#queers with fears

[captainjackscoat]

I want to go to a gay bar

However I do not want to go to a gay bar because I do not, nor will I ever, drink alcohol. I do not particularly want to be around drunks.

So instead of a gay bar, I propose a Queer Cat Cafe.

Non allergenic cats ofc

There's a section of the cafe where the cats can't go if you don't want cats near you. That section is the library.

There are lil pride flags everywhere, even the obscure ones.

They sell pride pins for £1.50ish each at the counter.

There are LED lights.

It's autism friendly, lights can be toned down if needed and everything is neatly spaced out

You can have a sticker to write your pronouns on

Mostly queer artists/songs played

feel free to add on

#lgbtqia #queer #gay #lesbian #bisexual #transgender #nonbinary #agender #genderqueer #genderfluid #pansexual #aromantic #asexual #polysexual #omnisexual #demisexual #demiromantic #biromantic #panromantic #skoliosexual #here queer and filled with fear #cats #cat cafe #I like cats #I like cafes #I like queers #I am queer #I am unfortunately not a cat #or a cafe

[horror-aesthete]

Creep, 2014, dir. Patrick Brice

#horror aesthetic #horror movies #horror quotes #creep 2014 #queer fear

[hajimedics]

A BEAUTIFUL MARRIAGE WITH NO DIVORCE

#NOT SHIP ART. PLEASE DON'T TAG OR INTERPRET AS SUCH #welcome home #welcome home puppet show #julie joyful #frank frankly #senjart #the idea that playfellow co is trying to get frank and julie to be together romantically instead of just best friends #and how the queer identities they have is getting suppressed by the company #like how frank and eddie has to act ''distant'' because of the fear of being watched and not putting their relationship at risk #I feel it's getting stronger. #esp with the period the show was set in. gah!!!!!!

[not-avril]

"Let's have a little one-to-one, shall we?"

#fear and hunger #fear and hunger termina #termina #funger #pocketcat #horror #horror art #monsters #monster #queer artist #artists on tumblr #art #illustration #terato

[agendercryptidlev]

Thinking about how Riz is the one who first used he/him pronouns for Baron & what it's like being AroAce is a queer space. Thinking about Riz seeing the kinship that Raugh and Kristen formed over both being gay and wanting that connection, that sense of community, but holding himself back because while he wasn't "normal" he also wasn't like them. When you're gay you're family and when you're straight you fit in but what happens when you're neither? How do you categorize that.

Riz isn't afraid of his orientation because he's different by societal standards. It's not being queer that scares him no, it's the isolation of not knowing if anyone else feels the way he does. He knows that if he were gay or bi or pan his friends would understand, he'd be like them and be surrounded by people like him. But he's not like them, he is different in a way that seems entirely unique to himself.

So maybe he kind of wished he was gay, and that Baron existed because that was what he was afraid to admit. It'd be a lot less lonely than the truth.

#riz gukgak #Fantasy High #Fantasy High Junior Year #Dimension 20 #D20 #baron from the baronies #It's like the experience of knowing someone accepts queer folks but not knowing if they accept how you're queer #Tho I don't think Riz fears not being accepted as much as he fears not being understood #He realizes the second he admits he's AroAce he admits there's something entirely different about him than his friends #And he just wants to belong to a group for the first time in his life #To the point that his identity as part of this group is prioritized over his personal identity

[crimeschild]

the barbie (2023) experience as an afab non binary person is just [reconnecting with your femininity and love for pink bc you couldnt when u were younger bc being too girly will get u made fun of] [feeling guilt bc u dont identify with being a girl but girlhood is so inherently beautiful and magical and no experience is truly like it] [healing the inner child in you by allowing yourself to enjoy dolls and pink and maximalism] [unapologetically letting yourself wear pink and be stereotypically girly in a society where being non binary means you have to be presenting androgynous 24/7] [getting your grown-up heart shattered and then put back together again by your inner child using sparkly glue over and over in the span of two hours] [realizing that no matter what you do you have somewhat experienced girlhood and it shaped you to be the person you are today and you will never get to erase that experience or truly disconnect yourself from it] [appreciating and understanding your mother in a way that you thought wasnt possible without experiecing motherhood]

