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It's so funny that Misa is famous. Imagine that you're a normal ass cop and you get put on a special task force to catch a mass murderer. And you meet with the expert detective in charge. And he tells you your top 2 suspects are a random teenager and like. Ariana grande

#death note

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genuinely save me

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the smallest artist i listen to? probably the bird outside my window

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i love music. i love it when you can feel the bass pounding in the back of your head. i love it when you hear a song that you used to listen to over and over and all of the emotions you felt during that time come rushing back. i love it when you suddenly hear a backup vocal line that you never noticed before and the harmony it creates is gorgeous. i love it when someone on a track whispers and you get shivers down your spine. i love it when you catch a snippet of your favorite song in the mall and you smile to yourself. i love it when your friend starts humming a tune and you pick it up right away, and soon the two of you are belting it out at the top of your lungs, trying not to collapse with laughter at the looks on some people’s faces. i love it when a song makes me cry with its beauty. i love it when a song makes me cry with sadness. i love it when you rediscover a song that you dismissed years ago, but turned out to be one of the best jams of the last decade. i love it when you’re home alone and you can finally put on headphones and turn the volume all the way up and you can feel the notes vibrating throughout your body. i love music.

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applejack might not be exactly in touch with the current generation

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"being queer is about love" hmm actually being queer is about defying societal norms about gender and sexuality and does not depend on feeling love at all

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now that i am a real adult i am starting to realise. media lied to me about the availability of rooftops to go hang out on. every day i wish i could be hanging out on a rooftop somewhere looking cool as fuck

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I’m a teacher assistant for spanish grammar and the professor was explaining epícenos (single gendered words that encompass masculine and feminine beings) and he was using iguana as an example and he said: “there is only one gender… iguana” and i had to mute my microphone

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This poll is a celebration of fandom and fandom history; we're aware that there are certain issues with many of the listed pairings and sources, but they are a part of that history. Please do not take this as an endorsement, and refrain from harassment.

#caitvi! caitvi! caitvi! #never cared too much for DC heroes #arcane

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Kacchan doodles

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You’re married to your phone background/lockscreen how fucked are you

#nejire hado #my beautiful wife

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as someone in the aro community (and i think this is also applicable to the ace community, which is why y’all are included), i think there is something to be said about people trying to find a moral explanation to their repulsion. in a some situations, it is helpful and there is a conversation to be had about it but in a lot of others, it’s just recycled purity culture, i’m going to be honest.

before you send a post about how you think it’s actually exhibitionist to kiss in public, or predatory to talk about people you want to sexually pursue with your friends, please ask yourself first if there is genuinely something wrong morally going on there, or if it’s just something that grosses you out. it’s completely okay if it’s something that grosses you out. you don’t need to make up a moral reason behind it. you can just say ‘it grosses me out’ and find a way to remove yourself from that situation, for exemple, by looking away, or asking your friends to not talk about those topics around you (if they refuse, that’s another problem entirely and you should get better friends).

it is as unhealthy for allo people to repress their romantic and/or sexual attraction than it is for us to repress our aromanticism and/or asexuality. this isn’t like an theoretical extrapolation, this is a proven phenomenon, we’ve seen it with the catholic church. i understand and empathize with the fact that it feels like all of this is forced upon us, because it is, but there is a difference between someone telling us ‘i like this’ and someone telling us ‘you’re weird/broken if you don’t like this’.

anyways, sorry for the rant, i keep seeing posts in the aro and/or ace tags that try to justify their repulsion with morality, and i don’t want to single out anyone so i thought i’d make this post. there is no issue with posting about repulsion itself, for the record, it’s the moral justification that i think is unhelpful.

you don’t need any justification for your repulsion, you can just be repulsed. that’s fine.

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nothing makes me go "ooooh we are NOT the same" quite like reading some post about how people talk with their parents about their interests. what do you mean you told your father about stevebucky. what do you mean he asked further questions

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Right, enough about boats.

#vibing