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April 6th 2023 ace day… drew these 🖤🤍💜🏳️‍🌈

(No reposting! Reblogging is always appreciated though!)

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Hey if you’re aspec in any way and you are reading this…

You’re queer as fuckin’ hell and that’s epic, keep doing what you do. Y’all’re valid

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Being aroace but also feeling a tertiary form of attraction (alterous attraction) was one of the most confusing parts of my identity to figure out. Before I knew what alterous attraction was, I only knew sexual, romantic, platonic, sensual, and aesthetic attraction.

I had a crush on one of my friends (and I still do). It made me kind of scared because at that point, I was 99% certain I was aroace, and I couldn't tell if I was experiencing romantic attraction or not. I didn't like the idea of dating and I didn't like the word "romance," and yet I also felt like I wanted to be more than friends with that person.

It wasn't until months after discovering I had a crush that I learned about alterous attraction. I liked the definition and I thought that if fit me best, so I started to use it to describe my crush. I felt way more confident using aroace again, because it felt right! And I had a way of explaining my feelings for my crush.

But oh my God, it was so hard to figure out.

Shoutout to people who are confused about their identity right now! Gender and sexuality is tough to figure out, but it's okay to question.

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Hey, Tumblr. Guess what. Relationships are defined by the people involved in them, and that's that. If people say they're friends, then they're friends. If people say they're dating, then they're dating. If they say it's a secret third thing, then that's what it is. Someone else's relationship isn't for you to decide.

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Me, aroace: “Yeah I think these fictional characters are kinda hot”

Other people: “Oh you think they’re hot? Doesn’t that mean you’re not actually aroa-“

Me:

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Why call it the bi to aroace pipeline when I can call it the "pick one" to picked none pipeline?

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I WILL NEVER SHUT UP ABOUT THIS

NASA SUPPORTS THE AROS 😭😭😭😭😭

THERE IS NO GREATER ARO WIN FOR THIS ARO ACE PHYSICIST

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REBLOG IF YOUR BLOG IS A SAFE SPACE FOR AROMANTIC PEOPLE AND IF YOU THINK THEY ARE VALID

I am Aromantic but i wanna see how ppl think we are valid

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It's absolutely incredible how often I'll find an aphobe, check their blog/comments/whatever, and they also turn out to be a TERF. Many TERFs have also admitted that the "ace discourse" era is what started the TERF pipeline for them.

Anyway, as an aroace woman, I just want to express love and solidarity towards my trans siblings. I'm gonna hold a meeting between our two factions where we'll have garlic bread and cake.

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You know I will actually

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The A in LGBTQIA+ stands for aromantic, asexual and agender. It will never stand for ally. Being an ally should be basic human decency. You don’t get a gold star for being one.

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Decided to make more of these for valentines day

I thought it was cool :]

Anybody can use them if you want to. If I missed anything and you want it you can ask

aroallo and non-SAM aro

aspec

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happy wednesday to all my fellow aroace folks

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it's time for me to share this cake I decorated for valentine's day