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Things You Can Control ✨✨

How you respond to others and situations.

Where you spend your time and who with.

The shows, books, news and social media you consume.

What you do with your free time.

What you say to others.

What you think about.

How hard you try.

What you allow or don't allow from others.

Good or bad routines you follow.

What you aim for in life.

Being positive or negative.

Eating, exercising, and resting.

Learning new skills or knowledge.

Who you hang out with.

What you buy and spend on.

Keeping your space clean or messy.

What fun activities you pick up.

Saying "thank you" and feeling thankful.

Knowing when to say "no" or "enough".

What you hope for and dream about.

Doing nice things for others.

Picking one thing over another.

What's most important to you.

What you do every day.

What you feel is true or right.

Taking time for yourself.

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If your voice was suppressed during your entire childhood, it’s time to set it free. Speaking your truth and saying how you feel is WAY more important than following conventional dating advice and playing it cool and being considerate of him, of others. Once you start speaking up, once you find your voice you’ll realise how empowering this is. Fuck those dating coaches and their advice, it will keep you in a trap of staying silent instead of telling him exactly how you feel. And when you’ve been silenced you will find freedom in honouring your voice, your truth, in expression. So burn the dating books, stop taking advice, and listen to your soul. Listen to what’s bubbling inside. It’s liberating, its empowering. It’s your fucking right to express. 

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Learn the skill of delaying your response when faced with someone who is intentionally trying to provoke you. Refuse to let others dictate your mood. Take charge of your emotions. You decide when, how, and whether you want to to react. You control yourself, no one else does.

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Heal, so you can recognize genuine relationships with pure intentions when they show up without sabotaging them.

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Types of relationships that look like love but are not:

Infatuation: This is an intense emotional or sexual attraction to someone that can give the illusion of love. However, infatuation is often based on idealized perceptions rather than a deep emotional connection.

Codependency: Codependent relationships involve one person excessively relying on another for emotional or physical needs. This dependency can mimic love, but it is rooted in the need for validation, control, or a sense of purpose.

Unrequited love: This refers to a situation where one person has romantic feelings for another, but those feelings are not reciprocated. It may involve one-sided affection, longing, or an obsession with someone who does not feel the same way.

Limerence: Limerence is an intense and obsessive form of attraction characterized by intrusive thoughts, longing for reciprocation, and an idealized image of the other person. It can feel like love, but it often lacks a genuine emotional connection.

Conditional love: In relationships based on conditional love, affection and care are only given when certain conditions or expectations are met. This type of relationship lacks unconditional acceptance and can be manipulative or controlling.

Trauma bond: A trauma bond forms when two individuals share intense emotional experiences, often negative or abusive. Despite the harmful dynamics, there may be a strong attachment due to the shared trauma, leading to a mistaken perception of love.

Transactional relationships: These relationships are based on mutual benefit or convenience rather than genuine emotional connection. Partners may stay together for financial security, social status, or other practical reasons, rather than genuine love and affection.

Manipulative relationships: Manipulative relationships involve one person exerting control and power over the other through emotional manipulation, coercion, or gaslighting. The manipulator may feign love and affection to gain control or exploit their partner's vulnerabilities.

Fantasy relationships: In fantasy relationships, one or both partners create an idealized version of the other person, often based on unrealistic expectations or fantasies. The relationship may lack a true emotional connection, as it is based on the person's fantasy rather than the reality of who their partner is.

One-sided relationships: These relationships are characterized by an imbalance of effort, care, or emotional investment. One person may consistently give more while the other takes without reciprocation. It can create an illusion of love, but it lacks equality and mutual respect.

Love addiction: Love addiction refers to a compulsive or obsessive pattern of seeking out relationships and being dependent on the euphoric feeling of being in love. It can lead to a cycle of unhealthy relationships, as the person seeks constant validation and excitement without addressing underlying emotional issues.

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Everything around you is constantly programming you. That’s why it’s important to make conscious decisions about everything that goes on in our lives and maintain control of the narratives we are choosing.

