#gay terms

[ix-c-999]

gayroleic

A roleic term for a system member whose role, status, or experience as a system member involves gayness/being gay/gay identity in some way. This can involve being: -an identity holder for a gay identity -a trauma holder for trauma related to being gay -a headmate with a role that involves processing feelings related to being gay -a love holder whose feelings are gay However, it can involve anything.

[This post has no DNI other than not to involve it in discourse, mockery, or other harassment]

#.txt #[venn] #[vyvian] #gayroleic #gay terms #roleic #plural terms #plural coining #system coining #systerms #pride flags #our pride flags #our content #our coining

[feralthembo]

I am BEGGING yall to remember that "gay panic" means "i killed this person because theyre gay so you cant jail me for it" and NOT "UwU too gay to function"

Yall CANNOT reclaim this one please stop trying

#like i get it u want to take power from oppressors or whatever but using this jokingly will alienate other queers in ur life #i cannot trust anyone who doesnt know the severity of the term gay panic

[mayvette]

ijbol

#adventure time #finn mertens #princess bubblegum #marceline #marceline abadeer #at #bubbline #mayvart #disclaimer i dont think finn is straight j think hes stupid and doesnt know gay can also be used as an umbrella term

[just-your-average-tangerine]

The line between binary and nonbinary trans people is nowhere near as clean as some of yall think it is

#transgender #trans #nonbinary #like i guess i would be considered a 'binary' trans man #i wouldnt consider myself that for two reasons #first because the idea that gender is binary is bullshit to begin with so why would i identify within it #and second because i am a man only in that i am a gay man #i dont identify outside of manhood im terms of gender #but my gender is so linked to my sexuality that it cant be neatly tracked onto a binary view of 'man' #but because i am a man other consider me 'binary' regardless of how i feel about it #and yet will still refuse to use he/him pronouns in favor of exclusively using they/them #but thats a different discussion #op

[pumpk1nheadguy]

Born to be an ursaring forced to be a buizel

I even do that ursaring smile

#text #I feel old but for anyone wondering buizels are like short not heavy set guys average but also hairy #ursarings are bigger bigset guys who're also hairy #gay terms

[crispyliza]

When people say "I don't want my child to be exposed to LGBTQ+ media because it will turn them gay" they actually mean "I don't want my child to be exposed to LGBTQ+ media because it might help them realize that they're gay".

#just a thought I had #lgbtq #gay rights #lesbian #trans #gay #bisexual #homophobia #crispy talks #queer #nonbinary #asexual #aromantic #ace #pansexual #genderqueer #genderfluid #agender #i used the word gay bc homophobes/terfs etc tend to use it as an umbrella term for everything lgbtq related

[deerspherestudios]

HII!! I LOVE YOUR WORK SO MUCH <33 So, I know Mycheal is asexual but people are asexual for many reasons. What is the reason for Mycheal being asexual?

He just is! 🍄❤️

#mushroom oasis vn #mychael ask #doodles #i understand the question came from a good place but its just funny to me hahaha! #uno reverse of “why are you gay” #plus its only one aspect of his character #in terms of his biology theres somewhat a reason why #he just doesnt biologically procreate #nor is he interested #hes still panromantic!

[ennas-aesthetic]

I do appreciate Neil Gaiman and Terry Pratchett who took one look at this fucker and said, "what if he's pathetic and gay for the Angel that guarded The Gate of Eden, actually?" And the world was never the same since 🙏🏽

#good omens #good omens 2 #ineffable husbands #Crowley #neil gaiman #also when i say gay i mean in an umbrella term way 😭🙏🏽

[toastywindow]

GUYS!!! GUYS!!!!!!!!! THERES GONNA BE A WEEEEDDDING!!!!!!!!!!

#andre talks #ofmd #yeah theres like a sea term for it but i dont remember right now cause i am EXCITED!!!!! #our flag means death #our flag meets death #our flag means gay #our flag means fanart #our flag means love #black pete #lucius spriggs #lucius ofmd #lupete #ofmd s2 #ofmd spoilers #ofmd season 2 #ofmd 2

[inkskinned]

pay attention to how your partner values your time.

i mean this beyond things like how much time you spend at work or how often you answer their text messages.

if you spend hours getting ready for them, do they value that effort? if you plan a meal and do all the shopping and prep and cooking for it, is it just dinner for them? do they notice the small chores you're always doing, or does it just magically "get done" when they're not looking? do they notice when you've spent time for them, or is it just something that is expected to happen?

my ex understood our relationship as some kind of credit service. he would do something large and nice for me maybe once or twice a season - and then "collect" on that credit for a while. my time was not as valuable as his - i was expected to give up my time for things like the upkeep of our relationship, chores, everything. even though i was in school and employed (and honestly doing more than he was), he assumed my time couldn't be better spent. he used to say i was just "better" at the daily stuff. he was my first longterm boyfriend - i hadn't been taught it. it didn't come naturally. it's just that if i didn't do it, he valued his time too much to do it for me.

