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thefemmation · 2 years

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I know it’s truly a hard concept because we’ve programmed this way but DECENTER MEN from your life.

Go extremely hard for yourself to the point where the idea doesn’t even come up.

Meeting men after you decenter them is completely different bc you hold all of your power. You’ll realize that you’re no longer caring about a text back or super nervous for a first date. It’s because you’ll be WHOLE. A man is not your other half. You don’t want half of a man, you want a WHOLE 🫶🏽💋

DECENTER (and I can not stress this enough) MEN from your life.

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diamondluxesugar · 9 months

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Hi so I’m really going through it atm and would appreciate some input/advice please💕 so i just found out that the guy I was talking to for a year long distance has had a gf all this time...the girl reached out to me calling my phone and I knew immediately it was weird that a Miami number was calling me...anyway she was wondering who I was because she said she saw my number on her boyfriends phone...I told her everything then sent her screenshots to confirm. While I was sending her them, the guy was texting me and then I called him and was like “you have a girlfriend” and he goes “you had a dating app” then hung up and blocked me...I don’t understand this because why would he cheat with me for a year just to block me when the girlfriend found out?? She said they broke up too...I’m just so hurt. She also blocked me after telling her everything so I can’t ask her if they are actually broken up or not...I tried calling him many times a weeks after from No Caller ID and he texts me “stop fucking calling, how it’s clearly over, to move on, stop being so obsessed” I denied it but I was just so hurt especially because he’s lied to me and led me on for what?? Why do this to me when we’re long distance why hurt me like that? Anyway, like 2 weeks later called me many times kept telling me to call him so did he goes “just wanted to apologize clear the air sorry you had to go through all that” and I was like “ok” then before I could say more he hung up and blocked me....then like 2 weeks after that messaged me “yo, kept calling me and I told him I couldn’t talk that I was at work at he goes “right” and I was like “I am” and he goes “bet” and I was like “what” and he goes “forget it” and I was like “?” Then he emphasized it...then I said I could talk later and he liked the text then I sent him “If you’re going to be rude and upset me then we don’t need to talk. You’ve really hurt me a lot. I didn’t know you had a girlfriend all this time so would have never even come to Miami to begin with to see you...that is gross. you putting me in the middle hasn’t been fair especially being that you’ve lied to me so much, made my anxiety way worse we’ve just hookup and you’ve left me every time being blacked out and all and could have died..... I really don’t understand why you would do that to me...or this girl really. You’ve wasted my time and money and don’t know why you would think that is okay....” then he emphasized that we would talk later but then when I tried to call him blocked again....why is he doing this?? Then I just stopped calling him for 2 weeks then this last Monday he calls me 3 times in a row, texts me “yo” then within 15 minutes blocked me before I could answer him..why is he doing this? I don’t understand and then blocking me....I left him alone so I’m really not understanding I’m also not understanding why he blocked me when the gf found out but would do this to me for a year....

My question is, why haven't you blocked him? He's getting off on being able to contact you. You need to completely remove him from your life. Block him on everything. All social media platforms, his phone number, everything. Whenever a phone call from an unrecognized number comes in, immediately block and delete it from your call log.

I agree with him, you're obsessing over him, KNOWING that he was intentionally hurting you for more than a year at this point. You're only going to keep hurting yourself by interacting with him and by entertaining the thought of him and this girl.

#spoiled heaux #askdls #black sugar baby #brown sugar bowl #sugar bowl #brown sugar baby #black luxury #black sugar dating #spoiled gf #spoiled girlfriend #relationships #relationship advice #advice #heaux advice #sugar baby advice #life advice

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gothcarrot · 1 year

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Hey I’m 18 and I just wanted to know like how do you get a girl to like you???!!

you give her money!!!

#bitches #sugar baby advice

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hunnieethreal · 2 years

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My date wants to take me to a sports game but I have no interest in sports what do I do?

Be honest and upfront. Most men I date I let them know I have no interest in sports and am not interested in learning about them. Tell them you respect their interests and that you're glad that they enjoy it but it's not something you like and you'd prefer to do something else.

All of my previous dates understood and during a trip with my ex we went to Vegas and there was a football game on. He took us to a giant mall gave me his card and a limit then he went to the sports bar and watched the game and then we met back up after and got dinner and continued our day. It was a compromise since I wanted to shop and he wanted to watch the game.

If they're interested they would be willing to compromise or find an alternative that works for the both of you.

#ask rosa #sugar baby advice #sugarbabies #sugaring

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sortagolddigger · 3 months

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Always remember it’s not about being head over heels in love, that’s how you get hurt and walked on.

It’s about how he treats you and does he make you feel safe asking for things.

Is he a provider that fits your life goals?

That’s your man.

