Nancy: I guess I tend to force myself to reject people right when I meet them so they can’t reject me first…it’s bad I know, but I’m just scared of what people might think or- or say
(What y’all think? Good line or should I trash it?)
I thought it might be interesting to make Nancy actually be insecure after the whole “Nancy the slut Wheeler” thing that happened, rather than just never really acknowledging it, because to be honest those things do have an impact on people.
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guys wtf do i do he said he was gonna shave his head in the summer and there's nothing i can do to change his mind
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Tldr/ planning for video and spiraling over how to ask people if I can show their tumblr posts in a YouTube video
So fun fact I have a lot of social anxiety and I also don’t plan things ahead enough! Next week I’m covering tumblr 2023 memes. Last year when my channel was a lot smaller I took screenshots of memes as examples always sure to keep the username which I thought was enough information for people to find the og post (crediting the creator and all that) but now 100k+ subs later and I feel that I should really reach out to the creators of the posts I want to present! So I’m going to do that….. but I’m scared?? Does the message “hi I’m working on a video covering 2023 memes and was wondering if your post (link of post) could be shown in my video! I’ll of course keep your username in and link your tumblr in a pinned comment if you accept. If you don’t I completely understand” DOES THAT SOUND GOOD????? I DONT WANT TO BE PUSHY
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Opinions?
I‘m honestly torn as to whether I should read omniscient reader’s viewpoint or lord of the mysteries first.
Which one do you all consider better?
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ADVICE PLEASE 🚨
My TC Is Moving Schools At The End Of The School Year (30 Days). I Want To Talk To Him Badly, But I’m 17. I Turn 18 In December And I Want To Know If It’s Really That Wrong To Write Him A Card, Expressing How Much I Appreciated Having Him As A Teacher, And Then Putting My Number At The Bottom.
Is This A Logical Idea? I Don’t Think He Would Report It If He Wasn’t Into Me, But The Fear Is There. I’m Praying He Either Texts, Or Laughs It Off 😬
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TW vent abt some ableist shit i got hit with today (maybe?) i need advice
This is a genuine question to every disabled person on this app cause idk if i'm the one going insane, but basically i was sitting at lunch with some friends today, and this other girl i didn't know (jessica for the sake of online privacy) started talking to me.
Then she pointed out my hearing aids (signa, they're pretty discrete but are visible) and asked about them.
So i explained my disease and my nervous damage and whatnot... (i'm hard of hearing, as in 80% loss in my left ear, 70% in the other)
She then told me she related to me, and for a second i genuinely thought she was either deaf or hoh... BITCH I WAS SO WRONG
She told me that during this summer she went scuba diving and water got stuck behind her eardrum. (she has no issues now, she recovered 100%)
So she knew how i felt, she then went on a tangent about how hard it is to lose your hearing.
???
Is it wrong that this pisses me off??? Like you can't relate to me?? You barely understand what it's like to lose you hearing.
So uh yeah, this feels so weird to say to someone who's disabled, like idk, to me it feels like telling someone who's lost a leg that you relate to them bc you broke your leg.
Yeah anyways, am i being dramatic? Cause i feel like i'm justified but it could be coming from a nice place?
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only read more if you're NOT my mom. this is about the gift, so seriously mom don't look
okay guys. so. my parents recently split up, and I'm living with my mom. My mom only knows how to cook like four things, and they're all "stick em in the oven for 45 minutes and they're done!" style cooking. I remembered seeing a post talking about the Sad Bastard Cookbook, for those with low spoons- aka, cookbook with a fantastic sense of humor, requires very little effort, and has pretty decent results. I think she'd love it if I gave it to her as a Christmas present.
Here's the conundrum- the PDF for this cookbook is free, zero dollars. The printed version is sixteen dollars new. Obviously I don't want to spend sixteen dollars on something I can get for free, but I know my mom would both appreciate it more and use it much more often if she didn't have to go to her computer for "every" (like three per) step.
So, physical's the way to go, right? Well, maybe not. My mom used to bind her fanfics herself, back when she had these hundred-page-long fics. She's got binders full of pure fic (which, turns out, actually just mostly smut). So the other option is, I take advantage of her paper and ink while she's at work and print it all- here's hoping she's got enough ink- and print it all, hole punch, and bind. I'm willing to do that, but I will not do it happily, and it'll be mediocre at best.
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Okay, so I need some help from the trans people of tumblr. Maybe advice is the better word.
How do I come out to my family?
I know I can’t just, show up in a skirt or dress.
So what do I do?
