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s-sinch · 2 years
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I chose silence. Everytime.
- Sinch
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infjpaladin · 1 year
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Got it from INFJ Refuge on Facebook 😅🤣
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epiphaniiii · 2 years
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My longing weeps for everything. My longing shoots back at me, to kill or to be killed.
-Mahmoud Darwish, Fewer Roses 1986
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animehideout · 3 months
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Your MBTI, Your Relationship With JJK Characters Part 1
a/n: I had this random idea, describing what relationship you would have with JJK Characters depending on your MBTI, in my opinion ofc, so it's not necessarily true!! 🫶🏻
Requests are open 💌
( ISFJ + INTJ )
PART 2
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ISFJ:
Yuuji Itadori = Boyfriend
Like the sun and the moon, you both complete each other. He consistently admires your dedication to protect him and prioritize his well-being. He's the type who cares for others more than himself so finding someone ( You ) who places him first, warms his heart and makes him feel special. He often encourages you to step out of your comfort zone. Yuuji brings enthusiasm that lights up your world, and infuses joy into your life. In return, you bring peace and tranquility and comfort (100% your relationship would last forever).
Megumi Fushiguro = Soulmate.
Both of you share many qualities making you almost identical. The most prominent one is your dedication to protect others and loved ones and that what drew you closer and formed your soulmate bond. Your bond is full of strong sense of loyalty support and commitment, always having each other's backs. Together you maintain a balanced atmosphere. Your bond remains entirely platonic.
Choso Kamo = Bestfriend
He considers you as a family member. You don't need words to understand each other, you spend a lot of time together so it became easy for you to read each other like an open book. Comfortable silence is cherished given your shared quiet nature. You always make sure to make each other feel included in everything whether they are family gatherings or normal hangouts. You always stand by each other through highs and lows. You serve as his emotional support and you find in him a thoughtful listener. Fostering a sense of balance in your relationship.
Mahito = Enemy
Both of you are extreme opposites, you live to protect and he lives to kill. You have an intense and hostile relationship. Mahito always has to provoke and trigger you somehow targeting your loved ones. He craves violence and he thinks you're the best opponent to have a brutal duel with. Your fights are always driven by hatred from your side and amusement from Mahito's side. Both of you always try to sabotage each other's efforts, you strive to maintain a safe environment and Mahito works on creating constant chaos tension and threat.
INTJ:
Geto Suguru = Boyfriend
Suguru is an INTJ himself, so it's like finding your other half. You have a unique and intellectual dynamics. Your relationship built on shared interests and goals and mutual appreciation of each other's qualities. Despite being independent and self-reliant you managed to create a strong bond based on encouragement, pushing each other forward to reach your goals.
Ryomen Sukuna = Enemy
You and Sukuna are alike but you lead the good side while he leads the dark side. He takes the whole rivalry thing personal, as much as he hates you and tries to kill you whenever he grasps the chance he still has a lot of respect for you. In fights both you and Sukuna always try to assert dominance. Whenever you are in the same place everyone around can feel the suffocating tension making everyone feel and unsafe. You share the same qualities however you use them to help people and Sukuna uses them to break people.
Yuta Okkotsu = Ex-boyfriend
INTJ's logical and rational thinking clashes with Yuta's emotional needs he is an emotionally dependent person who inserts feelings most of the time almost in everything. But you always depend on the power of mind overshadowing your emotions. The clash of needs results in misunderstanding leading you to break up but you're still good friends though.
Megumi Fushiguro = Bestfriend
You are the quiet and composed duo. Both of you enjoy each other's presence silently, while sitting in a comfortable silence. When you are in the mood for a discussion you often engage in intellectual chats. You enjoy staying inside doing indoor activities like reading or cooking. Hanging out together is a free therapy for both of you.
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gent-illmatic · 8 months
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A matter of time⏱
(A long af ramble)
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I don’t care how long you’ve known some people, what the bond was, if they’re relatives, part of a community, childhood friends, best work buddies etc.
Everybody isn’t meant to stay in your life!
During my spiritual journey I realized you can’t “helicopter” over the people you care about. It’s a dysfunctional love language many of us have. I wanted to support and guide my loved ones to the best of my ability. I’m known as the therapist/fixer of any friend group I’m apart of.
I’m the Olivia Pope of this shit. However, I would end up being the emotional trash bag ,while they reject every plausible solution presented. Im the person strategizing how to get them on track and distracting from my own goals to save theirs (ppl pleasing). Silently seething because not only do they seem to care very little about themselves … but also about my time and effort in supporting them! They’re turning up while I’m stressing for them.
I also realized a lot of these actions stemmed from events in my childhood, but I digress!
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Then the “Ah ha” moment hit!
They don’t owe me shit.
Why? … because it’s not my job to do that! They’re not calling for advice. They’re calling to vent. Yes, being a good listening ear is part of being a good support as well. We don’t always have to swoop in with “what you should do is…”. I also learned my actions of support make me seem like a “know it all” with good intentions. It sends signals that I don’t believe they are capable of figuring out their own issues. As if they were mentally challenged. This dynamic breaths life into resentment.
