#relationship suggestions

[mydarling-suggestions]

When they call you my love >>

#he’s so sweet and calls me such lovely things #I’m so lucky #suggestion #love suggestion #romance #romance suggestion #romantic #romantic suggestion #wlw #wlw suggestion #mlm #mlm suggestion #relationship #relationship suggestions #relationship suggestion #mod alex

[moonlightsuggest]

after all these years, your laugh is still the best sound I’ve ever heard.

#love #in love #in love suggestion #moonletters #love suggestion #relationship #love suggestions #in love suggestions #relationship suggestion #relationship suggestions

[manincaffeine]

if we date i’ll probably stare at you a lot, I like to admire what’s mine.

#desiblr #desi tumblr #dark romanticism #dark academia #intimacy #mine #my fav girls #romance #relationship suggestion #desi academia #light academia #writers on tumblr #spiled ink

[desultory-suggestions]

Relationships are all about compromise and communication. If you want different things but refuse to talk about it, you’re far more likely to get stuck in a situation where you’re both unhappy. Be vulnerable with each other, be honest about what you want for yourself, and seek an answer where you’ll both be better off. This won’t always be a desirable process or have an ideal answer, but it is always better to try than automatically give in to the idea that it’s impossible.

#suggestions #suggestion blog #positivity #recovery #self love #mental health #relationships #communication #life paths #career path #vulnerability #love #love suggestions

[chronurgy]

Gortash designs and builds mechanisms so I imagine he has to be able to sketch fairly decently in order to sketch his projects and designs. And I'm imagining a pile of charcoal sketches of Durge, done over their entire acquaintance, starting out with sketches of them in battle and then slowly becoming more detailed and intimate and as they do, the titles changing from things like "The Bhaalspawn" and "Bhaal's Chosen at Their Bloody Work" to "The Chosen in Contemplation" and finally just Durge's name

#it's speculated that the individual pictured in these sketches is [name] who was thought to have resolved the absolute crisis #But the existence these drawings may suggest it was merely a hoax to improve their reputation #Idk man I just love the idea of Gortash keeping this series of sketches of durge #I admit a crazy fic idea I've been rotating is the idea of an art history commentary set 100 years after the events of the game covering #The art found in Gortash's estate after his death and how people would interpret it and their potential relationship #And link to first hand descriptions of the time and academic papers and all that #Stuff like “see Elerrathin et al for analysis on the class dynamics of formal portraits and new money during this period” or something #enver gortash #dark urge #dark urge x gortash #durgetash #baldur's gate 3 #bg3 #bg3 spoilers

[positivelyadhd]

friendly reminder that you're allowed to need people, in fact everyone needs people. needing the company of others does not make you weak. spending time with other people is how we learn and grow.

#relationships #positivity #social anxiety #recovery #suggestion #love letters to you

[zaptrap]

tonight's arts

#kar ur 'jay with plugs' design is peak im using it now lmao #ninjago #bruiseshipping #jay walker #cole brookstone #art #my art #bruise #jay #cole #like 4% suggestive workplace relationship lmao

[sometiktoksarevalid]

#cc #queer #lgbt #lesbian #long distance relationship #relationship advice #suggestive

[moonlit-positivity]

How to recognize when you need to set a boundary

Physical signs of your body telling you "no":

Bile in your throat

Panic

freeze response aka frozen or paralyzed w fear

Heart paced real fast

Anxiety

Unsettled stomach/gut feeling

Head fuzzy

Head & chest feels tight

Face might scrunch up in disgust/disbelief/pain etc

"ick" or "ew"

fainting or feeling weak as a result

crying

feeling like hurting yourself

cheeks hot, face flushed (embarrassment out of fear or humiliation)

fight/flight/freeze/fawn response gets triggered

body feels "charged" or "activated"

wanting to yell or shout back

wanting to run away

wanting to hide

wanting to stuff yourself with food/substances/alcohol etc to numb the pain

heart feels heavy or pounds at awkward intervals

not being able to eat

head shakes "no"

backing away

asking or screaming for help

feeling scared

feeling "on alert"

not knowing what to say

arms protecting yourself

not being able to move

Emotional signs that you are not safe:

Unsettling environment

Fawning aka "going with what they want" even if you don't feel good about it

Uncomfortable

Knowing the other person doesn't like it when you express things different from their own beliefs

Knowing if you spoke up you would be either mocked or downplayed or told you're being too sensitive

Being told you're "disrespectful" or "not allowed" to talk back or disagree in any way

