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Y’all get mad at Jessica - the black Woman doing her job and trying to hold the multiverse together so her baby can have a universe to live in more than y’all blame Peter, the whites man who knew and trained Miles and still chose to believe he was an anomaly.

Like Peter TAUGHT Miles how to swing and he still was like ‘oh yeah miguel that makes sense yeah miles isn’t suppose to be spiderman’ HOW

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Listen up!

You see a post like this? Where OP might hurt/kill themselves? You hit that button that I circled

Hit that.

Click Suicide or Self-harm Concern

Yes.

Fill in the rest of it, and hit submit. The "content you reported" will fill itself in

Tumblr will follow up and help them.

Warning: this is only for mobile. If anyone knows how to do this for desktop, please add it!

This could SAVE SOMEONE'S LIFE.

YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE NOT TO REBLOG THIS.

I DON'T GIVE A FUCK IF IT DOESN'T GO WITH YOUR BLOG'S THEME.

And yes, REBLOG. Liking does no shit at all. This isn't ig.

You reblog, people see it. You don't, people don't see it. This shit's that simple.

This could save someone's life. It's not a joke.

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I’ve had empathy all my life and empathy is not what made me a good person. I’ve always had very high empathy and yet I haven’t always been a good person. 

I had to learn how to be a good person and it took a lot of work. It involved things like gaining the courage to be wrong and to take accountability. The courage to have uncomfortable but necessary conversations. Patience and grace not to immediately jump to conclusions or get angry. I had to learn how to be kind to myself because it was hard for me to be kind to others when I wasn’t kind to myself. I had to address my cognitive distortions, like my Black and White thinking, and learn to reframe them so I would see people in their fullness and not just in “good” or “bad” terms. I had to learn (and am still learning) how to feel safe again after trauma so I would be less hypersensitive to people’s actions and feel like everyone was unsafe. I had to unlearn unconscious bias and learn about how I may be perpetuating forms of social discrimination so I could try to stop unintentionally harming groups of people. And on and on. It took hard work to be a good person. It still does. Being a good person is an ongoing learning process that never really ends.

It doesn’t automatically come with empathy.

So to every ableist person who keeps coming down on people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Antisocial Personality Disorder for their lack of empathy– you don’t actually seem to know what it takes to be a good person. Empathy and lack thereof do not affect your ability to be a good person.

I have hyper-empathy thanks to Borderline Personality Disorder, and it didn’t make me a better person. I chose to be a better person. And I choose it everyday. And when I fail, it’s definitely not because I lack empathy, because I unfortunately have that in spades.

Empathy does not equal a good person.

Lack of empathy does not equal a bad person.

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@hannahmichelledraws

Please share this image WIDELY

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Shinkami messing around:

Shinsou: hey pops?

Aizawa: yeah?

Shinsou giggling with Kaminari behind him: what if... denki and I were toooo do "it" in this house-

Aizawa: what-

Hizashi: if I find out you penetrated a hole in my house I'm chopping off both of your dicks.

Aizawa:

Shinsou:

Kaminari:

Aizawa: Bed. Now.

#erasermic #hizashi yamada #yamada hizashi #present mic #eraserhead #aizawa x hizashi #aizawa shouta #shouta aizawa #hizashi x shouta #bnha shinso hitoshi #kaminari denki/shinsou hitoshi #shinkami #kamishin

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Me shipping perachel as an otp to make (toxic)percabeth shippers mad:

power move.

Also I'd like to add, the Percy Jackson fandom is toxic asl. Like they give characters/ships/shippers hate because they're too insecure about their own content that they have to make others feel inferior to them. Mf you're ruining many MANY things.

