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androgynyfairy · 15 hours
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I don’t know what this means and I’m afraid to ask
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“Notes on skirts and pants”
Source: miyuli on twitter
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duality of man
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androgynyfairy · 19 hours
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androgynyfairy · 20 hours
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thinking about aus for ocs is so funny. like i already put this guy in a situation but what if i put them in another totally different one
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I was inspired to try out a watercolor style :D also good day vanoé nation
I'm in the process of making a merch shop so expect news on that this coming year :3
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‼️ ITS BUDGIE DAY ‼️
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‼️DAY FOR THE BUDGIES‼️
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androgynyfairy · 2 days
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*before someone says it - yes i know some of these have multiple variants, just pick a damn option okay.
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What’s a stereotypical food from ur culture that u absolutely love.
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noé and laios have the same type of autism and should kiss about it perhaps
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My doodlin' turned into funny depressed blue man
...Imagine having to deal with this many Vanitas (There's like, 8 of him here) at once
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Today's KAITO module of the day is:
39Culture 2024 WORLD&FES WORLD ver. by Motai!
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Like I know we all love making ADHD seem cool but like, don't forget it's actually a disability? My ADHD is bad enough I've nearly been evicted for forgetting to mail the rent check to the property manager, I've forgotten to pay the utility bills and had my water or power get turned off or had to pay fines bcs I missed a credit card payment. Once I was supposed to cat sit for a friend and I lost the house key she gave me but didn't realize until she was already out of town, and she had to call the apartment office to get someone to give me the spare so her cats would have food for the week. When I'm unmedicated I can't even get myself to shower half the time, forget eating or cleaning. Before I started living with my fiance I'd just like, not eat for days because I didn't have anyone to remind me to eat or go buy me food. I've forgotten to turn the stove off so many times and ruined kettles and tbh been DAMN fucking lucky the house didn't burn down. I've done stupid, impulsive shit that's nearly gotten me KILLED. I can't remember to close the shower curtain reliably even through my fiance points out every single time I forget, and he's almost out of soap rn bcs for the last MONTH neither of us have been able to remember to order more once we get out of the shower.
I've had such bad memory my entire life that to this day someone suggesting I forgot something because I simply didn't care enough is a legitimate trigger that, in the worst cases, makes me have a breakdown.
I get that for some of you this is just something that makes studying hard or you forget to take a pee break when you're playing Minecraft or whatever, that's still a valid struggle and you do deserve help and understanding, but like, ADHD is a disability. It's disabling. It's not impossible to improve and learn coping skills, meds help a lot, there are great accommodations out there(LIKE CLEANING SERVICES), but not every case of ADHD is the same, and a lot of them are pretty ugly ngl, and just because you managed to do something doesn't mean someone else is gonna be able to manage it too, or that they're being lazy for struggling. And that obviously doesn't mean ADHD people have a free pass to never work on themselves and make everyone cater to their every need or whatever, but we do deserve some understanding when we explain that our disability is actually disabling in ways that aren't palatable to you. So like, idk, maybe don't immediately recoil in horror when you find out that someone with ADHD can't keep their house clean. And for fucks sake don't ridicule them for it.
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