recently i saw a video of a man smashing a cake into his new wife's face after she explicitly asked him not to. i'm glad that these days, most people don't find it funny. but still, someone comments: girl, just wipe it off and jump back into the party! but the fact of the matter is - even if it wiped off perfectly, even if the makeup only took a few minutes to reapply, even if the dress wasn't ruined by the oil in the icing - she would have to spend time away from her own wedding in order to do it. her new husband - he gets to laugh and sit around and party. she has to leave her loved ones and go be alone to handle the results of his prank. it might be the only day she gets to see some of these people; but that time spent (the makeup, the dress) is just valued less. it's seen as inconsequential.

just... pay attention. is it normal for you to give up your time, but they wouldn't reciprocate? do they consider their hobbies essential while yours are just "useless ways to fill the day"? is going out with their friends a hallowed event that must not be interrupted - but at the same time, you find that you're punished for or banned from similar events. do you do most of the upkeep? do you trust that if you needed to take a break, they'd absolutely pick up the weight? if you spend time and energy and effort on something, is that valued; or is it just a thursday to them.

#just thinkin #good luck out there #while yes this is a gendered phenomenon i wanted to talk about it #in terms of relationships #bc tbh it's a relationship dynamic that can exist in any relationship #and like. gay pll exist #u can experience this in a gay relationship

[em0-opossum]

"can I be [x gender] if I..." "can I still call myself [x term] if..." yes. yes. if you like the term then use it. do whatever you want forever. labels are just little words we use to categorize our infinitely complex existential experiences on this floating rock !! no two people who use the same label are going to experience it the same way and that's the beauty of it !! use "contradictory" labels, use labels that don't make sense to anyone, change your label every day or not at all, explore anything and everything, use no labels at all or every label under the sun, confuse people or correct them or let them assume things rather than explaining, I promise nothing other people think about your identity is worth your happiness !!

#ofc there are some situations where this does not apply (ex: terms connected to a specific culture or race such as 2 spirit) #but in general people need to be more chill about labels #lesbian #nonbinary #bigender #lgbtq+ #gay #trans #multigender #trans joy #asexual #aromantic #bisexual #queer #demiboy #demigirl #2 spirit #pansexual #demisexual #too tired to tag all the genders and sexualities and other things i can think of but yeah

[sol-insidious]

Behold, more Clan of Three in the Peanuts universe~!! 🥜

(Closeups Below!)

I felt like Snoopy!Din would look like a mix between a poodle and a terrier, a skilled vermin-hunting dog who was still floofy. I think a white beagle fits Luke perfectly though, so I kept that iconic Snoopy look for him 🐶

And Grogu is Woodstock because of course he is 💕

#star wars #the mandalorian #dinluke #luke skywalker #din djarin #grogu #clan of three #skydalorian #snoopy #peanuts #star wars au #sol draws the space gays #sir that helmet is far too small and spherical for your legume-shaped head #btw no I am not procrastinating on my term paper shut up #omigod this was so fun to draw

[just-me-screamin-42]

my favourite part of s3 is where diego just decides that klaus is the cool fun uncle, not the guy who can throw you two stories high and lived on the moon, or the teleporting one with time travelling stories, but the gay recovering addict with a fashion sense set in every decade at once that sees dead people and died like 58 times

#tua s3 #tua spoilers #tua s3 spoilers #the umbrella academy #im using gay as an umbrella term i know he’s pan #hehe umbrella term

[vampiremotif]

sorry to all other ships but silverflint is absolutely unbeatable. the only ship that i can think of off the top of my head that actually gets ruined if it ever got consummated. they’re both obsessed with each other but wildly repressed about it at the same time. silver thinks that flint is controlling the weather with his mind once. silver at one point becomes meta aware of the fact that everyone that gets close to flint eventually fucking dies. this. does not deter him. they betray each other but are loyal about it. a scene of them killing a shark is the most nerve wrecking scene in the whole show but gets collectively called “shark date” by the fandom. flint. during all this. is gay

#🦇 #gay as an umbrella term before bi flint truthers attack me #black sails #silverflint

[hellrobin]

pretty sure it’s a rule that if ur blonde and in the dc universe ur gay

#or bi pan etc #gay is umbrella term #but bffr. kara and cassie and cissie and steph. come on #dc #shush esme #kara danvers #cissie king jones #cissiecassie #cassie sandsmark #stephkara #stephanie brown #karacassie

[firefox-official]

I have a hard time believing your 19, I figured you'd be a guy in his late 20s with two dogs or a cat and either gay or super homophobic

gay and homophobic and a college student hashtag young and lithe

#gay is an umbrella term here