I think I may have actually died at 22. Or maybe I was supposed to, and now I’m just living on borrowed time. Maybe that’s why I’m the way that I am. Loafing around, too afraid to do anything new. Actually, just not wanting to do anything at all.
Whatever happened to my body in 2021 should have killed me. I don’t actually stop to think about that too much. Every day I woke up - or even just saw the sunrise after sleepless nights full of pacing and shaking and fighting the minimal contents of my stomach to stay put - was nothing short of a miracle to me. Maybe I was supposed to give in then, but I was too scared to. There’s still so much that feels wrong about it that will never have an explanation other than “anxiety.”
Every time I get chest pains, or I feel like I might pass out after a shower, or it feels like a weight is pushing against my eyeballs I think, “Maybe this is it.” And then I still continue to wake up after nights of dreaming that can only be described as visiting alternate universes, sweaty and trembling. I know our bodies aren’t meant to stay the same forever, but Jesus Christ. Is it really supposed to be like this?
I think all this time, I’ve just been waiting for something to finally take root. For something to actually finish the job. Because I have this feeling that the moment I get back to some sort of semblance of who I was at 22, something will destroy me again.
So what’s the point? I lived a good life. I often feel like there isn’t much more that I want to experience (sorry, sis, I had a nightmare about becoming an aunt last night). And I certainly don’t feel the need to re-experience the things I used to love as whatever I am right now. Especially since a lot of those things don’t even exist anymore.
I don’t want to kill myself. But I don’t know if I truly want to be alive, either.