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So people on Twitter are using a vague deleted contrapoints tweet to wildly speculate that philosophytube is a rapist. Good to know that no one listens to or cares about trans women
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I just genuinely saw someone say Poison and the fetishization of Angel’s trauma is okay because “a lot of people have a rape kink actually so get over it”. are you genuinely deranged. Obviously I am not naming who because I don’t want to start a tumblr fight or whatever but holy shit genuinely the worst take I have ever seen in my life WHAT was that
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fairuzfan · 3 months
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Here's a summary of what's been happening in Sudan the past couple of days. It's gotten to the point where women are asking for contraceptives for fear of getting raped by RSF forces.
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too-music · 9 months
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So many gays on Twitter are really losing their shit about the fact that apparently aces experience discrimination bc “it’s just sex, why would anyone be oppressed for not wanting it?”
It’s not about not having sex, it’s about the fact that we are seen as less human for not experiencing sexual attraction - a supposed “universal human experience” - and that often times people do not believe us for not being interested/wanting sex when the topic comes up. There’s also the fact that it can lead to sexual harassment and corrective rape if a person really doesn’t like the fact that an ace person doesn’t want to have sex. This doesn’t even scratch the surface of other issues regarding asexuals and other areas of life, but we still have to deal with it regardless if we want to or not.
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thebrainofmae · 1 year
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I just think they’re neat
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manthas · 5 months
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“Yeah, the cops shouldn’t have killed him, but I heard he tried to use a fake $20 bill.”
“Prison conditions are terrible, but don’t do the crime if you can’t do the time”
“Systemic racism isn’t the problem. Just look at the black on black crime statistics.”
“If she doesn’t want to be misgendered or hatecrimed, she should really work on passing better”
“Those rednecks deserve to be poor if they keep voting for republicans.”
“If gay people want to be accepted, they need to stop being so loud about it. It’s annoying”
“Their culture just doesn’t value education as much.”
“If he didn’t do anything wrong, why was he running from the police?”
“American companies use sweatshops and child labor in other countries, because those countries don’t have good enough labor laws”
“I don’t give homeless people money, they’re probably just going to spend it on drugs.”
“What was she wearing? What was she doing out alone at night? Why didn’t she fight back?”
“The Natives traded away their land for beads and trinkets”
“We are here to discuss the 15,000+ Palestinian civilians killed by Israeli carpet bombing. First things first, do you condemn Hamas?”
“Bombing hospitals is a war crime, but Hamas is using hospitals and schools to hide military personnel”
“A humanitarian cease fire would favor Hamas.”
I could go on and on. Stop blaming the oppressed for their oppression!
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cathy-plus-e · 4 months
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If this post gets 50k notes before July 7th of 2024 I'll do anything possible to go to therapy and investigate if I really got rapped when I was 10 years old so I can stop living with an uncomfortable feeling of doubt and insecurity with my own body
This got extremely specific I'm sorry
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justmenoworries · 2 months
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some unorganized thoughts about Vox and Valentino Hazbin Hotel
Spoilers For Hazbin Hotel episode 2
TW: Discussions and depictions of abusive relationships, sexual assault, extortion and financial abuse
So going by the promo material shown to us, a lot of fans seem to think that Vivzie has changed course on VoxVal and that it's going to be a much more healthy relationship than previously implied.
Not gonna lie, that disappoints me.
Because depicting an abusive romantic relationship with an imperfect and unexpected victim would have been extremely interesting. We already know Valentino is a piece of shit who doesn't care about anything but himself and profit.
The "Addict" music video and the prequel comic "Dirty Healings" make that very clear.
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Valentino regularly assaults Angel, keeps Angel's earnings for himself and tries to keep Angel in the studio as long as possible, even getting angry when Angel goes out by himself. Even if it's to get money for Val.
And for all of his faults, it's very easy for the viewer to feel sympathy for Angel. Angel is a likable character who's been shown to have a much kinder side to him via his friendship with Cherry and him trying to comfort Charlie in the pilot after her pitch for the Happy Hotel flops.
