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BAKIT NGA BA HINDI TAYO JOWABLE?

1. Nasa counter pa lang kinakain mo na agad yung french fries para makadami ka. Tapos ikaw pa yung mega suggest na ibubo yung lahat ng fries sa tray kasi gusto mong makalamang.

2. Flirtationship ang habol mo hindi relationship.

3. Kasi gutom na gutom na yung mga kasama mo panay picture mo pa ng pagkain. You’re not jowable. You’re Instagrammable.

4. Kapag may nagchat sa’yo ng “Uyy. Ingat ka ha.” ang reply mo, “GAGO KA BA ALANGAN NAMANG MAGPASAGASA AKO?!”

5. Nag-eenglish ka pag lasing. Pero wala namang nakakaintindi ng sinasabi mo. Inuman lang kasi, walang i-englishan.

6. Handa kang mapasubo… sa kahit anong problema at sitwasyon. Pero ayaw mong lunukin…. ang mataas mong pride.

7. Kasi kapag may nakacrushan ka, nakikipagbreak ka na din agad. Advance ka kasing mag-isip.

8. Kapag nagyaya yung kadate mo sa department store, ang lagi mong sagot, “Next time na lang hindi ko kasi dala ang advantage card ko. Sayang yung points.”

9. Kasi may mas malandi kesa satin. Nauubusan tayo ng slot. Naaagawan tayo ng moment.

10. Kapag may nagregalo sa’yo ang palagi mong sinasabi, “Sana pinera mo na lang.”

11. Kasi yung picture mo sa Tinder picture ni Liza Soberano tapos ang bio mo, “I hate poser, mygahd!”

12. Kapag may bumebeso sa’yo, nilalapatan mo na agad ng wet wipes yung pisngi mo kasi ayaw mo macontaminate ng bad bacteria katawan mo.

13. Strong and independent woman ka pero ang ideal jowa mo ay yung hihintayin ka sa labas ng CR kahit lamukin habang bitbit yung maliit mong shoulder bag.

14. Ang hilig mo sa mga Korean Skin care products tapos ang motto mo, “Magpapaganda ako para mapansin nila ako. Tapos hindi ko sila papansinin.” ( Luh. Nu kaya yun.)

15. Panay post ka ng ‘Relationship Goals’ pero yung ‘Life Goals’ mo nganga.

16. Ang hilig mong mag 1-2-3 sa jeep. Magpapanggap kang tulog buong biyahe pero bigla kang magigising pag malapit ka ng bumaba.

17. Once ka lang nasaktan sa buong buhay mo pero ang palaging linya mo, “Lahat ng lalaki manloloko!”

18. Nung may tumawag sa’yo ng, “Hoy, malandi!” naoffend ka. Tapos ang sagot mo, “Wag mo kong tinatawag na Hoy!”

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Pero ang totoo, kahit pritong itlog lang ang kaya mong lutuin, kahit may criminal record ka sa NBI dahil sinapak mo yung tumawag sa’yo ng panget, kahit palagi kang kulelat at walang kahit isang ‘Best In’ na natanggap simula kindergarten hanggang college, darating ang taong para sa’yo hindi dahil sa jowable ka kundi dahil totoong mahal ka. At kahit ikaw ang may pinakamabahong utot, lalanghapin niya ito na parang Dolce and Gabbana at tatanggapin ka niya ng walang panghuhusga.

The right one will come along at tatanggapin ka niya sa homeostasis mo at yayakapin ka niya ng buo even at your worst version of yourself. At wala siyang ipapabago dahil lang sa gusto ka niyang maging perpekto o ibang tao. At ang ganung kalaking pagmamahal ang kusang babago sa’yo nang hindi pinipilit.

Hindi ka jowable, kamahal-mahal ka.

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I prefer staring at your face behind those city lights.

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Some forgive and forget, more forgive and remember, most forgive and remind.

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Exactly.

Fun Psychology facts here!

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Yung pakiramdam na parang kulang, pero ayaw mong makumpleto. Gets mo? Ganyan na ganyan palagi ang nararamdaman ko araw-araw. Tipong lahat naman ng nangyayari sa ‘tin ay choice natin. Tipong gusto mong sumaya, pero choice mong maging malungkot. Parang pwede namang hindi mag focus sa bagay na 'yon pero palagi nating iniisip. So hindi natutupad yung standards na gusto natin sa saril natin. Basta, grabehan lang talaga minsan ang isip no? Nakakaloko. Pero wala tayong magawa, kasi ganun tayo eh. We’re acting like may utang ang mundo sa atin dahil palagi tayong nasasaktan pero wala naman talaga. Parehas pa rin ang treatment ng mundo sa mga niloko at mga nanloloko.

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Fun Psychology facts here!

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as an introvert, once u find someone that u enjoy spending time with just as much as u like being alone, that’s a big fucking deal.

@sexual-texts (via sexual-texts)

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to someone out there

Have you ever think about; Why am I still here in this planet? Why am I the only one being left out? Why am I alone? And so many more “why” questions that everyone left you or why none of the people you wanted to be part of your life isn’t there anymore? Maybe there is some, but I– nor you can’t guarantee that they will stay forever.

“But why?”

Try asking yourself those questions. But just for your information– I’ll try to list down three of the things that might help you answer those “why’s”: First- You take grudges. Two- You think you’re too much confident about everything you decide to do. And three- You’re very self-centered and sometimes (or can I say, more OFTEN) you think you’re always right because YOU ARE YOU. You believe that all the things you wanted to do is perfect. Even though you keep on saying that you are not perfect and you don’t take grudges, but yeah! You always did.

Maybe that’s why you’re still standing where you are. All alone. I know people don’t really change, but some people did. Why don’t you try anyway? You might found someone who have the tolerance to stay with you. Or maybe you can make it to another planet if you did. Just don’t be too hard to yourself. You might grow very old and lonely.

(P.s. Hey! Stop throwing rocks coz I’m used to that, I have a strong foundation of myself and someone who’s protecting me. Hope you’re happy tho. Enjoy catching breads that I’m throwing back.)

#liveyourlife #breadandrock

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love isn’t complicated.

people are.

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love isn’t complicated.

people are.

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Everything Psychology

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Maybe you're right. I don't miss you. I think it's just an illusion.

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It didn't start with a kiss

We started talking. You see me like a different person. We met. We kissed. But I know it wasn't just a kiss. You said you like me But you never show. You said you like me But you keep pushing me away. You missed me But you never show. You missed me But you get mad when we talk. I don't know if you're true Because you can't stand with your own thoughts. How can I look at you? How can I say that I like you If you're not certain about what you really feel? So don't tell me you like me Show me. Because telling me Wasn't enough.

#thoughts #us #ilikeyou

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Question:

Do you like me because we kissed? Or you like me because YOU LIKE ME?