#transmed safe

[trans-wojak]

#personal #original content #anti mogai #transmed #lgbt exclu #oc meme #literally me #transmed safe #transmedicalist #lgbt exclusionist #non binary cringe #mine #shitpost #women ☕️

[foxfairy06]

TW: mentions of molestation, beating, abuse, grooming, etc.

#exclusionist #gravity knife gay #anti inclus #anti inclusionist #battleaxe bi #exclus #longsword lesbian #transmed #transmed safe #esai lgbt #truscum safe #pro truscum #lgbt #pro lgbt #lgbt safe #anti xenogender #anti mogai #anti tucute

[m3l4nch0ly-h1ll]

Some alloromantics and allosexuals have fluxuating or spiking attraction towards others. Some of them don't experience attraction until they're close with someone. Some experience attraction to someone they aren't close with, etc.

Some cis people are gender non-conforming or have multiple expressions (masculine, feminine.) Some cis girls like to wear boy's clothes. Some cis boys like to wear girl's clothes. Some cis people don't feel strongly about their bodies- especially when they're autistic.

Stop making things so complex and stop being inclusive of allo cishets. New terms are made to just include them in a community they don't fit the correct criteria for. Stop influencing them and tricking them into thinking they're part of the community just for being diverse.

I understand people like terms to better describe themselves, but plenty of the aromantic and asexual spectrum terms describe allo's too. Aromantic and asexual are strict terms defined as people who don't experience any romantic/sexual attraction at all.

#lgbtq #pro transmed #transmedicalism #truscum #gender critical #exclus #gnc #tucute #aromantic #asexual #aroace #alloromantic #allosexuality #queer #criticism #allo cishet #controversy #transmed safe

[casperthemainecoon]

Critizeing Transmeds as a Transmed:

Btw some of this is pointed out to radmeds and I know that not all transmeds do this its just that I've seen these problems in the community before:

Stop judging random people online: This is a thing that I've done before and this is the most common thing I see in the transmed community. You don't know someone's entire life or story based on a few photos or videos, just because they look like a cis person claiming to be trans you don't know that. Some people can't transition at the moment because of living somewhere unsafe or anything like that . And btw transition takes time so if someone doesn't seem to be transitioning that isn't always the case. I don't pass at all but I am transitioning because I've gotten a haircut, got a binder, told some people close to me my chosen name and pronouns (although they're not being used at the moment) The best example I could use for this is when I was arguing with someone online because they said they were a trans men yet looked completely female (not even GNC, they looked completely cis) I called them cis and said they weren't trans because they didn't experience dysphoria or a desire to transition and they told me that they DO experience dysphoria (social dysphoria) and desire to transition and the reason why they didn't want to transition at the moment was because they wanted to have biological kids and didn't want to mess up their body until they had at least one biological child which is completely VALID. Every trans person is different and their journey is different. Unless someone straight up says they have no dysphoria and have no desire to transition then don't judge because you don't know them or their life or their current situation.

Not everyone has to medically transition or do all the surgeries: This is more directed to the radmeds of the community and I know it is a small minority but I would still like to point it out. Anyways, as I mentioned before, EVERY TRANS PERSON IS DIFFERENT which means that their transition journey will be different. That would include some people not deciding to medically transition. Someone may not medically transition for many reasons, they may already have features of their desired gender and pass with just social transition, their dysphoria isn't that severe and they already feel comfortable with just social transition, etc. Now for surgeries, there are some trans people that will medically transition by taking hormones but they don't want to have any surgeries and that is completely valid. Again, no trans person is the same and people will have their reasons not to get any surgeries. Some trans people will be fine just binding/tucking and don't desire top or bottom surgery, some don't have dysphoria with certain parts of their body and don't need top or bottom surgery (for FTMs with no top dysphoria would probably mean they already have a small chest or no chest at all which is valid for them not to want top surgery), some people just don't want to risk surgery complications, some trans people already pass without surgery and don't feel the need to have surgery, etc. Transmeds belive that to be trans one must have gender dysphoria and a desire to transition and transition is different for everyone, some will only socialally transition, some will medically transition without having any surgeries, some will medically transition and have some surgeries, some will have all the surgeries and everyone's transition journey is VALID :)

Stop supporting right winged transmed creators like Blaire White just because they have a good point sometimes: The right hates ALL trans people, even us transmeds trust me I've tried arguing with transphobes using transmed logic and they were still transphobic. People like Blaire White not only makes the transmed community look bad because she is the root of most transmed stereotypes and strawman arguments (like how all transmeds are miserable, all transmeds are right winged cis bootlickers, all transmeds hate non binary people although Kalvin is also somewhat responsible for that stereotype) but also people like Blaire White have a lot of internalized transphobia as they side with the right which we all know that most of them are transphobic TERFS and transmeds shouldn't associate with these people as they still don't realize that transphobes are after all of us and you can't be a "good" trans person in their eyes. Just because these right winged transmed creators have good takes sometimes doesn't make them a good representation of our community, these people are usually fuelled by negativity which leads me to my next point