Vox though?
Vox is slated to be a main antagonist. He's a fellow Overlord of Hell. Someone for whom it'd be much harder to believe that he'd let anyone treat him like Valentino treats Angel.
And yet...
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To be fair, this artwork is from the in-character Instagram accounts, which were already confirmed as non-canonical. (The accounts themselves are sadly archived now due to some really messed up stuff that happened with the Octavia and Stolas accounts.)
Still, depicting Vox as one of Valentino's victims would have been pretty intriguing. It shows that this kind of thing can happen to anyone, no matter the gender or financial or social situation. It would also acknowledge that just because someone is a victim of abuse doesn't mean they're pure, innocent or weak. And that no matter the circumstances, no one deserves to be treated like Valentino treats Vox and Angel.
I'm honestly hoping that this aspect of the VoxVal relationship isn't entirely gone and I kinda think it isn't.
In episode 2 we see right off the bat that Vox doesn't really like Valentino. And it's easy to see why.
Valentino is a spoiled angry manchild with no self control. He needs Velvette and Vox to reign him in, otherwise he's going to do stupid shit like waltz up to the princess of Hell's doorstep with a gun in hand. Because he can't handle the idea that one of his employees is living somewhere he didn't approve.
If Vox hadn't stopped him and talked him out of it, Val would have gotten the VVVs into some serious shit. His violent streaks can also not be talked down completely, they need to be satisfied somehow. Vox needs to offer Val the lowest earners to shoot at and work out his aggression on or Val's going to continue to go on a rampage and most likely tear apart more of Velvette's models.
Speaking frankly, Valentino seems way more trouble than he's worth. Vox and Velvette appear to be doing all the work in their shared empire while Val just throws tantrums and forces them to go out of their way to calm him down.
So if that's the case, why do the other Vs puts up with Val?
In Alastor's and Vox' duet in episode 2, Alastor has this very interesting thing to say about Vox and his relationship to Valentino and Velvette:
"Is Vox as strong as he purports? Or is it based on his support? He'd be powerless without the other Vs."
What's also interesting is Val's and Velvette's reaction to it.
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They're smiling. Like they agree.
Alastor also reveals that Vox was trying to get Alastor to join the Vs. Alastor declined.
Vox of course tries to deny all of that, but in the process gets so worked up he short-circuits himself and causes a city-wide blackout.
If Alastor is telling the truth here (and we don't really have a reason to believe he isn't), that puts everything in a whole new light.
Vox is he brains of the operation but is he also the only thing that's keeping it together? Val and Velvette don't really get along (Velvette insults Val behind his back, Val rips apart her models when he's angry) and both don't seem to respect Vox that much. Velvette lets him deal with Val's bad moods, Val doesn't hesitate to throw stuff at Vox when he's pissed (the fact that Vox nonchalantly dodges the glass Valentino throws at him implies this is not the first time). They both have a look of disdain on their faces when Vox hugs them during "Status Quo".
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So why does Vox go to all this trouble to keep these two assholes in line if he doesn't really care for them and they in turn have no love for him?
Maybe for business reasons, but Vox already has a giant multi-media empire, right? So again, what does he need the other Vs for?
I think it has to do with Vox's need to be admired and liked and at the top.
See, another thing this episode tells us about Vox is that he's deeply, deeply, insecure.
He has a dozen different programs where he changes his outfits, approach and demeanor to cater to every single sinner possible, he throws out new business ideas on the fly so he'll always be the newest trend everyone follows. If something (or someone) comes up that cracks his cool confident businessman facade even a little he can't handle it and literally breaks down.
Really, Alastor puts it best:
"Is Vox insecure? Pursuing allure? Between this fad and that, is nothing working? Every day he's got a new format."
So Vox doesn't just want to be powerful and popular, he wants to be the most powerful and the most popular and his shows alone aren't going to cut it for that.
That's why he needs Velvette and Valentino. They provide the content that draws the viewers Vox so desperately craves. Without them he'd be all on his own, might lose large chunks of his viewership. And that's something I think Vox is deeply afraid of.