Being told you're too chicken or being forced to feel dumb or stupid if you don't join in

Being openly mocked or talked about by the whole group

Expressing a concern and they get mad at you for being mad at them

You're always the one in the wrong even when you were the one being hurt

They use grandiose words and phrases to assert dominance

"walking on eggshells"

They continue to do the things you asked them to stop doing even after countless times asking them

They don't care about how you feel

They make no effort to acknowledge your feelings or acknowledge how their behavior is affecting you

They force you to participate in drugs/alcohol

They hold their power and good deeds they have done for you over your head and threaten to stop helping or support you or even take back what they have given you

They are physically aggressive/ violent

Rage

Rage during substance use

Touching you without asking

Downplaying anything you need as not important

What to do:

Take a deep breath

Take your time figuring it out

Remind yourself this isn't your fault

Stay focused on the behavior- because they WILL try to detract from it & turn it around on you

Gather your resources

Consider leaving or cutting contact

Consider therapy or online support groups to help yourself breathe and find safer spaces for yourself

Have an exit plan

Do not engage with the arguments & emotional bait

Cultivate your privacy

Cultivate your security

Cultivate yourself a safe space

Prepare yourself for the backlash

Ask someone safe to go with you

Call someone safe and ask them to stay on the phone with you if you do not feel safe

Self defense tools like pepper spray & brass knuckles

Know you're worth the exit

Take yourself seriously when they dont

Honor the gut feelings

Restore faith in your judgement

Honor your voice

Honor your body

Honor your "no"

Ask for a pause- "I need a break."

Ask for clarity- "Can you clarify that?"

Ask what their intentions are- "Are you being helpful or hurtful?"

Bring attention to the behavior and how it's making you feel- "I'm not comfortable with the way you're ignoring my concerns."

Make direct eye contact & deepen your voice- "You need to stop."

Do not apologize

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Hope this helps!

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#recovery #ptsd #trauma #boundaries #mental health #healing #bpd #positivity #how to say no #setting boundaries #communication #relationships #toxic relationships #toxic friendships #toxic family #reminders #suggestions #compassionate reminders

[stagefoureddiediaz]

Tim I just want to talk about your word choice.

Why use coupling rather than pairing? Why??!!!

#coupling has such a specific intent implied - it automatically makes one thing relationship #where as pairing is more suggestive of friends or work partners etc #you only really describe romantic partners as a couple not besties! #911 spoilers #eddie diaz #evan buckley #buddie #911 abc #911 s7

[mydarling-suggestions]

I want you to come. I want to spend time with you. I want you, intentionally, and all the time~

#if anyone reads the tags and enjoys watching streams then this is my lil announcement to say I’ve started streaming #just minecraft and elden ring mostly #my twitch username is blooper81 and I’ll be streaming again tomorrow night 20-9-2022 at around 7-7:30pm AEST #peace out homies #suggestion #love #love suggestion #relationship #relationship suggestions #dating #dating suggestions #wlw #wlw suggestions #mlm #mlm suggestions #mod alex

[oozedninjas]

The orange peel theory

You saw this trend on TikTok, and now you must try it with your boyfriend. Would they pass the test?

General verses / sfw / ninja guys are late 20's

"Honey, I was wondering if you could help me peel this orange," you say before sitting next to him on the couch. His favorite show was about to start.

Leo looked at the orange, then at you, before taking it with a sweet smile. "Gladly."

This man never misses an opportunity to impress you.

Leo peeled a fragment with the sharp end of his katana, then removed it entirely with precise movements. He stole a few glances at you, wearing a flirty smile.

"Thank you, Leo."

He grins. "It's always an honor to help you."

"Babe, are you busy?"

Raphael turned, his eyes lighting up at the sight of you.

"I was just about to go on patrol. Why?"

"Would you mind helping me peel this orange?"

He tilted his head. You weren't one to ask for help with trivial stuff. Yet, Raphael shrugged, minding the way your eyes seemed to sparkle. It brought a smile to his face.

"Sure! Pass it over."

Raph peeled the orange, mindful not to bruise it as you admired the strength in his hands and his clumsy attempt at gentleness.

"Here you go."

It looked ridiculously tiny in his hand. You giggled. "Thanks, babe."

"Thanks?" Raph leaned over the wall, trapping you between his plastron and the bricks. "A kiss is the price to pay," he teased.

"Hey, love, I was wondering if you'd help me peel my orange?"

Donatello tuned to you, adjusting his glasses over his nose. "Of course, I'd be happy to assist," he gave you a sweet smile before cleaning up his hands.