However, for people like me , that becomes exhausting after while. Loved ones complaining about the same bullshit misfortunes over & over without looking for solutions, better discernment, or to establish positive patterns/habits. Constantly returning back into the arms of what has them forever frustrated. Wanting you to hold all of their emotional and dysfunctional baggage. You are being spiritually drained!
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Especially, if you’ve done the work for your own life’s outcome! With or without therapy! You’ve put in the effort aside from your prayers. Now, you’re reaping the peaceful benefits of the investment in your life. You feel your spirit and life being led to better pastures ….It’s time to realize…
You’ve outgrown them.
it’s time to love them from afar!
The dynamic you once shared has expired/changed. The people you were in the beginning, No longer exists now. It’s no longer serving or fulfilling.
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People will always prioritize themselves (as they should). You need to make sure you do the same. Nobody will care about you more than yourself as an adult. You can care for your loved ones, and wish them well. Give them guidance if specifically asked. However, we can’t live for them or force them to take our advice! It doesn’t matter how great the quality of our advice is…. We don’t even have to experience the consequences of the advice we give them! They have the choice of what to take and what to leave! We don’t even know if we have all the facts of the scenario anyway. They have their journey and you have yours…
But….
If their dysfunctional life starts to effect yours just being in their company…you begin reaping their consequences for their choices…you notice yourself regressing … you recognize you’ve lost sight or esteem of your own life mission…
Fall back.
You are the average of the 5 closest people to you. Choose wisely!
The mental ease you receive for allowing people to “do them” and letting go is priceless. Now you have time to dedicate towards your own conquests , continue your own development, and learn from your own choices.
I’m rambling now… but one last thing
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Beware: When people notice you walking away to a better life, they may morph into your enemy. They may spill your secrets, smear you, they may not even care about your absence. If that’s the case It’s all good… some people can live in your heart but not in your life!
Keep the grass cut🌾🐍🌾
-KANAAN🌱
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simply-smiley · 4 months
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INFJ motto
Nothing is impossible for INFJ, it takes just a little bit longer to achieve.
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dead--bambi · 1 year
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poetrybyonur · 2 years
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Under all that muscle and sinew lies soft and tender parts in a vulnerable man. Only spineless men think it’s a weakness to wear their heart on their sleeve. It takes strength and character for a man to unbutton his soul and show you his tender bits. And let’s face it, women love seeing those tender parts of you that you don’t always show to everyone. It’s the new sexy.
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zaoshi · 3 months
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i set up my multi, no one wants to write with the fem characters, i blow this whole site up
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The tumblrinas would’ve loved yukihisa maki for his incredible dick game and weird obsession with mushrooms
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captainsatspeed · 2 years
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charles xavier is just like me because we are both infjs and we both want to have an intense homoerotic relationship with erik lehnsherr
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s-sinch · 2 years
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I'm always thinking. My mind is always occupied. But sometimes i stop, otherwise it'll break my heart.
- Sinch
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infjpaladin · 11 months
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notanotherinfjblog · 1 year
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Maybe they need to make a movie starring an INFJ actor as the lead in an action movie. So far, the INFJ actors in action films and tv series are there for (a) shock effect (what them, the villan? never expected it) and (b) comedic effect (omg, that stick is fighting that big dude?) Any comic book klutzes you can think of who might be suitable?
Hi anon! :)
Now I'm actually curious what movies and actors you're thinking of because all action scenes with INFJ actors that come to mind for me are Barkhad Abdi as a Somali pirate in Captain Phillips (been a while since I've watched it, but I don't recall him doing much physical stuff?) and Colin Morgan in BBC Merlin, but there he's playing someone who is supposed to be extremely bad at sword fighting etc. (though the casting in this show is very interesting and highly unusual anyway because almost every character that isn't a knight is played by an intuitive, and I have never seen a main cast with three NJ actors in it anywhere else). But there really are incredibly few INFJ actors, or NJ actors in general apart from ENTJs, and the few that are there don't seem to be particularly interested in doing action movies, or if they are, they simply don't get cast because they don't exactly embody a Tom-let's-jump-off-a-building-Cruise kind of person. And honestly - I mean, it depends on the character - but I'm not sure anyone would really want to see an INFJ as a lead in an action movie. I mean, even when it's an ENFP or ENTP that gets cast in more active roles, you always get comments of people complaining that these actors have some inherent awkwardness to them that they just can't see past, and I imagine it would be much worse for NJ actors.
And if you mean literal comic book klutzes with your last question, then I honestly don't know since I've never read any comic books. Sorry.
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mnrkls · 7 months
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"Why should i bother myself to improve myself?"
- Cuz there are things you dont like in life, and you can fix them, by changing yourself and then the thing you experience, then your life would be a lot better...
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gent-illmatic · 6 months
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Be back shortly… have lots of things to get into (if you care) stay blessed🤌🏽
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