So no matter how little he might actually like them, regardless how shitty Valentino treats him, Vox needs these two. In his view at least, he can't afford to lose them.
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inlocusmads · 9 months
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So fricking sick of acephobia in the year 2023. I'm not even on Twitter but to read all of that shit, I'm convinced this Twitter mob will only expand and I fucking hate it so much.
Are we still negating aspec people's struggles? That corrective rape and forceful marriage doesn't exist? That asexuality is still treated as a fucking mental health issue? That NOBODY EVER TALKS ENOUGH ABOUT IT? That we're already excluded from a number of queer spaces because "lacking sexuality doesn't count" DESPITE HAVING A HISTORY OF THE DEFINITION DATING BACK TO THE 1800s?
That the law in several places go "marriage and sexual intimacy go hand in hand" that completely excludes ace people who'd like to marry, have QPRs or have a cohabitation partnership with someone?? That they're excluded from so many marriage related benefits?? Healthcare?? This inherent prejudice in the medical system??
And even if you do want to be alone and be awesome all on your own, you're shamed and shunned for it?? You're called harmful languages? Slurs? Like where does it stop?
Ace people, I love you guys and I hope you get a truckload of cake, garlic bread or whatever food, drink, book, thing that you prefer. Seriously. They should pay us for dealing with this shit EVERY FUCKING DAY.
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resisteverything · 2 months
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I hate how un-nuanced hazbin sees abuse as. Like stolas coercing blitz into sex by taking advantage of his lower racial status putting his business in danger is fine, actual abuse is valentino rapes and slaps angel while holding him on a leash, and slaps him around in front of other people.
Similarly, when dealing with the knowledge that your friend is abused, there is literally no point in-between “grinding the abuser into a paste resembling orange pulp” and “doing literally fucking nothing and apologizing for having ever tried to do anything”.
And why did they have that scene of her apologizing like this was a children’s show and she had thrown him a party he didn’t want. I just want to play that scene out of context to a stranger and reveal to them “no she’s actually apologizing because she walked in on him filming a gay porno and it caused his pimp, who forced him into porn using magic so he can’t quit, to smack him about it, and she’s sorry she showed up or tried to intervene when she saw him being beaten. This is not an edgy parody, those were serious plot points we’re supposed to care about and these are things she fully understands, even though this is how she reacts.” like fucking hell this show is a mess.
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longlivepalestina · 4 months
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Trigger Warning!
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I think i dont even wanna know how many women they have raped.. yet no one ever talks about palestinian/muslim women
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dreikit-23 · 8 months
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There is a Rampant and Vicious Cycle in the Online Left That Needs to Be Addressed
Every leftist needs to understand that not every proclaimed leftist is a safe person or one that is acting in good faith. Many people in this sphere --even if they are minorities themselves-- are Abusers. Let me be clear: they are Abusers REGARDLESS of --NOT because of-- them being a minority. Despite this, many of them have weaponized their standing as a minority in order to get away with their behavior and achieve what they see as some form of power and control over others. Let me be clear. I am referring to those that:
Manipulate and lie about pressing situations (especially when it's to harm another person or demographic)
Excessively use idpol to either elevate themselves to holier than thou levels ("listen to ___ people but only when it's something I agree with, which just so happens to devolve from constructive change to making others grovel and plead forgiveness endlessly before me") or belittle others (ie their skin color, gender, queerness, disability, neurodivergence, religion, age, etc.) in order to discount their point or not treat them as equal human beings; yes, even if their skin tone is white or if they are men, abuse does not have to be backed up by systemic issues in order to be abusive or at the very least harmful (sidenote: this does not apply to people talking about their experiences as a minority that is otherwise not experienced or understood by others, the issue I'm pointing out is when it's twisted to cover everything not directly tied to their identity and proclaim themselves as the only ones allowed to be the voice of reason, therefore shutting up everyone else and to avoid any constructive criticism or discussion)
Act on rage and at times even trauma to bring forth harmful ideals (ex: truly hating every person of a demographic, wishing for a genocide, making actual death or rape threats towards someone or a group, conversion, etc)(sidenote: I'm not discounting those that have trauma and even have harmful thoughts, just please seek help and understand that it is not healthy nor sustainable to paint or alter reality to be in line with what trauma makes you believe)
