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This might be a hot take but lolicon is toxically positive Srry I’m not on the team of it’s ok as long as it’s kept to fantasy when it comes to underage ppl I just read some stuff online about a vtuber saying it’s ok bc it’s not real and I need someone to console me in my frying cells Blue what do I do …help >.<

I think lolicon is creepy as fuck because it's pretty much based around underage characters exclusively and yikes. honestly anyone saying 'its okay bcus its fantasy' is a huge fuckin pedophilic creep and needs to get their brain checked out.

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You’re probably faking having autism too tbh that’s why you’re bringing it up so much

bigot

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Go look at Clockbrand right now. Clowns be clowning again! Green skin tone Jacksepticeye with the word "Killer"... Someone's pandering to their Stannies for money again. It's another "Sale" of crap products that didn't do well from failed collections.

I'm so fucking tired of that brand man..

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You need dysphoria to be trans lol you’re just a trender

wow the amount of transphobia in my askbox is unreal. Please go sit on a cactus.

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I think most “trans” people are faking. Some don’t wanna get surgeries at all? Wth? What’s the point then?

So I am trans but I am comfortable in my own body. This does not make me any less trans. Rot in hell.

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You're Anons are giving me Whiplash. 😐

Well, all opinions are welcome here, some of them are just.. a hot take.

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Also, I’m the OG anon who was responding to the guy talking about trenders and stuff. I don’t know who that ace person is or what they’re talking about but they seem like a troll

yeah i think they were a troll

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Also as a non-DID-er I’m just simply asking people to consider they might be doing more harm than good in trying to call out individulas they think they’re “faking.” If you care about people with this condition it is a better idea to share resources and information than to take it upon your hands to weed out “fakers.” Most of us are not medical professionals and can’t really tell.

This is what I've been saying and I won't repeat myself. I simply refuse to repeat myself at this point.

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Last anon is calling me a terf because I say if people say they are trans we should believe them and not assume stuff about people? Because i said most people detransition because of social pressure and not because they’re not trans? Make it make sense

anon genuinely what the hell.

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Woooow. That last Anon sounds like a Terf. The Original Ask wasn't saying they just expose people randomly and without merit. They literally said that they gather evidence and privately bring it to the other person's attention. Seems like they do this so that in case they are wrong and the person in question proves them wrong it still stays strictly between the two of them and the subject is dropped. The whole pretending to be Trans pretty much ended by 2017 and I haven't encountered anyone acting this way in years. I have however been subjected to people who use DiD and claim they are part of a System for personal entertainment. Always self diagnosed and based off someone famous. I don't confront people about this stuff because I have seen how desperate they are and have been subjected to people su!icide bating entire groups if they don't go along with what the person wanted. Yes it's upsetting but again the Original Ask said they gathered evidence and did everything discreetly until the person in question either ignored them or didn't care. If they were able to talk together and could prove them wrong then there would be no need to tell the group. So no other Anon. Staying quiet and letting people lie set's bad examples of what people are like who have this disorder! It's super harmful and makes everyone suddenly distrustful of anyone who genuinely has it. That's not me saying everyone who is self diagnosed is wrong but it's a stigmata that hangs over them. Everyone's experience is different and I understand that you may be part of the group of people who think it's harmless and cute. It's not that way to me and I Respectfully decline your suggestion to keep quiet about it. 🦇

I very much agree OG anon was very weird about it.

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Again, I’m mentioning what systems themselves have said about accusing people of faking D.I.D. It’s not productive and in grand scheme of things, the community itself gets harmed after all the faking acussations.

Trans trenders were never real. Some people explored their gender and found out they weren’t trans, and that’s normal. Statistically more people detransition because of social pressure than not being trans.

As for “mental illness trenders,” which I personally believe to be an unhelpful term, I think it’s better to inform people of what these conditions actually look like. Mental illnesses affect everyone differently, and unless you’re a professional you shouldn’t be diagnosing people with them, or be doing the opposite.

I have autism as well as ADHD, and if it weren’t for other people talking about their process of getting a diagnosis even before they officially had one from a doctor I wouldn’t have pursued to get a diagnosis myself. Medication has greatly helped me.

Bottom line is we shouldn’t assume things about people based on a few social media posts or videos, and this applies to everything I’ve spoken about here.

