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looking Good ain’t enough U gotta know how to act

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Fuck loving you, I wanna trust you, it’s easy to love somebody, but it’s hard asf to trust mfs these days.

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I’m due time

everything will come to you at the right time

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Having someone understand your mind is a whole different kind of intimacy.

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Take your time this year. Do things at your own pace, no rush, no pressure. You are in control.

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🔥

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reblog the money pigeon for a financially stable future

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“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.”

— Helen Keller

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“To learn something new, you need to try new things and not be afraid to be wrong.”

— Roy T. Bennett

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something my therapist told me that personally has been rather helpful is that coping skills are not to make us feel better. they are to create space between u and ur feelings. they r to help u cope and do what u need to do. they are not meant to resolve ur negative feelings. if they do, that's a bonus. but if they don't, that's ok. learning that honestly helped so much. i'm such a perfectionist that i can't even cope if it's not gonna be perfect and this like took a weight off my shoulders. if i use a coping skill and don't feel better, that's ok. i am simply trying to distance myself from my emotion. i felt like i wasn't coping correctly before i learned this. like maybe i was doing something wrong or there was just something wrong with me.

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