Actively try to get others they don't agree with to either permanently leave the internet or commit suicide and even celebrate when either happens
Excessively test others on their "purity" on unachievable standards to the detriment of everyone and Leftism as a whole (purity culture is fueled by christian culture in order to disguise doomerism, accepting defeat when change is not possible, of which is the very thing that will kill leftism)
Infight over weird made up issues (remember how divide and conquer is a war strategy? To split hairs and discount others for non-issues is to do the work of conservatives and nazis for them)
Shut down people or discussions over minor slights such as using an incorrect word/phrasing or any numerous perceived mistakes (example I've seen here: berating a person with schizophrenia (or a trans person or any other minority) for using a derogatory term for themselves when they're talking about how everyone else is speaking over them and not listening), ignoring the hypocrisy or not taking into account any number of mundane causes such as non-native english speakers, generational gaps, being in the process of learning (either recovering from harmful beliefs or simple ignorance), using those terms to prove a point (such as that example I mentioned above), neurodivergence, etc.
Not letting others talk about their experiences of oppression when those experiences don't match theirs, instead opting to call those people bigoted for contrived reasons
A rejection of nuance, intersectionalism, and even reality to better suit their goals (ex: claiming that every trans man benefits from the patriarchy and can never experience misogyny)
Misuse of therapy speak and terminology in order to water down those terms and render them near meaningless so they can weaponize them under the pretense of their original use (ex: gaslighting), or to cut off any need to connect or sympathize with other human beings and instead speak to them like a PR message (refer to this video by Zena and Poppy for reference)
They never speak on true leftist/progressive ideals or positive change, they only engage in destructive discourse or any behavior listed above
Making baseless dangerous accusations towards someone they don't like. Before you go harr harr you're doing that, I'm not calling out any specific person and am merely listing dangerous behaviors I've seen people here act out. What I am referring to are when someone casually calls someone specific a predator (or whatever else) with absolutely zero proof and expecting everyone to believe them no questions asked. This has been shown to ruin people's lives
Any other similar behaviors not included in this list (as well as classic logical fallacies), but what I've mentioned above should paint you a good picture
Every example I've pointed out were REAL EVENTS I've seen from people that proclaim themselves as leftists or even just progressive, and sometimes are even minorities themselves (some even infight against their own communities using the behaviors listed above, often out of internalized bigotry)(an example of a real event that happened here recently were when several people were making rape threats towards a trans man by the username of @a-faggot-with-opinions). To be blunt, I'm pointing out exclusionism in practically every form, asexual discourse, transandrophobia, TERFs/radfems, TEHMs, tankies, "cornbreadtube", nationalists and ethnonationalists, and all else I don't have the terminology for For many of the people that fall under that bullet list I would hesitate to even refer to them as leftist or progressive, as they never seem to actually show they act on it or even believe in it, only making an appearance in those communities for their own destructive personal gain; hell, often times they have ideals that directly go against what those communities stand for! Examples include TERFs with white supremacist beliefs, transandrophobes that are misogynistic, ethnonationalists that are antisemitic, puritans that are ableist, the list goes on forever. Once you know what to look for, you can see the hidden or overt bigotry behind their false "progressive" statements
No one is infallible No one is better than everyone else You are not immune to propaganda No one is immune from behaving abusively
These people are dangerous, whether they actually qualify as abusers --as I've been referring to them as such for brevity and impact-- or are people that are engaging in hurtful or fully abusive behavior (use this paragraph as a disclaimer, I of course can't know if someone is an abuser in real life unless there is documented evidence of such). Regardless, they are hurting the left and are letting the right win
If you see any of these behaviors either 1) take caution if you're unsure, 2) block them, or 3) if you have the fortitude, call them out. Either way, use your best judgement and think for yourself (or discuss with good faith leftists if you're uncertain). And remember, often times (albeit not always) they are actually fully aware of their disgusting behavior and are choosing to act maliciously, not ignorantly.
