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eccedentesiast-skies · 1 year

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When you realize what you’re doing is not enough for someone anymore, is when you make the conscious decision to remove yourself from that environment.

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fsnavratil · 2 years

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lonersoul · 1 year

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Do you ever feel like losing yourself, even if you are in the same space, position and the same people you once felt perfectly comfortable with?

That's one of the scariest feelings of all. Not knowing who you are anymore, why you're doing it or where you are or you're going.

But I guess that must be part of the growing process. And this may have happened because, for once after a very long time, you had to get used to something new.

So the real problem is: we all have habits, good or bad. But the dangerous part is that they keep us stuck to just one way of living our life. They give us just one way to see things.

Nevertheless, I'd love to stay in my comfort zone forever, that may be the reason why I'm drowning in my problems.

I don't know if you can relate to this but, if you unfortunately do, let's make this change.

It's gonna be worth.

#self relfection #deep feelings #habits

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xii-mcmxcviii-xxvi · 2 years

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“What’s Love Like?”

Now this one, she can’t help but smile as she writes this. She fell in love. The most natural and authentic love she’s ever given anyone. She learned how to love someone. How to genuinely open up every aspect of herself to love. Of course she was terrified, but it happened so naturally she didn’t even realize she had. She didn’t realize she was falling in love. He loved everything about her, and it made her love herself more. He loved even the worst part of her, and she found beauty in her flaws. It’s the type of love you only receive once in a lifetime. The type of love, when your kids ask ``Hey Mom, what’s love like?’’ She’ll think of him. She’ll smile to herself for a moment as the memories come rushing back. She’ll be transported to the feeling, the touch, the smell of him. And for a moment she’ll fall in love all over again. Quite honestly, that is the best love for what she's known at that time.

#love #true love #what's love?#falling in love #adore #admiration #happiness #heartbreak #heartbroken #heart #poetry #healing #growth #self love #reflection #self relfection #thank you #letting you go #walking away

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principlesandpractice-vis4051 · 1 year

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Reflection

I think through this project I am starting to understand a lot more of what makes a good design. Through all the lectures and the research I am doing at home I feel like this is making my knowledge even better. One thing I 100% want to work on is to start doing more physical experiments as I don't think I achieved this.

#self relfection

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hotelcalliefornia · 1 year

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#blonde #gray eyes #self relfection #mirror #rbfsyndrome #gold necklace

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catdemonz · 1 year

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Reflection || Raindrops

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It’s been a heck of a week for me. Lots of ups and downs. Recently lost a dear relative may she RIP. Despite life is unpredictable, there’s a lot of things to learn from. Stay safe out there.. 💜

#drawing #art #illustration #procreate #doodle #artist #artwork #draw #artist on tumblr #illustrations #digitalart #raindrops #sad thoughts #sad drawing #self relfection #digitalillustration #illustrationart

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todrowninmythoughts · 1 year

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the girl who cried wolf

you were just a wolf in sheep’s clothing. protecting me from the world outside while you kept me shut inside.

i cried more tears with you than when i was without you. i figured this was normal this is what love was but what i can say is that you broke me down to my bones. bearing my insides to you and you just took advantage of the kill.

i’m fragile please be careful. was that not clear to you after i told you what happened to me?

#poetry #poet #words #female writers #poets on tumblr #writers #writerscorner #writing #thoughts #lit #creative writing #creative women #quotes #the girl who cried wolf #self relfection

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drinkaglassofwater · 1 year

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Why did I get angry and upset ???

I got so upset because I'm broke af.

We are stable and thats what I have to remember. The stress and anger is coming from my brain.

I got so upset and spiky because I felt like a failure. I feel like a failure because I had to take time off work for my mental health. Which isn't even real in the first place. Because depression is just a lazy person thing.

those are all seeds I did not plant but continue to water. Fuck you I'm pulling them out today

We are okay. I had to take time away from working so much so I could focus on my mental health because I have CPTSD and depression.

I make enough to scrape by on my end.

I have been getting better!!!! And that is scary in its own way because I know it takes time!

The orb of suicidal ideation was glowing.

It's okay we are okay

#dear diary #emotional abuse #self relfection

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branflakefarm · 1 year

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Renaștere 2022: Day of Home

#renaștere #home #journal #self relfection

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angiesawakening · 1 year

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Is he manipulating me and saying what he thinks I want to hear to keep me around for his pleasure or does he genuinely care about me and love me. His words tell me one thing but his actions well he can sell a dream I tell you that. 6 years and I’m still fucking confused when really that should be my answer right there

#aries #aquarius #manipulation #groomed #self relfection #spiritualawakening #twinflames #karmic

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b0bthebuilder35 · 1 year

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fsnavratil · 2 years

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and still, it flows

//fs navratil

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thoughtstothinkabout · 2 years

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Are you a morning person?

