUKUR, SELALU MENDOAKAN KEBAIKAN, DAN MENGUNDANG RAHMAT ALLOH?_ dalam kondisi yang tidak ideal, menurut kita.

Rahmat Alloh, syukur, doa tetap bisa kita lakukan dalam segala keadaan.

Sadarilah bahwa, biasanya Doa justru semakin kuat saat kondisi tidak ideal. Ini hal besar yang terlewatkan.

Dan satu hal terpenting : masa depan anak tidak hanya ditentukan oleh kalem dan sabarnya kita saat mendidiknya.

Tetapi yang menentukan adalah rahmat Alloh yang hadir untuk mereka

Jadi jangan terlalu fokus berupaya _"berdamai dg diri sendiri",_ jangan fokus pada _"menundukkan emosi"._

Tetapi fokuslah melipatgandakan amal sholeh, doa, bersyukur kepada Alloh.

Marah boleh masih ada, tetapi lipatgandakan doa untuk anak-anak. Sebut nama mereka dalam doa jauh lebih banyak

Sedih boleh masih ada, tp tambahkan sedekah, sholat malam dst.

Suatu saat nanti ibu akan lihat, anak-anak tumbuh dengan baik, in syaa Alloh. Meskipun kita punya banyak kekurangan

_Kok bisa?_

Karena yang punya hidayah dan rahmat bukan kita, tetapi Alloh yang maha sempurna.

Dan rahmat itu tetap bisa hadir, meskipun kita punya banyak kelemahan diri.

Ingatlah, jangan sampai batin kita berburuk sangka bahwa rahmat Alloh tidak bisa "menjangkau" anak-anak.

Rahmat Alloh luas...

Bismillah.

Semangat, semoga Alloh mudahkan

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[adamidyrazlan]

Mak dah pandai tgk FB memories pastu share kt messenger 😂

Okla tiba2 dpt tgk gmbr baby Haris 🥹

"Ala baby baby, baby 🎶"

[naturecoaster]

Bob Metz Day in Floral City to be January 13

Saturday, January 13, will be a day devoted to a pillar of the Floral City community. Please join the community in celebrating “Bob Metz Day in Floral City” with a cake cutting at 11:30 am on the grounds of the Historic Duval-Metz House, located at the corner of Orange Ave/CR 48 and Old Floral City Road. The Historic House will be open for tours guided by members of the Fort Cooper Chapter of the Daughters of the American Revolution from 10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. without charge. Members of the DAR are a Support Group to the Duval Preservation Trust, Inc., (DPT). The Trust is the owner and operator of this house, considered to be the oldest remaining residency in Citrus County. Bob Metz Day in Floral City to be January 13 at the Duval-Metz House Bob Metz – soon to celebrate his 94th birthday - represents one of the four generations of the Metz family who made this house their home for 75 years, before it was purchased in 2011 by the DPT. Bob has contributed his experience and talent to that preservation process and has further contributed by writing “Memories of Growing up in the Duval House.” Also, recently he wrote a second book of “Memories of Growing Up in Floral City and Citrus County.” Bob is generously donating all revenue from these books to the operating fund of the Duval Preservation Trust, Inc., a non-profit organization formed to preserve and operate this property. Another purpose is to further the public's knowledge of the Native Americans who lived here and the early frontiersmen who settled here. Their plans move forward as donations are received. Bob was always an adventurer. He hunted, fished, explored and invented. He helped a friend make the first water skis used on the Floral City pool of Lake Tsala Apopka, he built and restored classicautomobiles, trucks, boats, and even an airplane. He was a woodworker, and a cabinet maker and he reproduced half of the window frames for the restoration of the Historic House. The public is invited to come visit the Historic Duval-Metz House and to learn some details of living in the house and Floral City from the 1930s-40s from his books which will be available and that he will be happy to sign at the event. Most importantly, let us congratulate Bob Metz on his longevity, his many accomplishments, and his contributions to Floral City and Citrus County. For more information call [phone] or [phone]. Read the full article

[rockrzone]

Buku "Filofosi Teras"

Pesimisme defensif: memikirkan risiko-risiko kegagalan justru membantu orang utk mengantisipasi faktor penyebabnya.

Zeno sering mengajar filosofi di teras (stoa).

Penganut stoa: Epictetus (budak yg akhirnya dimerdekakan), Zeno (pedagang), Seneca (politikus), Marcus Aurelius (kaisar Roma).

Paradoks Socrates: tdk ada perbuatan jahat krn semua org pasti mengambil keputusan yg plg menguntungkan bg dirinya. Contoh: maling yg mencuri utk berjudi adl perbuatan baik bg si pelaku krn baginya berjudi menyenangkan.

