#narcissist mom

[1000tinycuts]

"let me use the example of when the same thing happened to me as a reason you need to get over it, when clearly I haven't gotten over it myself."

okay but how about Fuck 👏 That 👏

#narcissist mom

[nimbus-cloud]

So the home health people have been tirelessly calling me to help arrange continuing care for my mom because they're like... caring health care professionals I guess. And after a call last night and several this morning, they got my mom booked in with a PCP in Redmond this Friday so that she can get primary care established and medicare will approve home health. And when I told her about it, she was all, "Eh but... Friday? Why can't it be next week? I didn't want to go anywhere after just getting home." And I'm like... YOU LAZY BITCH ASS-- There are people bending over backwards just to make sure you can get proper healthcare (which so many people try to get but can't including many of my dear and beloved friends), and you are too lazy to want to BE DRIVEN to an appointment THREE WHOLE days from now for an appointment you didn't have to stress about making. She doesn't want home health because she wants me doing it instead, which I am not equipped to do nor do I want to. Also, it's home health! A nurse gets to come TO HER, she doesn't even have to go anywhere, even though she's barely 67 and barely ailing at this point. Getting ill and needing serious medical care was basically the worst thing that could happen in conjunction with her narcissism.

#personal #narcissist mom #and she has the nerve to say that nobody does anything for her #she has the nerve to say that she can't trust anyone #after how many caring health care professionals have worked so hard to give her care #she has the nerve to say that I don't do enough

[witchyykitten]

everyone talks about cutting off a toxic parent

but no one ever talks about the pain of wanting a parent but knowing yours cannot love you the way they should

#toxic mom #toxic mother #toxicmommy #toxic family #toxic parents #child abuse #narcissistic abuse #parental abuse #mental abuse #emotional abuse #abuse survivor #actually abused #why my family don't love me? #i hate my family #family issues #dysfunctional family #family #dysfunctional household #dysfunctional parents #dad issues #toxic father #father #toxic dad #emotionally unstable mother #emotionally immature parents #narcissistic mother #childhood trauma

[nothing0fnothing]

The number of times I've caught myself in the middle of telling myself how worthless, unlovable, dislikable and embarrassing I am is too many. It's almost every day.

And sometimes I correct myself and say "I am not unlovable" "I am allowed to make mistakes" "I have grown and changed since then."

Sometimes, I just wallow in the shame.

#raised by narcissists #narcissistic abuse #dysfunctional family #childhood trauma #parental abuse #dysfunctional household #toxic parents #vent post #toxic mom #complex trauma #mental health #mental illness #mentally fucked #actually mentally ill #overwhelmed #coping #therapy

[nmolesofadrenaline]

#web weaving #web weave #abuse survivor #toxic family #emotional abuse #dysfunctional family #toxic parents #toxic mom #parental abuse #narcissistic parents #parental issues #neglectful parents #parenting #parental trauma #bad parenting #familyissues #on fathers #fathers

[steveharrington]

eldest daughter posting is quickly becoming the new gifted child

#that post that’s like ‘you have to acknowledge what your eldest sister has done for you’ well she actually hasn’t done anything for me #other than steal stuff and have narcissistic meltdowns and be mean to our mom

[bathroomflooder]

my mom said we can have a codependent narcissistic relationship where we both see each other as the only other being as special as ourselves if your mom says it's okay :3

#she also said we could even hold hands if your mom agrees.... #actually narcissistic #npd #actually npd #npd safe #narcissistic personality disorder #npd memes #npd traits #npd positivity #pleaseeee I need this in my life pleaseeee

[nurbrotheadfull]

I rushed so hard to finish it before having to go to school

Anyways, did anyone else’s religious family have some weird hatred for yoga?? Mine always told me it’s the work of the devil or some shit

#belly kink #mpreg #mpreg kink #mpreg belly #mpregnancy #the devils breeding bitch #cw mpreg #mpreg art #baby bump #huge pregnant belly #i needed to let off some steam off with this bc my narcissistic grandma keeps calling me and ringing my door bell because i didn’t visit mom #the shit religious fam do to ya 💀 #mpreg labor #pregnancy kink #male pregnancy #preggo kink

