there are no hard rules for human interaction but honestly i think everyone online would benefit hugely from operating under the assumption that, unless you have been given a specific reason to think otherwise in discrete instances, internet strangers do not want to be approached with:
your trauma, illnesses, or deep-rooted self worth issues
any come-ons or sexual content
over-familiar playful rudeness
information about your dnd characters/ocs
disagreements with their harmless subjective opinions
if it is your first time speaking with someone i can not highly enough recommend that these do not be your opening topics
wilbur soot starts his lore streams with a happy upbeat piano version of a song about some incel getting cucked and then hits us with the most devastating exploration of a mentally ill man you've ever seen in your life
'Our mother should've just named you Laika' - a c!Tommy exile conflict webweave
'The sad,sad story of Laika, the space dog, and her one way trip into orbit' - Late August, 'Desolate' - @/daggryet 's transcripts - '60 years ago, a good dog died alone in space' by Christopher Keelty - Neighborhood II (Laika) by Arcade Fire - 'A stray dog became the world's first cosmonaut 60 years ago today' Quartz
Preaching to the choir here but if you believe that people can't grow and change I hope that sentiment haunts you when you make a mistake and no one ever lets you let it go