Stay safe, log off, do what you can to support your local community and leftism as a whole, don't let these people distract from the real issues at hand. Have empathy, if you don't have empathy then act in compassion, if you don't or refuse to do either please do not engage in politics. Misanthropy has no place in matters concerning humanity.
And remember: we have to stand together in unity so we can create a better future for all
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bump-inthe-night · 5 days
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After being called out on lying, "Realultimatehater" deleted her account to cover her tracks but has returned under a new blog with the same username. Please don't engage and block her because she's an aggressive bully and liar who has lied about being harassed and recently about being sexually assaulted by a group of Hazbin Hotel fans.
Realultimatehater also tried to manipulate a teenager into helping her harass Vivziepop fans through death threats and doxxing. However, when the teenager refused, she blamed her behavior on anxiety to excuse her heinous idea.
Here's what the old description of her deleted blog used to say:
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For those who want more information, here's a detailed post explaining what she's done:
Once again: Please don't engage with her and block.
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"Those ships are going to normalize bad behav–"
If Game of Thrones and House of the Dragon — two mainstream hits which drew in over 10 million viewers — couldn't normalize violence, rape, and incest IRL, what makes you think some fandom (most likely non-canon) ship is going to succeed where those two television giants failed, hm?
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heyheydidjaknow · 7 months
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Think this is the shortest properly written thing I’ve posted and it’s not even what I usually write. This is in response to the whole “Whitney’s one of the better fathers” thing that went around a second ago. No idea if the people who follow me are DOL people but whatever man it’s Tumblr.
Prospects
His reaction was less violent than you had anticipated.
When you first wrapped your head around the whole thing, the first thing that came to your mind were the issues of how you were going to tell him and how you were going to put yourself between him and the baby. You had assumed he would tell you to get rid of it. You had assumed he was going to deny being the father. You had assumed you would be on your own. You were hardly happy with those prospects, but you had come to terms with them long before you had asked him over.
He did not look angry. He did not even look upset. He stared down at the test in your hand, registering the lines the same as you had. He took a deep breath, held it for a second, exhaled. He dug into his pocket for a moment, paused, took a second. Another breath.
The silence hung in the air like a guillotine over your neck.
You offered a smile. “So? How do you–”
“Stop talking.” His eyes raised towards your cracked ceiling. “I’m thinking.”
You sat down on the bed, the test still held between your fingers.
After a few more seconds, his gaze fell sharply back on you. “How much do you make?”
You blinked. “I–”
“Rent here isn’t cheap, right?” His voice shook ever so slightly. “You make money, right? That I don’t know about? How much?”
You considered it, lazily running your gaze along the floorboards. “I don’t know. Depends on the gig and how long I spend–”
“Assume you aren’t going to school.”
You sighed. “Nonstop? I can maybe squeeze out between four and ten thousand a week.”
He nodded slowly. “And how far in are you? Like how long have you been pregnant?”
“Three weeks or so?’
“And pregnancy lasts forty? So you’re due in a little more than half a year?”
“Mhm.”
He ran his tongue along his teeth, nodded. “Doable,” he decided. “Difficult, but doable.”
“What are you on about?”
He cast his eye towards the door, voice lowering. “I have five thousand in my account right now. If I drop out and you can save a thousand a week we can be out a couple months before you’re due.”
You looked up at him. “What do you mean?”
He grabbed your bag off the floor, digging into it for a piece of paper and a pen. “Babies are expensive,” he continued, sitting down on the ground and beginning to write. “If we assume we need–”
“What are you talking about?”
“You’re keeping it, aren’t you?” He gestured at you with the pen. “You wouldn’t tell me if you weren’t, would you?”