[sillynarcissist]

I wish I could kill people who were boring or slightly irritating to me

#npd posting #actually cluster b #npd safe #post dinner talks with my mother always piss me off so bad #at first its interesting then she's like And here's why you're wrong and I'm right #and its my mom not like I can disagree #then she rambles on and on and on and on it gets so boring so fast #today I learned just how fast she'll turn on me if I ever show signs of mental illness that aren't just being sad #oh and she has to top it off with My Life Is Harder Than Yours #narcissistic ass rambling from me over here but whatever I deserve a little pause on self awareness sometimes

[wilder-and-lighter]

Support group for the kids who grew up being told they were wrong in every argument just to grow up and find out the parent who made them think that about themselves was/is actually just an extremely insecure narcissist.

#queer #autism #gifted kid burnout #narcissistic parents #npd parents #gifted kid #mommy issues #daddy issues #not for sisters #i'm sorry you had to go through that #and i'm sorry you feel that you can't be wrong about anything now #big hugs #child of npd adult #basil talks #shoutout my mom #100!! #200!!

[1000tinycuts]

was bullied into changing my hair again

she had critique until she realized i didn't like it

now she likes it

#abusive mom #narcissist mom #cannot stand this bitch

[lostinthelights-blog]

"You can't gaslight me because I have a narcissistic mother with a victim complex"

#narcissistic mother #poetry #deep feelings #spilled truth #childhood trauma #victim complex #i hate my mom #emotions #mom why #momwho #jealousy #hypersensitivity #mental health #mental illness #actually narcissistic

[witchyykitten]

#why my family don't love me? #family issues #dysfunctional family #toxic family #strict mommy #toxic mom #mommy issues #mom issues #mommyissues #emotionally unstable mother #narcissistic mother #toxic mother #mother issues #childhood trauma #child abuse #dysfunctional household #dysfunctional parents #trauma #actually traumatized #emotional abuse #mental abuse #narcissistic abuse #parental abuse

[nothing0fnothing]

Family, teachers, friends of my parents, parents of my friends, doctors. ..

I was not secretive about any of what I was going through. I'd been told that if anyone ever hurt me to tell an adult and I did that every single time. I would find an adult I thought could be safe, I'd tell them my experience and I'd wait for it to get better. It never did.

#vent post #raised by narcissists #narcissistic abuse #toxic parents #toxic mom #parental abuse #childhood trauma #dysfunctional family #complex trauma #dysfunctional household #cptsd life #just cptsd things #cptsd recovery #living with cptsd #cptsd problems #actually cptsd

[princess-ibri]

King Magnifico Backstory Part 3

Part 2

Princess Maroula, my mistress, the Keeper of the Wishing Stars, who granted both you and your father life, needs your aid. There is a quest that only one such as you can fulfill. A dangerous quest but a necessary one for the good of all people within the EverRealm. She has done what she can herself, but her gaze is stretched thin by her obligations. We ask that you leave as soon as possible, if you are willing to come and aid us.”

And the princess, always kind of heart, and remembering the conversation in the garden all those years ago was willing

But her father was not

“How dare your mistress ask this dangerous task of my daughter! She knows the perils that exist in that realm, that befell me. She did nothing to aid me in my troubles, why should she ask to place my daughter in peril now?”

“The Blue Lady is young, in the way of her people, she had only recently taken over this charge when your misfortunes befell you, and she has sorrowed over them ever since. She granted you your daughter in part as penance for that failure. But still she has her duties, and she has foreseen a threat that only as deeply linked to Wishes as Maroula is can combat. Would you see an entire realm suffer for what was done to you?”

Maroula knew the anger born from his past heartache, which her father usually tried to keep under control, beginning to rise, and tried to sooth him

“Father, I am willing to go. You and Mother have taught me well in both the use of magic and the need to be generous in helping others. Please, let me go and help the Lady. How can I call myself a princess of Rosas and not do so?”

“No Maroula!” The King cried, his fear for his daughter and anger getting the best of him. “I won’t allow it! What right has this fairy to grant my greatest wish, give our happiness tangibility and then take it away!”

“She’s not taking me away Father, she’s only asking that I—“

“Enough!”

