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bananahkim · 3 hours ago
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How do I disable comments
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bananahkim · 9 hours ago
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How do I disable comments
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bananahkim · 10 hours ago
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Proshippers : most of them just don’t like/reblog this post, some reblog but delete it after I (politely) ask them to, one straight up ignored me and reblogged the same post twice
MAPs/pedos : unseen?? Idk I have never seen a pedo account
TERFs : Pressed. Pissed. Like holy shit can’t y’all just respect others’ boundaries?? Leave heated comments while others are just like ‘ahaha they were broommates(oh my god they were broommates lol)’. Literally have no chill. Reblog this post too. Try to involve ‘women’ in e v e r y situation. Oh and they’re always offended that I ‘treat gender critical women like those proship and pedo scums’. You bitches are the worst.
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Proshippers, MAPs/MAP supporters, and TERFS, do NOT like/reblog this post, and any other post of mine, and do not follow me.
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bananahkim · 12 hours ago
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Dragon guy(Micha), he/him
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bananahkim · 12 hours ago
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Melon guy(Desmond), he/him
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bananahkim · 12 hours ago
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About DNI Main BYF
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bananahkim · 13 hours ago
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so funny to me when people are like “nooooo you can’t just mess around and do whatever the hell you want with your gender >:’(” what are you, a cop? like WHAT are you going to do about it lmao
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bananahkim · 23 hours ago
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bananahkim · a day ago
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bananahkim · a day ago
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Proshippers, MAPs/MAP supporters, and TERFS, do NOT like/reblog this post, and any other post of mine, and do not follow me.
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bananahkim · a day ago
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bananahkim · a day ago
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i tried to explain what generational trauma is to someone recently and they were like “oh so because something happened historically, you get to have issues about it now?” and no.... that’s not what that is.
when i was in 8th grade, on my class trip to washington dc, we visited the holocaust museum. it’s a wonderful, extensive, informative place, and it’s a beautiful tribute to the victims. as a jewish kid, i knew what the holocaust was. i’d faced antisemetism every day of my life, and will continue to do so. i knew what had happened to my ancestors not too long ago.
but when i stood in that museum. in the recreation of the cattle trains used to move us to the camps. in the recreation of an auschwitz cabin, staring at the map of the camp. when i saw the pile of shoes and jewelry taken from the victims. when i learned how their hair, so very much like mine, was cut for having texture. and how their teeth were pulled for the gold fillings. i had a panic attack.
it was embarrassing, but i was a shitty little 8th grader, and i tried to hide it. but I couldn’t breathe. it was like there was a band around my chest the entire time i was in the museum. i was surrounded by ghosts, by the whispers of emaciated men and trapped women and crying children.
what is generational trauma?
it’s the psychological idea that trauma can be passed down through multiple different ways. trauma can change you significantly, even rewrite neural pathways and physically change how you think. that, paired with the cycle of subconsciously sharing our trauma with our children, as well as mixing with the trauma we learn as we grow, leads to some really rough patches in our relationships with our identites.
youtube
this is a really great 4 minute video from the healing foundation about the trauma carried by indigenous people in Australia. tw for some really heavy topics, but all presented in a relaxed and serious environment.
what do we do?
well, honestly, i don’t know. it’s not like we’re gonna stop sharing our stories with our descendants, nor our histories. we can’t get rid of things related to our identities that give us our own trauma, the bigotry we face unfortunately isn’t going anywhere.
but being aware of your generational trauma is a good step. it’s not just being “sad” or “sensitive” to history. it’s our history still affecting us today. when your indigenous friends are made upset by discussions of colonization, when your black friends feel the weight of a millenia of racism placed on their shoulders, when your gay friends ask you to please stop using that word, when your trans friends see another historical figure deadnamed and misgendered, when your jewish friends can’t talk about the Shoah without their voices breaking.
so why the fuck are you lecturing us?
our murdered ancestors live on in us, in our eyes, our hearts. we are reminded of them constantly, made painfully aware of who we are and how many people hate us.
we were not supposed to survive, and if most of the world had their way, we wouldn’t have. (no, the allies were not heroes of wwii, you turned us away at your borders and continue to let us die from nazis today. if america had had the option, they wouldn’t have given a shit about jewish victims, but that’s a whole other essay i could write)
it’s time to start acknowledging the past, acknowledging your generational trauma and the trauma of those around you. i’m not making up an excuse to “have issues”. at the time i’m writing this, october 2020, i’m 17. i have felt this weight my entire life, and i will continue to shoulder it, as will everyone else.
my point is, maybe we can shoulder that weight together. maybe then it won’t weigh us down as badly. we have solidarity, and we are tough, and resilient, and strong, and beautiful. your generational trauma is something to be aware of, but not ashamed of. we can do this—change the world for the better. we can break the cycle so our descendants don’t feel as we do.
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bananahkim · a day ago
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Okay okay I know you drew Vampi (my oc) once but!! “You don’t trust me?” - But like… A sad Vampi boi…
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Emotional manipulation starters 1/10
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bananahkim · a day ago
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Emotional Manipulation Starters
Trigger warnings apply. Requested by anon. (Disclaimer: not all of these sentences are manipulative in a different context, and some can be used jokingly as well.)
“If you really cared about me, you’d do what I’m asking.” “Don’t you trust me?” “I wish I never met you, honestly.” “You’re the reason I’m upset.” “It’s all your fault.” “I guess you just don’t love me enough.” “You have to keep it a secret. I’ll find out if you tell anyone.” “Whatever. It’s not like I care.” “I could just leave, you know.” “Do you like them more than me?” “Who have you been talking to?” “I would do anything to make you happy, I just want you to do the same for me.” “You have to tell me. Not telling me is just as bad as lying.” “It would be so easy for me to find someone else.” “If you loved me, you’d tell me.” “It’s like you don’t even care about me.” “One day I’ll be dead and you’ll regret not being there when I needed it.” “Nobody really cares about me, not even you.” “No one will ever love you the way I do.” “If you leave me, I don’t want to even think about what I’ll do.” “I’ll just tell everyone you were abusing me.” “You have to. You owe me.” “I’ve made sacrifices for you, now you have to do the same.” “I’ll never forgive you.” “No, it’s fine. Just do whatever you want, I guess.” “Am I upset? Why, should I be?” “If you don’t come over tonight, I’m going to hurt myself.” “I never said that. You’re trying to confuse me.” “I think you hate me.” “I would do anything for you, so why wouldn’t you do the same?” “If you don’t do this, it’s because you don’t love me.” “You were there for them, but not me?” “Yes, if you love me, you would change for me.” “I’m wasting my time with you.” “Well, I guess I’m just useless, aren’t I?” “I know you didn’t say it, but you were thinking it.” “You hate me. I know you do.” “You can’t convince me I’m not just a burden to you.”
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bananahkim · a day ago
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HI SORRY I JUST SPAM-LIKED A BUNCH OF YOUR ART BUT. IT’S ALL SO PRETTY OMG YOU’RE. SO COOL
Thanks anon!! I don’t care much but I don’t really like someone spam liking but I do it too so it’s cool :,) Again thanks for the sweet message, I hope you have a good day/night/afternoon!
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bananahkim · a day ago
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OKAY when I say DNI proshippers terfs(+radfems) and MAPs it means do not interact. Which means do not like or reblog any of my posts and do not leave rude comments on my posts and do not follow me. Understand what I say?? Like if you understood. Leave if you didn’t.
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bananahkim · 2 days ago
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If you’re gonna follow me please read my carrd and pinned post!
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