You sat up. “I– well, no, but–”
“Then we’re going to be responsible for a baby in a few months.” You could not tell if he was nearly as out of sorts as you were; from where you were sitting, he seemed shockingly calm. “And in those few months, we need to be settled so we aren’t scrambling when it gets here. We need to figure out a game plan.”
“Settled?” You stumbled to your feet. “What, you want me to move in with you?”
He laughed, a whisper of manicism poking through. “Fuck no; you wouldn’t be let in the door. No, we’re skipping town.”
You blinked. “What do you mean?”
The pen stopped moving. “What do you mean what do I mean?”
“I’m not leaving.”
He rubbed his eyes with the heels of his hands. “I’m sorry,” he said, “but is prepartum psychosis a thing?”
“Hey—“
He raised his voice over yours. “If you think that I’m letting any kid— any kid of ours especially— get raised in this shithole I don’t know if I want to see what our kid is going to look like, what with the type of shit you have to be high on.”
You felt yourself shrink. His voice was still fairly even— unusually even for him— but somehow that registered as more concerning than if he were throwing shit at you. “My entire life is here.” You looked away, trying not to notice the incredulous grin that spread across his face. “Everyone I know lives in this town.”
He looked at you as though you had grown a third head.
Your face flushed. “I have family here!” Your fists clenched at your side. “And I have a stable job and friends—“
“That rape you.”
You shot him a glare despite yourself.
He clarified. “You have a family consisting of a leech you almost die every week for, a ‘steady’ job diving and whoring yourself out to make two people’s worth of unreasonable rent and friends that are also rapists.”
“Oh like you’re one to talk,” you snipped. “Like you aren’t half—“
“In what universe does the fact that my treating you like a piece of meat isn’t a turn-off does not register as a red flag to you?”
“Are you fucking complaining about my being into you right now?”
He took a deep breath, held it, and exhaled slowly. You flinched as he took your hands in his. “Look,” he tried, voice softer, “I know you have reservations— it’s a lot to ask someone to pack up and leave with you, and I have my own life here— but from where I’m sitting this is a matter of life and death. If we stay here, it’s not going to have a good life; fuck, I don’t even know if it’ll really have a life.” You could hear something like desperation in his voice. “I know that you don’t want to, but we both know it’s what’s best.”
His fingers twitched around you. You kept your eyes on them. “What if I say no?” you asked. “What if I don’t want to leave?”
He squeezed your palms together gently. “Then I’ll get that cuck that follows you around all the time to hold you in his basement,” he promised. “Or I’ll take the baby while you sleep.” He reached up, tilting your head so he could look you in the eye. They seemed bottomless, and you felt fear slither around your throat and squeeze. “I’ll drag you and our brat out of this town kicking and screaming if that’s what it takes, and if that doesn’t work,” he said, voice now barely a whisper, “I’ll kill you and take it away so that it can live a good, happy life and not end up like us. Do you understand me?”
Your leadened tongue laid useless in your mouth.
“Good.” He patted you twice on the cheek, letting you crumple to the floor drenched in cold sweat while he went back to his calculations. Through your fear-induced haze, it occurred to you that in all the time you had known him you had never seen him look so basically happy. You would have gone so far as to say that he almost looked like a normal person; terrified and resolved, but quietly overjoyed. You never would have thought that would be the thing that scared you most after everything he had done to you. “Do you need boxes or bags to pack your stuff in?”
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sunnysideaeggs · 8 months
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Thinking about how since ancient times, young girls and women were married off to their rapist to safeguard their honor. How they believed it was the only way to leave behind their shame and continue being respected in society. How there’s registers of women who wished to stay celibate (like Hera, the Greek goddess of marriage) and had to marry their abusers. Even the bible has such a law to protect a young maiden’s honor. How in a medieval society, marriage was the only escape from shame after failing to maintain yourself chaste.
How Criston Cole begged for his rapist to marry him and run away with him, so he wouldn’t be killed for failing his celibacy vow, and would be able to restore his honor, if not as a kingsguard, as a married man. How he was laughed at. How he tried to kill himself to get rid of his shame. How he thinks it was a failure of his character to be abused and taken advantage of.
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