Should I go for an elite college even if it's expensive? I heard networking there can bring good opportunities
Forgive my asking... how old are you?
However for anyone of age asking...
If you have your plan right, An elite college could be one of the best head starts you have in moving around certain circles... just remember to smooze, socialize and keep your eye on the goal for social climbing... do not take your eyes off it for obvious reason.
For those who can't do elite university...
Make sure to go to college in a big city with an affluent population. (Granted you can meet wealth anywhere these days, but I like the higher probability of being located where the population is larger)
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Hi, how are you?
I have been wanting to introduce myself to this world and have tried couple of times but i also have been afraid since i dont know exactly where and how to begin and your blog literally appeared to me like magic.
Im a mexican girl, 24 and i really want to know how to do it and mostly gain some mentorship from this people. Also, i wish to know how to be careful and what to be careful of since there's an obvious risk as well.
Started looking for many times but i would back down cuz i didn't know or wanted to expose myself to any danger.
Couple of times i have been approached by man that seem/are wealthy and they ask me out or to meet with me to talk about a possible agreement, and i know i can manage to do it thats why i feel a bit enthusiastic to start in this world.
Any mentoring tips from you?
Thank you so much 🌼
Hi, I am great... April has been a little weird...
“I have been wanting to introduce myself to this world and have tried couple of times but i also have been afraid since i dont know exactly where and how to begin and your blog literally appeared to me like magic.”
It sounds like you are not quite sure which of the world you want to be in.
Do you know? Everyone here is not in the same life nor do we have the same goals. You have to decide which it is for you... Your reasons, your goals, and what level of men you want to do deal witth, in what capacity and what your current resources, your level of perseverance for what you want to achieve are etc
Im a mexican girl, 24 and i really want to know how to do it and mostly gain some mentorship from this people. Also, i wish to know how to be careful and what to be careful of since there's an obvious risk as well.
Where are you? And what exactly is stopping you other than the fear of danger?
Cause there are many non dangerous ways of meeting affluent men... Maybe a little expensive but certainly less dangerous...
Where are you located... Who are your friends? who do you hang out with? where do you spend your time?
Just as an example: Who are you swiping right to on dating apps? what are their credentials and their stance on providing for a woman? You can simply start by dating ceo’s of small companies, managing directors who make millions etc that you meet on dating apps... Dating those will help increase your network...
Assuming you lacked network.
What are you doing that you need mentorship in?
Then align yourself with the type of men who can offer mentorship and enjoy it (be careful of those who just offer it in exchange for sex... They are not capable of mentoring you majority of the time)
What type and caliber of men are you meeting... Not everyone who is an “SD” has the capability to offer useful mentorship.
For me... I am so extremely careful that this week alone i got blocked out of annoyance by a man worth at least 100 million and another worth at least 10 million because i am blatant about keeping every conversation classy and non-sexual. And I know these men are capable of wooing me the way i like... But i do not play about my boundaries... If a man can’t respect it... that means a lot of things to me... GRANTED they will be back... Men love women who confound them... But i digress.
(How do i know? They are easily googled, I met them at a mini luxury party on one of my trips last month... )
What am trying to say is... Create boundaries, listen to your intuition and do not... I REPEAT... do not deal with anyone who does not respect your boundaries. until you are in a full relationship and certain you can make compromise and that person does for you too... But boundaries are still boundaries.
Even if the man promises you the world... Do not be quick to give your information... Make use of some resources some girls share here to check the men out...
Practice extreme safety.... There is nothing like being too safe.
If you can, only date men who have more to lose than you; should anything happen and men who are respectful of your space and boundaries...
If anyone has more please leave it in the comment for her
Also always keep yourself and dress sophisticated ... Men grade women unfortuately...
Couple of times i have been approached by man that seem/are wealthy and they ask me out or to meet with me to talk about a possible agreement, and i know i can manage to do it thats why i feel a bit enthusiastic to start in this world.
Well, appearing and seeming to be wealthy doesn’t mean they are so be careful and Vet well.
Secondly, since the seemingly wealthy men are approaching you, it means you are around areas where you could meet men.
So why not go on some fine dining date(sss).. chat and get to know each other... subtly wring information about them and their capability from them... Guage and learn how they react to your boundariees or to something they want and that you sublty decline...
Try to go on afternoon walking dates... just absent-mindedly walk into a flower shop and start looking around point at one and look at him.
If not a flower shop, find a jewerly or clothing or shoe boutique (something expensive) and enter abse-mindedly talking about how you’ve actually been meaning to do this... Guage their ability and seriousness to have an arrangment by how they react...
Their reaction to your boundaries and these little feeminine quirks should helpfully be a guide
NOTE: To be able to pull off wanting the designer item... You dont have to have brand name from had to toe... But you have to look like the kind of woman that actually step in there (if not all the time) but at least from time to time...
Again there are many ways of dressing sophisticated that makes it hard for a man to gauge who you are wearing but assume it is top of the line
Hope this helps
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How does one become cultured? What topics should I learn about?
Be open to the world
Be open to learn; eeven things outside of your comfort zone
Learn about cultures
read a lot of books (fiction and non fiction) ... Learn about prominent authors
Learn a little about art
Travel... And when you do, don’t just visit instagrammable places
Learn discretion...
Carry yourself well
Learn a little etiquette (You don’t need every single boring detail... Just the basics)
Get a general idea of what different industries do (You dont have to have crazy indepth information).... Just basics... that way, you can have conversation with people from different areas of life
Don’t get into the trap of continously taking instagram pictures and snapchatting in public... It just screams “LOOK AT ME ... I HAVE NEVER BEEN HERE”
Some subtle pictures and videos here and there is fine... But move with grace and be sophisticated about it
If you are boisterous , Show your personality... But remember there is a right place for everything.
Am sure I am forgetting a lot of things ... Will update when i remember
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