The king turned and dismissed the messenger coldly from his sight, demanding that it never return, for his daughter would not be going to the other realm, now or ever.

“That choice is the Princess Maroula’s.” The messenger said as it left, unfazed by the king’s anger. “She is a woman grown now, able to make her own choices, even if they are not what you would choose for her. If she wishes to go, then she may go”

“Then I shall insure she cannot!”

And with that, the king used his magics to open up a room, deep deep beneath the castle, a room he wove about with his spells and enchantments, where he was sure no star’s light could find his daughter.

“I don’t wish to leave you here Maroula, but I must keep you safe, at all costs. Let that other place deal with its own problems. You will stay here until you’ve learned to see sense”

And so the king left his daughter crying in the dark, as his gentle queen cried in the palace above, torn between supporting her husband in keeping their daughter safe from unknown danger, and supporting her daughter’s generous wish to help

What neither realized, is that there was one small opening within the dungeon, a keyhole that the king had failed to account for, a keyhole through which a single thin strain of starlight came through and found the weeping princess. The princess beheld the light, and taking the power within her, she wished upon the star

And the star answered

But what came after for Princess Maroula is a story for another time…

The king and queen sought day and night for their daughter, but even with all his powers, either the power of the Lady of the Wishing Stars was greater, or Maroula was using her own to avoid her father’s search. Even his wishing her back did nothing. And so the king and queen fell into despair, knowing their daughter was lost forever.

Is this the thanks I get for granting everyone else’s wishes all these years? To have my own daughter run from me? I’ve cared for her from the day she was born, given her everything and and she still decides to defy and disrespect me with this rebellion?!”

At last, the king, letting his anger over this perceived betrayal overcome his grief, decided that they could no longer go on as they had, and so he crafted a spell that would enable them to move forward

He asked his wife to give to him her wish for their daughter’s return, gifting it to him to hold onto until it could be granted. And as Amaya gave him her wish, trusting that one day it would come true—the memory of her daughter left her entirely, along with the grief of her loss. Letting her forget without the weight of regret…

From then on, the king utilized this spell whenever it came time to grant his people’s wishes, holding on to them in perpetuity, instead of granting them on sight. Having lost the love of his daughter, he tried to substitute it with the love he felt imbibed in each wish as he guarded them, keeping them safe as he couldn’t protect her. Each person who gave him their wish forgot it, and so Magnifico intended to ensure that not only would no unworthy wish be granted, but no wish would lead to the heartbreak he had suffered

Despite his anger at his daughter, over the years he took many other apprentices, seeking to fill the void she had left, even granting their and their families wishes when he usually would have declined to—but none of them ever filled the place of his beloved Maroula.

And as the years passed, his anger over her loss, the heartbreak of his past, and his frustration over watching everyone’s wishes be granted but his own began to harden the king’s heart, and a darkness grew beneath his pristine exterior, waiting for the day until he felt threatened enough in his power and control to break loose…

#my art #and that’s a wrap for the backstory! #definitely intend to do a wish sequel idea where Asha and Starboy try to figure out what happened to Maroula #anyway both of Magnifico’s song just gave me dad energy right off the bat #both protective energy in At All Costs (along with an almost addictied to the wishes vibe? #which I also kind of tried to hint at with him feeling the love that comes from granting a wish and mistaking that forhis ‘parents’ love #and later hoarding them) #and of course a narcissistic dad in This is the Thanks I get #so I knew I had to give him a daughter for Asha to remind him of #also the dark bunny messenger is from the Fairy with the Torquise Hair in Pinocchio having black bunny servants! #cuz that’s Blue’s mom in the DisneyVerse #king magnifico #disney wish #wish 2023 #magnifico x amaya #the blue fairy #Maroula #disneyverse #canon descendants #Disney ocs #disney descendants #disney #wish movie #disney headcanons #queen amaya #villain backstory #disney villains

[nmolesofadrenaline]

#abuse survivor #toxic family #emotional abuse #dysfunctional family #toxic parents #toxic mom #heartbreak #heartbroken #heartbeat #narcissistic parents #neglectful parents #parental abuse #parental issues #bad parenting #parents