are there any selfship/ficto blogs that are proship friendly? i want to get into the community to see what it's like and all the posts i see in the selfship tag have 'proship dni' plastered all over them :( thanks in advance!
Imagine you & your f/o(s) going out and you’re perfectly fine for a while but it hits suddenly: you’re out of energy for the outing. You don’t say anything, you don’t want to ruin the good time, but you don’t need to say anything. Your f/o(s) know you well enough to know when you’re tuckered out and need to recharge.
They take you home and order in food and give you some time to rest, whether that’s with them or not. When you’re ready, whether it’s that night or the next morning, or even longer, they’ll be there waiting with open arms.
And there’s no need to worry, you’ll always be invited, even if you have to leave early.
imagine your f/o(s) being interested with whatever your special interest is. it makes them smile to see you so happy and passionate about the thing you love the most. they would sit down with you and listen to you as you ramble on and on for hours on end, with the occasional question or quick cuddle break- you could continue talking in their arms and they wouldn't care i would think.
maybe your f/o(s) would want to see what your special interest is all about. whether it's a video game, a book, even something so obscure; they wouldn't care less and would want to experience it with you. your happiness is their happiness, and they wouldn't trade that for the world.
Selfshippers who spiral in any way, your f/o would help you stop falling down that deep pit, catching you and making sure you’re alright and comforting you until it’s all out of your system. They’re always there for you, they won’t stop when it gets difficult.
Picrew game!! Especially for people who aren’t artists:
Make one of your self-inserts on these 3 picrews and I’ll draw them! Feel free to include a separate outfit reference if you can’t find the right vibes, and you can say which picrew you think is most accurate if you’d like!
Here’s my critical role s/i as an example for the picrews <3
1- https://picrew.me/ja/image_maker/1414503
2-https://href.li/?https://picrew.me/en/image_maker/1469769 or https://href.li/?https://picrew.me/en/image_maker/1944831 for a different body shape option!
3-https://picrew.me/en/image_maker/587862
(if you have an OC who is an f/o, then you can also use this for them; or if it’s hard to get references of your f/o because they’re from a book or podcast! One at a time though please!)
Sometimes half the fun of having fictional parent f/os is really funny cause sometimes you see a character who the whole fandom has the hots for meanwhile I’m here like… yep that’s my parent everyone find’s them EXTREMELY attractive
Anyways parental f/o havers imagine teasing the CRAP your parental f/o over people thirsting after them <3
Selfcare is not interacting with my F/Os fandom because their version of my F/Os are just wrong no matter how you see it. Mischaracterisation, watering them down to one trait, ignoring their entire backstory, making jokes about their trauma and all that. I'm my own fandom and the number one fan of all my F/Os.
I got a 💫 c u r i o s i t y 💫 for you guys to indulge in, to humor, to entertain.
How "canon" is your f/o's canon? Like, how different or how similar is your f/o's lore to the source they came from? And when you reblog, it would be really boring but also acceptable if you only answered in the tags, but like give me a whole POST to read when you reblog this post if you want to answer. Lore dump me. Lore dump everybody, I want to know how much thought you've put into your f/o whether it be generating a whole lore of your own or just learning everything about your f/o's source that you could. Or does your lore and their lore mingle, or is it not related at all?
I'll drop a couple of my f/os below the keep reading to go first :00
Smiley/Barry:
For one, his name is changed. I posted about it.
There isnt jack diddly in the movie, he does have a whole freaking backstory I made for him. I'm no pro at writing, but it's some general headcanons and lore I conjured together for him.
Dracula:
Generally same lore as the 1931 movie and the novel combined in one way or another and some things I picked up on the internet. Not super different from his sources or much added.
The most extra headcanons he has in terms of how he is might be specifics about his wolf and bat forms, but not really.
Inkubus:
Has extra/hybrid demon forms. Looks like a satyr demon, has a goat form, and his human disguise is defaulted to the one in the movie. He can mix his forms however he pleases and ofc look like/possess other people if need be.
He has some other assumed powers, probably not entirely to incubus mythology, but I don't think he really is either.
What little lore about him that's given is also generally retained/assumed.
your f/o speaks in a soft tone, calling out to you- pulling you out of your dark train of thoughts. your mind wanders but ultimately, your mind is filled with thoughts of your f/o as you rant to them, feeling comfortable with them and in their arms. your f/o's gaze softens, hurt you were thinking these things. your f/o pulls you closer to them, stroking your head softly
"it's okay now, i'm here and i won't leave you, ever."
the softness in their voice made you smile as you hugged your f/o back, feeling more at peace with them. you felt safe, you felt reassured, but most of all, you felt happy. your f/o will always be there for you- no matter the relation; romantic, familial, platonic- what matters most is they get to see you smile. you will get through this, tomorrow will be a new day.