#trying to help

[thecupsmith]

The older I get, the more I think about this and since I couldn't find it anywhere else I decided to put it here. It is such a good observation of how and why weird shit gets past down: we're trying to save other people from our own lives. And while that is noble, we often don't tell people (or even know ourselves) that is what we are trying to do or why, so it seems inexplicable.

#thecupsmith #venture bros #triana orpheus #triana #dean venture #the master #triana's closet #doctor orpheus #dr. orpheus #byron orpheus #trying to help #observation #intergenerational trauma #intergenerational relationships

[louudthoughts]

don't look for me in other people. just look for me.

#feelings #emotions #numb #spilled ink #lonely thoughts #personal #poetry #original poem #i'm here for you #my art #art #trying to help #anti social

[sweetdreamer90]

Hi guys this is not GOT7 related but it's something really important I only use this account only for GOT7 for years and I'll continue to do so but my family has gone through so much it's embarrassing to ask for help I'm working my butt off trying my best to help my father any way I can and my dad supports my mom who has diabetes and sickle cell. my dad has been trying to find work it's been two weeks since he lost his job and I'm afraid that he might not have enough for his rent and I really don't want my parents to be evicted. This really sucks especially for my dad who is 66 he has worked his whole life since a child and he has never given up on finding ways out but times have changed and it's harder for him please help him even if it's just a dollar I would really appreciate it.

#gofundme #ahgase #trying to help my dad #trying to help #my family #hard times

[dan-is-watching]

NEXT IS:

JFK!

Okay so this guy, is the opposite of Abe in every way.

He has more of a profile, his nose is straight and his eyes are calm and his ears have an oval shape to them. His cheekbones don't stick very much, when he smiles he has dimples and he has a bit of a dimple on his chin. He has fuller lips and he has little wrinkles around his eyes.

NOW, he has a round head but with a pointed chin, but use softer edges on the jaw, it's defined but not like super defined.

Hope this helps!

#clone high #jfk clone high #drawing reference #art tips #trying to help

[r0semultiverse]

These organizations supporting KOSA going through while claiming they want to help marginalized kids are actually so disgusting to me. The posts they make about Nex is just virtue signaling & words when their actions say let’s make things worse for these children.

I’m gonna be 100% honest, they should keep that kid’s name out of their damn mouths so long as they support KOSA. Like actually fuck you & eat shit. Actions speak louder than words, traitorous scumbags. You don’t care, you care about your stakeholders more.

Your organization can only thrive & exist so long as there’s a problem to donate towards solving. Of course you would support KOSA, you need a problem to keep existing in order to look like the good guys & solve it. Just go mask off & call us slurs & your “customers” at this point, it would be less disgusting than covering it up behind kind words.

#this goes out to the Trevor project & PFLAG as well as GLAAD & GLSEN #all of you should keep Nex’s name out your mouth when you have every intention to make things worse for trans kids #I can’t imagine going to work for one of these charity organizations & just seeing your bosses make things worse for the people you are #trying to help #I cannot imagine how frustrating & upsetting that is & then the higher ups are just like okayyyy our organization can keep existing... #so now y’all lower rank workers go help these kids whose lives we just made worse! #these charity orgs function like retail stores I stg; they need customers to keep giving them money meanwhile the higher ups make things #worse for said customers while the cashiers & others just try to help the best they can #you’re doing damage control for your incompetent & terrible upper management; it’s just like every other American workplace #you can also compare supporting a bill that would hurt the people they claim to help as a war economy comparison #they need to keep the class war going by supporting this bill in order to keep having money to keep existing as an organization #they’re playing both sides while on the surface saying we are here to help! #no you aren’t! your workers are; but you as higher ups are prioritizing stakeholders over humanity & for that you’ve lost all my respect #I haven’t looked up evidence about the human rights campaign supporting KOSA but they’ve been bad in the past so I believe it tbh #I mean the recent Zionism from HRC is enough for me to be like yeahhh no they absolutely would be in support of the Kosa bill #mine #op #the trevor project #pflag #glaad #GLSEN

[nyx91]

I saw something a while ago now that changed a lot for me, 'there are no rules'...

If you're depressed or overwhelmed just doing the 'thing' is the achievement, you don't have to do it the 'right way' or right away.

If you find it hard to shower... if you want you could lay down in the shower, if it helps you have a shower then do that, or any variation you can think of... you could even buy a shower seat.

If you want, make a coffee bar for in your bedroom, if it helps you to get up, do that; set up a side board; coffee machine; some drawers (for a jug/mugs etc); a mini fridge for milk etc, then do that, do exactly what you want to do!

If you can't do a full task like cleaning, then just do part of it; if you can't hoover standing up sit on your sofa, do what you can reach from there, you'll probably end up getting up and doing the whole thing anyway and if you don't it's no big deal; if you do some laundry, just put away one t-shirt, doing tasks in bite size pieces instead of looking at the whole task usually motivates you to finishing the task anyway and if you don't get it done it's not a big deal, so what if you've got clean clothes in a hamper for a month as long as you're managing with your emotions.

It's good enough if all you did in a day is ✨breathe✨ because it means you're still here, and that's the most important thing of all!

Don't try and do everything at once or to anyone else's satisfaction or pressure.

Don't do things the way you expect to or have been 'taught the correct way' to if it ends up with you not even doing any of it anyway.

Go nuts; have breakfast upstairs for the morning; buy any sensory objects that might be interesting to you; make it so your house is built around your needs and ability to function, think of whatever you want, the sky's the limit!

Don't worry about what people will think because it's to help YOU to function and it's to get YOU past that point where you need to do things that way.

There is no normal or right way!

