#maladaptive

[i-have-gone-madd]

#not mine #found it on pinterest #fuck california that’s where the real gold is goddamn #actually maladaptive #madd #maladaptive daydreaming #maladaptive problems #madd problems #madd things #maladaptive #maladaptive behaviors #maladaptive daydreaming disorder #madd memes

[turtlesunrelated]

Me: I wonder what I look like when I’m daydreaming. Probably normal.🙂

What I look like:

#maladaptive daydreaming #daydreaming #maladaptive #mental health #madd #actually madd #madd humor #madd thoughts #excessive daydreaming #paracosm #memes #paras #not funny didnt laugh

[rosenatlan]

#im a clown #i'm so unproductive i want to cry #writeblr #writing #writer problems #maladaptive daydreaming #actually madd #actually maladaptive #maladaptive daydreamer #maladaptive #maladaptive problems

[drowntowns]

What is parame

#parame #maladaptive daydreaming #madd #Madd #MADD #maladaptive

[gay-snow-white]

Birds of a maladaptive nature 🪶

Digital painting, procreate, 2023

Bonus:

#maladaptive #maladaptive daydreaming #maladaptive coping #crane #crane bird #daydream #artists on tumblr #my art #ghiblicore #ghibli style #animal #animal drawing #bird drawing #prey #red #white #black #procreate #kanji #cyber aesthetic #cityscape #rain #night #led #street art #illustration

[shranstan]

Exam season: begins Me: wow what a great time to get into ranked mahjong :) there is nothing more important than mahjong matches going on in my life atm after all :)

#maladaptive

[first-mistake-forever-more]

For me its never enough.. I'll never feel proud or satisfied for my accomplishments.. in fact, I tend to forget all about them.

#maladaptive

[madd-mer]

List of MaDD Things I do

I feel like I'm constantly invalidating me and my MaDD. It feels like my experience with daydreaming inherently differentiates from the experiences of other maladaptive daydreamers. I hate that I'm doubting myself so much so in order to fix that I will write about specific things regarding my MaDD that I haven't really seen anywhere else here on Tumblr or other social media platforms.

First of all, I do suspect that I might be neurodivergent. I currently have no way of getting a diagnosis but I have done a lot of research which lead me to the conclusion that it is highly possible I have ADHD. I felt the need to say this because I think some things I'll mention will correspond to my neurodivergent tendencies.

Here's my list of unusual things I do in order to daydream/while daydreaming:

I can't focus enough to properly daydream in my everyday life because of noises or people talking in the background

because of that I prefer to daydream right before sleeping

the room or space that I'm daydreaming in has to either be completely silent or play music without lyrics (preferably classical music)

I lie completely still most of the time to be able to fully concentrate on my scenario or paracosm

since I practically cannot daydream throughout the day I often distract myself with literally anything

that is mostly tiktok, tumblr, youtube, netflix, homework, or any type of media/activity I can indulge in to forget my need to daydream

I get quite a lot of intrusive daydreams where a possible outcome of the situation or event I'm currently in just starts sort of manifesting in my head and I have to stop myself from continuing that daydream (these scenarios are often very unlike to actually happen and mostly consist of me getting hurt, accidents or other unpleasant stuff)

I have exactly one (1) distinct memory of me daydreaming similarly to maladaptive daydreaming as a child leading me to believe that it had just recently started developing (probably during the pandemic)

I'm aroace and had a lot of difficulties coming to terms with me being aromantic, so most of my daydreams/scenarios/paracoms include a lot romance with f.e. a parame to cope with that

All in all Maladaptive Daydreaming is my biggest comfort and NO.1 coping mechanism •°. *࿐

#maladaptive daydream #maladaptive coping #maladaptive #actually madd #daydreamers #madd problems #paras #madd things #immersive daydreaming #madd #actually maladaptive #coping #coping mechanism #actuallymadd #undiagnosed adhd #undiagnosed neurodivergent #undiagnosed maladaptive daydreaming #paracosm #paracosms #maladaptive daydreamer

[madd-yet-happy]