Just be more positive guys: Everytime I go on the truscum subreddit all I see is just vent after vent after vent and people complaining about tucutes. Although I do belive that trans safe spaces should allow people to vent, Jesus Christ its all I see, no wonder tucutes think we're all miserable. It wouldn't hurt us to be a little more positive, yea I understand being trans isn't the most positive thing ever, I get it gender dysphoria fucking sucks. But try to focus more on the positives of your life, like how you had a pretty nice day, you passed well today, how therapy is going really well for you, etc. We should have a community where people feel safe to be sad and vent but let's try to be a little more lighthearted :)

And that's all I can think of for now, if you disagree or think I've missed anything I am definitely up for debate and discussion :)

#trans #transgender #transmed #truscum #exclus #discourse #debate #transmed safe #transmed discourse

[coreytaylorwouldbeproud]

hiiiii i used to be @nullsexducks but i got logged out and can’t log back in sOo I’m back and honestly probably worse lmaooo

people tend to do intro/pinned posts so here’s mine!

- hiii i’m 20 years old

- live in the USA, west coast

- i still don’t really know how to work this app

- AuDHD, DRDP, c-PTSD, ARFID, CFS

- metalhead, goth, punk, leftist (not liberal), artist, squishmallow collector

- gender questioning kinda

- bisexual and proud!!!

- happy battle-axe bisexual, truscum, transmed, pro dysphoric enben, aro/ace exclusionist

- HEAVILY ANTI-SELF DIAGNOSIS

- dysphoria ≠ you hate yourself or are miserable 24/7

- you need more than just social gender dysphoria to be trans

- stimming is not “cute”

- disorders/mental illnesses are not genders, and neither are personality traits or aesthetics

- there are only two genders, man and woman! if you’re non-binary, then you’re neither, not a third gender.

- trump sucks ass but so does biden (whyyyy old white men whyyyy)

- anti “endogenic” systems

- i love cringe culture 🫶🏼

- no one is perfect, it’s a good thing to admit you’re mistakes and grow :)

- ex-inclusionist

- please don’t ask me about ship-course i have no idea what that means and cannot figure it out for the life of me

- have your sources ready!

DNI tucutes/mogai/inclusionists/endos UNLESS you’re coming to have a polite and rational conversation :)

doxxing, harassing, stalking, sui-baiting people is awful and not tolerated here

petty insults will get you nowhere

even if we disagree on things here, we’re all still people who deserve basic respect, rights, and kindness.

#transmed #transmed positivity #transmed safe #truscum #ace exclusion #exclusionism #battleaxe bi #battle axe bisexual #anti endo #anti self diagnosis #anti self dx

[antitransmedicalism]

I hope the transmeds who trusted cis transphobes over trans people are happy.

Not only is federal aid prohibited for trans people to use for medical transition in Florida for ALL AGES, and medical transition banned for trans kids in the same state, but just days ago, the Attorney General has severely limited trans health care for trans kids AND adults in Missouri.

Missouri, the same state which a legislator was defending 12 year old kids getting married.

“They are doing it for the kids to protect them from tucute ideology”, nothing like the political party of several convicted child traffickers/abusers/rapists/molesters, upholding child marriage in their states and forcing kids to be pregnant/give birth to “think of the children”.

They went after kids so they can go after adults too. 

And in the same state (Missouri) they are also screening people for autism and depression to further prohibit trans healthcare.

Transmeds blame the APA(s), the WPATH, the WHO, Planned Parenthood, etc for “pushing tucute ideology” but those organizations among all others are the ones FIGHTING FOR ALL TRANS PEOPLE while y’all sit like useless idiots blaming trans people for cis people being transphobic.

They are coming after all of us, and more red states will implement laws like this to come. God forbid you are mentally ill or neurodivergent because they will use that AGAINST you.

This is what playing respectability politics gets you. This is what normalizing self-hate and internalized transphobia gets you. This is what buddying up with right wingers, TERFs and other transphobes gets you.

You don’t have “tucutes” “trenders” or anyone against transmedicalism to blame.

I hope you transmeds are happy. 

#transmed #truscum #transmed safe #anti truscum #anti transmed #transphobia

[harveyyaps]

getting a more gender affirming haircut will change your life I AM A NEW PERSON. !!!!

#transgender #transitioning #anti terf #ftm #transmed safe

[shrimpmandan]

idk if this is a hot take but i dont get why some trans people act like certain surgeries were invented for trans people when they weren’t. phalloplasty was invented for cis men. double mastectomies and hysterectomies and breast implants were invented for cis women. HORMONES were invented for cis people. These aren’t inherently trans resources. This isn’t even meant to be one of those “oh cis people should experiment with hormones uwu” posts it’s literally just a fact that most things touted as “trans resources” were not initially invented for trans people and it’s kind of weird to treat them as such as if Barbara from IT is a transphobe for not wanting a uterus or whatever

#trans discourse #transmed #transmedicalism #truscum #transmed safe #truscum safe #this isnt anti transmed just something ive noticed sometimes??? #not as often as of recent though

[dakotadawn]

I see people act like intersex disorders are this incredibly rare thing but that trans people are super common and regular. Statistically transsexualism is probably about as rare if not more rare than intersex disorders. Its just the modern wave of "transgender identities" make it LOOK more common.

