"So I'm a prisoner now?" - Regina Mills, right after an entire town was freed from her 28-year-long curse
She is just such a brat
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-meme
-leftist theory
-leftist theory
-aesthetic photo
-the most insanely specific sexually frustrated fantasy you’ve ever read
-fanart of a show you don’t watch
-leftist theory (infighting edition)
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HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! 🎉🥳🎉Give your brain a verrry gentle bap on the Brian nose and then give it a hug and tell it that it is amazingly accomplished! Go you!! Wooot! We are with you all the way ♥️♥️♥️
Hhhhoh boy😭🥺
Thank you so much for the sweet message!!! I'm just happy yous have enjoyed my lil writings!! It genuinely means so very much a lot xx
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Hello avi di,
How to stop caring about what others think about us?(esp relatives) Someone says something to me and i am one step away from collapsing. Please help me!
i am not sure if this ask was intended for me (because my name is not avi) but i am going to give this a shot regardless.
from where i stand and how i think about it, no one is completely immune to this particular problem. everyone, to varying extent, cares about what others think of them. and it is completely fine. what is not okay is completely collapse of your confidence at the mere sight of criticism.
you have to come to terms with the fact that criticism is a part of life. everyone deals with this in their own way but this is how i work my way through it:
self awareness: if you are self aware about your weakness and your strengths the chances of getting hurt by criticism from others is pretty low. for this you would have to really sit down and without letting self loathing or self love getting in the way, sort through your entire personality.
competitive behaviour: if relatives or somebody else is critical about something then your first instinct should be to rectify that issue and prove them wrong. and not because of some sort of social standard but because you want to do better. this is something i have always resonated with but if it doesn't work for you then-
acceptance: if there is a certain issue which is calling a lot of criticism your way, and you feel like you can't part your way with that particular habit or issue, then accepting it as a part of your personality and making peace with it is probably one of the best ways to deal with it. people will slowly understand and accept it but for this self awareness is extremely important. you need to know yourself better and have confidence in yourself to do this.
confidence: i can't stress how important building up your confidence is. you have to believe in yourself that you are not what anyone says about you. the only person who's perception of you alters you, is you. if you think you are sensitive and criticism matters to you then it will honey. you have to build yourself and be confident in who you are. and in the wise words of maddy perez "the thing about confidence is that no one knows if it's real" you just have to wake up and choose to be this person everyday.
talk about it: i really believe that if you confide about this issue with someone whom you really really trust, it can really help you. it can be your parents, your siblings, a cousin, a friend or just a random blog on tumblr. reach out. talk to people. it'll help.
and please, please, please remember, this is just a phase and you will emerge out of this as a much stronger person. i promise. it's inevitable. i have gone through this phase and i have snapped out of it too, and so does everyone else, sooner or later. just work on yourself and enjoy this journey of becoming a better version of yourself.
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But anyways, I never realized just how nice people would be on here 😭🤚 I’ve been given nothing but pure kindness and genuine advice from so many that it’s making my heart soft…
I genuinely enjoy writing now since I know people here will actually give my work a chance and not give trolly or rude comments towards them like I’ve experienced elsewhere 🥹🤍
I love y’all oh my god 😭🤚
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there are 2 kinds of mangaka when drawing: the ones that hate woman and the ones that love woman
And, guys...
i think ryoko kui really loves woman.
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The thing they don't tell you about fried egg runny yolk is that if you put it in a sandwich it will be the best most delicious thing and you can mop up the egg with the bread, but in exchange you Will get so so messy and covered in egg yolk
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I did an illustration for Trans Day of Remembrance today at work.
Our little community contains so much anger and grief, but it's because we love each other so fiercely. We remember our dead because their memory keeps us stubborn.
I love all of us today, and I hope you do too.
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