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Hard truth: You don’t know everything. If you did, you would already be living your dream life.

It’s always the people who aren’t where they want to be, who think they know everything and try to justify the belief system they are emotionally tied to.

Successful people are always listening more, learning and changing their minds and strategy as they go.

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Mecury signs as writers

I'm sure people have done posts like these before but this is just my take on it, enjoy I hope it resonates !!

Aries mecury 》 wants to pioneer in a new style and wants to be the best at their style of writing. Similar to Aquarius mecury in this way because Aries wants to go by their own rules. They are adventurous writers, Aries mecuiries will use writing to explore their own ideas and creativity. I feel like this placement enjoys anything that motivates them and riles them up. They may feel competitive with other writers and strive to always imporve

Taurus mecury 》 the taurus mecury has a distinct voice in their writing that doesn't change over time. You could always tell who it was through their writing. they write to relax and unwind. They may get stuck on technicalities or struggle to express intangible ideas.

Aquarius mecury 》 this is the writer who knows the rules and how to break them. They write to inspire, provoke or even offend. Their style of writing is always changing and evolving. Aquarius mecuries will write and express ideas in unheard of ways, they may have a very mature way of communicating just about anything. Their style challenges ideas surrounding what makes a person a good writer.

Libra mecury 》 this placement can make someone an amazing writer. Libras balance and harmonize so they will likely have a sense for perfect sentence variety, language, grammar, etc. Libra mecuries know when a sentence is too long, when there's too many repetitive phrases, when there's not enough adjectives or verbs. This is a writer who also becomes a perfectionist as they want a sense of harmony in their writing. Libra mecuries write to influence people as they have a chronic awareness of their audience. They are also AMAZING editors.

Capricorn mecury 》 this is a writer who writes to make things tangible for themselves. They create lists, outlines, plots. I also feel like Capricorn mecuries would also be unnecessarily good at erotica fiction. They know how to make nonfiction engaging to read as well. Capricorn may get a reputation of being stoic and while their writing serve a professional and pratical importance

Virgo mecury 》 I feel like this writer is a mix of libra and Capricorn. But of course, having a sign in its home planet is bound to make you a great writer. They are very cirical of their own writing, always editing and going back to revise something. They write to organize, understand, and differentiate between ideas. They are also amazing editors, but their perfectionist approach makes it hard to even finalize a project. Their technical and creative skills are refined but they'd never know it because of how high their standards are. They are also great at analytical writing, such as analyzing the creative value of a piece of media or a person.

Scorpio mecury 》 don't even get me started. This sign is detailed, thorough and meticulous in their writing. If they want to write a scene they would make sure every aspect of this scene was understood, from the dialouge, setting, mood etc. Their essays are long, well researched and beautifully written. They like to focus on ideas that are underground or not well known. They write to integrate and transform the parts of themselves they don't even understand.

Cancer mecury 》 their style of writing is very personable, they know how to tap into emotions and manipulate them in order to fully engage a reader. They write well from a feminine perspective and they may be talented at Journaling. Their style of writing is also very intuitive. They go with the flow and let whatever comes out to touch pen to paper. Cancer mecuires may also have a great humor in their writing as well

Gemini mecury 》 this style of writer can adapt to whatever is required of them at the moment. They can be technical writers, creative, straightforward, influential etc. They love to express opinions and ideas, they engage all sides of a situation like a libra can, but unlike libra they allow contradicting ideas to co exist without feeling pressure to choose between them. They can mimic the voice of anyone as well, gemini writers may struggle to find their own voice for this reason. This type of writer has a dynamic approach, always adapting and using their senses to understand the world around them.

Pisces mecury》 this is the poets, imaginative and visionaries. So many poets and song writers have pieces placements. This writer doesn't adhere to rules right away, they have an awareness of what's going on subconsciously and have an ability to make that subconcious energy surface in their writing. Their style is not always easy understood. you would have to approach their writing from the heart. Their style is intuitive and unique to them.