I’m not saying date an ugly man, I am saying date a man you don’t mind growing old with because he makes you feel safe and pays the bills

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brownsugar-dreams · 1 year

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This Is Your Sign

A quick note to the ladies who are on their level up, metamorphic hypergamous journey: Please trust yourself. If things aren’t moving as quick as you thought, don’t regress. I promise going back to that broke low vibe little boy is not better than being alone. Please date multiple men and don’t limit yourself.

You cannot convince a man who isn’t capable of providing why you deserve to be provided for. It’s not you, it’s him. Let that frustration go. You’ll feel so much lighter. Walk away from that cycle, and you’ll be amazed at how prosperity gravitates towards you. Wealth, health, and happiness can’t reach you when you’re intertwined with energy that repels the things you want to attract. Friends with benefits is a joke, invest in a vibrator. Every time you go back, you shift the energy away from your break through. Cut off all contact & move forward gracefully. I didn’t find success in sugar dating/hypergamy until I was about 1.5 years free of my ex. And now I’ll be graduating med school almost (if not fully) debt free with contacts I met through networking while dating. I’ve traveled to places I never dreamed of visiting and learned things that people pay money and spend years trying to learn. Date lawyers, finance/tech guys, business moguls. You’ll learn so much about money & how to invest. Don’t block your blessings, you’re so so close ✨

#sugar bowl #sugar lifestyle #sugar baby tips #just ranting #advice #bad bitch #heaux tips #sugar dating #hypergamy #levelling up #dating #womenempowerment

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koolkat9 · 9 months

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Are you interested in being my sugar baby am ready to spoil you and also make sure you don't get to struggle financially anymore

#hetalia #shit post #i mean what you do with your money is on you #but like #word of advice #tumblr is not really the place to pick up sugar babies #at least not this side of tumble #*tumblr

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rich-girl-life · 11 months

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i grew up in poverty, so i wanted to change that. i got a myself a job at a town where many wealthy people are always at. and i am lucky to have met him, of all the people i could have.

he is such a gentleman and is so patient with me. he spoils me to the point where i even had to restrain him sometimes.

always be with a man who wants to give, no matter what!

#rich girl #relationship advice #wealth #money #sugar babi #sugar #daddy #billionaire #high maintenance #luxury aesthetic

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thefemmation · 2 years

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If you want to settle for less... that's fine, but do not shame women for having the standards you couldn't keep.

Stop trying to hand out misery to those who AVOID it. No one cares what you think.

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a-philanthropistswife · 2 years

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Hi philanthropist’s wife :) I was wondering what you think some of the differences in approaching the spoiled girlfriend vs sugar baby lifestyles are? I’m more interested in the spoiled gf route since I’m looking for something more long term but I know a lot of advice for all flavors of sw/hypergamy/blah blah gets mixed in together often times. I hope you’re well! x

Hi Honey,

The main difference imo between a sugar baby and spoiled girlfriend is what you already mentioned: the length of the relationship. Now that’s not to say some sugar babies don’t have long lasting arrangements with their daddies but it’s not the main goal.

The next important distinction is when you’re a spoiled gf that man is your bf so he’d better be someone you can tolerate actually enjoy being with. When you’re a sugar baby you can get what you want relatively quickly and upfront vs spoiled gf you’re taking the time to flesh out a whole relationship to get what you want.

In this day and age sugaring is done lol it’s become so mainstream it’s mostly salt daddies and scammers in the bowl. There are still some successful sugar babies but the ones I know are vets/part time escorts.

There’s a reason all the advice sounds similar when it comes to getting into this game. You can call it whatever you want but at the end of the day it’s all different iterations of the same thing. You’d be wise to learn as much as you can from high end escorts and sugar babies and never mention it to your future bf.

Happy hunting sis and good luck! Send me an update once you’ve snagged your whale 🎣

Xoxo

#asks #question tag #spoiled gf #hypergamy #advice #heauxlife #baby heaux #sugar bowl #sugar dating

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lock-my-feelings-in-a-jar · 1 year

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#eyestrain #the rubettes #sugar baby love #1974 #people. take my advice. if YOU love someone. don't think twice. LOVE YOUR BAAAAAAAABBBY LOOOOVE SUGAR BAAAABY LOOOOVE #LOVE HER ANNYYYYWAAAAAYYY #LOVE HER EVVERRRRRYYY DAAAAYYYYYY #laHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA #part of this is in the next set sorry i couldn't stop myself from typing it all

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sortagolddigger · 5 months

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Learn to recognize when you can do better.

If he makes you feel guilty for wanting to be taken care of, you deserve better. Since the 1700’s women have only survived because they chose men who were capable of providing and protecting

Don’t let these new age dusties gaslight you into accepting the poverty love they offer

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