Source: Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist - How to End Drama and Get On with Life
The second chapter talks more about the Caretaker role. An excerpt:
Being a Caretaker to a [borderline personality/narcissist] is equivalent to being a full-time, unpaid therapist even though the [borderline personality/narcissist] is an adult who should be caring for him- or herself. [They] need you to nurture, need you to listen, be caring and concerned, take responsibility for negative feelings, and create a world that is no longer scary.
I got a 175 (Self-Defeater). What did you get?