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I'm in the bath, I wish you could come and join me daddy

Baths have usually two outcomes with me. Mainly, but not only, depending on my mood, and how much of a good girl you’ve been.

Outcome 1: I play with the bubbles with you and help you clean your tight little body with both my hands, making sure to touch every single part of you and kissing the parts I like the most, making sure to remind you how much I like when you’re all happy and smiley for me.

Outcome 2: I get most of your body out of the bathtub, tell you you’re going to take my cock in your tight little holes, and push your head down the water, reminding you how much of a dirty little whore you have to be for daddy. I occasionally whisper soft words in your ears when I allow you to gasp for air between one pounding and the other.

The best part? You have no say at all about which one of the two outcomes is going to be.

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Some simple non-sexual ways to put your sub in littlespace:

Buckle their seatbelt for them

Tell them to “stay close” while you’re out, maybe hold their wrist/hand or use a leash

Cut up their food for them (bonus points if you feed it to them after it’s cut up)

Give them a pacifier when they’re fussy (or for no reason at all other than you know they’ll love it)

Refer to yourself as “Daddy” (or your preferred title)

Get excited about little things with them

Remind them to follow their rules even if they already are

Bottlefeeding

Give them simple tasks or chores to occupy their time, especially when you can’t be around (“why don’t you color Daddy a picture today?” “Make sure you get your laundry done before bedtime”)

Cover their eyes during scary parts of movies

Brush their hair for them

Wrap them up in blankets

Talk to their stuffed animals

Help them tie their shoes

Pick out their clothes

Bring their drinks to them in a bottle or sippycup

Suggest a nap, especially if they’re crabby

Forehead kisses

Play pretend with them

Build a blanket fort together

Take them to a playground (bonus points if you push them on the swings or catch them at the end of the slide)

Use character band-aids when they get hurt

Small surprises

Read to them

Take them to the zoo and ask about their favorite animals

Put them in baby clothes

Have a tea party together, invite the stuffies

Use cutesie nicknames (“babydoll”, “little one”, “princess”, etc)

Take cute pictures of them and with them, even if they protest

Tell them you’re proud of them

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please remember that in a healthy, adult relationship (romantic or not), you should be able to talk about things that are bothering you. if you are bottling up your emotions and holding it against someone when you haven’t told them what is wrong, you’re not engaging in healthy behaviour. but also, if your friend/significant other makes you feel as though you can’t talk about what bothers you- i.e. has made you feel guilty/gotten extraordinarily angry when things were brought up in the past- they are not engaging in healthy behaviour.

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Aren't you in a D/s relationship? How do you manage that without doing anything kinky in public? Or are you not 24-7? I'm not trying to be rude I'm genuinely curious

I am! We manage it easily, because Sir knows what he’s doing and isn’t an idiot or a creep! Without getting too into it here are examples:

I don’t open doors for myself

I don’t order my own food

I ask permission to do anything that requires me to leave his sight

If food needs to be dished out or something I serve him

I also arrange his napkin and utensils if necessary

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Cute Date Idea

Put me in my unicorn socks, surround me with stuffies and put a coloring book in front of me. Pet my hair and tell me what a sweet, little girl I am, making me feel as little as possible with each passing second.

Tell me that I’ve been so good that I’ve earned a cookie and smirk as you watch me eat all of it up, not letting me know what’s inside.

Watch as my eyes begin to get heavy, as I begin to mumble about feeling heavy and paralyzed, shove me to the ground, spread my legs open and force yourself in between them.

Whisper in my ear that I’m such a dumb little girl but it’s okay, because you’re my Father and a father’s job is to take care of his daughter, and that’s just what you’re going to do.

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*listens to ur heart with a stethoscope* *takes ur temperature* *flashes a light in ur eyes* yep…. it’s exactly as i expected…. ur really cute….. *writes a prescription for lots of kisses*

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Cute idea

You’re drooling around a pretty gag and gasping like a whore while I edge you over and over. I ask if you want me to stop, to let you cum, but then grab your throat and tell you I can’t hear you through all the drool and the gag.

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Owners; you broke it, you buy it.

I want you to remember.

It’s not when we’re impressive. It’s not when we’re obedient. It’s not when you swell with pride. It’s not when we are deliciously dumb. It’s not when you’ve beaten us into sub space. It’s not when you marvel at what you created. It’s not when you’re aroused. It’s not when you’re adoring, loving, giving, possessive, intoxicated, sadistic, generous, satisfied, playful.

Understand. It’s not when you’re happy.

It’s when the furrow in your brow is so deep we can’t possibly understand what we could have done to put such a canyon of disappointment there. It’s when your tone changes, when you clip your words with the same knives that snag our confidence. It’s when your lip curls and we watch your face contort into a bitter discontent that we taste more keenly than you do. It’s when your eyes don’t smile; leaving us clutching for the parts of ourselves you said we didn’t need anymore. It’s when you sigh until we feel too difficult to be loved.

Your encouragement of our idolisation. Your slow replacement of our self affirmation with yours. It has consequences. So own the impact of your disappointment upon the person(s) who pledged their choices, their life and their liberty to you.

Take responsibility for what results from fundamentally changing someone to be hypersensitive to your mood. And then remember what that means all-the-fucking-time. Tattoo it into your thoughts. Hold it at the forefront of your mind when you’re expressing displeasure.

Punishment(s) of some kind might be required, but be considerate of the person you trained to prioritise your happiness.

I’m bored of reading posts from submissives who feel like utter shit for trivial crap like not washing up properly.

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Forced praise and care taking is criminally underrepresented. Sit your sub in front of you and have them recite how they’re your good pet, how they’re so pretty and they always turn you on so much. Order them to look you in the eyes while they say it, squirming and blushing. Threaten them with making them wear a “Owner’s favorite” shirt in public if they stop.

Write “good puppy” and “best kitten” and any other nicknames + praise on them - or have them write it while you watch.

Give them an extra soft and gentle bath and massage while they’re tied down so they can’t take the attention away from themselves. Then make them cum over and over again while they lie back on the softest pile of blankets and whine and scream.

Just have to accept all of their dom’s adoration and love. Your most precious and prized possession, your lovely spoiled pet.

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when he says no

I love begging him to extend my bedtime. I love when he says no. 

I love asking if I can buy a sugary latte. I love when he says no.

I love asking if I can skip my workout because laziness. I love when he says no.

I love begging to watch an extra hour of TV on a weeknight. I love when he says no.

I love asking if I can buy that pretty top I saw when I went to return something, even though my credit card bill is ridiculous. I love when he says no.

I don’t ask because I want to be denied. Not really. I ask because I want something I’ve always immediately granted myself. I ask because I have desires and impulses and I need to express them. And even though there’s the teeniest bit of disappointment when he says no, there is also relief and inner peace. I feel taken care of. I feel like I’m becoming a better person with improved habits. I feel healthier, happier and less stressed. No more guilt. It’s gone.

It makes his yeses so rewarding. The latte tastes sweeter. The next episode of that TV show is funnier. The top is prettier and feels worth the money.  With his permission, I can have guilt-free indulgences. I can find joy in things I’d often shamed myself for, the things you’re supposed to enjoy. That was no way to live.

 I said it before it was my reality, and I’ll say it again:

Everything just feels better when you have permission.