The way ‘Lesbians are attracted to women in a different way to straight men because of their different relationship to patriarchy and the male gaze’ has turned into ‘Lesbian attraction is softer and less actively erotic and/or sexual’ is so insidious, actually. You aren’t predatory for feeling intense sexual desire!
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funny as hell how i have a friend who’s fem and she tries to convince herself she’s strictly fem4fem cuz she had a negative experience with a masc but she keeps getting crushes on mascs and butches and i make fun of her for it but. i’m the same but opposite i try to convince myself I’m just butch4butch even though i always get attracted to fems because i had the most life destroying situationship with a fem last year………..
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one more year being the loneliest lesbian in the world
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barbie movie is gonna be gay.
No way you can tell me Kate McKinnon handing you a Birkenstock is anything other than Lesbian Symbolism.
Barbie is gay now.
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Hayley?? Hottest character I have ever seen anywhere ever
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Me stocking up on feminine Lego heads so I can make all my nameless Lego Star Wars minifigures girls
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would it be problematic if i started watching basketball just for paige bueckers and caitlin clark
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a mind shattering orgasm and an iced chai. i’m a simple woman.
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The best analogy, I, a lesbian, can give for how I see men vs women, is bread. one is plain old sliced sandwich bread, the cheap kind that basically disintegrates. Fine, tolerable, generally unappealing. I ate it as a kid because I had never been introduced to other, more exciting options, because what kid would know they liked the fancy Adult™️ artisan bread better than the plain stuff?? then I grew up and had rosemary garlic bread and my world opened up from the plain, especially when compared to artisan bread made with raisins or olives or spices.
Those with that crunchy crust which just needs to be savored. The kind that makes your eyes light up when you see it, whereas they pass over the plain bread because there is a so much more exciting option to be had !!
all the men the tumblr populace go buckwild over like Harry styles, Chris Pratt, Aaron Taylor Johnson,,,they don’t excite me. I want to wear their nice suits and sweaters (yes I am thinking of the knives out sweater) I want their chiseled jawlines and ripped arms sometimes and I dream of girls going wild for me the way they do for these dudes,,,but if I am watching a julia roberts romcom, I always end up going girl you look like that and you go for Him?? Why?? I do not understand. I can never make myself understand. I can empathize with people who think about my plain bread like I think about artisan delicacy, I can implement people like that in my books, I can consult my gay friends,,but I will always be stuck wearing the plain bread lenses.
Yes yea personality is everything looks mean nothing in a true heathy relationship etc etc. still. Present me with the nicest man on the planet and I will not want to kiss him lol
Did this make any sense? People as bread? Let me know
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my neurodivergent ass flirting: can I use your pussy as a fidget toy, please?
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obsessing over weird little guys from movies and shows is the lesbian version of being a gay guy obsessed with female pop stars. no need to elaborate i am right
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I am a normal every day lesbian, meaning I love Pedro Pascal, Bradley Cooper, Ryan Reynolds and Keanu Reeves but NO OTHER MEN.
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Congrats to my sister for being the funniest person I know
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