Leo mecuries》 these placements could create some of the most entertaining and popular pieces of all time. Their writing is meant to to be read aloud, or even made into a screenplay. Their voice can be dominant, dramatic and powerful. They have a dramatic way of expressing mundane things. They have a style of writing where you can't put it down or look away, you're fully engaged and feel inclined to share it with others.

Sagittarius mecury 》 Sagittarius mecruies have a way of crossing boundaries, their style appeals to people of many cultures and spiritual backgrounds. They write to free their own ideas and develop them to educate others. Their writing has great depth and meaning, like Scorpio mecuries they bring layers and complexity to ideas. They have a purpose in their writing and they want that to be accessible to everyone.

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Mars in Natal & Jealousy

What about you that could provoke jealousy in others?

This can be concluded from your Mars sign. The traditional ruler of Scorpio, that rules over the deep & dark undertones of human behavior, among which is Jealousy.

So, what exactly in you provokes jealousy in others?

If you have:

Mars in Aries: Your physique, face structure, your confidence & your sense of leadership.

Mars in Taurus: Your ability to cultivate self-worth, your taste in aesthetics, your sense of comfort, your calmness & your possessions.

Mars in Gemini: Your ability to reject commitment & societal laws, your stride, your sharp mind and your ability to be free-spirited!

Mars in Cancer: Your ability to nurture your loved ones, your emotional expressiveness, and your receptive energy.

Mars in Leo: Your charisma, your ability to garner attention, your creativity, and your fierce loyalty to your loved ones.

Mars in Virgo: Your diligence, your ability to stay at the top of your game, your sense of priorities & boundaries, and your intellect/knowledge.

Mars in Libra: Your beauty, your sense of fashion, your ability to resolve conflict in relationships, and your ability to maintain relationships.

Mars in Scorpio: Your sex appeal, your competence, your ability to understand human psychology, and your survival skills.

Mars in Sagittarius: Your ability to explore, your wisdom, your immense sense of optimism, and your ability to attract luck and opportunities.

Mars in Capricorn: Your ability to allocate resources, your ability to achieve your dreams, your resilience and your sense of authority.

Mars in Aquarius: Your ability to stay detached, your stoicism, and your ability to challenge societal rules & status quo.

Mars in Pisces: Your ability to manifest, your ability to empathize, your altruism, and your ability to read the room.

Stay tuned for Mars in the houses natal!

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Astrology Observations for Moon Placements

Moon Sign Observations Part 1

Aries Moon - Usually Aries Moons are softies and only express this around people they are comfortable with. When something stings them, they hold that feeling very close to themselves and may do the opposite of what you think an Aries would do, and become emotionally. However, they are of course also very good at cultivating their emotions into anger.

Taurus Moon - If a Taurus Moon has a lack of Leo placements, chances are, they are very good at moderating their use of social media. Often times I meet this placement and they are aware that the use of social media can be detrimental to their mental or emotional health, so they either do not participate at all or do so in moderation.

Gemini Moon - I find that people with Gemini Moons are often the best at having a good time. They have lots of mental energy, so if they are in a time period where they are mentally secure, they are emotionally well and very good at having fun and being social. This placement usually tells me that someone is very funny.

Cancer Moon - Women with this placement usually exude the energy of a woman despite their body type or size. They have a womanly essence, are very motherly and warm in their gaze.

Leo Moon - Having this placement usually means you highly self concerned. Even in situations where you are not directly involved, you feel as though you are. I also notice that this placement, for the most part, gives one good posture.

Virgo Moon - Having this placement gives your loved ones the biggest indication of poor mental health— a messy living environment. Lack of organization in a Virgo Moons’ life, means they are not emotionally stable. Your appetite and gut health may be personal indications of this as well.

Libra Moon - Personally, I notice that women with this placements embody “pretty” just a little bit more than a Libra rising. Usually, regardless of how they look, them and their surroundings must be their personal embodiment of “pretty”.

Scorpio Moon - Having a Scorpio Moon may mean that shadow work is beneficial for you. This placement shows me that someone absorbs a lot in an emotional sense, so finding ways to release some of this energy is good for their wellbeing.