#percy jackson #perachel #percabeth #percy jackson and the olympians

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When erasermic get in heated arguments for 3 months straight, it get to the point where Hizashi has an emotional breakdown in the living room and despite his efforts to hide his cries Shota cam still hear him through the bedroom. Shota is taken by surprise because they literally were just screaming at each other. He immediately runs to the living room couch where he finds the man he loves so much, laying on the couch with two pillows over his face trying to ease the pain. Hizashi was just so tired of fighting with him, he wanted to hug him and hold him close. He just wanted to talk about their problems instead of screaming. Shota runs to him and tries to pry his arms from the pillow. "Hizashi.." he whispers. His heart ached at the sight of his most beloved breaking apart. Hizashi knew he was there, he wanted to touch him but he was scared of something going wrong. Shota wasn't giving up on him. He managed to get the pillows away from Hizashi in a gentle manner, but still couldn't see him face, due to Hizashi having his arms in front of it. Shota teared up at how hurt he was. He was never aware it would be this bad on him. "Zashi, hey c'mere.." He slowly removed his arms from his face to see the damage. His face with red with puffy eyes, he looked so tired. Shota guided him to sit up with a few "sh"s here and there, taking his hand and pulling him up slowly. He put his arm around his neck and picked him up bridal style, carrying him to the bedroom while listening to his sobs. Hizashi had calmed down a little bit, due to the fact that he was now having intimacy with his husband after 3 months. Shota lay him on the bed slowly, then crawled in next to him taking him into his arms and holding him close as Hizashi finished crying in his chest. Hizashi wrapped his arms around Shota, embracing him like there was no tomorrow. "I'm sorry," he whispered loud enough for the other to hear. Shota kissed his head and rubbed his back replying, "I'm sorry too, I'm so sorry, baby." He sniffed in vulnerability. Hizashi felt more relief now that he knew things could get better now. He felt tired, so he said, "I love you, Shota," before drifting off. "I love you too, Zashi." Shota didn't let him go even after he dozed off. And he never would.

They both knew things would take time to talk through and heal from. But it was worth the tears. Things would never be the same from before, because they will never hurt each other again.

#erasermic #aizawa shouta #bnha hizashi #mha hizashi #hizashi yamada #yamada hizashi #mha aizawa #mha #bnha

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When erasermic have an argument, Hizashi takes off both his glasses AND hearing aids so he doesn't have to see or hear Shota

Shota thinks it's the most petty thing ever.

#my hero academia #erasermic #aizawa shouta #aizawa x hizashi #mha aizawa #mha #mha hizashi #hizashi yamada

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Kiribaku Fanfic

CW: cheating, hurt/comfort

It had been 3 months since Katsuki confessed to cheating on Eijiro.

Eijiro was heartbroken and crushed, the bakusquad was often over at his dorm to make him feel better after it all, of course, they were mad at Katsuki along with Eijiro and did everything in their power to avoid any interaction with him.

Katsuki was sitting alone in his dorm, reading a comic book to try and ease his shame and guilt but nothing seemed to work. A knock at his door disturbed his reading, he stood from his chair and went to answer the door, surprised by the visitor. "Hey," Eijiro stood at the doorway. Katsuki stepped aside to let him in and closed the door back when Eijiro sat on his bed. He traced his steps back to his desk and sat back down. "I um, I wanted to talk to you, and maybe ask you some things." Katsuki nodded at the request, trying his best not to raise any more tension.

"I just..I wanted to know why. Why'd you cheat?" Katsuki prepared his answer before speaking as Eijiro stared at him with soft eyes. "Because I was too insecure. In my past relationship, I was cheated on and that took a toll on my self esteem and ability to trust. I was scared of it happening again since you're a popular guy and telling by how good looking you are I knew you could easily pick up anybody, and I felt I wasn't enough for you," Eijiro took in every word, understanding the man before him and he felt for him, "You were perfect in every way and I felt that I didn't deserve you, so I went cheating with someone who was an asshole because I was stupid enough to think that would boost my confidence, but it backfired greatly."

Eijiro took notice of the tears streaming down the broken man's face. He didn't hate him anymore, he just felt bad even thought he knew it wasn't his fault. He still wanted to know something else though.

