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genderqueerdykes · 4 months
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I've been seeing a disturbing number of "queer safe spaces" describe themselves as things like "femme & them" and even worse "she+," conflating femininity & nonbinaryhood. cease this immediately. say it with me: nonbinary people are NOT women-lite and it is extremely violent and straight up incorrect to imply that all they/thems are fem adjacent. this is erasure and this verbiage does nothing but make gnc and nonbinary spaces unsafe for masc and male nonbinary people. nonbinary, genderqueer and other third gender people can be and are masculine and men, we can be hes as well as shes and theys, stop allowing yourself and your peers to view nonbinary as woman/femme-lite, signed a butch nonbinary person.
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bloompawz · 1 month
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actualalivecreature · 4 months
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not femininity or masculinity but a secret third thing (faggotry)
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being transneutral is as much valid as being transmasc or transfem. transneutral people deserve to be visible. transneutral people deserve to be respected. transneutral people deserve to be included in conversation about trans experiences, trans problems, and trans rights.
we deserve representation. we deserve transition that fits our goals. we deserve neutral gender markers (or removed gender markers because they are useless). we deserve hrt schemes to reach neutrality. we deserve surgeries we need in. we deserve social acceptance and awareness. we deserve gender-neutral bathrooms and other gender-neutral spaces instead of gendered ones. we deserve being accepted whatever we look. our pronouns deserve being accepted. our transition goals deserve to be accepted and respected. we deserve to be respected and accepted whether or not we have dysphoria, want medical or social transition, and so on. we deserve to be respected and accepted being ourselves.
we shouldn't be alienated, forget, and excluded. we have always been and will always be a part of society. we have always been and will always be a part of queer community. we are valid and cool.
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aces-and-anime · 7 months
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literarymenace · 6 months
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Nah, I wasn't born in the wrong body. It was just a "some assembly required; batteries not included" type package.
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"abinary people can be gay, lesbian, veldian & straight" & "orientations that are explicitly inclusive of abinary people need more visibility and to be taken more seriously" are two statements that can and should coexist.
i see way too much "abinary people can be lesbian etc." and not nearly enough people lifting up orientations that are more explicit in our genders or in people's attraction to us. tbh, this is true for midbinary genders too. there's way more "nonbinary people can use [orientation with binary connotations]" and not enough "look at these orientations that honour us".
trixic, toric, enbian and other mestric labels for specific genders deserve as much love as lesbian, sapphic, gay, achillean, veldian.
not to forget there are many people who are both! for some people, "gay" just doesn't tell the full story and they might identify as a toric gay specifically.
all abinary experiences of orientation deserve visibility.
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cinimuffin · 11 months
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All the gridded moths/butterflies in one place and labeled in image. If you use them for anything please give design credit (and also @ me because I would like to see). Intended for personal use only. I was putting which flags each insect was in the tags previously. Here they all are in the image and down here in the text for clarity. First image: Bisexual, Pansexual, Trans Asexual, Nonbinary, Androgyne Lesbian, Intersex, Neutrois Agender, Genderfluid, Gay (mlm) Second image: Demiboy, Gendervoid, Pangender Deminonbinary, Demifluid, Cassgender Demigirl, Achillean Diamoric, Sapphic Third image: Aromantic, Polyamorous, Omnisexual Genderqueer, Demisexual, Demiromantic Polysexual, Aroace, Maverique Bigender, Abrosexual, Xenogender Fourth Image: Basic Rainbow Pride Progress Pride Intersex Progress Pride
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this-is-exorsexism · 1 month
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welcome to this is exorsexism.
this is an account to highlight exorsexism, so that more people learn to recognise it when it's happening and we can fight it better.
what happens here is that i will post examples of exorsexism here as i encounter it, as well as submitted examples. this can be stories of exorsexism of offline or online exorsexism. if not immediately clear, i may provide an explanation of how something is exorsexist.
this is also a safe space for nonbinary people to vent or rant about exorsexism.
you can submit exorsexism you encountered to me via submissions or asks. if you send a screenshot of someone being exorsexist, please make sure to crop or censor any identifying information such as their username and profile picture. this account is for educational purposes and for nonbinary people to vent their experiences, not to send harassment to anyone.
exorsexism from within nonbinary and wider transgender communities is also welcome as that too needs awareness.
