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Creatrix

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men may be more athletic than women but women will always do sexy better

#women #female #feminine beauty #feminine #black men #dating #love #sexy #hot #fashion

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“Science enables us to realize our purposes, and if our purposes are evil, the result is disaster.”

— Bertrand Russell, Marriage and Morals

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“Anyone who fights with monsters should take care that he does not in the process become a monster. And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes back into you.”

— Friedrich Nietzsche

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Another possible explanation for why kind people exist

I've heard of a lot of reasons why we see or hear about kind people in our lives. Kind people who help others at no cost, kind people who are always smiling, kind people who hand out compliments like they're nothing.

@cygnusdoesthings and I were having this conversation about why what living means.

"What does 'living' mean to you essentially?"

Living means different things to different people.

For some, it would be watering their plants, being able to eat three meals a day, going outside and walking, keeping things clean, playing guitar and recorder and having fun, parkour, just being able to breathe properly.

Now see, that's an interesting perspective.

For me, living is that feeling in your chest for when you meet new people, or try a new flavor of milk or juice, or finish an assignment and pump your hands up in the air with relief and cheer, or when you're in the side before going up on stage, or when you get a cute comment about your writing, or when your cursor is hovering over the 'post' button, or when the bus jerks and you mistype a word on the fic in your google docs on your phone.

We all got these feelings in our chest.

Sometimes they ache and long for comfort, sometimes they thud with joy and release a horde or butterflies in your stomach.

Those feelings in your chest? I think that's what some people live for.

So when someone does something like feed someone homeless or five charity or compliment someone, the feeling in their chest grows because the other person (the person they're helping) have that feeling too. That feeling basically connects like Bluetooth. Human to human. Living to living. Happiness for happiness.

Which, I believe, is why a lot of people live by helping others. Because by increasing that feeling—that will to live—in other people, they're increasing it in themselves too.

I, in no possible way, am suggesting that this is a cure for everything. I'm merely saying that this is just one possibility as to why some people are so bright and happy. It's feelings, guys. It's funny to think that they're simply just neurons and electrical charges and chemicals in our brains. But, hey, that's just psychology ig

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“Death is meaningful to us in life. Thus, since at some point I will cease to be, no manner of living can achieve the fulfilling, meaningful life, since no way of living will permit me to continue in the world. This, contends Heidegger, should shatter any illusion that mere norm-following might be the right way to live. Thus, in the face of our inevitable death we are brought to reject our reliance on cultural norms as the eudaimon way to be, and to take responsibility for our own selves. In anticipating death I reject ‘the they’ and take responsibility for myself: I become authentic. The knowledge that our lives will end brings with it the joy of the realisation that our choices about our way of being matter.”

— Don Crewe, Existentialist Criminology

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aspiring to be a better non thinker

my existence has been tainted on the basis of my constant thinking,

rationality is no longer in the foreground of my mind,

and I am repeatedly finding myself trapped in the endless corridors of my thoughts,

door after door, hall after hall, thought after thought.

nothing but thinking.

- t.g

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~ Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

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the thing about modern dating is that ppl listen to everyone else but themselves or their partner. searching for answers, advice, and validation, when all the answers are already right there; in you and ur person’s hearts and minds

#dating #love #romance #heartbreak #heartbroken #happiness

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so many of people’s issues could be fixed if they spent less time online talking about and consuming things and more time actually experiencing things

#chronically online #touch grass #love #hate #fear #comfort #psychology #life

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humanity shouldn’t be taken for granted. we’re all connected to each other. i ask questions about outer space and the possibility of aliens but i never get answers. will i ever get those answers? am i meant to travel space and explore new worlds? or are the limits of technology a sign that i’m not meant to know? that earth is my perfect home? it is the perfect place for us, and we’re all tethered to it and each other, as well as the greater universe we may never see

#space #humanity #life #earth #philosophy #we’re screwed #live laugh love #psychology #thoughts

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i’m a warrior fairy princess trying to slay the dragon and rescue the princess not knowing that i’m the dragon and the princess is myself

#selfish

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i can’t fix ppl

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the worst part of being someone who is attracted to men is being attracted to men. all i wanna do i love u completely. my non-man friends love me and let me love them back, w/out the drama and pain. men are nothing but drama, im convinced. u notice how every girl on a “self love” or “ femininity” journey makes it a point to avoid to men. all i wanna do is love u, but u make it so painful. i almost wanna feel bad 4 u, for not feeling like u can be vulnerable, but i don’t. i feel like i can’t be vulnerable either, bc of those like u, those who make me feel bad for having emotions. maybe we have a common enemy?

-a girl whose had 2 many long islands

#aesthetic #grunge #90s #girls #fashion #alternative #y2k #goth #model #anime #anime gifs #streetwear #90s anime #vintage anime #melanin #90s nostalgia #pretty #soft grunge #love #nostalgia #relationship

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i just wanna be comfortable enough to surrender myself completely

#aesthetic #grunge #girls #alternative #goth #melanin #pretty #soft grunge #love #romance #y2k #90s #nostalgia #im sad tonight #sad

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When you can physically feel your heart breaking dropping into a bottomless hole that's what true heartbreak is and it fucking hurts so much