If you stick with the expectations of society it won't ever change how much you struggle because you aren't them, you do things the right way for YOU and that IS the normal way...

You are important, you are beautiful, you are special, you can do this and you are not alone!

Thank you!!!

💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

#to anyone who needs to hear this #depression #mental health #mental illness #overwhelmed #stressed #positivity #advice #trying to help #you are not alone #you matter #awareness #mental health awareness

[rockstarhaechan]

How do you become comfortable with your moots?

i think it depends on the person! i always try to get them into a good conversation or talk about funny topics!

try to get comfortable by memes, memes make a lot of people laugh and comfortable! don’t be shy about talking to them, i think that’s the biggest problem a lot of people have! but the moots i’ve talked to didn’t bite 😊

i hope it helped a little, if you still need help, you can dm me! 🖤

#trying to help #be positive #anns loves

[jhsharman]

the Pity of the nitty gritty

Stick legs.

Strange to see the need to extend two pages.

Dashes out.

#Archie Comics #Jughead #Archie Andrews #Betty Cooper #Veronica Lodge #Mr. Weatherbee #Trying to help #Rat Fink #Bill Vigoda #1970 #Punctuation #Promo filler

[callofxenon]

To everyone that has been giving @luciolefire some hell today:

LEAVE HER THE FUCK ALONE.

#trying to help #stop being bullies #warning #announcement

[miss-biophys]

Czech scientist discovered the working mechanism of a miraculous antibiotics that can kill even the gold staphylococcus

This is the title of an interview that I did about my antibiotic research for a Czech magazine HROT. Full interview article here.

I was really happy about this. I want people to know what we researchers are doing. But what I did not expect was email along these lines:

Dear Dr. Melcrová, I read your article in the magazine. I am suffering from staphylococcal infections for many years. Could you help me?

...I was in quite a shock. How should I reply? I am not a medical doctor. And my research is not yet approved for clinical practise. It's tough.

#science #research #outreach #interview #newspaper #magazine #patients #unexpected #antibiotic #disease #trying to help #original content

[louudthoughts]

you're suffering and i don't know how to help you.

i feel like it's killing me too.

#feelings #emotions #numb #i'm sorry #please don't hate me #i'm so tired #i'm sad #please help #trying to help #trying to be better #female writers #art #i hate it here #spilled ink

[mc-art-etc]

Doodle myth au Olivia and Aiden hehe he is oiling her joints <3

#mcsm #minecraft story mode #mcsm au #mcsm mythical au #mythical au #mcsm Aiden #mcsm Olivia #love is when you perform maintenance upkeep on ur robot gf #Olivia is telling Aiden what to do as he helps fix her up #she built the body!!! he is just helping #trying to help #he’s doing his best the dummy <3

[beingmikey]

"I've never listened too much, but so many time I wish I hadn't spoken." (Cody Fry: 'A little more')

I think about this quote a lot. I always want to be there for the people I love and support them in the best way possible. But I always thought, I have to show them how much I relate to their problem by recalling a time, when something similar has happened to me. Or trying desperately to come up with advise, even though I didn't know what I was talking about. And I'm not saying that those reactions are wrong by any means. They can be exactly what that person needed to hear. But I did find that most people just want someone to listen. The look of relieve in their eyes, when I encourage them to keep explaining or ask a thoughtful question is so rewarding. And I honestly whish people would listen to me more. Often times I start my rants with: "And please just listen, i don't need any advise in this, I just want to get it off my chest.". But oftentimes after I've finished I get the response: "Look, i know you didn't want any advise, but...". And don't get me wrong, I appreciate the sentiment. But then I kinda feel like you didn't listen at all. Idk, just some food for thought. Maybe it's better if we just shut up once in a while and let the other person talk. 🤍

#frienship #cody fry #lyrics #advises #meaningful conversations #listening #food for thought #random thoughts #trying to help

[captainjonnitkessler]

You know I used to think "tumblr's absolute refusal to actually engage with the Trolley Problem in favor of insisting that there must be a third, morally pure option that doesn't require them to make a hard decision and anyone who asks them to make a binary choice is just a short-sighted idiot is really fucking annoying, but I guess it's not actually doing any harm".

Anyway that was before we asked tumblr at large to decide between "guy aiding a genocide but making progress elsewhere" and "guy who would actively and enthusiastically participate in a genocide and would also make everything else much, much worse for everyone elsewhere" and the response was that there must be a third, morally pure option that doesn't require them to make a hard decision and that anyone who asks them to make a binary choice is a short-sighted idiot.

#there is not a third option. it is either trump OR biden #and one of those will be much MUCH worse for palestine #i'm really really sorry that these are the options. i wish they weren't. #but WHAT third option are you trying to take here? what on earth is your proposed outcome #that will actually make things better for palestine? #because letting trump win the election is NOT going to help them #i'm sorry but you need to set aside your feelings and take the option that will lead to less harm to palestine in the long run #you talk such a big game about how people need to be willing to make sacrifices to help palestine #but you yourself aren't even willing to hold your nose and vote to stop things from getting worse? #or did you think 'sacrifice' only meant not getting mcdonalds for a few months? #us politics

[thecoolertails]

thanks that was really helpful

#my posts #my art #comic #im a mouseboy btw. bet you didnt know that #my sona #if one more person smugly shames me for using google instead of duckduckgo when i WAS LITERALLY USING DUCKDUCKGO IM GONNA SCREAM!!!!!!! #< not about people actually trying to be helpful

[failbaby]

Rolled up the living room rug to clean my apartment/make dinner on roller skates because I suddenly remembered that I’m an adult with free will…..Life is beautiful

#okay like in my defense im trying to work around adhd and its helpful to me to make a task more fun #oc #10k