"Did you ever love me?" Katsuki wiped his face. "I don't know what that feels like, but I do know that when I told you that I cheated, seeing you so hurt made me wanna break down with you. I thought I wouldn't feel anything at that point but I swear I hated seeing you hurt. It hurt even more knowing that I caused that pain. I should've talked to you and trusted you. I was a selfish asshole. And I'm so sorry Eijiro." His voice cracked at the end when he finished his apology. Eijiro was appreciative about the fact that he was honest with him and told him the truth. He stood up and walked over to Katsuki and hugged him as he cried into his chest. "I forgive you, Kat. Even if we aren't together anymore, I still want to be friends and help you through this." Katsuki finally opened his heart and nodded at the offer, sniffing he replied, "Okay. Thank you so much, Ei." Eijiro smiled at the blonde, not even a second later they both hear shuffling at the door, Eijiro turns his head in confusion and shares a confused glance with Katsuki before walking to the door an pulling it open. Sero, Mina, Kaminari, and Jirou collapse to the floor with a few grunts. They immediately stand up on their feet with awkward smiles. They all look at Katsuki before going over and embracing him into a hug, telling him they forgive him for his bad choices, Eijiro joins the group hug. After they all pull away, Mina bonks him on the head with the comic from earlier and pesters him about doing that shit again then hugs him one more time and saying how she missed his obnoxious behavior. Sero ruffled his hair, Kaminari booped his nose, and Jirou just shot him a look of approval.

"Alright now when's the group oral?" Dammit Denki.

#bakugou x kirishima #bakukiri #krbk #kiribaku #bakushima #fanfic #kirishima x bakugou #cheating #bnha angst #mha #bnha

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If you don't like Endeavor that's fine but leave Endeavor stans alone. I have not excused nor have I defended him anywhere and it really hurts when people say I deserve to be harrassed for being an "abuse apologist" when I'm literally an abuse victim myself. Just stop.

#mha #my hero academia #boku no hero academia #bnha #endeavor #enji todoroki

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My family and I were talking this Thanksgiving (Dad’s family from Senegal,mom’s family African American) and we talked about how a lot of black people think they simply cannot be racist. Ya’ll, I’m sorry but BLACK PEOPLE CAN BE RACIST. We can be racist against Latinx, Asians, Natives, Middle Eastern decent, and YES white people. Ya’ll saying shit like, “I don’t trust white people cooking no plate cause Ion know how clean they kitchens be”. If anyone of another race wrote an article saying dumb shit like that they’d be cancelled, the author blacklisted, etc. Black people can be racist but because we have dealt with so much shit for so long it’s not looked down upon in our culture. When classes resume on Monday I’m tempted to ask a few of my girl friends (an Indian girl, a white girl, a Puerto Rican girl and a Vietnamese girl -yes sis we look like a happy rainbow) if they think blacks are/can be racist.

And don’t talk about no “blacks can’t be racist because we don’t have power over another race bullshit”. Does that mean every minority can’t be racist? Or just blacks who try and cover their ass? That’s some wanna be woque shit. People who say that are the types of people who try and ruin get togethers by asking about “do this got pork in it?” as they eat everything else under the sun. Everyone can be racist. 

And NO I ain’t an Uncle Tom. I’m a pissed black woman.

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PSEUDO FEMINISM

PSEUDO FEMINISM- Misandry in disguise behind a curtain of childish and immature advocacy .

I’m saying this loud and clear: FEMINISM IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR WOMEN TO REACT WITH MISANDRY TO MEN!!!

I want it to make very clear that under no circumstances is any excuse for misandry acceptable, nor is it acceptable to the more knowledgable audience on the topic of feminism when you say “I’m a feminist” after you have belittled a man, you’re not empowering women, you’re causing a problem. You are advocating the liberation, tyranny and ruling over the opposite sex in some bizarre revenge-esq escapade, armed with a keyboard. It’s not cute, you’re not making a statement on behalf of your “intelligence” and it is unacceptable and disgusting.

There are no excuses for misogyny, as there are no excuses for this misandry disguised as feminism, I call it Pseudo-feminism.

This is the case where the phrase “two wrongs do not make a right” comes into play but let’s make it very clear, again, reacting with (misogyny, misandry) in response to (misogynists, misandrists) in an attempt to “make a point” renders it moot. This type of approach DOES NOT solve the problem or come to any level of equality. 

