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[angryandautistic-blog]

I'm sorry for reblogging this here but if you could help out or signal boost i'd really appreciate it!!

HELP ME GET OUT OF AN ABUSIVE LIVING SITUATION: PHASE 1

hi! I’m a queer, trans, autistic youth currently stuck in an abusive living situation. I have one year until I can legally leave my parents, but I want to start gathering my resources as soon as possible. I’ve been planning this for about half a year, and things aren’t looking much better, and I have every intention to leave as soon as I can. I already have plans to stay with two of my friends where I’m moving. I’m looking for a job where I live currently, but no luck so far.

My parents are bigoted and unaccepting, I’ve had my binder and other clothing thrown out, packages redirected, and most recently, the threat of taking me off my antidepressants if I don’t start “acting like a girl”. I’m called slurs and yelled at, I hate being at home. I don’t feel safe or comfortable here, and I think it’s important to leave as soon as I can.

If you donate, your money will go towards:

Helping support myself until I can find a job near my new home

Food, rent, bills, etc. 

Medication

Transition stuff, new clothing, name change, etc.

You can donate by:

Sending money to the paypal address: [email protected]

Buying a gift card

Buying any of the things I have for sale (There’s a lot of cool stuff)

i can also make flower crowns for $15, ask if you want pictures

If you donate or buy anything, I’ll draw you a thank you sketch of your favorite character or your OC

If you can donate anything, it’ll mean so so much to me. You don’t have to donate much. If you can just spare a single dollar, I’d be so grateful. And please, please, spread this around.

Thanks in advance,

Mava

[angryandautistic-blog]

quietly whispers the how to join link isnt working its leading to an unused url

it has been corrected! i apologize

#Anonymous

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new members have been added!! \o/ if you're not on there I never received your submit

-Mava

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New members have been added!

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I apologize for being inactive the last few days! I've been out of town, but I'll be getting to everything and responding to questions as quickly as I can.

-Mava

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Is it possible to know if you're autistic/neuroatypical without being diagnosed by a medical professional? I want to go to someone to see if I am but my dad completely shot it down and basically said "You're probably not but so what if you are? You've made it 16 years without treatment, you can survive as a normal human being." But honestly it's starting to really affect my life.

hi!!! both mava and i fully support self-dxers!!! we have to support each other no matter what because getting an official diagnosis can be really hard for a lot of different reasons! 

i would suggest since going to get an official diagnosis is out of the question right now, researching is very important for you!! that way you can have the words to describe yourself, even if you don't go see a doctor to get those words.

tumblr user goldenheartedrose has some great introductory resources that can help you understand what autism is and help you self diagnose yourself so you can better understand how you function. 

here are some links! 

autism 101

some non-tumblr autism related blogs

other autism reasources

i really hope you find what you're looking for! also tumblr autistics have created a tag called #actuallyautistic, so once you if you do realize that you are autistic through self diagnosis that could be a good community for you! there are some assholes that like to gatekeep between the "real" autistics and the self-dxers, but most of us will call them out on their bullshit the second they pop up. uwu

bye bye! 

-amelia

#asks #raxacorigofuckyourself