#trans #transsexual #transmed safe #transmed #intersex

[trans-wojak]

G’day, I made a transmed meme

#anti mogai #lgbt exclu #transmed memes #transmed #transmed safe #transtrender #nonbinarycringe

[foxfairy06]

#exclusionist #gravity knife gay #anti inclusionist #anti inclus #battleaxe bi #exclus #longsword lesbian #transmed #transmed safe #esai lgbt #truscum safe #lgbt #discourse memes #anti mogai #anti xenogender

[economically-not-a-communist]

Every once in a while I have to make sure I'm interacting a normal amount with normal women and actual feminism every once in a while, to avoid falling into the transsex-male-to-rampant-misogynist pipeline. Far too easy to go from "radfems and gender abolitionists are literally the scum of the earth" (true statement) to "well maybe all feminism is bullshit" (not at all true statement) to "trans women are somehow lesser than trans men, and all women are evil and out to get Us" (batshit crazy).

#sorta shitpost #but also it's kind of true #a lot of us use misogyny (& transmisogyny) as a cope for the shite experience of having been forcibly raised female #and also to compensate for not being seen as “real” men by so many #i know that wishing I could be stealth and wanting to pass has personally lead to a lot of internalized toxic masculinity #not to say it's a good thing at all no one should be trying to compensate for being “not man enough” by putting down others #transmed #truscum #transmed safe #exclu #i still harbor some lingering resentment against lesbians because of all the tucutes and terfs equating trans men with lesbians #it's super frustrating to have Certain WLWs tell me that “I'm accepted in their community uwu!” #and how “trans men are the only men they like” #me liking women isn't and never has been sapphic #but still gotta remember that even tho there are lesbian & bi women in my life who think like that #doesnt mean that all or even most women think that way #my rants

[random-schit]

Block people if they're affecting your mental health. Don't read comments if they'll affect your mental health.

Internet discourse is just that- on the internet. Half of this shit people argue about online really doesn't matter in the day-to-day or presents completely different.

Echo chambers aren't healthy but if interacting with certain groups of people is causing you serious anxiety or stress, you are under no obligation to engage, to answer their demands, or to fall into their pleas for attention.

Prioritize your own mental health first before you worry about making other people feel better.

#trans discourse #personal #discourse #disk horse #ace discourse #mogai discourse #transmed discourse #transmed safe #mogai friendly #anti endo #pro endo

[coreytaylorwouldbeproud]

Log out of this account too. Get off Tumblr and go talk to a human being for once in your miserable life.

i’ll have you know that MY miserable life is MY business

also, kindly, fuck off💚 if you don’t even have the guts to send me this with your screen name behind it, then when you have to say is irrelevant to me. have fun hiding behind your virtual wall to be a dick online 💜

#transmed #transmed safe #truscum #lgbt discourse #battle axe bisexual #battleaxe bi

[antitransmedicalism]

so when are transmeds gonna stop complaining about “muh precious resources being stolen by ‘fake transes’” and start complaining about lawmakers, insurance companies and pharmaceuticals making it harder and harder for trans people to get help

because there are many dysphoric trans people who aren’t transmeds who are also in the same boat with many other trans people who are placed on waiting lists and denied treatment. Even when they are given the green light for treatment, they can barely afford it, even with insurance (something barely affordable itself)! 

And insurance companies are notorious for imposing roadblocks or certain criteria to cover treatment, like requiring HRT for top surgery, for example.

Not only were these industries ill-equipped to handle the left-hand phenomenon of trans people needing help, but they refuse to do much about it. Anti-trans lawmakers are making it even harder for that help to even take precedent. It is a malevolent legal wall impeding trans people from getting help.

For Christ's sake, the trans people using informed consent as a last resort AREN’T the ones “stealing” your resources. Many of those people were on waiting lists themselves imposed by a system that uses its incompetence to hurt trans people. You know, the same situation you are in.

You are mad because some of the trans people that are using informed consent (and are on the waiting lists) are trans in a way YOU don’t like, and you are reaching for anything to make them look bad. Too bad that cis transphobes literally DO NOT CARE whether you, the “better trans person”, are personally affected by a shit system.

#transmed #truscum #transmed safe #transmedicalist #transmedicalism #anti transmed #anti truscum #trans healthcare #transgender #nonbinary #gender dysphoria

[harveyyaps]

🦇 officially diagnosed with gender dysphoria !!! 🦇

as of march 15th 2023 i am now completely diagnosed with + recognized as having and experiencing gender dysphoria. it’s wild to think i’m here right now and actually got this diagnosis that used to be a dream years ago. next stop is HRT so let’s just goddamn hope this process goes smoothly !!

#transgender #transmed safe #transitioning