#my brain has permanently been altered by the barbie movie #ALSO THE MOMMY ISSUES IN THE MOVIE GOD FUCKING DAMN #when barbie said that the old woman is beautiful it makes me not fear getting old anymore #it's just all this time i feel so guilty like nothing but guilt when i present myself as femme and act all feminine but then identify with #being enby #and when i vocally advocate for feminism and all that but theres a little voice in my head going #but youre not a part of that club anymore you left them #BUT I KNOW ITS NOT WITHIN MY CONTROL BC I DONT HAVE CONTROL OF MY GENDER AND HOW I FEEL ABOUT IT #barbie #barbie movie #barbie 2023 #ken #margot robbie #ryan gosling #mine #queer #woah 1k????? #1k #2k

[horror-aesthete]

Creep 2, 2017, dir. Patrick Brice

#horror aesthetic #horror movies #horror quotes #queer fear #creep 2017 #creep 2 #god i love this monologue #and the last line #such a great. iconic horror line #sara loves her juicy fruit and aaron loves to kill

[filmsoftheflesh]

Emily St. James on Frankenstein, specifically the 1931 James Whale movie, in Queer for Fear: the History of Queer Horror episode two.

#edit: I don't recommend this miniseries but i liked this bit here #frankenstein #james whale #emily st. james #queer for fear #queer for fear: the history of queer horror #caps #tv #documentary #horror #queer horror #2022 #2020s #30s #1931 #miniseries

[gethalloweened]

Take a moment, remind yourself

To take a moment and find yourself

Take a moment to ask yourself

If this is how we fall apart?

#but it's not but it's not but it's not but it's not but it's not #it's okay it's okay it's okay it's okay it's okay #you've got nothing got nothing got nothing got nothing to fear #I'm here I'm here I'm here #and also queer #and also full of existential fear #steven universe #steven univers fanart #steven universe art #garnet #garnet steven universe #steven universe garnet #garnet fanart #garnet art #here comes a thought #steven universe fandom

[scleracentipede]

still thinking about fear state

#I am not and will never not be thinking about fear state #he is my baby boy he has done nothing wrong (he has in fact committed acts of terrorism and broke the geneva convention several times) #scarecrow #fear state scarecrow #Jonathan crane #dr jonathan crane #scarecrow fanart #fear state #Batman fear state #dc comics #Batman comics #comics #disabled artist #artists on tumblr #queer artist #digital art #trans artist

[slop21]

#i feel like half the fan base is queer it’s beautiful #fear and hunger #funger #fear and hunger 2: termina

[queergraffiti]

[photo: red graffiti on concrete pillar reading “We’re here, We’re Queer, We will not live in fear”] 

seen in Warwickshire, West Midlands, England

#queer #graffiti #lgbt #lgbtq #gay #Warwickshire #West Midlands #England #we're here we're queer #we're here we're queer we will not live in fear #we will not live in fear #submission

[uncanny-tranny]

The bourgeois or "exploiting class" doesn't inherently include the person who gets their nails done biweekly, or the disabled person who has a carer, or the guy who got a $70 video game for full-price, or the person who relies on medication (yes even the ones you don't think they "need"), or anything else like this. None of these people will, on average, have the ability to exploit workers by means of ownership or whatever.

While you are busy fighting with fellow workers, you are still being exploited by your boss, by capitalism, by (potentially) not having healthcare, by being overworked and underpaid, and so are they.

#politics #feel like this wording isn't satisfactory for me but fuck it we ball #used bourgeois because i think as a colloquial word it's recognized but like... #...i dunno i think some people use it to mean 'person who can do [x]' even if they quite literally own no means of production #like the idea that you're exploiting a worker by agreeing to a service they provide isn't what bourgeois means #if i paid a carer to care for a disabled person they aren't being exploited by that disabled person... #...HOWEVER that carer absolutely can (and probably will be) exploited by the systems of power (eg their boss or capitalism) #perhaps it's too late at night for me to be posting about this but it's something that bothers me! #*especially* when it comes to disability and other groups already exploited by marginalization 👍 #if your leftism percludes the disabled (including the terminally and profoundly) or the elderly or the queer or so so much i don't WANT ITTT #saw a disabled person i follow lament how afraid they were to have a carer out of fear of Being a Bad Exploitative Person #and they obviously need one and that makes me so fucking angry to know that they are needlessly suffering