Sagittarius Moon - Similar to Gemini Moon, this placement is looking to have fun. However, I find that this placement usually uses their humor as a way to cope. Nonetheless, they usually have kind spirits.

Capricorn Moon - For the most part all the Capricorn Moons I have met come from broken families. They usually cultivate this into creating their own personal stability, though. This means they are often capable of creating a better home life for the family they create.

Aquarius Moon - This placement gives me the energy of someone who came from a family with lots of traditions, but knew that there was life outside that life. As they grow older, they are often better able to both honor the traditions AND express their more open minded.

Pisces Moon - I find that this placement usually has a interesting relationship with their mom. They may feel like their relationship with their mother is toxic, usually phasing in and out of good and bad times. The more they set boundaries, the less common the bad times become (though, for some, the boundary may mean no contact).

**** Designated houses may apply.

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The Cyclone

Pisces Sun - Scorpio Moon

You enjoy deep exploration into whatever you find. Even the most ordinary matter can take on cosmic and meaningful implications for some Pisces-Scorpios. You have a far-reaching and powerful imagination. Your mind is always active, taking things in and forming impressions of everything no matter how still or modest you may seem. You have to deal with many difficulties like all serious, emotional people. Pisces can be lifted up and given focus by the emotional strength, passion, and regenerating qualities of a Scorpio Moon. You are high powered, sober, and introspective. You are a very philosophical individual who is never content with external impressions. The dazzling heights of consciousness you reach based on that same emotional power can also pull you to the depths of misery and regret. This combination can create very neurotic, criminally inclined individuals or it can result in spiritual and creative individuals. Charismatic, strong-minded, and apparently your own boss, you are, however, heavily influenced by your environment. You cling stubbornly to old ways of behaving, and your initial responses are too frequently just your only ones. This combination has vast possibilities, however if you do not utilize your creative possibilities constructively, you might turn all that fervor and energy in on yourself. Unleashing it on others is possible and this can open the way to cruel or malicious behavior. Be careful of excesses of any sort, especially in romance, as in all things, because there is also the hidden possibility of addiction in your combination. The character of the Pisces-Scorpio is often prejudice and stubbornness. Furthermore you have an extremely sensual, indulgent nature, and enjoyment seeking can effortlessly become the opponent of the Pisces-Scorpio. To help you direct some of your abilities and to keep your emotions within bounds you need lots of organization, discipline, and educational training. There is no end to what you can do if your powerful sensual drives can be channeled into creative or spiritual pursuits. Direction is the key here. You take the slightest criticism as an affront. You are very touchy. Try to be a little less single-minded and become more tolerant. Do not focus so much on yourself, but turn your energies outward. It is not unusual to find yourself by losing yourself first.

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SOME PLACEMENTS THAT I APPRECIATE ☀︎

☀︎ Moon in Sagittarius/Moon in Aquarius people like you are the reason the world is moving forward. Your humanitarian nature and nonjudgmental mind is the reason for the change in the world. When I think back what a horrible history humans have I think of people like you. YOU are the ones who start the protests, who refuse to let anyone be treated less because of how they look or who they are. You are the true humanitarians of the zodiac.

☀︎ Sun in the 8th house the things you have been through and the painful transformations you have made would be too much for most people to handle so please be proud of how strong you are.

☀︎ Erato conjunct Ascendant you were made to be in the magazines.

☀︎ Leo Moons the way you stand up for your friends and how loyal you are is so beautiful.

☀︎ Venus in Scorpio the way you want to understand the people you love and help them through the worst kind of trauma. Nothing can scare you away, you stay through the worst trials.

☀︎ Pluto 1st house the way you will stand up for the ones who cant stand up to themselves. Ready to even get into a physical fight to help someone else. The civilcurage placement.

☀︎ Virgo Moon yes you can be nitpicky but you just want to help. Its in your nature to fix when you see a problem.

