Telling myself “nobody will ever love you” as an affirmation
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"being queer is about love" hmm actually being queer is about defying societal norms about gender and sexuality and does not depend on feeling love at all
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you want me to have romance in my life? the thing that killed my friendships?
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yes there are the horrors but at least im aro
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Spotify made me a playlist called Always Single
I guess i listen to that much breakup music
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i lied. i don't like sex. open heart surgery
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"why can't they just be friends" not in the homophobic way but in the "their platonic relationship in the source material is far more dynamic and complex than the sanitized personalities they gain as a result of shipping" way
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this year my challenge for everyone is to unlearn the association between love and morality. love is not something that is inherently morally good, and the absence of love is not something that is inherently bad. sex without love isn't morally bankrupt, it's just an action. people without love aren't less kind or less good, they're just people. when we can get past this false (and often unnoticed) dichotomy of good love/evil lovelessness then i think we are going to be able to take leaps and bounds in sex positivity, aro advocacy, certain discussions of mental health...
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as an aroace, im particularly dangerous, because i wont fuck or marry. i only know how to kill.
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Above and Below
Minolta X-700 - Kodak Ultramax 400
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Silly assassin robot named Roach
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Had a dream last night that one of you mailed me a package full of blind boxes for my birthday lol
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actually being aro is a tragedy. not for me but for the allos. I'm a catch.
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I don't see people gas up gnc and butch transfems nearly enough, can we get a fuckin round of applause for gnc and butch transfems
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