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This is a great read for those who have an interest in polyamorous relationships

#polyamory

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I absolutely support polyamorous people and relationships. If I were to ever get into another relationship I would want a polyamorous relationship. I am polyamorous myself.

I wish I could find people who were polyamorous that I could be with, or those who were okay with me being poly and being with other people. 

I’ll admit, I would like a relationship, but one with multiple people, or one where I can do random little hook ups.

Sadly, my mother doesn’t agree with them and would probably say none of them work out but I’ve seen many poly relationships last.

Hopefully, one day I will have a poly relationship.

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you grow up believing you can be only one thing and you can only love men or you can only love women, predetermined fate by the shape of your genitilia. You grow up believing that it's wrong to feel different, to look at a girl and want to touch her, feel her. That it's wrong to want a boy, to yearn for him. And you spend years hating yourself because you felt. I'm sorry you weren't allowed to love.

Now you're learning not to hate yourself and I just want you know you're free to want, to feel, to love.

-Ritika Jyala, A Letter to the Closet

#lgbtqia #asexual #pansexual #polyamory #polysexual #agender #enby #genderfluid #pride #love is love #closet

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Book recommendations for, well, anyone.

The Ethical Slut is a common go to for many people curious about ethical non-monogamy, but I find More Than Two to be a better resource. There are many types of ENM, but I'm polyamorous. It's about love, connection, intimacy first rather than sex. More Than Two is a bit more focused on that emotional freedom than sexual freedom.

Come as You Are is a great book if you are struggling with understanding your own or your partner's sexuality, especially if there is a mismatch in sex drive. As a woman who has had long, frustrating periods of almost no libido at all (with the associated anger and guilt), it's a great relief to read it.

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