If anything, this type of approach just perpetuates the problem further.

The real context of feminism is “the oppression of femininity”, not the operation and retaliation of misandry from women in the name of feminism, this is straight-up wrong!!!

Trying to justify your disgusting and unnecessary hate towards men vs fighting for the right to vote or be paid equally are two different ball parks and one seems a little more realistic than the other, fucking logic.

Let me say this again:

• Being a misandrist does not make a woman a feminist, it makes her a misandrist.

• A man can be a misandrist or a misogynist.

• A woman can be a misogynist or a misandrist.

We always hate or even loathe our own gender, or the opposite for romantic reasons or perhaps personal. It’s often heard through “I’m not like other girls” or “I’m not like other boys”. Lets face it, both genders say this stupid phrase but in reality, no, shitty people are shitty people. Drop this absolute stupid Gender War, you’re being a victim of your own idiocy.

It’s simple, do not pose your hatred-filled views as advocating feminism. Feminism is not meant to be used as an excuse to be an asshole. This behaviour is disgusting and hard to be taken seriously, it looks ridiculous to people who understand what this ideology was in the first place. In fact, it’s appalling to anyone with a clear head and a sense of individual thinking and logical reasoning to see past this stupidity.

I can understand some women or men being offended or even sour towards men or women for personal reasons though their romantic or experiences and vice versa, but don’t go generalising a whole populace based off a shitty experience you encountered. You are ultimately assuming every man/woman have the same intentions, lack individuality and a whole slew of other implicated factors.

People should not adopt this ideology- or anything really- for selfish reasons just to be an asshole. It’s not just women that I’ve seen causing this shit but there’s men jumping in and causing all sorts of issues that have nothing to do with the issue aside from their own misandry and hopping on the band wagon. 

Stop posing for feminism advocates when you’re really just a straight up poor excuse for a human being. This mockery of feminism is what has made it a joke.

Feminism doesn’t automatically protect you when it’s convenient for you.

Feminism is not a scapegoat for you to pass your double standards off on.

Feminist is not the word that you slap in to get in good with the ladies, or to try to get in their pants.

Feminism is not about the demoralisation of men and the tyranny of women.

Feminism is NOT about women being better than men.

Feminism isn’t about only pointing out all the things that men do to women that women also do to men (but ignoring when this happens).

Feminism isn’t just about pointing the abusive things done to women by men and dismissing the horrible things done to men.

We need to remember, feminism is the freedom of expressing femininity.

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Kirishima: *clapping Bakugous cheeks*

Bakugo: *losing his mind*

Kirishima randomly stops: damn baby this ass cures depression *continues*

Bakugou: *looks over his shoulder in violent thoughts*

#bakugou x kirishima #bakukiri #kiribaku #krbk #bakushima #bnha #my hero academia #mha

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Okay but someone going from identifying as gay or lesbian to identifying as bisexual isn’t like…regressive in the slightest. That person didn’t “turn straight” or “betray the community”. They’re just figuring out who they are. It’s their self-discovery journey, not yours, and you need to understand that instead of getting riled up.

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I'm so sorry if I sound bad but I need to let this out, I beg you, PLEASE respect those who headcanon bakugo and deku as brothers. I have seen too many bkdks say, "if you think bakugo and deku behave like brothers you definitely have something going on with your siblings" or "siblings don't act like that" like no. Everyone has different bonds with their family, some siblings DO ACT like bakugo and deku with no incestuous intentions. I'm sick of hearing this when I share my opinion on them. They literally parallel the relationship I have with my sister, and we are NOT engaging in incest whatsoever. Honestly this behavior is exactly why I left the fandom in the first place. Your headcannons are always welcome and valid. Don't let toxicity get to you.

Also people don't say that to threaten your ship.

#bakugou x midoriya #bakudeku #bakugo katsuki #izuku midoriya #mha #my hero academia #boku no hero academia #headcanon #fandom

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I HEADCANON PRESENT MIC AND AOYAMA FRENCH BECAUSE I SAID SO

#present mic #yamada hizashi #bnha hizashi #my hero academia #mha

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