The first thought of my morning was, “I’m awake again.” I have to get out bed again; I have to live life another day. I’m not really a morning person. I guess my biggest conflict of interest is that I value sleep more than I value being awake. The whole issue with that is, I shouldn’t feel like that. I want to be able to wake up and get up; instead I lay there thinking through my worries of the entire day. I guess the biggest thing that I could change is my mindset on the day.

With that thought aside, I am grateful that I get to wake up each day. I am alive, I have free will, I have deliverance. Even though I have thoughts about staying in bed all day, I get up. Sometimes those thoughts win and I am out of luck; but the days where I am able to pull myself out of bed, are the days that push me to get up again.

If you have the same thoughts, I feel you. Our thoughts and feelings are valid, how we use them is what can make or break us. Think about your mornings, how could you change them? Thank you for letting me share my thoughts, feel free to share yours too. Stay safe! <3

#mental health #mentalheathawareness #new blog #safe space #piece of mind #self care #self relfection

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everythinkaloud · 2 years

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Don’t let the situation (and your emotional response to it) blind you to how you are behaving

#principles #look at yourself #be honest with yourself #be the best you #standards #self relfection

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cygopf13 · 2 years

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Am I Triggered?

Welcome to Am I Triggered where I figure out for myself just how bothered by something I really am and where does the irritation come from.

I started to lose my cool this morning because my first interaction with someone close to me was not "Good morning" or even just silence it was "So we need to go to the store today".

...I know I already sound dramatic...

Like most other adults I work a job where I am not my own boss and therefor spend 35+ hours a week being told what to do, when to eat lunch, what to do for people, what to get for people, what tasks to finish for people, and so on. I don't think its out of line to see why waking up almost every off day to "I need this", "We need to go to this store", "This needs to get picked up" can be irritating after a while.

Why does MY day OFF not feel like MY day??? Why is my day being started by people, who are not even paying me now, telling me what does and doesn't need to be done on that day. I actually DON'T need to take you to any store, but you can ASK me too.

Don't come at me with "What are you doing today?" if you are going to immediately follow it with "Well we need to get cat food". Step up and approach me with "Hey I'm not sure what you have going on today, but do you think we can get some cat food? We are running low."

Don't come at me with "So and so needs to go to the store today". Step up and say "Good morning, when you're awake can we figure out today's schedule because so and so needs a ride?"

At first glance I think its easy to look at the above text and think I'm just being picky or snooty but I'm sure there are also many adult like me who either never felt respected as a kid or even by perhaps their friend groups growing up. Any time you said what you wanted to do it was pushed back to a later date and never happened or not even acknowledged from the get go. Your plans were always the ones being changed or altered to accommodate for others so it often felt like the only way to do the things you wanted done was to do them alone and that made us feel unimportant. It made us feel like we were meant to be side characters in our own story.

So now man times as an adult when we feel like we are being addressed in a way that is telling us what to do with OUR time and OUR life we start becoming emotionally charged. Our defenses want to kick in because we are adults now, no one tells us to do any more. Perhaps part of it is our hurt inner child lashing out but, at the end of the day I don't feel like that charge is still without justification.

I don't care if someone is the main driver, the stay at home mom, the person with no job and a lot of free time, the only one with no kids, the whatever they are that makes they the one usually doing all the things. They are still a person with their own ideas of what they want to do with their time. I don't care if you even know they will always say "yes" anyway.

Ask them to accommodate. Do not tell anyone what they are going to do with their day. Ask them to accommodate your request even if its the same request every weekend.

Time is infinite and finite at the same time. Infringing on someone's time without care is like telling them their time on Earth has no better purpose, can be no better well spent.

It's not often what we say that makes an impact but how we say it. Asking instead of telling simply shows compassion.

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As a disclaimer however, if you are the much too much opposite kind of person who has to use the excuse "Well you didn't ask me too help" when it comes to just pulling your own weight, like you rightfully should do, when it comes to shared responsibilities like household chores, raising kids, relationships, school projects, etc. Just go rot in the corner like the lazy ass you are and stop WAISTING other peoples' precious time.

#time #thoughtoftheday #blog #journal #thoguhts #inner child #healing #trigger #reflection #self relfection #societal nor #perception #writing

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