Some people have zero idea that madd can be horrible to live with! #madd #maladaptivedaydreaming #daydreamer #daydreamers #lifelongdaydreamer #maladaptivedaydreamingcommunity #maladaptivedaydreamingdisorder #maladaptivedaydreamer #maladaptivedaydreamingawareness #maladaptivedaydreamers #maladaptivedaydreamtogether #maladaptivedaydreamingmeme #maladaptivedaydreamingmemes #madder #maddrelate #maladaptive #maladaptivedaydream #maladaptivedaydreams #maddhumor #maddcalledout #maddsymptoms #maddvalidation #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthvalidation (at Tucson, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cky7Pg-PE-v/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#madd #maladaptivedaydreaming #daydreamer #daydreamers #lifelongdaydreamer #maladaptivedaydreamingcommunity #maladaptivedaydreamingdisorder #maladaptivedaydreamer #maladaptivedaydreamingawareness #maladaptivedaydreamers #maladaptivedaydreamtogether #maladaptivedaydreamingmeme #maladaptivedaydreamingmemes #madder #maddrelate #maladaptive #maladaptivedaydream #maladaptivedaydreams #maddhumor #maddcalledout #maddsymptoms #maddvalidation #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthvalidation

[lavender-honey-arts]

I was like 19 when i realized not everyone ran around their room listening to music and making scenarios. That was a hard hit from reality.

Imagine having to explain to your sibling that no, you don't run around cause you got left energy but actually that this specific part of the song hits so hard you gotta recreate that one scene again and again(now they bully me the mf-)

#maladaptive daydreaming #maladaptive #just daydreaming #buzzingaround

[i-have-gone-madd]

scared i’ll never be able to have an actual romantic relationship because of how stuck i am in another reality

#actually maladaptive #madd #maladaptive daydreaming #maladaptive problems #madd problems #madd things #maladaptive #maladaptive behaviors #maladaptive daydreaming disorder #romance

[lifeisbutavoid]

I need to escape to my mind palace (Constantly pacing my room listening to music, creating fake scenarios)

#maladaptive behaviors #maladaptive daydream #depressing post #maladaptive dreaming #maladaptive #fake scenarios #mentally ill memes #mentally ill #mentally unstable

[eurychphanpelcael]

孤独な穴居人曰く、「幸福が人を自殺に追いやることがある。幸福は、人を疲労困憊させる適応努力を要求する。」と。 だが現代においては、不幸な人も、不幸でも幸福でもない人も、相応の適応と生存の努力を強いられている。 過去の時代にはない激しい環境変化の結果、不幸につきものの「ある種の儀式のもつ安心感」は消え失せ、努力の厳しさだけが残った。 ひどく奇妙に聞こえるかもしれないが、現代は不幸においても、人を疑心暗鬼にさせる不適応努力を要求しているのだ。

According to the lonely caveman, "Happiness can drive a person to suicide. Happiness demands adaptive efforts that can exhaust a person." And. But in the modern world, both the unhappy and those who are neither unhappy nor happy are forced to make reasonable efforts to adapt and survive. As a result of the violent environmental changes not seen in past eras, the "sense of security that comes with certain rituals" that accompanies misfortune has disappeared, leaving only the severity of the endeavor. It may sound terribly strange, but even in misfortune, modern times demand maladaptive efforts that make the one suspicious.

#pessimism #pessimistic #pessimistic poor writing #厭世主義的駄文 #happy #unhappy #adapt #survive #efforts #maladaptive

[turtlesunrelated]

POV: u gain 2 pounds and decide it’s time to relapse😍

#I’m only a skinny legend in my daydreams #maladaptive daydreaming #daydreaming #maladaptive #mental health #madd #madd thoughts #I’m literally 5 pounds less every time I close my eyes 😌 #paras

[sommer-liebe-kokain]

One day you will call me death, but for now wrath will do…

#books #reading #wrath #fictional men #kingdom of the wicked #kingdom of the cursed #kingdom of fury #book #reader #paper and ink #maladaptive

[kit10phish]

Question... Taylor Keeps Repeating the Same Old Pattern that Ultimately Makes her Miserable [Part 14]

Question… Taylor Keeps Repeating the Same Old Pattern that Ultimately Makes her Miserable [Part 14]

Taylor wins the pronoun game.  I’m not even going to try to untangle the speaker/recipient/changing characters in this song.  It was written so convoluted that I haven’t even seen a satisfactory answer to this yet.  Instead, I took lyric snippets from other songs featuring the same word, to get a feeling about Taylor’s sentiment and even subject. Don’t get overwhelmed with the length of this…

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#album #analysis #bisexual #career #celebrity #closeted #fame #fear #gay #Karlie Kloss #Kaylor #kissgate #kissing #lesbian #LGBT #love #maladaptive #Midnights #outed #outing #queer #Question... #song #songs #Taylor Swift #WLW