catladyterf

[catladyterf]

Please die

She did. Hope you’re happy, you sick fuck.

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God fucking dammit I’ve been trying to type this like 3 times. Fucking tumblr didn’t want me to use the backspace key. Anyway

I was missing her a lot tonight so I thought to log in here and read her words. Its like I can hear her passionate ranting when I read what she wrote. it hurts but it’s a good hurt.

but uh. I go on here and lo and behold there are fifty+ messages from some kid who apparently made a tumble account just to be like “hey you stole my art for the profile puc and now people see it on my wall and they think I’m a terf and I’m scared.” So at his request I’m going to try to chNge it. Credit goes to “ghost gang creates” on Instagram. Sorry ghost gang. I didn’t know she did that. She was wrong to do it.

anyway. Grief is a real sonofabitch and it has yet to get any easier. i know I cherished her while she was alive but I wish I wish I wish I’d done more and loved her more extravagantly even than what I did. Don’t hold back. Love like you’re dying, or like they are.

——EK

(ps I’m shocked to see how many of you are still fOllowing h4r?$

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Anouncement:

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I apologize for formatting issues. Tumblr is a foreign website to me)6

Greetings all,

I regret to inform you that the person who ran this blog has died. I will not elaborate on the circumstances of her death, largely because I know there are many who will celebrate it. If you are one of those people, you disgust me. I, her girlfriend, am writing this because, personally, I would want to know if someone whose blog I’d been reading had died. I will not be deleting this blog, because that would be disrespectful to her memory. However, it would also be disrespectful to try to run the blog for her.

I cannot begin to express how devastated I am to lose her. Our relationship wasn’t perfect, of course, but it was the most beautiful thing I had ever experienced in my life. I’m sure I’ll miss her every day from here on out. But this isn’t about me.

I hope all of you are doing well and that you’re interacting with people such that if they died tomorrow you’d have nothing to regret.

Sincerely,

E.K.

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Hello everyone, just a quick life update--I have been really ill the past few days, and my COVID-19 test just came back positive. My energy is basically nonexistent, so I will probably be absent for the next while. Stay safe

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It's only natural for gay people to feel disconnected from traditional man/womanhood, as many facets of these gender roles are comprised of heterosexuality and behaviours intended to appeal to the opposite sex. This does not mean that being gay makes one less of a man or woman, only that gay people are less likely to meet society's expectations of members of their sex. If you are gay and struggle to "feel like" or relate to society's ideas of what you should be as a male or female, please know that this is perfectly normal. Being gay and gender-noncomforming is wonderful, and there is nothing wrong with being your own kind of man/woman.

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Op went from “mhm accurate” to “wtf did I just read” real quick 😂

Daily Reminders:

— Bisexual Lesbians do not exist

— Bisexual Butch/Femmes do not exist

— Butch and femme men definitely do not exist

— Trans men can not and have never been butch

— “male-allighned" lesbians do not exist

— the "trans butch cusp“ isn't real, it's transmisogynist and lesphobic bullshit.

— Supporting trans women's voices is more important than blabbing about "how hard" trans men have it becouse they aren't hyper vissible

— It is specifically black trans women who are being murdered by both the police and the public

— Trans women DO NOT have male or "AMAB" priverlage

— Trans men DO have male priverlage

— AMAB nonbinary people DO exist.

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They didn’t think the first picture was attractive???? How????

Apparently Mary Elizabeth Winstead in Birds of Prey wielding a crossbow isn’t sexy according to a man ??

it’s almost as if men are used to seeing women in film through a male gaze where they are sexualized and objectified for male pleasure and approval.??

huh anyway MEN are weak and ladies enjoy Mary Elizabeth Winstead looking hot and powerful as Huntress

like THAT ^^^^^^^^^ is sexy men need to grow up

[catladyterf]

me reading 1984 in high school every time the main dude would give a description of the only female character: big brother just kill this clown

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Heartbreaking.

Link here.

[catladyterf]

You deserved every rape you went through. I hope the next man to make use of you kills you when he’s done

I mean, several of them tried and it didn’t work... I don’t think I CAN be killed, so keep dreaming anon :-)

[catladyterf]

"Race, class, and gender" no sir its race, class, and sex

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(Image text: “I will no longer entertain debate about my right to exist.”)

Gender Troubles: The Butches

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Hiya, just a reminder to all y'all that if you're overly suspicious/skeptical and less than compassionate due to years of having to be that way to survive, it doesn't make you an evil person. Your brain is just trying to protect you. You can take its advice or leave it. Relearning trust and compassion takes time, and old habits die hard. And as you're relearning these things, practice kindness even to those who set off alarm bells in your brain. Awareness and kindness are not mutually exclusive

#recovery #Kindness #Survivor #Random

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Silicone scar sheets are great! My only issue with them is that they’re quite small (like 3 or 4 cm by 7 or 8 cm) and most of my scars needed more than one, but it also comes in a roll-on that works really well for bigger scars, so I ended up mostly using that. I used to have about 900 visible scars, now I have less than 200 (unless I get really dark, then I have about 300-350). They also get a lot less puffy!

Yo, people with acne

These are hydrocolloid bandages. They work wonders at pulling fluid through skin and absorbing all that gunk. 

You can cut them down to size, wear them on your face at night, and in the morning you’ll see a noticeable difference plus the bandage visibly absorbs the goo and it’s gross but weirdly satisfying.

They’re cheaper than most acne products, they work, and 1 pack lasts for ages. They’re sold in the band-aid section of most pharmacies; try them if you can.

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Especially if she buys me coffee to put it in 😍

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There are bi people that don’t want to have sex with post transition trans people despite being attracted to both sexes. Some of us just don’t enjoy having sex with surgically altered genitals. We don’t want to have sex with a replication of a penis/vagina that’s actually very unlike a penis/vagina. And that’s ok. You don’t have to sleep with someone you don’t want to just to not be transphobic. Just because we don’t want to sleep with them doesn’t mean we hate them or want them to die.

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Heinous. How bout we don’t dehumanize people. Even if “itz 4 the lolz” it’s neither Cool nor Funny.