☀︎ Cancer Moon the way you will always stay loyal to the people you like. It doesnt matter if the whole world is against that person you will still stay by their side even if it means that you will get hated too.

☀︎ Lilith aspecting Ascendant you are not only extremely beautiful and desireable but the way you stand up to authority even if you get outcasted. Your strenght is unmatched. Power personified.

☀︎ Venus 8th house your beauty is UNMATCHED. You also understand the darkest of souls to the point nothing can scare you away, which can be dangerous tho so be careful. A lot of people want to ”humble” you so be careful who you let into your life.

☀︎ Virgo Placements you are the kind of people to help someone in silence not even letting them know it was you. You genuinely want to help but you dont want anyone to feel like they owe you.

☀︎ Leo Venus your generosity and loyalty to the people around you is so beautiful. Just make sure you dont get used.

☀︎ Moon in the 1st house the way you want to help everyone with everything to the point of exhausting yourself. Dont forget yourself.

☀︎ Medusa conjunct Ascendant you have been a victim of the worst hate from other women but you refuse to let men win. You know how men take advantage of women hating on other women and you refuse to be like those women.

☀︎ Taurus Moon you might be stubborn but thats also what makes people around you feel safe with you. You wont leave because you found someone better. Once you settle you stay.

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Bad Mars

Aggression, Ambition, Action, and Anger (or a total lack thereof); may I present to you the negative aspect of Mars in the signs…

Aries: The Warlord; selfishly looks for ways to serve the ego and libido; excessively competitive; wrathful and consuming temper with violent hostility; hot-blooded, thoughtless, and intense; undomesticated tactics; faces oppositions, strife and struggles.

Taurus: The Hebetude; unresponsive enthusiasm and dull energy; temper is slow but rampaging; driven by sensual pleasures and solid security, difficulty balancing impulses and self-indulgences; lacks ability to forgive and forget.

Gemini: The Sparkplug; curiosity clouds ambitions, resulting in stuttering pursuits driven by varied superficial interests; irrational impulses and childish temper; fidgety, fickle, and unreliable; always looks for the easy way to do things.

Cancer: The No-Hoper; represses anger and clings to the past; laziness and lack of confidence forces reliance on other people’s strength; unhappy, depressive, and defensive; driven by emotional security, does not expect success.

Leo: The Peacock; demands dramatic physical expressions to prove dominance and make an impression; vain and shallow, driven by enormous superiority complex; exaggeratedly passionate; ruined by arrogance and self-worship.

Virgo: The Lemon; cranky and acutely analytical; zeroes-in on failings and weaknesses, deteriorating the ambition; motivated by an obsession with perfection; harsh, callous, and bitter; spiteful temper; hindered by extreme criticism and anxiety.

Libra: The Loiterer; never outwardly aggressive or openly pushy, uses others; avoids direct confrontation and action by weighing every option; restless, easily agitated, and sneaky; ambition is sidetracked by procrastination and cerebral vacillation.

Scorpio: The Punisher; desires to fanatically push self and others to the extreme with challenges and tests; motivated by seething resentment and wrath; proud, guarded, and self-destructive; lazy and vengeful, lack of forgiveness.  

Sagittarius: The Hotshot; omnipotent and bloated ego believes self is untouchable and impervious to damage; immature, disillusioned, and self-important; temper is massive; wild impulses and lack of self-control overpower true views of reality.    

Capricorn: The Emperor; trouble discerning between assumptions and reality; doubtful, limiting, and contemptuous; obsessive in pursuits driven by material achievements and respect; calculating, stalwart, and cruel; rigorous and ruthless control, with no mercy.  

Aquarius: The Wave Maker; crafty and erratic ambitions easily sidetracked by an unknown; agitator who protests and disrupts all forms of boredom; edgy, fixated, and excessively progressive; enraged by glitches in logic and plans.

Pisces: The Busted Flush; insecure underachiever wastes promising potential on worthless pursuits; work shy and unreliable; mooching deadbeat, dependent on external motivation and inspiration; temper is bankrupt and non-threatening; detrimental deception replaces direct confrontation.  

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