#ill tag the canon ships ive seen where the mother is erased

[jobros-pleaseinteract]

why is it that every time someone ships two male characters together (and one of them canonically has a child) instead of being fucking normal and leaving that kid out of their headcanons or, i don’t know, have coparenting, they either just completely erase the mother and make the child their ship’s child or (as in a post i just saw about Teddy Lupin) make her a surrogate like no she’s the child’s actual fucking mother stop erasing her or downplaying the importance she has in making that child like??? make a fucking OC??

anyways moral of story is if one half of your ship has a child, either dont fucking touch the child or treat the mother with some basic respect thank you

#ally has thots #im not gonna tag any ship because thats just poking the bear but... yikes #ill tag the canon ships ive seen where the mother is erased #pepperony #tonks x lupin #idk their ship name im sorry