I will educate the hell out of people on what my version of autism looks like but I dont have patience for people who think just using a stim toy makes you a special person. There's more underneath the surface. but not everyone has the willpower to understand that.

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So wait. Your saying that it makes me "Transphobic" if I don't want to date a Trans Man or Trans Woman? I'm Asexual and I don't want to date anyone or anything. I guess I'm Transphobic, Homophobic and a bunch of other wrong terms then? I'm sorry I don't find myself attracted to anyone at all but I think it's super rude of you to claim that I have any kind of hate towards any group. I'm friends with and care about all of my friends regardless of their sexual orientation and I would appreciate you not trying to make me seem like some broken hater. 💔

I genuinely can't tell if you're pathetically trying to troll or trying to take my words out of context to make me look like an aphobe what the fuck anon. what the fuck is your problem.

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Forgot to add to my last ask that both creators I recommended on the subject of transmedicalism are trans, and I myself am trans and obviously pro trans. Again, not coming from a place of hate, I just don’t want what are ultimately hateful ideologies (even if people spread them unknowingly) like transmedicalism to go by unchecked. I myself have been called a “trans trender” even when I have gender dysphoria, because I’m not trans or binary enough for some people.

I am also trans but I haven't even seen a single transtrender in like a decade, nor have i seen it been mentioned anywhere so my point regarding the neurodiversity trender thing still stands.

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I don’t know if you’re aware, but the last anon is saying a lot of transmedicalist talking points. People like Kalvin Garrah who spread the same viewpoints like that previous anon end up hurting people and spreading harmful views, and sometimes they outright mirror TERF talking points. You should see the video called “Transsexuals and Suffering” by Mia Mulder as well as CopsHateMoe’s video on Kalvin Garrah. As for DID, I don’t have DID myself but a lot of systems have pointed out that “calling out” people for “faking” isn’t helpful to the community even if someone *is* faking it because more often than not the whole community ends up getting harmed and ostracized. I wish I had a good educational source to give you, but it’s from what I’ve heard from the community through tik tok and other social media. This is not from a place of hate but I peacefully request of you to not discuss these topics if you aren’t fully informed.

I disregarded it exists at all because I don't see them. I do however see a lot of faking having a mental illness or just to get out of being 'neurotypical' and want to be included into some minority group. YES I know a lot of people are not faking it but it's not always that hard to differentiate between those who are faking and those who are not. I took autism as the example there. It's a spectrum. I even called out a specific instance where I saw someone who's genuinely not autistic at all but yet used it as a quirky character trait. Basing this off my own experiences on the internet and social media I will stick with my statement and I am fully informed on the point I mentioned. You basically continued the argument with anon and I ignored most of their points entirely because I know how harmful it is for the specifics they mentioned in the ask.

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Ohhh. That poor Anon!! Over eating Rice can cause major bloating and make you feel icky for hours! The best way to relieve the pain would be to soak/float in a hot tub or warm bath. You need to get your body's weight off of your stomach.

Taking a bath or a shower really does help against feeling bloated. I can absolutely agree with that.

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I really wish the "TransTrender" thing would go away already. Kuddos to those people who are actually Trans and aren't claiming to be for attention. I have since 2014 seen so many people on this hellsite and Discord pretend to be Trans and claim they have DiD/System. They think it's fun getting attention and really double down on it but I always tend to find their Facebooks they forget about and find out 9/10 that they have a perfectly normal life and don't struggle for anything they claimed to suffer daily from. I've never outed anyone to their families on social media and I never will. I do however gather lots of evidence and speak to them in private. I let them know that I know they have been lying to everyone and they need to either confess and come clean or I'll post my proof of them faking everything for all of our friends to see. They normally come clean within a day or two and yes while they may never talk to me again. I see it as a win for the community as a whole. We don't need attention seeking liars giving actual Trans people a bad image. These kids are toxic and if they are willing to go this far for attention I actually fear for our future.

I do see a lot of people pretending to be a system on tumblr, haven't seen much 'transtrenders' luckily. What also really upsets me is that people pretend to be autistic. Like cool for you that you like stim toys and that they calm you down but dont put my diagnosis as a quirky label on yourself just because you bought a fidget spinner recently. its fucked up.

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is it true that Hundar (40) is dating JaeLaRay (22) and that’s how she got into creator clash?

I have no idea I steer far away from creator clash and I intend to keep things that way.