not sure if something you want to submit counts as exorsexism? submit it anyway and we can talk about it. and if you think your exorsexism experience isn't "bad enough" to be submitted: yes, it is.
credit where credit is due: this account is very much inspired by @exorsexistbullshit who sadly hasn't been active in going on 5 years, as well as casualableism on instagram.
submission rules:
since this is a blog to highlight a form of bigotry and oppression that also often intersects with other forms of oppression, a "no bigotry" rule doesn't make sense here. however, being bigoted towards bigots is not welcome here. this includes calling bigots or bigotry -phobic (i.e. "homophobia"), narcissistic, delusional, lame, blind, cr*zy, st*pid and more.
the key difference here is whether you are quoting bigotry you have encountered or whether you're being bigoted as well.
i am multiply disabled and we don't do that kind of thing here, so if i ignored your ask or blocked you, that's probably why.
what is exorsexism?
in short, exorsexism is the oppression of and bigotry against nonbinary people. it is essentially sexism directed at nonbinary people. furthermore, it also includes the hatred of anything heavily associated with nonbinary people, like certain pronouns. exorsexism ranges from the erasure of nonbinary people to outright hostility. there are many different kinds of exorsexism as there are many different kinds of exorsexism. exorsexism affects the whole range of nonbinary gender identities, including but not limited to agender, multigender, genderfluid, aporagender & xenogender people, as well as androgynes, nonbinary men & nonbinary women.
here's an incomplete list of examples of exorsexism:
- nonbinary erasure, not just erasure of all nonbinary people, but also of more specific gender identities
- forcing nonbinary people into the gender binary or creating new gender-related binaries to force us into (e.g. amab/afab, masc/fem, men/non-men, cis/trans)
- thinking gender can't be fluid
- thinking everyone has to have a gender
- thinking nonbinary identities are new, a trend, a choice, a phase or a way to try and be special
- erasing exorsexism as a specific form of oppression
- thinking nonbinary people have to look a certain way
- centring binary people & experiences in communities that have historically included us
- mocking they, it and neopronouns
- thinking that "everyone is a bit nonbinary"/reducing nonbinaryhood to gender nonconformity
- thinking nonbinary people are just deviations from binary genders, i.e. men & women lite
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goth-brushbug · 2 months
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This one goes to all trans nonbinary/genderqueer ppl whose identity is constantly erased and put into boxes labelled transfem/transmasc, etc, even by other queer ppl
I love you agender, maverique, neutrois, transneutral, abinary, gendervoid, androgynous, genderfluid, demigender, unlabeled/any other identity that is completely outside of the binary and/or genderless
Pls stay strong, don't let anyone define you
I know there are more labels and that some ppl might use mixed ones like transneumasc. Feel free to interact if this post is relatable to your experience
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genderqueerdykes · 8 months
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btw the biggest lie you will ever be told about being trans is that transitioning will make you ugly. that could not be further from the truth: i never got compliments on my appearance ever, but after i transitioned, began dressing like myself, wore my hair the way i wanted to, and especially started T, i have gotten more compliments than i ever have before in my life. people can tell when you look like yourself, like who you're meant to be. it's beautiful, attractive, and sexy. transition will not make you "ugly". it will make you yourself, and that's inherently beautiful
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tortiefrancis · 1 year
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actualalivecreature · 1 month
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i want all genderfucked and nonbinary people to have a very i love you
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for everyone who may need to hear this: your trans[something] label is about where you wanna come, not about where you start.
you don't have to identify as transmasc if you are afab.
you don't have to identify as transfem if you are amab.
your agab means nothing. your identity means everything.
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jasontoddssuper · 9 months
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"Being nonbinary dosen't inherently mean being trans"I will murder you with my bare fucking hands if you don't stop spreading misinfo like this.The white stripe on the trans flag is literally there to represent nonbinary people.'Transgender' dosen't mean just 'binary trans man or binary trans woman',it means 'not cis' fullstop.Y'all are one of the reason's transneutrals feel so alianted from their own community and i'm not gonna stand for it cause you consider yourself a trans people expert when you know nothing about us and propably get offended at neopronouns and 'weird' genders because,again,you know nothing about us
Edit:If you're going to reblog this,please reblog it with @/defiantlydelta's addition's,ve corrected me on a mistake i made on this!!
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