Seneca: Sukacita terdalam adalah yang berasal dari diri sendiri (inner joys). Tujuan kebahagiaan adl hidup dlm tenang, bebas dr emosi negatif. Bagi saya, kebahagiaan dari dalam sendiri ttp harus memiliki stimulus. Org tdk bisa menjalani hidup yg biasa2 saja setiap hari tanpa merasa bosan. Bosan adl sifat alami manusia yg membuat kita terus menambah kualitas sendiri. Kebahagiaan dr diri sendiri adl ketika saya berhasil menguasai konsep baru, memenangkan lomba menulis, membuat tulisan dll. Semua sumber kebahagiaan tsb memang tdk murni dr dlm diri sendiri, tp setidaknya saya tdk menggantungkan kebahagiaan pd variabel yg sepenuhnya di luar kendali. Misal: mendpt warisan milyaran, mendpt mutasi bagus, mendpt atasan yg enak, ingin dipuji, dll.

Konsepnya adl hidup selaras dg alam (in accordance with nature), artinya harus hidup nalar dan membedakannya dg binatang. Artinya dlm keadaan emosi, nalar dan rasio harus didahulukan agar tdk membuat keputusan keliru krn menuruti ego.

Butterfly effect: kepakan kupu-kupu di Brazil dpt mengakibatkan tornado di Texas. Semua yg telah terjadi timbul dr suatu rangkaian kejadian. Tidak ada gunanya melawan "kehendak alam".

Epictetus: "Hal-hal yg ada di bawah kendali bersifat merdeka, tidak terikat, tidak terhambat; tetapi hal yg tdk di bawah kendali kita bersifat lemah, bagai budak, terikat, dan milik org lain."

Trikotomi kendali: fokus pada proses yg bisa dikendalikan alih-alih pada hasil yg tdk bisa dikendalikan dan bergantung pada variabel eksternal.

Seneca: "Manusia yg menahan dirinya utk hidup dalam batas Alam, tidak akan merasakan miskin. Sebaliknya, manusia yg melewati batas-batas ini akan terus dikejar kemiskinan." Org yg ditentukan bergaji 10 juta/bulan tdk seharusnya mencari uang-uang sampingan yg melanggar sumpah jabatan sehingga bertentangan dg alam dan rasio. Org2 seperti ini tdk akan merasa kaya dan akan terus menjustifikasi perbuatannya krn perbuatannya bertentangan dg alam. "Jika kita hidup menuruti pendapat orang, kau tidak akan pernah kaya."

Suatu fenomena selalu bersifat objektif, akan tetapi persepsi subjektif kita yang membuatnya bernilai positif/negatif. Karena persepsi masuk dlm dikotomi internal, maka kita memiliki kekuatan utk mengubah persepsi kapan pun juga.

Langkah STAR ketika merasakan emosi negatif: Stop, Think & Assess, Respond.

Alasan kenapa tdk boleh lebay dlm menghadapi emosi negatif: 1. Emosi negatif adl hal yang berulang sepanjang sejarah manusia. Ditipu, kehilangan barang, kena marah? Itu adl fenomena yg berulang selama ribuan tahun sejarah manusia. Gak usah lebay! 2. Masalahmu itu sangat kecil dibanding kelaparan di Afrika, konflik di Palestina, ekonomi yg tdk merata, dll. Overview effect: perasaan astronot yang melihat dari ketinggian bahwa manusia saling terhubung (interconnected). 3. Semua akan terlupakan. 10 tahun lagi, saya tdk akan ingat punya memori memalukan, kecuali saya yg sengaja mengungkitnya. Lagi pula, org lain pasti tdk akan peduli.

Marcus Aurelius: "Pikiran yg tdk diganggu emosi berkecamuk dl sebuah benteng, tempat berlindung terkokoh bg manusia." --> The mind as inner citadel.

Senecea: "Kita lebih menderita dalam pikiran dibandingkan di kenyataan." --> 85% of What We Worry Never Happens.

Premiditatio malorum: mirip seperti imunisasi, bayangkan hal2 negatif yg mungkin terjadi untuk mempersiapkan "kekebalan mental". Tdk sampai di situ, tujuannya adl utk mempersiapkan kemungkinan terburuk.

Fokus pd solusi alih-alih emosi negatif.

Epictetus: "Kamu tdk bisa dihina, kecuali kamu yg menghina dirimu sendiri." Gunung tdk akan berkurang tingginya walau ia "diejek" pendek. Jangan balas hinaan dg hinaan --> bayangkan zombie yang menularkan "virus".

Introspeksi dulu sebelum menilai orang lain.

Marah menurut Seneca: kegilaan sementara (temporary madness).

3P berpikir destruktif yang harus dihindari: 1. Personalization: menjadikan musibah sbg kesalahan pribadi. 2. Pervasiveness: melabeli musibah di satu aspek tersebar ke seluruh aspek hidup. 3. Permanence: menganggap musibah terjadi selamanya.

Berlatih menderita (practice poverty) utk melawan hedonic adaptation --> setelah 18 bulan, pemenang lotre tdk lebih bahagia dr org biasa.

Epictetus: domba tdk memuntahkan rumput utk memperlihatkan brp byk rumput yg ia cerna. Alih-alih, domba yg produktif akan menghasilkan susu dan bulu.