"Would you like the orange peeled only, or do you want it sliced into wedges? I can put it on a plate— I think we have some little toothpicks around here; they'll help you eat it more comfortably," He said, moving through the place.

You weren't sure if he was talking to you or thinking out loud, but it mattered not. He definitely passed the vibe check. You were with the right man and couldn't be happier.

"Mikey baby, would you help me peel this?" you said, handing him the orange.

He was thrilled anytime you made him feel needed.

"Sure thing, angel. Watch and learn from the master of orange-peeling!" he said in an attempt to show off.

He's probably waving unexisting brows.

You sighed in that endearing way that only surfaced when he was around. Mikey eagerly peeled the orange and then bowed to present it to you.

"Thank you, mister."

"Anything for my baby!"

He'll be happy if you ask to eat it together.

#from the producers of “Would They Love You If You Were a worm” #The orange peel theory suggests that the small acts of service #and a partner's willingness to perform them #indicate a healthy relationship #in case u did know about this trend haha #unlikely but I still thought #context never killed anyone lol #tmnt x reader #tmnt #twenty something ninja turtles #tmnt bayverse #tmnt bayverse x reader #tmnt donatello #tmnt bayverse mikey #tmnt bayverse raph #tmnt bayverse leo #tmnt 2007 #tmnt 2007 raph #tmnt 2007 leo #tmnt 2007 donnie #tmnt 2007 mikey #tmnt 2012 #tmnt 2012 x reader #tmnt 2012 raph #tmnt 2012 leo #tmnt 2012 mikey #tmnt 2012 smut #tmnt 2012 donatello #tmnt 2003 #tmnt 2k3

[manincaffeine]

i wanna build a relationship with someone who cares about "why" i've been quiet all day. not someone who gets mad cause i'm "acting different".

#desiblr #desi tumblr #txt post #desi academia #txt #dark academia #relationship suggestion #light academia #my thoughts #writers on tumblr #spiled ink #light acamedia #intimacy #dark romanticism #dark romance #random thoughts

[desultory-suggestions]

It’s important to remember that affirmations are not meant to be said just when you’re ready to believe them. We practice affirmations so that we can offer ourselves reminders of kindness and do our best to act on them. It’s okay if you can say “I deserve good things” but can’t believe it yet. The goal is to gently work yourself up until you can.

#affirmations #reminders #affirmdaily #recovery #suggestions #positivity #self love #mental health #ed recovery #self care #love #positive suggestions #kindness #body neutrality #body positive #relationships #mental illness

[randyzorra]

Hear me out--

Trans Kung Lao

He and Johnny are fwb (Kenshi knows and is fine with it)

#sketches #mortal kombat #kung lao #johnny cage #raiden #kenshi takahashi #railao #johnshi #johnlao #johnlaoshi #i love railao to bits and I think their relationship is Complicated #like moreso than it should be because they're both cowards afraid of driving away their best friend in the world #ill draw them kissing sometime dw #suggestive

[uncanny-tranny]

If somebody in your life offers to knit or crochet or, really, create anything for you, please be an active participant in the creation of the piece they are making. I adore making and gifting things, but nothing bums me out quicker than a person who passively just goes "okay," to my ideas about what I'm making them - it can send the message that they won't like it, or that they don't care, even if they're happy about my offering. The back-and-forth feedback is a great way to make sure that you are being gifted something that was truly worth the time, effort, expertise, and money that will inevitably go into the gift!

I know it's really hard to be an active participant, believe me, I'm an anxious ball of horror, but it will only do good for both parties to interact in this situation. It is a big deal to be offered a hand-crafted gift, but it's also something we want you to love and use, and that can only happen if you tell us what would make you fall in love with what we create.

#advice #relationships #art #fiber art #knitting #crochet #i always try to remember that some people's responses to something big is to clam up and become more passive... #..i just want to remind you that you aren't in danger of Ruining Everything by suggesting things or asking questions or saying what YOU wan #like i asked my dad specifically how he would feel if i made him items SPECIFICALLY so i could gauge if he would like them for instance #i don't just want to create something i want the recipient to actually LIKE it #which is why i typically (not always) ask how somebody would feel about me giving them a specific gift #i know some people genuinely don't care in the sense that they would appreciate ANYTHING but sometimes that doesn't always translate i gues #im crocheting a set of coasters for my dad and i really hope hell truly like them because i'm not sure based on how he responded to my ideas #it makes me so happy to gift things but it's with the caveat that the recipient will think it is An Amazing Gift That Is SO Good And Useful