Note, my family consists of conservative Catholics. They are my Aunt, Mom, Grandmother, and Grandfather (plus two little cousins but they aren’t the ones I’m as worried about)
My aunt is fairly neutral I would say, particularly for being a conservative she is just kinda doesn’t care (according to her word) about gay people
My mom is mostly unknown, but generally against lgbtq
My grandma is completely unknown, but assumed to be between my mom and grandad on anti-lgbtq level
My grandad fucking hates lgbtq with a passion
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I have a group of 7 dear friends who I met online in 2010. we originally bonded over HP and we speak every single day. I’ve met two of them in real life, and they’re all lovely people.
they know I write fanfic but I’ve never shared my account with them or let them read anything I’ve written - not for any particular reason other than wanting to keep separate parts of my life separate, and feeling a bit weird about them reading my handful of E-rated fics. and I guess worrying that I’ll feel restricted in some way when writing fics in the future knowing that they’ll potentially all see them.
they’ve always respected all this but one of them said today that she’d really love to read my stuff, and now I’m like, should I just share my ao3 and tumblr with them all and let them have at it?
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hii!! i need some mythology advice ‼️
for anyone interested in norse mythology: do you have any recommendations on where to properly get your knowledge on it? i’d love any recommendations/links for books, websites, content creators, or anything you’ve found useful as a way to create a foundation of knowledge on the mythology, as i really wanna properly learn all of it but i’m not sure exactly how to go about it in an organised way 😭
i’ve done a bit of research on certain norse gods and know a few random facts but i’d really love to know it all in more detail if possible.
( @kurt-does-tarot tagging cuz ik you have some knowledge on this but if you don’t/don’t wanna share that’s totally fine too!! 🫶)
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Ok how the fuck do I put clothes on this bitch
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I’m being brave and thinking of writing my first smut in response to a request, I need tips guys! Please help me.
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A message to all my other beautiful writers out there, I need some advice.
Okay so, my WIP Into the Phantasm. I love Into the Phantasm. I really do. There’s so many amazing parts to it that I always think about and can’t wait to write… But my god, this series can be so fucking difficult sometimes… It’s my first real WIP and I was younger and more naive when I started it, and now that I’m better at writing, I can just see so many problems and things that don’t make sense and I have no idea how to fix them. I still really wanna keep working on it, iron out all the issues and get to those parts of the story and character developments that make me so glad I started it… but imma be real, my other book ideas are lookin REAL nice right about now…
Like, I could spend hours fixing this glaring plot contrivance in book 3 that all stems from the existence of a damn cave, I shit you not, or I could start working on one of my newer ideas that I already know I’d enjoy writing a lot more and it’s getting increasingly difficult to choose the former.
Idk, maybe I just need to shut up and get on with it but motivation is harder to find now. Any advice?
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It was my last day at work today (I work Saturdays cause I don’t work Mondays) before I had a few days off for Christmas and one of my friends said they saw my boyfriend at a jewelry shop.
Now normally this wouldn’t really mean anything to me cause it’s Christmas time, what worries me is that we’ve been together for 5 years (celebrated on oct.23) and I’m worried it’s for something else (engagement ring) cause he never gets me jewelry.
I’m not worried cause I don’t wanna marry him but the fact that marriage is like so scary also I HATE big extravagant diamond rings there way to much for me and I don’t think they look good on me.
IDK let me know what you think this means cause I’m at a loss for words and I’m stressing out and worry about something that might not even happen. Your help will be greatly appreciated 😽😽🌷🌷🪽🪽
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I'm freaking out again...
So I've got a crush on one of my friends again, and I think they might actually like me back?? One of our mutual friends keeps telling me that they do, but I'm not sure. I'm just gonna dump my thoughts here, and if anyone can help me, please do.
Evidence that they do like me:
They held my hand when I asked them to (Ikr, I was so bold) and didn't let go until we got back to class
They used my thigh as a pillow?? Idk if this counts but I'm still putting it here.
They get really flustered when we joke-flirt but don't ask me to stop.
They "curled up into a ball of embarrassment" when asked if they liked me. I was not in the room, but this was via a trusted friend.
They let me rest my head on their shoulder and almost fall asleep using them as a pillow.
My friend says that they like me.
Idk how valid most of these are, but anyway.
Evidence that they do NOT like me:
most of these could be platonic
They didn't say no when asked if they liked me, but they also didn't say yes.
they get embarrassed about everything.
Guys, please help Idk what I'm doing and I'm scared of messing our friendship up.
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DnD DM's of tumblr: how tf do you come up with a campaign. I have no idea what I'm doing plz help
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